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Does being a single fem posting a meet intimidate men?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Find it so hard to meet new guys and pin down a meet ! Am I doing something wrong ;-(

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By *p4hornyfunCouple
over a year ago

bristol

God knows why your pics are really hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to clubs socials

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Nope! (in answer to your title question)

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By *gents 3 and 4Couple
over a year ago

truro

Not single, but do meet one on one when hubby is away, got one posted for next week but won't get one, been like that the last two single meets posted, they must be shy or I'm butt ugly lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can't pin down a meet omg what man would turn you down!!! Xx

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By *aveandkate35Couple
over a year ago

telford


"Go to clubs socials "

I think there be the answer...;-)

I appreciate that may not be an option, but if it is, I'd say you'd save a lot of time.

If it's not, then to be fair, use the fact you can be choosey, and if anything isn't 100% then move on.

Good luck.

D

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By *ornstudMan
over a year ago

alnwick

those pics are so blxxdly hot if i was near you id ask for a meet with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can't pin down a meet omg what man would turn you down!!! Xx"

Wow really??!!!! one of the hottest profiles ive seen!!!!! xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can't pin down a meet omg what man would turn you down!!! Xx"

Wow really??!!!! one of the hottest profiles ive seen!!!!! xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We might as well all go home if the OP can't get a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Find it so hard to meet new guys and pin down a meet ! Am I doing something wrong ;-(

"

Yes you are doing something wrong. you need to move to Newcastle and put a meet up and message us.

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By *p4hornyfunCouple
over a year ago

bristol


"You can't pin down a meet omg what man would turn you down!!! Xx

Wow really??!!!! one of the hottest profiles ive seen!!!!! xxxx"

Yours isnt bad either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would deffo meet you . Just quite a commute :-/

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock


"Find it so hard to meet new guys and pin down a meet ! Am I doing something wrong ;-(

"

No i'm all for finding single women who put meets up.

However when i mail them a lot of the time they don't seem willing to give me a chance!

There must be some real idiots about on here missing the chance to meet with the likes of timkerbell and _gents 3 and 4, both smoking hot sexy ladies!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We might as well all go home if the OP can't get a meet "

Don't understand ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Find it so hard to meet new guys and pin down a meet ! Am I doing something wrong ;-(

"

Wow!!! I'd meet you anytime, you're absolutely stunning

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By *kin BohnerMan
over a year ago

derby


"Find it so hard to meet new guys and pin down a meet ! Am I doing something wrong ;-(

"

Yes, you ignored my message about a month ago. Mind you if you had replied I'd have gone all gooey and weak at the knees, you are gorgeous

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes please !!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't think I'm brave enough to a social or club by myself!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Find it so hard to meet new guys and pin down a meet ! Am I doing something wrong ;-(

Yes, you ignored my message about a month ago. Mind you if you had replied I'd have gone all gooey and weak at the knees, you are gorgeous "

Did I ? Oops

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By *appycouple8543Couple
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

God knows why. We'd be happy to meet with you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We might as well all go home if the OP can't get a meet "

No comprende?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes please !!!! "

was that for me

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By *kin BohnerMan
over a year ago

derby

I'd be happy to give you a second chance... Haha who am I kidding, I wish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no..it doesnt

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Find it so hard to meet new guys and pin down a meet ! Am I doing something wrong ;-(

No i'm all for finding single women who put meets up.

However when i mail them a lot of the time they don't seem willing to give me a chance!

I try it reply , big it's hard if they don't tickle your fancy !

I just don't seem to get any real definites :-;

There must be some real idiots about on here missing the chance to meet with the likes of timkerbell and _gents 3 and 4, both smoking hot sexy ladies! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We might as well all go home if the OP can't get a meet

No comprende? "

If you are finding it hard what hope do the rest of us have of getting one comprende now?

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"We might as well all go home if the OP can't get a meet

No comprende? "

He means that if someone who is as easy on the eye as you are can't get a meet, then the rest of us, slightly rougher round the edges folks have no hope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had you on my Hotlist for a long time. Can't believe you find it hard to get a meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Holy shit what's wrong with the world. Ur gorgeous so maybe that's why men are intimidated! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Holy shit what's wrong with the world. Ur gorgeous so maybe that's why men are intimidated! X"

They must all be intimidated of you aswell then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think to be honest there are slight porkies being told lol..almost any woman can get a meet, regardless of their looks on here...but whom they select is a different matter.

I'd say the OP is getting lots of mails..but hasnt found any suitable lol

besides..am no paying for a hotel no matter what lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm pretty sure a single male posting the same thread wouldn't have garnered quite such a positive response.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cant believe you find it hard. I recon you do get loadsssssssssssss of offers but maibe to fussie in the selective process lol

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Try a Club, they are a million times better than vanilla nightclubs, people are brilliant, you will be totally safe and even protected if you ever need it (no evidence of anyone needing it), you get the choice of who you want to be with and you will have a ball!

This site is great, but too many people are dreaming & Clubs let you check that out - afterwards you can meet people outside of the Club.

Good luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm pretty sure a single male posting the same thread wouldn't have garnered quite such a positive response."

That's actually very true.

Double standards here sometimes are a little laughable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm pretty sure a single male posting the same thread wouldn't have garnered quite such a positive response.

That's actually very true.

Double standards here sometimes are a little laughable "

Only sometimes?

It never ceases to amaze me just how few guys on here realise that pandering and fawning for a womans affection is NOT the way you appeal to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps because your meet says lunch and hotel 'your treat'. Maybe offering to go half might help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Holy shit what's wrong with the world. Ur gorgeous so maybe that's why men are intimidated! X

They must all be intimidated of you aswell then. "

Please take a minute to look in the mirror x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whats the matter with the men on here? if I wasn't outside your age group I'd love to meet and have some hot fun with you. You are gorgeous,sexy and very horny looking. xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe men don't expect single women to post meets (because less do) so they don't actually look?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We might as well all go home if the OP can't get a meet

Don't understand ?? "

you're fooking gorgeous, do you now understand? inbox me your postcode and I'll jump on my bmx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps because your meet says lunch and hotel 'your treat'. Maybe offering to go half might help. "

Hmm yeah....can see how that part could be a tad off putting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps because your meet says lunch and hotel 'your treat'. Maybe offering to go half might help.

Hmm yeah....can see how that part could be a tad off putting "

Abit to expensive lol

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"Maybe men don't expect single women to post meets (because less do) so they don't actually look? "

Actually - thats a fair point. I can count on one hand the number of times I have looked at the "meet today" thingy.

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock


"Maybe men don't expect single women to post meets (because less do) so they don't actually look? "

I regularly look at the meets section of the site for single women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps because your meet says lunch and hotel 'your treat'. Maybe offering to go half might help.

