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"They don't exists all just wanna shag one time lol." Maybe its just you, you put them off with your 6 pack!! | |||
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"They don't exists all just wanna shag one time lol. Maybe its just you, you put them off with your 6 pack!!" Did I say I am looking for one? I didn't. And yes I am just looking for a one shag meets | |||
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"They don't exists all just wanna shag one time lol. Maybe its just you, you put them off with your 6 pack!!Did I say I am looking for one? I didn't. And yes I am just looking for a one shag meets " I never implied you did, just a bit of forum banter. | |||
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"They don't exists all just wanna shag one time lol. Maybe its just you, you put them off with your 6 pack!!Did I say I am looking for one? I didn't. And yes I am just looking for a one shag meets I never implied you did, just a bit of forum banter." Ah yes I get it now lol and yes its cos of my 6pack | |||
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"They don't exists all just wanna shag one time lol. Maybe its just you, you put them off with your 6 pack!!Did I say I am looking for one? I didn't. And yes I am just looking for a one shag meets " Yeah but you go back if it was good we all would | |||
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"I do have one. What's the difference between fuck buddies and friends with benefits ? " for me a fb is someone ( the same person ) who you have sex with and then leave.. May have a couple of messages between you both throughout the day but no long telephone conversations.. A friend with benefit.. You can do other stuff together that isn't sex related.. Ie watching a film or going shopping instance.. Talk for hours on the phone, discuss personal matters with each other.. I find it very difficult however to distinguish the difference between a boyfriend and a friend with benefits.. Hence i have neither but would be interested to know other peoples opinion between fb and fwb | |||
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"I was seeing a guy for 3 years as friends with benefits. Was amazing had all the characteristics of a relationship but none of the hassle or the label. We would go out, clubs, meals, cinemas, but then we were able to enjoy each other entirely every aspect of fantasy. We didn't sleep with anyone else in this time. Although it came to an end when I fell pregnant and we fell in love but was so unpractical x x" That's a relationship to me.. Did you ever spend the night together?? | |||
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"I prefer friends with benefits as you know where you stand (Ish), The two I have had in the past one was great as we where part of a big group of friends and no one knew for years then some how it got out and it kind of petted out from there but we still have the same friends and still see each other in bars-partys but we both keep to out word from the start. The other moved to the USA for work and she asked me if I would like to go with her but it just to complicated to try so now we just see each other when she or I travel over for a week or so. As for FB's I have one now and it is great fun but its now over a year and some of our friends have seen us out for meals/drinks and think we are going out? and now invite both of us out together! Sometimes I do wonder my self as we see each other two or three times a week.. Time will tell " im confused (doesn't take allot) so why is that a fb and not a friend with benefit?? You've been seeing each other a year now and go out socially?? Is she not a friend?? | |||
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"I would say a fuck buddy is someone you only see for sex, do your bit, have dirty fun and leave until the next time but a friend with benefits is someone you'd do more stuff socially with, drinks, meal out etc. That's how I see it anyway. " that's what i said.. Its easy to define them two.. What about fwb and boyfriend.. How do you define them?? | |||
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"I would say a fuck buddy is someone you only see for sex, do your bit, have dirty fun and leave until the next time but a friend with benefits is someone you'd do more stuff socially with, drinks, meal out etc. That's how I see it anyway. that's what i said.. Its easy to define them two.. What about fwb and boyfriend.. How do you define them?? " Well for me I guess it would be a friend with benefits is free to meet others and so would I if I so wished where as a boyfriend is someone I would be loyal to because I loved them. | |||
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"I would say a fuck buddy is someone you only see for sex, do your bit, have dirty fun and leave until the next time but a friend with benefits is someone you'd do more stuff socially with, drinks, meal out etc. That's how I see it anyway. that's what i said.. Its easy to define them two.. What about fwb and boyfriend.. How do you define them?? Well for me I guess it would be a friend with benefits is free to meet others and so would I if I so wished where as a boyfriend is someone I would be loyal to because I loved them. " Yet to me a bf I'd still share x | |||
