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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is men who message us but only address E....Guys top tip... Address couples as couples you will find you are more likely to get somewhere..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is men who message us but only address E....Guys top tip... Address couples as couples you will find you are more likely to get somewhere.. "

We agree....even worse when they call her babe, sexy, or hun....or something else equally degrading. Grrrr!!

Juicy x

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By *.nottsbloke..Man
over a year ago

the vale

I always try to speak to a couple as a couple and on a meet try to interact with the guy as well have much more chance of a repeat that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use it as a filter. It's not annoying at all, you won't need to waste any time chatting to them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Use it as a filter. It's not annoying at all, you won't need to waste any time chatting to them. "
oh we dont lol

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By *aughty Wigan CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Wigan

I always leave those kinds of messages for hubby to reply, and he usually thanks the guys for calling him Hun, Babe, Sexy or whatever they have called him and he usually goes on to explain that although he appreciates the message, and he is so glad they love his arse/boobs?boots, or whatever else they have commented on, they are not his type but thanks for sending him the message.

They usually get the hint

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would find that incredibly rude, if i was part of a couple. I always address both parties in any message and would also include both in conversation for any meet or social. Whether just watching or joining in, you would both be there, for any playing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is men who message us but only address E....Guys top tip... Address couples as couples you will find you are more likely to get somewhere..

We agree....even worse when they call her babe, sexy, or hun....or something else equally degrading. Grrrr!!

Juicy x"

Lol babe or sexy is degrading but you call yourself juicy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is men who message us but only address E....Guys top tip... Address couples as couples you will find you are more likely to get somewhere..

We agree....even worse when they call her babe, sexy, or hun....or something else equally degrading. Grrrr!!

Juicy x

Lol babe or sexy is degrading but you call yourself juicy?"

Well actually it's jay that called me juicy because of my arse. You can call yourself anything you want but to call a stranger a "pet" name is insulting. He can call me that because he is my husband not a random stranger. Plus it is cringe worthy when a man calls someone hun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couples are just as guilty of this. Though granted it's usually those who's profiles state that they are looking for single females and who are probably puzzled why they aren't getting anywhere

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I like both anyway so don't care who I talk to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always leave those kinds of messages for hubby to reply, and he usually thanks the guys for calling him Hun, Babe, Sexy or whatever they have called him and he usually goes on to explain that although he appreciates the message, and he is so glad they love his arse/boobs?boots, or whatever else they have commented on, they are not his type but thanks for sending him the message.

They usually get the hint "

Pretty much what we do lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We use it as a filter. Mo gets a bit tetchy when she sees it but I understand that guys get a little over horny. I also assume that when they say hi babe, Hon, sexy or darling they have a bit of a bi side and are talking to me

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Use it as a filter. It's not annoying at all, you won't need to waste any time chatting to them. "

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By *icked kittyCouple
over a year ago

Uttoxeter


"I always leave those kinds of messages for hubby to reply, and he usually thanks the guys for calling him Hun, Babe, Sexy or whatever they have called him and he usually goes on to explain that although he appreciates the message, and he is so glad they love his arse/boobs?boots, or whatever else they have commented on, they are not his type but thanks for sending him the message.

They usually get the hint "
we totally agree. Koala loves doing this. Extra fun when you're a Bi couple

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over a year ago

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