Hmm yeah....can see how that part could be a tad off putting "

I counted up the cost of the meet:

£2.50 for the lunch

£2.50 for a bottle of cider

£7 for a tesco tent, (add 99p for a marker to write 'hotel')

fuck that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have tried meet today a few times. It's not for me prefer to talk to people for a while first.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"Perhaps because your meet says lunch and hotel 'your treat'. Maybe offering to go half might help.

Hmm yeah....can see how that part could be a tad off putting

I counted up the cost of the meet:

£2.50 for the lunch

£2.50 for a bottle of cider

£7 for a tesco tent, (add 99p for a marker to write 'hotel')

fuck that!"

£2.50? Is that how much Frosty Jacks (other white ciders are available) is nowadays? The cheek!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps because your meet says lunch and hotel 'your treat'. Maybe offering to go half might help.

Hmm yeah....can see how that part could be a tad off putting

I counted up the cost of the meet:

£2.50 for the lunch

£2.50 for a bottle of cider

£7 for a tesco tent, (add 99p for a marker to write 'hotel')

fuck that!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps because your meet says lunch and hotel 'your treat'. Maybe offering to go half might help.

Hmm yeah....can see how that part could be a tad off putting

I counted up the cost of the meet:

£2.50 for the lunch

£2.50 for a bottle of cider

£7 for a tesco tent, (add 99p for a marker to write 'hotel')

fuck that!

£2.50? Is that how much Frosty Jacks (other white ciders are available) is nowadays? The cheek!"

dunno but thats how much the alchie sold me it for...tastes strange

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"Perhaps because your meet says lunch and hotel 'your treat'. Maybe offering to go half might help.

Hmm yeah....can see how that part could be a tad off putting

I counted up the cost of the meet:

£2.50 for the lunch

£2.50 for a bottle of cider

£7 for a tesco tent, (add 99p for a marker to write 'hotel')

fuck that!

£2.50? Is that how much Frosty Jacks (other white ciders are available) is nowadays? The cheek!

dunno but thats how much the alchie sold me it for...tastes strange"

Stick to Buckfast mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Holy shit what's wrong with the world. Ur gorgeous so maybe that's why men are intimidated! X

They must all be intimidated of you aswell then.

Please take a minute to look in the mirror x"

Thanks you've made me blush.

Jay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps because your meet says lunch and hotel 'your treat'. Maybe offering to go half might help.

Hmm yeah....can see how that part could be a tad off putting Abit to expensive lol "

Not if you share a happy meal and pitch a tent up in the local park. Obviously we would pay for the drink as well. As long as you don't mind sharing our 3 litre bottle of cider.

Can't see any woman being upset with being wined and dined like that.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I'm pretty sure a single male posting the same thread wouldn't have garnered quite such a positive response.

That's actually very true.

Double standards here sometimes are a little laughable "

After your 'fan club' thread last night I suspect you'd be able to post anything at all.

Agree with OP by the way. If I post a meet request (and I do!) I get plenty of messages asking if I am free any other days, or willing to travel 200 miles to meet a pictureless profile, or 800 'ur hot' messages, but very rarely get a satisfactory message from someone actually within the same solar system who is actually within my well defined preferences.

OK we don't have the same hassle as blokes do, but I very rarely get a successful meet from a meet request.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm pretty sure a single male posting the same thread wouldn't have garnered quite such a positive response.

That's actually very true.

Double standards here sometimes are a little laughable

After your 'fan club' thread last night I suspect you'd be able to post anything at all.

Agree with OP by the way. If I post a meet request (and I do!) I get plenty of messages asking if I am free any other days, or willing to travel 200 miles to meet a pictureless profile, or 800 'ur hot' messages, but very rarely get a satisfactory message from someone actually within the same solar system who is actually within my well defined preferences.

OK we don't have the same hassle as blokes do, but I very rarely get a successful meet from a meet request."

u need to get outta that town lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps because your meet says lunch and hotel 'your treat'. Maybe offering to go half might help.

Hmm yeah....can see how that part could be a tad off putting Abit to expensive lol

Not if you share a happy meal and pitch a tent up in the local park. Obviously we would pay for the drink as well. As long as you don't mind sharing our 3 litre bottle of cider.

Can't see any woman being upset with being wined and dined like that. "

I rest my case!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"u need to get outta that town lol"

I know right! Men in York are shit at meets. Either that or I've worked my way through the sad deluded fools willing to meet me and reached the more discerning crowd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Find it so hard to meet new guys and pin down a meet ! Am I doing something wrong ;-(

"

The only thing I can see wrong is that your far away from you, you are gorgeous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Find it so hard to meet new guys and pin down a meet ! Am I doing something wrong ;-(

"

Am I right in thinking the op is taking the mick???

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Find it so hard to meet new guys and pin down a meet ! Am I doing something wrong ;-(

Am I right in thinking the op is taking the mick???"

Have you ever been to Suffolk? Its not exactly thronging with people. And women do struggle to meet on here sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're asking for a hotel meet. People have been burned before and are wary of paying for a hotel for someone they haven't met. Sunday afternoon sex might not appeal to many men. No matter how hot people say a woman is you still have to be ticking other boxes

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"Find it so hard to meet new guys and pin down a meet ! Am I doing something wrong ;-(

Am I right in thinking the op is taking the mick???

Have you ever been to Suffolk? Its not exactly thronging with people. And women do struggle to meet on here sometimes."

Christ! Its hardly the highlands...there are towns and all kinds....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"your treat"? Yep I can see why no meet now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We might as well all go home if the OP can't get a meet

No comprende? "

Por que tu eres muy, muy bonita, mas de bastande de la otras.

You remind me of my ex-wife. You being a 10 year younger version.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Find it so hard to meet new guys and pin down a meet ! Am I doing something wrong ;-(

Am I right in thinking the op is taking the mick???

Have you ever been to Suffolk? Its not exactly thronging with people. And women do struggle to meet on here

sometimes."

Cheeky so and so!!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Find it so hard to meet new guys and pin down a meet ! Am I doing something wrong ;-(

Am I right in thinking the op is taking the mick???

Have you ever been to Suffolk? Its not exactly thronging with people. And women do struggle to meet on here sometimes.

Christ! Its hardly the highlands...there are towns and all kinds...."

Full of young conservatives though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Find it so hard to meet new guys and pin down a meet ! Am I doing something wrong ;-(

Am I right in thinking the op is taking the mick???

Have you ever been to Suffolk? Its not exactly thronging with people. And women do struggle to meet on here sometimes."

It seems money talks for the op

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm pretty sure a single male posting the same thread wouldn't have garnered quite such a positive response.

That's actually very true.

Double standards here sometimes are a little laughable

After your 'fan club' thread last night I suspect you'd be able to post anything at all.

