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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

After you have done something sexual.

Personally the only time I have is when the person i was meeting off another site turned up and was nothing like their pictures, did a runner blocked them etc.... Hate being blocked myself, so I should of treat others the same.

Apart from that i cant think of anything!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Nope. I'm happy with the choices I make.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I have never been ashamed as I choose well now, however when I first started out I wasn't quite sure what I was looking for and that lead to a few mistakes, that's how I know that younger guys aren't for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have never been ashamed as I choose well now, however when I first started out I wasn't quite sure what I was looking for and that lead to a few mistakes, that's how I know that younger guys aren't for me "

Damm After reading your profile i appear to be a couple of years too young for you

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Not sexually no.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Ashamed is far too strong a word but when we first started swinging we did some things or met people that in hindsight we shouldn't have. We learnt from our mistakes and moved on....

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By *moothies.Couple
over a year ago

Woodthorpe


"Ashamed is far too strong a word but when we first started swinging we did some things or met people that in hindsight we shouldn't have. We learnt from our mistakes and moved on.... "

I agree with this. After our first few meets we decided there were choices we should make in future and we've had good meets along the way since. Still nothing to be ashamed of, just working out what we wanted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never ashamed but make better choices now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After you have done something sexual.

Personally the only time I have is when the person i was meeting off another site turned up and was nothing like their pictures, did a runner blocked them etc.... Hate being blocked myself, so I should of treat others the same.

Apart from that i cant think of anything!"

Doing a runner is something to be ashamed of.

Leaving a meet and/or blocking someone for using pictures that gave a false impression sounds fair enough to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ashamed is far too strong a word but when we first started swinging we did some things or met people that in hindsight we shouldn't have. We learnt from our mistakes and moved on....

"

Yes this is true for us too.

It still is to a degree as we do like to push our boundaries, sometimes we try something and then decide it's not something we'd necessarily do again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes quite a few times, having sex with men I didn't realy like.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Ashamed is far too strong a word but when we first started swinging we did some things or met people that in hindsight we shouldn't have. We learnt from our mistakes and moved on....

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This!

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Not through swinging but when I was much younger on a night out got myself in a situation with 2 guys found myself alone with then at one of their houses d*unk in the middle of nowhere, no transport and having never met either of them before, not so much ashamed as annoyed with myself for being so stupid.

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By *aidtobespankedCouple
over a year ago

Chester

We sometimes wake up feeling a bit embarrassed after filthy d*unken sex

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

No, but I did once feel bad about a club experience that didn't go well. I failed to follow my instincts on it and wasn't happy with the result.

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire


"Never ashamed but make better choices now."

me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not ashamed but made a very very stupid mistake in going against my instincts. Met a guy for a social coffee after only a few chats and it went terribly wrong. As soon as walked through my door he stripped naked. If I wasn't as strong willed as I am, it could've turned into a rape.... He was pushy, forceful and didn't want to take no for an answer. His whole demeanour changed when I asked him to leave, he pinned me up against the wall and he said some shitty things. Let's just say, his naked self and his clothes ended up outside my front door with it firmly locked!

I learnt a very valuable lesson that night and now choose my meets much more wisely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

at the time no - but on reflection yes - was going thro a crazy mad sad time and went with a lot of blokes off here - most i cant remember and for that im ashamed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not ashamed but made a very very stupid mistake in going against my instincts. Met a guy for a social coffee after only a few chats and it went terribly wrong. As soon as walked through my door he stripped naked. If I wasn't as strong willed as I am, it could've turned into a rape.... He was pushy, forceful and didn't want to take no for an answer. His whole demeanour changed when I asked him to leave, he pinned me up against the wall and he said some shitty things. Let's just say, his naked self and his clothes ended up outside my front door with it firmly locked!

I learnt a very valuable lesson that night and now choose my meets much more wisely. "

omg x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not ashamed but annoyed with myself for stupidity,met a guy on here went back to his had fun etc, next day checked to see if he,s verified me (I have a thing for veries ). gave him a lovely veri in return ( had all the usual crap will you give me a good veri I dont get many meets etc). Later on that day he changed his profile picture he had taken a picture of me sucking him off his phone without me noticing, asked him four times to remove it in the end i had to go to admin. Why do they do it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only three times on here.

two relating to meet mistakes, my fault.

and one for messing up with someone and losing him.