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"I would say a fuck buddy is someone you only see for sex, do your bit, have dirty fun and leave until the next time but a friend with benefits is someone you'd do more stuff socially with, drinks, meal out etc. That's how I see it anyway. that's what i said.. Its easy to define them two.. What about fwb and boyfriend.. How do you define them?? Well for me I guess it would be a friend with benefits is free to meet others and so would I if I so wished where as a boyfriend is someone I would be loyal to because I loved them. Yet to me a bf I'd still share x " That's why I said for me as I'd assume some on here would swing with their partners so now its just confusing lol | |||
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"I'm yet to work out what we have.... Just know that mostly it works x We meet anything from 2 to 5 times a week... Mostly play together.. go for lunch or meals... Talk all the time on text and calls.... But most definitely not a relationship.. but we are great friends Yet some would look at us and think we are " same with my swinging partner, we've recently had a rough patch, but all is ok now | |||
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"I'm yet to work out what we have.... Just know that mostly it works x We meet anything from 2 to 5 times a week... Mostly play together.. go for lunch or meals... Talk all the time on text and calls.... But most definitely not a relationship.. but we are great friends Yet some would look at us and think we are " I would view your relationship as something that started as a fb one, evolved into a fwb and one of you is in denial about your feelings.. Relationship or not.. If you are in denial about how you feel.. And both of you are not singing from the same hymn sheet...Even a friendship cannot survive | |||
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"I'm yet to work out what we have.... Just know that mostly it works x We meet anything from 2 to 5 times a week... Mostly play together.. go for lunch or meals... Talk all the time on text and calls.... But most definitely not a relationship.. but we are great friends Yet some would look at us and think we are " This is us as well | |||
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"I'm yet to work out what we have.... Just know that mostly it works x We meet anything from 2 to 5 times a week... Mostly play together.. go for lunch or meals... Talk all the time on text and calls.... But most definitely not a relationship.. but we are great friends Yet some would look at us and think we are I would view your relationship as something that started as a fb one, evolved into a fwb and one of you is in denial about your feelings.. Relationship or not.. If you are in denial about how you feel.. And both of you are not singing from the same hymn sheet...Even a friendship cannot survive " Quite a sweeping statement!! Surely you need to know the people before you can say that | |||
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"Always wanted to find a fuck buddy, do fuck buddies actual exists? Anyone have a fuck buddy, how do I go about getting a fb ? Any offers lol ?" and the award for the most over used words fuck buddy goes to........ | |||
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"I'm yet to work out what we have.... Just know that mostly it works x We meet anything from 2 to 5 times a week... Mostly play together.. go for lunch or meals... Talk all the time on text and calls.... But most definitely not a relationship.. but we are great friends Yet some would look at us and think we are I would view your relationship as something that started as a fb one, evolved into a fwb and one of you is in denial about your feelings.. Relationship or not.. If you are in denial about how you feel.. And both of you are not singing from the same hymn sheet...Even a friendship cannot survive Quite a sweeping statement!! Surely you need to know the people before you can say that" i do know them.. Quite well actually.. I wouldn't have commented otherwise.. But i did say it was my opinion.. Not to say its the way it is.. Just how i see it | |||
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"I prefer friends with benefits as you know where you stand (Ish), The two I have had in the past one was great as we where part of a big group of friends and no one knew for years then some how it got out and it kind of petted out from there but we still have the same friends and still see each other in bars-partys but we both keep to out word from the start. The other moved to the USA for work and she asked me if I would like to go with her but it just to complicated to try so now we just see each other when she or I travel over for a week or so. As for FB's I have one now and it is great fun but its now over a year and some of our friends have seen us out for meals/drinks and think we are going out? and now invite both of us out together! Sometimes I do wonder my self as we see each other two or three times a week.. Time will tell im confused (doesn't take allot) so why is that a fb and not a friend with benefit?? You've been seeing each other a year now and go out socially?? Is she not a friend?? " Good point I dont know the meal thing just started when my fb came round one early evening and I have had a mad week so I had not much food in so I said why not go out for food before then it was just going round to each others for sex and sometimes food to make a full night of it. Even after we started going out for food and drinks we agreed that we where still fb. But now we get invited to party's and meals by friends maybe that dose make us friends with? Or is it more? we dont often play with others on our own but we have played with other couples... She is not on here, she knows I am here and has known from the start that I have been here for years but I dont seem to play on here that often now. So maybe? Time to give her a ring and see if she wants to come round to have a chat... I will let you know what she says | |||