Agree with OP by the way. If I post a meet request (and I do!) I get plenty of messages asking if I am free any other days, or willing to travel 200 miles to meet a pictureless profile, or 800 'ur hot' messages, but very rarely get a satisfactory message from someone actually within the same solar system who is actually within my well defined preferences.

OK we don't have the same hassle as blokes do, but I very rarely get a successful meet from a meet request."

Thank you for your support xx

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Find it so hard to meet new guys and pin down a meet ! Am I doing something wrong ;-(

Am I right in thinking the op is taking the mick???

Have you ever been to Suffolk? Its not exactly thronging with people. And women do struggle to meet on here sometimes.

It seems money talks for the op"

It seems you have something against the OP.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"Find it so hard to meet new guys and pin down a meet ! Am I doing something wrong ;-(

Am I right in thinking the op is taking the mick???

Have you ever been to Suffolk? Its not exactly thronging with people. And women do struggle to meet on here sometimes.

Christ! Its hardly the highlands...there are towns and all kinds....

Full of young conservatives though "

Aren't they the kinkiest ones?

"shut his dick in the drawer Sir Cyril!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm pretty sure a single male posting the same thread wouldn't have garnered quite such a positive response.

That's actually very true.

Double standards here sometimes are a little laughable

After your 'fan club' thread last night I suspect you'd be able to post anything at all.

"

I don't follow?

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"Find it so hard to meet new guys and pin down a meet ! Am I doing something wrong ;-(

"

ok not read all the post but this is a joke right? because I just looked at the OP's pictures and lost count of the amount I fabbed so I can not believe for one second she is finding it hard meet guys let alone get a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm pretty sure a single male posting the same thread wouldn't have garnered quite such a positive response.

That's actually very true.

Double standards here sometimes are a little laughable

Only sometimes?

It never ceases to amaze me just how few guys on here realise that pandering and fawning for a womans affection is NOT the way you appeal to them."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Find it so hard to meet new guys and pin down a meet ! Am I doing something wrong ;-(

Am I right in thinking the op is taking the mick???

Have you ever been to Suffolk? Its not exactly thronging with people. And women do struggle to meet on here sometimes.

It seems money talks for the op

It seems you have something against the OP."

I something against expecting money to be spent for sex,as you can tell by the thread I did the other about this exact thing

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"Find it so hard to meet new guys and pin down a meet ! Am I doing something wrong ;-(

ok not read all the post but this is a joke right? because I just looked at the OP's pictures and lost count of the amount I fabbed so I can not believe for one second she is finding it hard meet guys let alone get a meet "

I can actually envisage that working against her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Find it so hard to meet new guys and pin down a meet ! Am I doing something wrong ;-(

ok not read all the post but this is a joke right? because I just looked at the OP's pictures and lost count of the amount I fabbed so I can not believe for one second she is finding it hard meet guys let alone get a meet "

Read the message she put in meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Find it so hard to meet new guys and pin down a meet ! Am I doing something wrong ;-(

Am I right in thinking the op is taking the mick???

Have you ever been to Suffolk? Its not exactly thronging with people. And women do struggle to meet on here sometimes.

Christ! Its hardly the highlands...there are towns and all kinds....

Full of young conservatives though

Aren't they the kinkiest ones?

"shut his dick in the drawer Sir Cyril!""

They're all in training to be the next Brooks Newmark. Paisley pyjamas at the ready.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I'm pretty sure a single male posting the same thread wouldn't have garnered quite such a positive response.

That's actually very true.

Double standards here sometimes are a little laughable

After your 'fan club' thread last night I suspect you'd be able to post anything at all.

I don't follow? "

I mean you're in high favour with the majority of forum posters, it seems.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oi I'm in Suffolk ya cheeky buggers!!!. It's ok here, if u like farmers. Then again the most can't afford lunch and hotels hence areas like Portman road 'cheap as chips' shag there reputation has it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Find it so hard to meet new guys and pin down a meet ! Am I doing something wrong ;-(

Am I right in thinking the op is taking the mick???

Have you ever been to Suffolk? Its not exactly thronging with people. And women do struggle to meet on here sometimes.

It seems money talks for the op"

Why because she wants to be took for a meal and the hotel paid for. It's not that expensive and if I was going to go out and have good company I would pay for it even if it was just a social meet with no play at all.

We have met couples and single out and paid for drinks taxis even grabbed them some tabs from the shop and dint expect to get it back or anything out of it. That's what being a decent human being is to me. I only work to get paid so I can enjoy myself so why not spend it on others.

I would draw the line and tell them were to go if they started taking the mick. But we have found most people appreciate the gesture and would normally offer to cover the costs the next time.

You can't spend it when your dead so may aswell use it to enjoy yourself while your here.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"Find it so hard to meet new guys and pin down a meet ! Am I doing something wrong ;-(

Am I right in thinking the op is taking the mick???

Have you ever been to Suffolk? Its not exactly thronging with people. And women do struggle to meet on here sometimes.

Christ! Its hardly the highlands...there are towns and all kinds....

Full of young conservatives though

Aren't they the kinkiest ones?

"shut his dick in the drawer Sir Cyril!"

They're all in training to be the next Brooks Newmark. Paisley pyjamas at the ready."

Smoking jacket too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Find it so hard to meet new guys and pin down a meet ! Am I doing something wrong ;-(

Am I right in thinking the op is taking the mick???

Have you ever been to Suffolk? Its not exactly thronging with people. And women do struggle to meet on here sometimes.

It seems money talks for the op

Why because she wants to be took for a meal and the hotel paid for. It's not that expensive and if I was going to go out and have good company I would pay for it even if it was just a social meet with no play at all.

We have met couples and single out and paid for drinks taxis even grabbed them some tabs from the shop and dint expect to get it back or anything out of it. That's what being a decent human being is to me. I only work to get paid so I can enjoy myself so why not spend it on others.

I would draw the line and tell them were to go if they started taking the mick. But we have found most people appreciate the gesture and would normally offer to cover the costs the next time.

You can't spend it when your dead so may aswell use it to enjoy yourself while your here. "

But then I was brought up with a kind of old fashion values and to be a gentleman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Find it so hard to meet new guys and pin down a meet ! Am I doing something wrong ;-(

Am I right in thinking the op is taking the mick???

Have you ever been to Suffolk? Its not exactly thronging with people. And women do struggle to meet on here sometimes.

Christ! Its hardly the highlands...there are towns and all kinds....

Full of young conservatives though

Aren't they the kinkiest ones?

"shut his dick in the drawer Sir Cyril!"

They're all in training to be the next Brooks Newmark. Paisley pyjamas at the ready.

Smoking jacket too?"

I hope so. That sounds like a good look.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm pretty sure a single male posting the same thread wouldn't have garnered quite such a positive response.

That's actually very true.

Double standards here sometimes are a little laughable

After your 'fan club' thread last night I suspect you'd be able to post anything at all.

I don't follow?