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By *hrissie1961Woman
over a year ago

dumfries and galloway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We definitely met at least one couple when we very first started out that we really regretted being 'associated' with afterwards. We learnt from our mistake and are far more selective about who we meet now. Think its easy to be excited when you're new, and overkeen to get that first experience under your belt.

Juicy xx

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By *hrissie1961Woman
over a year ago

dumfries and galloway


"Not ashamed but made a very very stupid mistake in going against my instincts. Met a guy for a social coffee after only a few chats and it went terribly wrong. As soon as walked through my door he stripped naked. If I wasn't as strong willed as I am, it could've turned into a rape.... He was pushy, forceful and didn't want to take no for an answer. His whole demeanour changed when I asked him to leave, he pinned me up against the wall and he said some shitty things. Let's just say, his naked self and his clothes ended up outside my front door with it firmly locked

I learnt a very valuable lesson that night and now choose my meets much more wisely. "

At your place after a few chats! Whilst there is no excuse for rape or the behaviour exhibited, you weren't exactly taking responsibility for your own safety

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes but hey life's a learning curve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ashamed? Only of my fantasises!

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Not ashamed but made a very very stupid mistake in going against my instincts. Met a guy for a social coffee after only a few chats and it went terribly wrong. As soon as walked through my door he stripped naked. If I wasn't as strong willed as I am, it could've turned into a rape.... He was pushy, forceful and didn't want to take no for an answer. His whole demeanour changed when I asked him to leave, he pinned me up against the wall and he said some shitty things. Let's just say, his naked self and his clothes ended up outside my front door with it firmly locked

I learnt a very valuable lesson that night and now choose my meets much more wisely.

At your place after a few chats! Whilst there is no excuse for rape or the behaviour exhibited, you weren't exactly taking responsibility for your own safety

"

One presumes that is why she started by saying she had made a very stupid mistake in going against her instincts.

Really no need to be so judgemental, is there?

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Not ashamed but made a very very stupid mistake in going against my instincts. Met a guy for a social coffee after only a few chats and it went terribly wrong. As soon as walked through my door he stripped naked. If I wasn't as strong willed as I am, it could've turned into a rape.... He was pushy, forceful and didn't want to take no for an answer. His whole demeanour changed when I asked him to leave, he pinned me up against the wall and he said some shitty things. Let's just say, his naked self and his clothes ended up outside my front door with it firmly locked

I learnt a very valuable lesson that night and now choose my meets much more wisely.

At your place after a few chats! Whilst there is no excuse for rape or the behaviour exhibited, you weren't exactly taking responsibility for your own safety

One presumes that is why she started by saying she had made a very stupid mistake in going against her instincts.

Really no need to be so judgemental, is there?"

Yeah, because the appalling behaviour of some men is ALWAYS the woman's fault. She should have minced his nuts with her knees.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not ashamed but made a very very stupid mistake in going against my instincts. Met a guy for a social coffee after only a few chats and it went terribly wrong. As soon as walked through my door he stripped naked. If I wasn't as strong willed as I am, it could've turned into a rape.... He was pushy, forceful and didn't want to take no for an answer. His whole demeanour changed when I asked him to leave, he pinned me up against the wall and he said some shitty things. Let's just say, his naked self and his clothes ended up outside my front door with it firmly locked

I learnt a very valuable lesson that night and now choose my meets much more wisely.

At your place after a few chats! Whilst there is no excuse for rape or the behaviour exhibited, you weren't exactly taking responsibility for your own safety

"

I hate victim blaming. It speaks volumes that your post makes passing reference to his behaviour but is highly judgemental of hers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not ashamed but made a very very stupid mistake in going against my instincts. Met a guy for a social coffee after only a few chats and it went terribly wrong. As soon as walked through my door he stripped naked. If I wasn't as strong willed as I am, it could've turned into a rape.... He was pushy, forceful and didn't want to take no for an answer. His whole demeanour changed when I asked him to leave, he pinned me up against the wall and he said some shitty things. Let's just say, his naked self and his clothes ended up outside my front door with it firmly locked

I learnt a very valuable lesson that night and now choose my meets much more wisely.

At your place after a few chats! Whilst there is no excuse for rape or the behaviour exhibited, you weren't exactly taking responsibility for your own safety

"

Why do you feel the need to blame the victim here? Not necessary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never ashamed but make better choices now."

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By *hrissie1961Woman
over a year ago

dumfries and galloway

I did not make a passing comment about him...

There have been numerous posts, where the forum experts would be telling a woman, to have a phone buddy who knows where you're going, meet in a public place etcetc.....