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"I'm yet to work out what we have.... Just know that mostly it works x We meet anything from 2 to 5 times a week... Mostly play together.. go for lunch or meals... Talk all the time on text and calls.... But most definitely not a relationship.. but we are great friends Yet some would look at us and think we are I would view your relationship as something that started as a fb one, evolved into a fwb and one of you is in denial about your feelings.. Relationship or not.. If you are in denial about how you feel.. And both of you are not singing from the same hymn sheet...Even a friendship cannot survive Quite a sweeping statement!! Surely you need to know the people before you can say that i do know them.. Quite well actually.. I wouldn't have commented otherwise.. But i did say it was my opinion.. Not to say its the way it is.. Just how i see it " Lol then I apologise | |||
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"I'm yet to work out what we have.... Just know that mostly it works x We meet anything from 2 to 5 times a week... Mostly play together.. go for lunch or meals... Talk all the time on text and calls.... But most definitely not a relationship.. but we are great friends Yet some would look at us and think we are I would view your relationship as something that started as a fb one, evolved into a fwb and one of you is in denial about your feelings.. Relationship or not.. If you are in denial about how you feel.. And both of you are not singing from the same hymn sheet...Even a friendship cannot survive Quite a sweeping statement!! Surely you need to know the people before you can say that i do know them.. Quite well actually.. I wouldn't have commented otherwise.. But i did say it was my opinion.. Not to say its the way it is.. Just how i see it Lol then I apologise" no worries | |||
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"I get confused with it all... To me... A fb is someone I meet every so often and just have sex with A fwb is someone I'm In touch not just for sex with and would listen to and be there for to a degree, unlikely to meet my friends and family A bf is someone I feel emotionally bonded with, and I would go out of my way for and would welcome in all aspects of my life, as in meeting those around me (and letting control the remote occasionally.) At the end of it... If you both know what you are to each other, it works and you are happy then it really doesn't need a label " Exactly this! | |||
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"They don't exists all just wanna shag one time lol. Maybe its just you, you put them off with your 6 pack!!" And by your one and only verification....fuck buddies like to see a few more! | |||
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"They don't exists all just wanna shag one time lol. Maybe its just you, you put them off with your 6 pack!! And by your one and only verification....fuck buddies like to see a few more!" He's having fun on here and he's a good laugh, who cares how many or how few someone has? I don't pay much attention to veri's, as long as they have a couple to prove they are who they say they are then I'll go with my gut instinct. My current fb was only photo verified when I contacted him and we've known each other for over a year. | |||
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"They don't exists all just wanna shag one time lol. Maybe its just you, you put them off with your 6 pack!! And by your one and only verification....fuck buddies like to see a few more! He's having fun on here and he's a good laugh, who cares how many or how few someone has? I don't pay much attention to veri's, as long as they have a couple to prove they are who they say they are then I'll go with my gut instinct. My current fb was only photo verified when I contacted him and we've known each other for over a year. " Some people are obsessed with veri's. It's crass. | |||
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"They don't exists all just wanna shag one time lol. Maybe its just you, you put them off with your 6 pack!! And by your one and only verification....fuck buddies like to see a few more! He's having fun on here and he's a good laugh, who cares how many or how few someone has? I don't pay much attention to veri's, as long as they have a couple to prove they are who they say they are then I'll go with my gut instinct. My current fb was only photo verified when I contacted him and we've known each other for over a year. Some people are obsessed with veri's. It's crass. " I agree. So too is putting someone down because they only have one. Personally, I find too many more off putting than too few. | |||