I mean you're in high favour with the majority of forum posters, it seems."

Oh I don't see it that way at all.

Doesn't mean I'm right about anything either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Find it so hard to meet new guys and pin down a meet ! Am I doing something wrong ;-(

Am I right in thinking the op is taking the mick???

Have you ever been to Suffolk? Its not exactly thronging with people. And women do struggle to meet on here sometimes.

It seems money talks for the op

Why because she wants to be took for a meal and the hotel paid for. It's not that expensive and if I was going to go out and have good company I would pay for it even if it was just a social meet with no play at all.

We have met couples and single out and paid for drinks taxis even grabbed them some tabs from the shop and dint expect to get it back or anything out of it. That's what being a decent human being is to me. I only work to get paid so I can enjoy myself so why not spend it on others.

I would draw the line and tell them were to go if they started taking the mick. But we have found most people appreciate the gesture and would normally offer to cover the costs the next time.

You can't spend it when your dead so may aswell use it to enjoy yourself while your here. "

. Have you looked at hotel prices in Suffolk lol lunch drinks and hotel easily over £100 around here. Much as I would love a guy to wine dine and hotel me I'm not unrealistic but that's ALOT for a afternoon of fun.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Find it so hard to meet new guys and pin down a meet ! Am I doing something wrong ;-(

Am I right in thinking the op is taking the mick???

Have you ever been to Suffolk? Its not exactly thronging with people. And women do struggle to meet on here sometimes.

It seems money talks for the op

Why because she wants to be took for a meal and the hotel paid for. It's not that expensive and if I was going to go out and have good company I would pay for it even if it was just a social meet with no play at all.

We have met couples and single out and paid for drinks taxis even grabbed them some tabs from the shop and dint expect to get it back or anything out of it. That's what being a decent human being is to me. I only work to get paid so I can enjoy myself so why not spend it on others.

I would draw the line and tell them were to go if they started taking the mick. But we have found most people appreciate the gesture and would normally offer to cover the costs the next time.

You can't spend it when your dead so may aswell use it to enjoy yourself while your here.

But then I was brought up with a kind of old fashion values and to be a gentleman.

"

I have taken on board the ' your treat ' bit .... That might have sounded a bit harsh ...and I have amended my meet .......still don't think that's the only thing that must be putting guys off

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Find it so hard to meet new guys and pin down a meet ! Am I doing something wrong ;-(

Am I right in thinking the op is taking the mick???

Have you ever been to Suffolk? Its not exactly thronging with people. And women do struggle to meet on here sometimes.

Christ! Its hardly the highlands...there are towns and all kinds....

Full of young conservatives though

Aren't they the kinkiest ones?

"shut his dick in the drawer Sir Cyril!"

They're all in training to be the next Brooks Newmark. Paisley pyjamas at the ready.

Smoking jacket too?"

Haha ... Not that bad lol x

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I'm pretty sure a single male posting the same thread wouldn't have garnered quite such a positive response.

That's actually very true.

Double standards here sometimes are a little laughable

After your 'fan club' thread last night I suspect you'd be able to post anything at all.

I don't follow?

I mean you're in high favour with the majority of forum posters, it seems.

Oh I don't see it that way at all.

Doesn't mean I'm right about anything either "

You can take self deprecation a bit too far you know. Enjoy the fact that the ladies of Fab enjoy looking at your profile and that the men of Fab consider you a decent guy, and that I am partially pulling your leg.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oi I'm in Suffolk ya cheeky buggers!!!. It's ok here, if u like farmers. Then again the most can't afford lunch and hotels hence areas like Portman road 'cheap as chips' shag there reputation has it. "

Hehe ... Think you might have a point!! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Find it so hard to meet new guys and pin down a meet ! Am I doing something wrong ;-(

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i find it really hard to believe you have difficulty meeting, I get loads of offers and from some real good looking guys too and your much better than me, the mind boggles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Find it so hard to meet new guys and pin down a meet ! Am I doing something wrong ;-(

"

Is it difficult finding men that would want to meet you.... or difficult finding men that you would want to meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Find it so hard to meet new guys and pin down a meet ! Am I doing something wrong ;-(

Am I right in thinking the op is taking the mick???

Have you ever been to Suffolk? Its not exactly thronging with people. And women do struggle to meet on here sometimes.

It seems money talks for the op

Why because she wants to be took for a meal and the hotel paid for. It's not that expensive and if I was going to go out and have good company I would pay for it even if it was just a social meet with no play at all.

We have met couples and single out and paid for drinks taxis even grabbed them some tabs from the shop and dint expect to get it back or anything out of it. That's what being a decent human being is to me. I only work to get paid so I can enjoy myself so why not spend it on others.

I would draw the line and tell them were to go if they started taking the mick. But we have found most people appreciate the gesture and would normally offer to cover the costs the next time.

You can't spend it when your dead so may aswell use it to enjoy yourself while your here. . Have you looked at hotel prices in Suffolk lol lunch drinks and hotel easily over £100 around here. Much as I would love a guy to wine dine and hotel me I'm not unrealistic but that's ALOT for a afternoon of fun. "

Yeah it's about the same price as in newcastle. meal about 50/60 and hotel upto 100 ish. I don't see the problem with it tbh. It is a lot of money but I suppose I don't look at the actual price as long as I have the cash I'd pay it. I've spent double that going out in town for a couple of hours and had a crap time so went home so if I had good company and enjoyed myself I wouldn't care.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Find it so hard to meet new guys and pin down a meet ! Am I doing something wrong ;-(

Am I right in thinking the op is taking the mick???

Have you ever been to Suffolk? Its not exactly thronging with people. And women do struggle to meet on here sometimes.

It seems money talks for the op

Why because she wants to be took for a meal and the hotel paid for. It's not that expensive and if I was going to go out and have good company I would pay for it even if it was just a social meet with no play at all.

We have met couples and single out and paid for drinks taxis even grabbed them some tabs from the shop and dint expect to get it back or anything out of it. That's what being a decent human being is to me. I only work to get paid so I can enjoy myself so why not spend it on others.

I would draw the line and tell them were to go if they started taking the mick. But we have found most people appreciate the gesture and would normally offer to cover the costs the next time.

You can't spend it when your dead so may aswell use it to enjoy yourself while your here. . Have you looked at hotel prices in Suffolk lol lunch drinks and hotel easily over £100 around here. Much as I would love a guy to wine dine and hotel me I'm not unrealistic but that's ALOT for a afternoon of fun.

Yeah it's about the same price as in newcastle. meal about 50/60 and hotel upto 100 ish. I don't see the problem with it tbh. It is a lot of money but I suppose I don't look at the actual price as long as I have the cash I'd pay it. I've spent double that going out in town for a couple of hours and had a crap time so went home so if I had good company and enjoyed myself I wouldn't care. "

Bloody hell where do you go for Sunday lunch that costs £60?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Find it so hard to meet new guys and pin down a meet ! Am I doing something wrong ;-(

Am I right in thinking the op is taking the mick???