So I hardly see it as being judgemental, unless of course, all these. Advice tips are also judgemental, in assuming every guy is a rapist and anything better is a bonus.

Add to that, that it goes against any safety tip you would get from anywhere, to invite a complete stranger to your home, never mind when it's from a sex site.

Far from being ashamed, she should be counting her lucky stars that the outcome wasn't different.

And instead of slating someone who points it out, you should be encouraging fellow site users to not use such behaviour

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

I have never been ashamed of meeting anyone i choose to met, i find anyone admitting this very shallow.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Not ashamed but made a very very stupid mistake in going against my instincts. Met a guy for a social coffee after only a few chats and it went terribly wrong. As soon as walked through my door he stripped naked. If I wasn't as strong willed as I am, it could've turned into a rape.... He was pushy, forceful and didn't want to take no for an answer. His whole demeanour changed when I asked him to leave, he pinned me up against the wall and he said some shitty things. Let's just say, his naked self and his clothes ended up outside my front door with it firmly locked

I learnt a very valuable lesson that night and now choose my meets much more wisely.

At your place after a few chats! Whilst there is no excuse for rape or the behaviour exhibited, you weren't exactly taking responsibility for your own safety

"

Where would you suggest she had met him in order to ensure he didn't behave like an arse?

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By *mma_j_cdTV/TS
over a year ago

chester

I once stopped in a car park to touch up,my make up etc and got talking to a guy. I ended up with us in a quiet country lane while I sucked i sucked him. I felt ashamed afterwards but it was so horny

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By *mma_j_cdTV/TS
over a year ago

chester


"Not ashamed but made a very very stupid mistake in going against my instincts. Met a guy for a social coffee after only a few chats and it went terribly wrong. As soon as walked through my door he stripped naked. If I wasn't as strong willed as I am, it could've turned into a rape.... He was pushy, forceful and didn't want to take no for an answer. His whole demeanour changed when I asked him to leave, he pinned me up against the wall and he said some shitty things. Let's just say, his naked self and his clothes ended up outside my front door with it firmly locked!

I learnt a very valuable lesson that night and now choose my meets much more wisely. "

There is never an excuse for not taking a no as a no, whatever the circumstances

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have never been ashamed of meeting anyone i choose to met, i find anyone admitting this very shallow.

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shallow if you didn't think they were nice people even?

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By *hrissie1961Woman
over a year ago

dumfries and galloway

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By *hrissie1961Woman
over a year ago

dumfries and galloway

"Not ashamed but made a very very stupid mistake in going against my instincts. Met a guy for a social coffee after only a few chats and it went terribly wrong. As soon as walked through my door he stripped naked. If I wasn't as strong willed as I am, it could've turned into a rape.... He was pushy, forceful and didn't want to take no for an answer. His whole demeanour changed when I asked him to leave, he pinned me up against the wall and he said some shitty things. Let's just say, his naked self and his clothes ended up outside my front door with it firmly locked

I learnt a very valuable lesson that night and now choose my meets much more wisely.

At your place after a few chats! Whilst there is no excuse for rape or the behaviour exhibited, you weren't exactly taking responsibility for your own safety

Where would you suggest she had met him in order to ensure he didn't behave like an arse?"

I would suggest that asking any stranger to come to your place was stupid. Like I said she wasn't being responsible for her own behaviour, just like he was responsible for his. He was hardly likely to strip off and pin her against the wall in a coffee shop or pub.

I'd like to add, there are as many crazy women on here as men, so wouldn't be expecting men to invite a woman who was a stranger round to their house either.

It's actually common sense. Putting your personal safety at risk to get your rocks off is irresponsible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope. I'm happy with the choices I make. "
Yes but you are a tart?? xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not ashamed but made a very very stupid mistake in going against my instincts. Met a guy for a social coffee after only a few chats and it went terribly wrong. As soon as walked through my door he stripped naked. If I wasn't as strong willed as I am, it could've turned into a rape.... He was pushy, forceful and didn't want to take no for an answer. His whole demeanour changed when I asked him to leave, he pinned me up against the wall and he said some shitty things. Let's just say, his naked self and his clothes ended up outside my front door with it firmly locked

I learnt a very valuable lesson that night and now choose my meets much more wisely.