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"They don't exists all just wanna shag one time lol. Maybe its just you, you put them off with your 6 pack!! And by your one and only verification....fuck buddies like to see a few more! He's having fun on here and he's a good laugh, who cares how many or how few someone has? I don't pay much attention to veri's, as long as they have a couple to prove they are who they say they are then I'll go with my gut instinct. My current fb was only photo verified when I contacted him and we've known each other for over a year. Some people are obsessed with veri's. It's crass. I agree. So too is putting someone down because they only have one. Personally, I find too many more off putting than too few. " I still Dont get how to many can be off putting... Or what the definition is of too many... My play partner had over 200 on his old profile and that Was over two years And it never seemed to do him any harm lol | |||
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"They don't exists all just wanna shag one time lol. Maybe its just you, you put them off with your 6 pack!! And by your one and only verification....fuck buddies like to see a few more! He's having fun on here and he's a good laugh, who cares how many or how few someone has? I don't pay much attention to veri's, as long as they have a couple to prove they are who they say they are then I'll go with my gut instinct. My current fb was only photo verified when I contacted him and we've known each other for over a year. Some people are obsessed with veri's. It's crass. I agree. So too is putting someone down because they only have one. Personally, I find too many more off putting than too few. I still Dont get how to many can be off putting... Or what the definition is of too many... My play partner had over 200 on his old profile and that Was over two years And it never seemed to do him any harm lol " I think it depends on the person. Some people with a lot of veri's brag about them... that in my opinion is crass. Yet I also know people with 150+ veri's and they are absolutely lovely people. I know who I'd rather meet. | |||
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"I have a fb for about 20 years but we have not played since last year but probably would if I asked. Another girl who asked me to be her fuck buddy about 18 months ago. Both are proper friends first so definitely FWB. I couldn't imagine a regular fb without becoming very good friends as well." Yes ! | |||
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"Always wanted to find a fuck buddy, do fuck buddies actual exists? Anyone have a fuck buddy, how do I go about getting a fb ? Any offers lol ?" once upon a time I was seeing 5 different people/couples. Needless to say I have toned it down. FB's dont just happen, it's about chemistry when you meet. | |||
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"I'm yet to work out what we have.... Just know that mostly it works x We meet anything from 2 to 5 times a week... Mostly play together.. go for lunch or meals... Talk all the time on text and calls.... But most definitely not a relationship.. but we are great friends Yet some would look at us and think we are I would view your relationship as something that started as a fb one, evolved into a fwb and one of you is in denial about your feelings.. Relationship or not.. If you are in denial about how you feel.. And both of you are not singing from the same hymn sheet...Even a friendship cannot survive " Your so very right on it all x | |||
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"I have a couple of guys who I have met many times, does that make them my FB's?" i would say yes.. There's no rule that says you have to meet once a week to qualify.. If you have met them many times then i think that clarifies in my book as a fb | |||
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"I have a couple of guys who I have met many times, does that make them my FB's? i would say yes.. There's no rule that says you have to meet once a week to qualify.. If you have met them many times then i think that clarifies in my book as a fb " OH in that case i have one and half lol | |||
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"I have a couple of guys who I have met many times, does that make them my FB's? i would say yes.. There's no rule that says you have to meet once a week to qualify.. If you have met them many times then i think that clarifies in my book as a fb OH in that case i have one and half lol" a half??? | |||
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"I have a couple of guys who I have met many times, does that make them my FB's? i would say yes.. There's no rule that says you have to meet once a week to qualify.. If you have met them many times then i think that clarifies in my book as a fb OH in that case i have one and half lol a half??? " lol yes half kind of got to catch him awake and try to not let him doze off when he gets home from work but when we manage that and his here he makes up for it | |||
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