Have you ever been to Suffolk? Its not exactly thronging with people. And women do struggle to meet on here sometimes.

It seems money talks for the op

Why because she wants to be took for a meal and the hotel paid for. It's not that expensive and if I was going to go out and have good company I would pay for it even if it was just a social meet with no play at all.

We have met couples and single out and paid for drinks taxis even grabbed them some tabs from the shop and dint expect to get it back or anything out of it. That's what being a decent human being is to me. I only work to get paid so I can enjoy myself so why not spend it on others.

I would draw the line and tell them were to go if they started taking the mick. But we have found most people appreciate the gesture and would normally offer to cover the costs the next time.

You can't spend it when your dead so may aswell use it to enjoy yourself while your here. . Have you looked at hotel prices in Suffolk lol lunch drinks and hotel easily over £100 around here. Much as I would love a guy to wine dine and hotel me I'm not unrealistic but that's ALOT for a afternoon of fun.

Yeah it's about the same price as in newcastle. meal about 50/60 and hotel upto 100 ish. I don't see the problem with it tbh. It is a lot of money but I suppose I don't look at the actual price as long as I have the cash I'd pay it. I've spent double that going out in town for a couple of hours and had a crap time so went home so if I had good company and enjoyed myself I wouldn't care. "

Depends on the person. No way would I let anyone spend that kind of money on a meet. I would feel very uncomfortable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Find it so hard to meet new guys and pin down a meet ! Am I doing something wrong ;-(

Am I right in thinking the op is taking the mick???

Have you ever been to Suffolk? Its not exactly thronging with people. And women do struggle to meet on here sometimes.

It seems money talks for the op

Why because she wants to be took for a meal and the hotel paid for. It's not that expensive and if I was going to go out and have good company I would pay for it even if it was just a social meet with no play at all.

We have met couples and single out and paid for drinks taxis even grabbed them some tabs from the shop and dint expect to get it back or anything out of it. That's what being a decent human being is to me. I only work to get paid so I can enjoy myself so why not spend it on others.

I would draw the line and tell them were to go if they started taking the mick. But we have found most people appreciate the gesture and would normally offer to cover the costs the next time.

You can't spend it when your dead so may aswell use it to enjoy yourself while your here. . Have you looked at hotel prices in Suffolk lol lunch drinks and hotel easily over £100 around here. Much as I would love a guy to wine dine and hotel me I'm not unrealistic but that's ALOT for a afternoon of fun.

Yeah it's about the same price as in newcastle. meal about 50/60 and hotel upto 100 ish. I don't see the problem with it tbh. It is a lot of money but I suppose I don't look at the actual price as long as I have the cash I'd pay it. I've spent double that going out in town for a couple of hours and had a crap time so went home so if I had good company and enjoyed myself I wouldn't care.

Bloody hell where do you go for Sunday lunch that costs £60? "

If we went to a restaurant for something to eat and a drink it would cost about £50ish bottle of wine and couple of pints is 20 straight away. Main meal £10 each so not far off with out a starter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Find it so hard to meet new guys and pin down a meet ! Am I doing something wrong ;-(

Am I right in thinking the op is taking the mick???

Have you ever been to Suffolk? Its not exactly thronging with people. And women do struggle to meet on here sometimes.

It seems money talks for the op

Why because she wants to be took for a meal and the hotel paid for. It's not that expensive and if I was going to go out and have good company I would pay for it even if it was just a social meet with no play at all.

We have met couples and single out and paid for drinks taxis even grabbed them some tabs from the shop and dint expect to get it back or anything out of it. That's what being a decent human being is to me. I only work to get paid so I can enjoy myself so why not spend it on others.

I would draw the line and tell them were to go if they started taking the mick. But we have found most people appreciate the gesture and would normally offer to cover the costs the next time.

You can't spend it when your dead so may aswell use it to enjoy yourself while your here. . Have you looked at hotel prices in Suffolk lol lunch drinks and hotel easily over £100 around here. Much as I would love a guy to wine dine and hotel me I'm not unrealistic but that's ALOT for a afternoon of fun.

Yeah it's about the same price as in newcastle. meal about 50/60 and hotel upto 100 ish. I don't see the problem with it tbh. It is a lot of money but I suppose I don't look at the actual price as long as I have the cash I'd pay it. I've spent double that going out in town for a couple of hours and had a crap time so went home so if I had good company and enjoyed myself I wouldn't care.

Bloody hell where do you go for Sunday lunch that costs £60?

If we went to a restaurant for something to eat and a drink it would cost about £50ish bottle of wine and couple of pints is 20 straight away. Main meal £10 each so not far off with out a starter. "

I must be a cheap date. Especially since I prefer to split the bill.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Find it so hard to meet new guys and pin down a meet ! Am I doing something wrong ;-(

Am I right in thinking the op is taking the mick???

Have you ever been to Suffolk? Its not exactly thronging with people. And women do struggle to meet on here sometimes.

It seems money talks for the op

Why because she wants to be took for a meal and the hotel paid for. It's not that expensive and if I was going to go out and have good company I would pay for it even if it was just a social meet with no play at all.

We have met couples and single out and paid for drinks taxis even grabbed them some tabs from the shop and dint expect to get it back or anything out of it. That's what being a decent human being is to me. I only work to get paid so I can enjoy myself so why not spend it on others.

I would draw the line and tell them were to go if they started taking the mick. But we have found most people appreciate the gesture and would normally offer to cover the costs the next time.

You can't spend it when your dead so may aswell use it to enjoy yourself while your here. . Have you looked at hotel prices in Suffolk lol lunch drinks and hotel easily over £100 around here. Much as I would love a guy to wine dine and hotel me I'm not unrealistic but that's ALOT for a afternoon of fun.

Yeah it's about the same price as in newcastle. meal about 50/60 and hotel upto 100 ish. I don't see the problem with it tbh. It is a lot of money but I suppose I don't look at the actual price as long as I have the cash I'd pay it. I've spent double that going out in town for a couple of hours and had a crap time so went home so if I had good company and enjoyed myself I wouldn't care.

Bloody hell where do you go for Sunday lunch that costs £60?

If we went to a restaurant for something to eat and a drink it would cost about £50ish bottle of wine and couple of pints is 20 straight away. Main meal £10 each so not far off with out a starter. "

I have no problem paying, the problem for is asking for it even before any contact.

The op has seen this and changed it.

Good luck op and I'm sure you will get a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Find it so hard to meet new guys and pin down a meet ! Am I doing something wrong ;-(

Am I right in thinking the op is taking the mick???

Have you ever been to Suffolk? Its not exactly thronging with people. And women do struggle to meet on here sometimes.