At your place after a few chats! Whilst there is no excuse for rape or the behaviour exhibited, you weren't exactly taking responsibility for your own safety

"

Ermmmm read again. It was a VERY BIG MISTAKE on my part! I did defuse the situation, hence the bloke found himself outside naked with his clothes by his feet! Yes It's my responsability but seriously, how many guys/girls on here do you know 100% ????

Stupid ppl with stupid comments really should keep them to themselves!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not ashamed but made a very very stupid mistake in going against my instincts. Met a guy for a social coffee after only a few chats and it went terribly wrong. As soon as walked through my door he stripped naked. If I wasn't as strong willed as I am, it could've turned into a rape.... He was pushy, forceful and didn't want to take no for an answer. His whole demeanour changed when I asked him to leave, he pinned me up against the wall and he said some shitty things. Let's just say, his naked self and his clothes ended up outside my front door with it firmly locked

I learnt a very valuable lesson that night and now choose my meets much more wisely.

At your place after a few chats! Whilst there is no excuse for rape or the behaviour exhibited, you weren't exactly taking responsibility for your own safety

Ermmmm read again. It was a VERY BIG MISTAKE on my part! I did defuse the situation, hence the bloke found himself outside naked with his clothes by his feet! Yes It's my responsability but seriously, how many guys/girls on here do you know 100% ????

Stupid ppl with stupid comments really should keep them to themselves! "

I will also add, I was very new to the swinging scene and I guess I was too trusting and very foolish at the time! I have now set a plan in place with a very good friend whenever on a meet and I only ever meet in a public place for a social meet. (the above meet was a social ONLY but I guess the dude had other ideas on his mind!)

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


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"Not ashamed but made a very very stupid mistake in going against my instincts. Met a guy for a social coffee after only a few chats and it went terribly wrong. As soon as walked through my door he stripped naked. If I wasn't as strong willed as I am, it could've turned into a rape.... He was pushy, forceful and didn't want to take no for an answer. His whole demeanour changed when I asked him to leave, he pinned me up against the wall and he said some shitty things. Let's just say, his naked self and his clothes ended up outside my front door with it firmly locked

I learnt a very valuable lesson that night and now choose my meets much more wisely.

At your place after a few chats! Whilst there is no excuse for rape or the behaviour exhibited, you weren't exactly taking responsibility for your own safety

Where would you suggest she had met him in order to ensure he didn't behave like an arse?"

I would suggest that asking any stranger to come to your place was stupid. Like I said she wasn't being responsible for her own behaviour, just like he was responsible for his. He was hardly likely to strip off and pin her against the wall in a coffee shop or pub.

I'd like to add, there are as many crazy women on here as men, so wouldn't be expecting men to invite a woman who was a stranger round to their house either.

It's actually common sense. Putting your personal safety at risk to get your rocks off is irresponsible."

The point I was trying to make is that you can't know if someone will behave like this regardless of whether you meet them for coffee first or not. People can appear very normal for short periods of time. However I have since read that the lady in question invited him to her home for a social which was at best naïve I have to say, however she does know that and did say as much.

I think if I were here as a single woman I'd only ever meet in a club, safety (relative safety anyway) in numbers.

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland


"yes quite a few times, having sex with men I didn't realy like."

why would you do that.

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By *s_bettyboopWoman
over a year ago

-3

Never ashamed learning curve i say !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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"Not ashamed but made a very very stupid mistake in going against my instincts. Met a guy for a social coffee after only a few chats and it went terribly wrong. As soon as walked through my door he stripped naked. If I wasn't as strong willed as I am, it could've turned into a rape.... He was pushy, forceful and didn't want to take no for an answer. His whole demeanour changed when I asked him to leave, he pinned me up against the wall and he said some shitty things. Let's just say, his naked self and his clothes ended up outside my front door with it firmly locked

I learnt a very valuable lesson that night and now choose my meets much more wisely.

At your place after a few chats! Whilst there is no excuse for rape or the behaviour exhibited, you weren't exactly taking responsibility for your own safety

Where would you suggest she had met him in order to ensure he didn't behave like an arse?"

I would suggest that asking any stranger to come to your place was stupid. Like I said she wasn't being responsible for her own behaviour, just like he was responsible for his. He was hardly likely to strip off and pin her against the wall in a coffee shop or pub.

I'd like to add, there are as many crazy women on here as men, so wouldn't be expecting men to invite a woman who was a stranger round to their house either.

It's actually common sense. Putting your personal safety at risk to get your rocks off is irresponsible.

