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Hoe close to home.....

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By *layerz OP   Couple
over a year ago

Swansea

do you meet?

I know there is the old argument about anyone that sees you on here is not likely to spill the beans because that means they have to admit they're here too. But what if being swingers and known to be swingers doesn't bother them but it does you?

Has anyone been "outed" against their will? And would you swing with your neighbours?

Just wondering because we're quite shy and don't wish to be outed but we do like to play and party.

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By *layerz OP   Couple
over a year ago

Swansea

Err should read How close.... Not Hoe lol, genuine Freudian slip methinks. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only really meet people close to home, just because it's easier to arrange. I can sort of understand the worry people have about it, and we have run into playmates whilst out with 'vanilla' friends, but it's never been a problem - they just say hello and move on. The people we've met are all discreet and treat us with the same respect they would expect from us - they wouldn't want to be 'outed' either! (Her)

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By *ittlelaurenCouple
over a year ago

stevenage

we don't meet anyone who is to close. Generally a 20 min drive away is good with us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the idea of finding a "clean cut" neighbour or work colleague on here! Wether or not Id have the balls to do anything about it is a different matter though. But I wouldn't mind swinging on my doorstep......so to speak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never used to meet people that live locally , but as time has gone on this has changed as I prefer repeat meets as a rule and it makes it much easier to set up. I don't worry about being recognised I have public face pictures it was more that when out and about with my son etc I did not want to bump into people I have met previously, but the people I meet would never approach me if they saw me out they know my views on it and I have actually never seen any of my meets in town or whatever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have been meeting people close to home for over 9 years and not ran into a problem once.

Now days we only actively seek people real local, same town or same street makes no odds to us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The stigma around swinging is slowly dissolving. Most of my friends have dabbled and experimented at some point intheir lives. It would not bother us if they were local.

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By *entomillaMan
over a year ago

norwich

Hi, I got near me a couple, ( 2 streets away) I have seen her for about 2 years now, we just see eachother daytime, not a problem at all, she is happy , i'am happy, we just text eachother when and what time , we talk about that many times and it benefits in all ways :short notice, variety and all is purely sexual, we respect each other private life....so, all good so far

I wouldn't see a problem as long as is comunication, understanding and adult and flexible persons xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like there to be a bit of distance. Played with a lovely local lady once but 2 days later found myself queuing behind her and her children in our local chippy. Kinda killed the attraction. I like my Fab World and Real World to stay seperate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't play with local single men for this reason but we do meet local couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive just recently left a job in a sunny south devon resort town was there a few months and i reconised a lady living in the flats opposite as a swinger but to my amazement my then work mates totally insisted she was on the game... Keeping to my profile discription i kept my mouth shut even though shes on my hotlist ......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both near and far for us, our closets friends here are 5 and 10 mins walk from us but we have met people 50 miles away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to worry about local meets, but now find it easier to arrange and less expensive to travel and i did meet one couple i have met in a supermarket but just smiled hello and so did they.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nearby is good as a lot easier to arrange

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually play with tourists visiting here, or when I am abroad.

But to my surprise off I met 2 different ex pats who have residence or summer homes here! Each about 10 min car drive!

Kind of odd/ scary knowing the same people! But of course if see them out act normal and vanilla.

Kind of funny seeing the glimmer in there eye saying to me, " i know what your are thinking too...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to find someone who was local and discrete most people that I chat too seem to b mikes away

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By *itSamCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

We have driven many miles just for a social knowing no playing will come of it. Also met to play a long distance and played with people local.

Depends on the people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My rule is if they live close enough that there is a chance i could bump into them while shopping with the kids i won't meet, I don't meet anyone from my home town, and I get quite a few messages from men very close, I don't seem to bother them

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