It seems money talks for the op

Why because she wants to be took for a meal and the hotel paid for. It's not that expensive and if I was going to go out and have good company I would pay for it even if it was just a social meet with no play at all.

We have met couples and single out and paid for drinks taxis even grabbed them some tabs from the shop and dint expect to get it back or anything out of it. That's what being a decent human being is to me. I only work to get paid so I can enjoy myself so why not spend it on others.

I would draw the line and tell them were to go if they started taking the mick. But we have found most people appreciate the gesture and would normally offer to cover the costs the next time.

You can't spend it when your dead so may aswell use it to enjoy yourself while your here. . Have you looked at hotel prices in Suffolk lol lunch drinks and hotel easily over £100 around here. Much as I would love a guy to wine dine and hotel me I'm not unrealistic but that's ALOT for a afternoon of fun.

Yeah it's about the same price as in newcastle. meal about 50/60 and hotel upto 100 ish. I don't see the problem with it tbh. It is a lot of money but I suppose I don't look at the actual price as long as I have the cash I'd pay it. I've spent double that going out in town for a couple of hours and had a crap time so went home so if I had good company and enjoyed myself I wouldn't care.

Depends on the person. No way would I let anyone spend that kind of money on a meet. I would feel very uncomfortable. "

I understand that some people would feel uncomfortable with someone spending that sort of money on them but I don't see it as spending it on them. I'm spending it on me because I am getting the enjoyment of some nice food and drinks with hopefully good company. Juicy doesn't think the same as me though and thinks I can be to soft.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I must be a cheap date. Especially since I prefer to split the bill. "

I know I am because no bugger even offers to buy me a drink

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By *horltzMan
over a year ago

heysham

Simple .... Move up north

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must be a cheap date. Especially since I prefer to split the bill.

I know I am because no bugger even offers to buy me a drink "

That's because you're in Yorkshire! Deep pockets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must be a cheap date. Especially since I prefer to split the bill.

I know I am because no bugger even offers to buy me a drink "

bag of chips on a park bench does me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Find it so hard to meet new guys and pin down a meet ! Am I doing something wrong ;-(

Am I right in thinking the op is taking the mick???

Have you ever been to Suffolk? Its not exactly thronging with people. And women do struggle to meet on here sometimes.

It seems money talks for the op

Why because she wants to be took for a meal and the hotel paid for. It's not that expensive and if I was going to go out and have good company I would pay for it even if it was just a social meet with no play at all.

We have met couples and single out and paid for drinks taxis even grabbed them some tabs from the shop and dint expect to get it back or anything out of it. That's what being a decent human being is to me. I only work to get paid so I can enjoy myself so why not spend it on others.

I would draw the line and tell them were to go if they started taking the mick. But we have found most people appreciate the gesture and would normally offer to cover the costs the next time.

You can't spend it when your dead so may aswell use it to enjoy yourself while your here. . Have you looked at hotel prices in Suffolk lol lunch drinks and hotel easily over £100 around here. Much as I would love a guy to wine dine and hotel me I'm not unrealistic but that's ALOT for a afternoon of fun.

Yeah it's about the same price as in newcastle. meal about 50/60 and hotel upto 100 ish. I don't see the problem with it tbh. It is a lot of money but I suppose I don't look at the actual price as long as I have the cash I'd pay it. I've spent double that going out in town for a couple of hours and had a crap time so went home so if I had good company and enjoyed myself I wouldn't care.

Bloody hell where do you go for Sunday lunch that costs £60?

If we went to a restaurant for something to eat and a drink it would cost about £50ish bottle of wine and couple of pints is 20 straight away. Main meal £10 each so not far off with out a starter.

I have no problem paying, the problem for is asking for it even before any contact.

The op has seen this and changed it.

Good luck op and I'm sure you will get a meet"

Well if it still doesn't work she can come up newcastle and I'll take her out for a meal and pay for her b&b/hotel for the night as well.

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"Find it so hard to meet new guys and pin down a meet ! Am I doing something wrong ;-(

Am I right in thinking the op is taking the mick???

Have you ever been to Suffolk? Its not exactly thronging with people. And women do struggle to meet on here sometimes.

It seems money talks for the op

Why because she wants to be took for a meal and the hotel paid for. It's not that expensive and if I was going to go out and have good company I would pay for it even if it was just a social meet with no play at all.

We have met couples and single out and paid for drinks taxis even grabbed them some tabs from the shop and dint expect to get it back or anything out of it. That's what being a decent human being is to me. I only work to get paid so I can enjoy myself so why not spend it on others.

I would draw the line and tell them were to go if they started taking the mick. But we have found most people appreciate the gesture and would normally offer to cover the costs the next time.

You can't spend it when your dead so may aswell use it to enjoy yourself while your here. . Have you looked at hotel prices in Suffolk lol lunch drinks and hotel easily over £100 around here. Much as I would love a guy to wine dine and hotel me I'm not unrealistic but that's ALOT for a afternoon of fun.

Yeah it's about the same price as in newcastle. meal about 50/60 and hotel upto 100 ish. I don't see the problem with it tbh. It is a lot of money but I suppose I don't look at the actual price as long as I have the cash I'd pay it. I've spent double that going out in town for a couple of hours and had a crap time so went home so if I had good company and enjoyed myself I wouldn't care. "

well not everybody has the same attitude towards money and can just can't afford to spend £100+ just like that for a meet what happens if over lunch she decides no play for whatever(absolutely no problem with that btw) the guy has already booked the hotel i presume and committed to paying for lunch you think the guys gonna go home thinking she was good company maybe next she will pay I think not

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Find it so hard to meet new guys and pin down a meet ! Am I doing something wrong ;-(

Am I right in thinking the op is taking the mick???

Have you ever been to Suffolk? Its not exactly thronging with people. And women do struggle to meet on here sometimes.

It seems money talks for the op

Why because she wants to be took for a meal and the hotel paid for. It's not that expensive and if I was going to go out and have good company I would pay for it even if it was just a social meet with no play at all.

We have met couples and single out and paid for drinks taxis even grabbed them some tabs from the shop and dint expect to get it back or anything out of it. That's what being a decent human being is to me. I only work to get paid so I can enjoy myself so why not spend it on others.

I would draw the line and tell them were to go if they started taking the mick. But we have found most people appreciate the gesture and would normally offer to cover the costs the next time.

You can't spend it when your dead so may aswell use it to enjoy yourself while your here. . Have you looked at hotel prices in Suffolk lol lunch drinks and hotel easily over £100 around here. Much as I would love a guy to wine dine and hotel me I'm not unrealistic but that's ALOT for a afternoon of fun.

Yeah it's about the same price as in newcastle. meal about 50/60 and hotel upto 100 ish. I don't see the problem with it tbh. It is a lot of money but I suppose I don't look at the actual price as long as I have the cash I'd pay it. I've spent double that going out in town for a couple of hours and had a crap time so went home so if I had good company and enjoyed myself I wouldn't care.