The point I was trying to make is that you can't know if someone will behave like this regardless of whether you meet them for coffee first or not. People can appear very normal for short periods of time. However I have since read that the lady in question invited him to her home for a social which was at best naïve I have to say, however she does know that and did say as much.

I think if I were here as a single woman I'd only ever meet in a club, safety (relative safety anyway) in numbers. "

Like I said in a previous post, I was new to the swinging scene and very naive. So I take responsibility for inviting a complete stranger into my home. Lesson learnt and very quickly I may add. Remember we were all new once!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After you have done something sexual.

Personally the only time I have is when the person i was meeting off another site turned up and was nothing like their pictures, did a runner blocked them etc.... Hate being blocked myself, so I should of treat others the same.

Apart from that i cant think of anything!"

Why be ashamed of blocking someone who attempted to deceive you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not ashamed but made a very very stupid mistake in going against my instincts. Met a guy for a social coffee after only a few chats and it went terribly wrong. As soon as walked through my door he stripped naked. If I wasn't as strong willed as I am, it could've turned into a rape.... He was pushy, forceful and didn't want to take no for an answer. His whole demeanour changed when I asked him to leave, he pinned me up against the wall and he said some shitty things. Let's just say, his naked self and his clothes ended up outside my front door with it firmly locked

I learnt a very valuable lesson that night and now choose my meets much more wisely.

At your place after a few chats! Whilst there is no excuse for rape or the behaviour exhibited, you weren't exactly taking responsibility for your own safety

"

Very harsh there Chrissie... the bloke is to blame for thinking he can just have his way...

Thank goodness you got yourself out of it jolly xxx terrible circumstance and so glad you haven't had anything like that since

Back with the OP... I had a fling a few years ago when my mind wasn't in a good place and if I'd been thinking normally it would not have happened.

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By *exycleanerWoman
over a year ago

pontefract

stop talking bollocks every guy you meet on here that you have never met is a stranger ,you could meet first ,then if he comes to your house want sex the minute he walks thru the door ,not every guy is a rapist none of us can say that but wanting sex with you as soon as they arrive is not on guys should respect you and wait for you to give the call ,how do any us know if we are safe ,men on dating site just want sex first we could get put in the same position with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yes quite a few times, having sex with men I didn't realy like.

why would you do that."

desperation.

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By *hrissie1961Woman
over a year ago

dumfries and galloway


"Not ashamed but made a very very stupid mistake in going against my instincts. Met a guy for a social coffee after only a few chats and it went terribly wrong. As soon as walked through my door he stripped naked. If I wasn't as strong willed as I am, it could've turned into a rape.... He was pushy, forceful and didn't want to take no for an answer. His whole demeanour changed when I asked him to leave, he pinned me up against the wall and he said some shitty things. Let's just say, his naked self and his clothes ended up outside my front door with it firmly locked

I learnt a very valuable lesson that night and now choose my meets much more wisely.

At your place after a few chats! Whilst there is no excuse for rape or the behaviour exhibited, you weren't exactly taking responsibility for your own safety

Ermmmm read again. It was a VERY BIG MISTAKE on my part! I did defuse the situation, hence the bloke found himself outside naked with his clothes by his feet! Yes It's my responsability but seriously, how many guys/girls on here do you know 100% ????

Stupid ppl with stupid comments really should keep them to themselves! "

Don't post in a public forum if you don't want people views

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By *hrissie1961Woman
over a year ago

dumfries and galloway


"Not ashamed but made a very very stupid mistake in going against my instincts. Met a guy for a social coffee after only a few chats and it went terribly wrong. As soon as walked through my door he stripped naked. If I wasn't as strong willed as I am, it could've turned into a rape.... He was pushy, forceful and didn't want to take no for an answer. His whole demeanour changed when I asked him to leave, he pinned me up against the wall and he said some shitty things. Let's just say, his naked self and his clothes ended up outside my front door with it firmly locked

I learnt a very valuable lesson that night and now choose my meets much more wisely.

At your place after a few chats! Whilst there is no excuse for rape or the behaviour exhibited, you weren't exactly taking responsibility for your own safety

Very harsh there Chrissie... the bloke is to blame for thinking he can just have his way...

Thank goodness you got yourself out of it jolly xxx terrible circumstance and so glad you haven't had anything like that since

Back with the OP... I had a fling a few years ago when my mind wasn't in a good place and if I'd been thinking normally it would not have happened."

It may be harsh, but it may make someone think twice about their behaviour, new or not. It could save a Serious assault or a murder.

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