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Do men ever get pressured into FFM swinging?

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By *dwalu2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Is this a silly question?

Wondered really because in any thread where FFM is discussed, you are guaranteed to get at least one single bi female say that they have experienced an awkward situation where it was clear that the woman of the couple had been pushed into things to satisfy the wishes of the man.

Now, is it possible that this situation has ever occurred the other way around? Where a man has felt pressured to join in an FFM because it was driven by the woman of the couple? We are guessing not, but don't think we'd ever seen this come up on Fab, so we thought it might be interesting to ask!

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By *iguy39Man
over a year ago

manchester

I could handle that kind of pressure!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Myself and my partner in crime are awful bullies. One of our friends is constantly forced against his will to participate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have had roughly a dozen ffm meets . All good but if i am honest i could take or leave it . And that's not just saying it to be clever , there are many scenarios I find much more horny .

I guess as I am more voyeuristic it goes with the territory , but i feel more pressure to join in on a ffm meet than a mmf .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have encountered this before so not a silly question at all.

It was clear that she was much more interested in the scenario that he and he was clearly going along with it for her. He absolutely adored her and when I chatted with him about it he said he'd accepted that this was something she needed and his involvement was something she also wanted and so he had gone along with it. We were all open and chilled about it and so it worked well for us all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

i sometimes see people at clubs where the men dont look comfortable or happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd have to be forced, kicking and screaming

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By *dwalu2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"I have encountered this before so not a silly question at all.

It was clear that she was much more interested in the scenario that he and he was clearly going along with it for her. He absolutely adored her and when I chatted with him about it he said he'd accepted that this was something she needed and his involvement was something she also wanted and so he had gone along with it. We were all open and chilled about it and so it worked well for us all."

Ah, that is interesting! Great to hear that it worked out nicely for everyone too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I could handle that kind of pressure!"

haha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd have to be forced, licking and screaming "

Corrected that for you.

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By *r jblMan
over a year ago

from parts unknown


"Is this a silly question?

Wondered really because in any thread where FFM is discussed, you are guaranteed to get at least one single bi female say that they have experienced an awkward situation where it was clear that the woman of the couple had been pushed into things to satisfy the wishes of the man.

Now, is it possible that this situation has ever occurred the other way around? Where a man has felt pressured to join in an FFM because it was driven by the woman of the couple? We are guessing not, but don't think we'd ever seen this come up on Fab, so we thought it might be interesting to ask! "
. Is that not something every man dreams ? Ladies can pressure me into that all day lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd have to be forced, licking and screaming

Corrected that for you."

Ooh...think you may be right

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

I'm still single and been searching for years for a sexy long term girlfriend who would make me participate in MFF 3somes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't have to ask twice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OH, go on then. If I must!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No problem, bring it on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish I had a chance to find out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How could any guy be pushed into it. FfM? YES PLEASE. Dont get it.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Its interesting and heartening to see that some guys are happy to say that this isn't something they're hugely interested in. Men aren't one dimensional creatures who are all desperate for the same thing are they?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish I even got a chance of a ffm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stick at it Buddy. I'm getting close as we speak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stick at it Buddy. I'm getting close as we speak "

Bucket list sorted lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was never interested in an FFM until it happened without planning in chams one night. My wife is 110% staright and the other lady, tho bi, knew this so I got all the attention.

Can honestly say it was one of the most mind blowing experiences I've had. Done it a few times now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh would love to be forced into such pressure if only were that lucky lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Emily would love me to join in a MFF with her, but I literally refuse, she has to get couples to make up the three while I watch, I do not have any wish to join in with that or any other meet, I only want to get physical with Emily but love seeing her pleasured by others!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im sure some guys might feel uneasy at having to please more than one woman - fantasy and reality not the same thing

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By *dwalu2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

That's undoubtedly true...although in our experience, the reality has generally been better than the fantasy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmm guys feeling uncomfortable about sharing a bed with two ladies, dont think that feeling would last long lol.

It certainly applies to a lot MMF, the female is very reluctant.

I meet one couple for a MMF, I was asked to chat to her alone, while he sat in another room, I could clearly see she didn't want to do this and was just being bullied by him, in the end I got up and said no thanks, I thought he was going to get nasty with me.

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