Bloody hell where do you go for Sunday lunch that costs £60?

If we went to a restaurant for something to eat and a drink it would cost about £50ish bottle of wine and couple of pints is 20 straight away. Main meal £10 each so not far off with out a starter.

I have no problem paying, the problem for is asking for it even before any contact.

The op has seen this and changed it.

Good luck op and I'm sure you will get a meet

Well if it still doesn't work she can come up newcastle and I'll take her out for a meal and pay for her b&b/hotel for the night as well. "

Ah ... Bless you xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Find it so hard to meet new guys and pin down a meet ! Am I doing something wrong ;-(

Is it difficult finding men that would want to meet you.... or difficult finding men that you would want to meet?

"

Probably a little bit of both ... But I'm not sooo fussy :-0

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Find it so hard to meet new guys and pin down a meet ! Am I doing something wrong ;-(

"

I'm sorry to say but you definitely doing it wrong by not moving around Manchester area

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"I must be a cheap date. Especially since I prefer to split the bill.

I know I am because no bugger even offers to buy me a drink

bag of chips on a park bench does me "

I like you.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I must be a cheap date. Especially since I prefer to split the bill.

I know I am because no bugger even offers to buy me a drink

That's because you're in Yorkshire! Deep pockets "

I knowwwww! Waaah!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Find it so hard to meet new guys and pin down a meet ! Am I doing something wrong ;-(

Am I right in thinking the op is taking the mick???

Have you ever been to Suffolk? Its not exactly thronging with people. And women do struggle to meet on here sometimes.

It seems money talks for the op

Why because she wants to be took for a meal and the hotel paid for. It's not that expensive and if I was going to go out and have good company I would pay for it even if it was just a social meet with no play at all.

We have met couples and single out and paid for drinks taxis even grabbed them some tabs from the shop and dint expect to get it back or anything out of it. That's what being a decent human being is to me. I only work to get paid so I can enjoy myself so why not spend it on others.

I would draw the line and tell them were to go if they started taking the mick. But we have found most people appreciate the gesture and would normally offer to cover the costs the next time.

You can't spend it when your dead so may aswell use it to enjoy yourself while your here. . Have you looked at hotel prices in Suffolk lol lunch drinks and hotel easily over £100 around here. Much as I would love a guy to wine dine and hotel me I'm not unrealistic but that's ALOT for a afternoon of fun.

Yeah it's about the same price as in newcastle. meal about 50/60 and hotel upto 100 ish. I don't see the problem with it tbh. It is a lot of money but I suppose I don't look at the actual price as long as I have the cash I'd pay it. I've spent double that going out in town for a couple of hours and had a crap time so went home so if I had good company and enjoyed myself I wouldn't care.

well not everybody has the same attitude towards money and can just can't afford to spend £100+ just like that for a meet what happens if over lunch she decides no play for whatever(absolutely no problem with that btw) the guy has already booked the hotel i presume and committed to paying for lunch you think the guys gonna go home thinking she was good company maybe next she will pay I think not "

I know not everyone can afford it and I'm not saying I could all the time but it is just another filter no different to any other dieter that is used to decide if you want to meet. If that happened then that is his fault and his problem no one else's. He shouldn't of thought that sex was Gauranteed. But I understand that a lot of people wouldn't pay even if the money wasn't an issue. I suppose I'm a sociable person that's all and obviously won't see it the same way as a lot of other people will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Find it so hard to meet new guys and pin down a meet ! Am I doing something wrong ;-(

Is it difficult finding men that would want to meet you.... or difficult finding men that you would want to meet?

Probably a little bit of both ... But I'm not sooo fussy :-0

X"

That and the ones she likes are miles away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's simple. Expectations v reality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It didn't seem to for me. not tonight anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Find it so hard to meet new guys and pin down a meet ! Am I doing something wrong ;-(

Is it difficult finding men that would want to meet you.... or difficult finding men that you would want to meet?

Probably a little bit of both ... But I'm not sooo fussy :-0

X"

If I'm honest I think you are fussy your asking for tall,fit,delicious? Probably about 5% of men on here fit your bill

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"Find it so hard to meet new guys and pin down a meet ! Am I doing something wrong ;-(

Am I right in thinking the op is taking the mick???

Have you ever been to Suffolk? Its not exactly thronging with people. And women do struggle to meet on here sometimes.

Christ! Its hardly the highlands...there are towns and all kinds....

Full of young conservatives though "

Mmm...young Conservatives...Suffolk here I come

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I haven't posted a meet in months. Never seemed to get any response other than from those who didn't match what I was looking for or I didn't match what their profiles stated they wanted. Haven't thought to use them since; it seems a little haphazard of a method to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Find it so hard to meet new guys and pin down a meet ! Am I doing something wrong ;-(

Is it difficult finding men that would want to meet you.... or difficult finding men that you would want to meet?

Probably a little bit of both ... But I'm not sooo fussy :-0

X

If I'm honest I think you are fussy your asking for tall,fit,delicious? Probably about 5% of men on here fit your bill"

But then 5% of thousands of men is still a lot of men. It's ok to have preferences and know what you like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Find it so hard to meet new guys and pin down a meet ! Am I doing something wrong ;-(

Is it difficult finding men that would want to meet you.... or difficult finding men that you would want to meet?

Probably a little bit of both ... But I'm not sooo fussy :-0

X

If I'm honest I think you are fussy your asking for tall,fit,delicious? Probably about 5% of men on here fit your bill"

You can't be too fussy. Why would you meet some one that wasn't what you are looking for or attracted too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Find it so hard to meet new guys and pin down a meet ! Am I doing something wrong ;-(

Is it difficult finding men that would want to meet you.... or difficult finding men that you would want to meet?

Probably a little bit of both ... But I'm not sooo fussy :-0

X

If I'm honest I think you are fussy your asking for tall,fit,delicious? Probably about 5% of men on here fit your bill"

So she should just shag the next person that asks?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Find it so hard to meet new guys and pin down a meet ! Am I doing something wrong ;-(

Is it difficult finding men that would want to meet you.... or difficult finding men that you would want to meet?

Probably a little bit of both ... But I'm not sooo fussy :-0

X"

Do you go looking for guys you like?

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"Find it so hard to meet new guys and pin down a meet ! Am I doing something wrong ;-(

Is it difficult finding men that would want to meet you.... or difficult finding men that you would want to meet?

Probably a little bit of both ... But I'm not sooo fussy :-0

X

If I'm honest I think you are fussy your asking for tall,fit,delicious? Probably about 5% of men on here fit your bill"

Oh really? Am I part of an exlusive club then?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Find it so hard to meet new guys and pin down a meet ! Am I doing something wrong ;-(

Is it difficult finding men that would want to meet you.... or difficult finding men that you would want to meet?

Probably a little bit of both ... But I'm not sooo fussy :-0

X

If I'm honest I think you are fussy your asking for tall,fit,delicious? Probably about 5% of men on here fit your bill

Oh really? Am I part of an exlusive club then? "

Didn't you know?

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

To answer the OP...I seldom post meet nows unless I'm going to be in a specific place...I remember putting one up once in my early days on Fab and one of the most attractive was along the lines of "I'm passing thru Cumbria today, could stop off and shag you"...I replied that Cumbria was 6000 square km and the chances of him passing Arse End (pop. 8000, west coast, 40 miles from motorway) were similar to the chances of bumping into Enoch Powell in the local mosque....strangely enough, although I dropped my knickers and bent over the settee, he never turned up

However...I recently posted for a music festival I was attending and Wyrd and I spent a great weekend with a lovely chap so it ain't all bad

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By *hatFellaNZMan
over a year ago

London


"Find it so hard to meet new guys and pin down a meet ! Am I doing something wrong ;-(

"

Not. At. All.

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"Find it so hard to meet new guys and pin down a meet ! Am I doing something wrong ;-(

Am I right in thinking the op is taking the mick???

Have you ever been to Suffolk? Its not exactly thronging with people. And women do struggle to meet on here sometimes.

It seems money talks for the op

Why because she wants to be took for a meal and the hotel paid for. It's not that expensive and if I was going to go out and have good company I would pay for it even if it was just a social meet with no play at all.

We have met couples and single out and paid for drinks taxis even grabbed them some tabs from the shop and dint expect to get it back or anything out of it. That's what being a decent human being is to me. I only work to get paid so I can enjoy myself so why not spend it on others.

I would draw the line and tell them were to go if they started taking the mick. But we have found most people appreciate the gesture and would normally offer to cover the costs the next time.

You can't spend it when your dead so may aswell use it to enjoy yourself while your here. . Have you looked at hotel prices in Suffolk lol lunch drinks and hotel easily over £100 around here. Much as I would love a guy to wine dine and hotel me I'm not unrealistic but that's ALOT for a afternoon of fun.

Yeah it's about the same price as in newcastle. meal about 50/60 and hotel upto 100 ish. I don't see the problem with it tbh. It is a lot of money but I suppose I don't look at the actual price as long as I have the cash I'd pay it. I've spent double that going out in town for a couple of hours and had a crap time so went home so if I had good company and enjoyed myself I wouldn't care.

well not everybody has the same attitude towards money and can just can't afford to spend £100+ just like that for a meet what happens if over lunch she decides no play for whatever(absolutely no problem with that btw) the guy has already booked the hotel i presume and committed to paying for lunch you think the guys gonna go home thinking she was good company maybe next she will pay I think not

I know not everyone can afford it and I'm not saying I could all the time but it is just another filter no different to any other dieter that is used to decide if you want to meet. If that happened then that is his fault and his problem no one else's. He shouldn't of thought that sex was Gauranteed. But I understand that a lot of people wouldn't pay even if the money wasn't an issue. I suppose I'm a sociable person that's all and obviously won't see it the same way as a lot of other people will"

I never said the guy thought sex was guaranteed but he was told to book a hotel just incase which in my opinion is wrong unless it is guaranteed.

Juicy is right you are soft

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"However...I recently posted for a music festival I was attending and Wyrd and I spent a great weekend with a lovely chap so it ain't all bad "

Yep, sometimes they are successful.

Sometimes....

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I book my own hotel for a first meet , just incase it goes tits up. Last thing I want to be is stranded!

Us single ladies need to use our noodle from time to time ...

Being the independent type I always pay my own way anyway unless treated from good friends . That is always nice and very much appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Find it so hard to meet new guys and pin down a meet ! Am I doing something wrong ;-(

"

don't know why you look pretty yummy

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"Find it so hard to meet new guys and pin down a meet ! Am I doing something wrong ;-(

Is it difficult finding men that would want to meet you.... or difficult finding men that you would want to meet?

Probably a little bit of both ... But I'm not sooo fussy :-0

X

If I'm honest I think you are fussy your asking for tall,fit,delicious? Probably about 5% of men on here fit your bill

Oh really? Am I part of an exlusive club then?

Didn't you know? "

That'll explain the uniform that arrived in the post and the rolling up of trouser legs....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id lose a few of these!!!!

from your profile..

But no, dont drop your standards...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I book my own hotel for a first meet , just incase it goes tits up. Last thing I want to be is stranded!

Us single ladies need to use our noodle from time to time ...

Being the independent type I always pay my own way anyway unless treated from good friends . That is always nice and very much appreciated "

not that single bed etap again please..I felt like a cheap whore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are relying on meet now, then I can see what you're doing wrong. All of my meets are pre arranged with guys I've been chatting to. It very very rarely goes wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op is asking why can't she get a meet?

First she has asked to be treated to dinner and hotel then is asking for an adonis, yes we all have standards and should never drop them for a shag but obviously there isn't a lot of rich gym fit tall blokes around her so maybe this is why.

I'm not having ago at op it's justy opinion.

I have had 5 meets in nearly 2 years of being on here and I have declined a lot more but as most on here I never just go with anyone just for sex.

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

Don't have to be rich, a cheap and cheerful Travelodge and a pub meal would hardly break the bank.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"Don't have to be rich, a cheap and cheerful Travelodge and a pub meal would hardly break the bank. "

That's not strictly accurate...fucklodge/premiershag can come up at £70 or so, add a meal and a coupla drinks in and it's a dear do...personally, I never arrange to meet anyone unless they're in the area...happy to meet if I'm in their area for business reasons but would never arrange a hotel on spec

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Find it so hard to meet new guys and pin down a meet ! Am I doing something wrong ;-(

"

I'll be honest - I probably wouldn't bother to contact you. Not because you're not gorgeous (you are) but I would think I'd have absolutely no chance with you given that most lone male profiles are ignored / deleted.

So not really an intimidation thing on my part, more of a confidence thing I guess.

I'd assume you'd pick someone else so I wonder if there's plenty of others who feel the same way?

Anyway after this thread I'm sure you'll have plenty of suitors. Good luck and enjoy!!

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By *ilthydirtyfuckersCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Holy shit what's wrong with the world. Ur gorgeous so maybe that's why men are intimidated! X"

I agree with this, from a mans perspective I would worry that looks wise and from reading her profile that she is out of my league.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the hotter you are the harder it can be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it's time for new thread? Do plain jane's get more meets?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the hotter you are the harder it can be"

What utter rubbish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scarlet I cant imagine you struggle to get a meet?

Your divine x

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown


"Find it so hard to meet new guys and pin down a meet ! Am I doing something wrong ;-(

"

Yes, so i don't bother anymore.

Oh and you're doing nothing wrong x

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