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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

During sex play do you find during heightened arousal putting a condom on can kill it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me and my girl FUCKING hate the feel of them.

Fine if playing with others because after all, two to tango.

But El Naturale feels SO much better it's not even questionable.

I hear some guys cant even go off with one on. Fear I may be one of them.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

No, especially if the guy knows what he's doing it can be on in a few seconds

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"During sex play do you find during heightened arousal putting a condom on can kill it?"

Probably best you train yourself out of that, because there's nothing less sexy than having a bloke try and play bareback because 'they'll lose their erection if they have to wear a condom'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Essential wear but just I try to put them on quick, have the packet open ready whilst doing a bj and whizz it on promptly lol!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive had a cpl of ladies that have a knack of putting them in with there mouths so insread of it being an awkward unsexy moment its actually quite erotic .

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Ive had a cpl of ladies that have a knack of putting them in with there mouths so insread of it being an awkward unsexy moment its actually quite erotic .

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just going to say this, I sometimes put them on with my mouth.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Ive had a cpl of ladies that have a knack of putting them in with there mouths so insread of it being an awkward unsexy moment its actually quite erotic .

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They taste icky though

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Ive had a cpl of ladies that have a knack of putting them in with there mouths so insread of it being an awkward unsexy moment its actually quite erotic .

They taste icky though "

They do but its soon done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've struggled in the past with them but I think it was just a phase. Its easier if you make it part of the fun as mentioned.

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)


"Ive had a cpl of ladies that have a knack of putting them in with there mouths so insread of it being an awkward unsexy moment its actually quite erotic .

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I can do that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive had a cpl of ladies that have a knack of putting them in with there mouths so insread of it being an awkward unsexy moment its actually quite erotic .

They taste icky though "

I wouldnt know that !

But these ladies definatly sacrificed that to make the occasion special and keep the moment ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't understant how a guy "loses the moment" whilst spending a few seconds respecting your and his own health!

Could just be me though...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually put it on for them.. That way i know its on and i can do it much quicker then they can!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

much more fun if the fem puts them on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't feel a thing when wearing one but everyone knows the old saying "no love without a glove"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate having sex with condoms plus makes me feel sore after if condons r used but if it has to be used then I won't say no to a fuck

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

Nope! If a man used to wearing em they can be put on very quickly and no need for any big gaps in play at all! Some try make a big song n dance over it! Tells me lots that do!

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"I can't understant how a guy "loses the moment" whilst spending a few seconds respecting your and his own health!

Could just be me though..."
exactly this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A ma that knows his stuff will manage

Her

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By *ncutgemMan
over a year ago

Bath ish

Used em for years and now im more turned on putting one on Properly lubed they shouldnt be irritating and still get all the sensation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

YEs I do, for a change lets make the woman use a condom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A ma that knows his stuff will manage

Her"

Yup...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use 'Skyns'. they are latex free and pretty much tasteless. They are also very thin.

I struggled with condoms and have had, shall we say, 'issues' because of them and found little sensation & even less chance of cumming.

With Skyns (made by mates) I forget it's even there. They have revolutionised it for me.

I ensure my lovers wear them too that way I can suck their cock again once it's on without having that 'condom' taste in my mouth for weeks after!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh id rather lose momentum of the moment whilst putting a rubber on than having the conversation about how we are not fucking without one!

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Paul goes ever so slightly softer when putting one on but he's soon raring to go again. He has never cum with one on but that doesn't bother him.

We only bare with each other so if he's not cum in a meet due to the condom it doesn't matter as he has me for a receptor after

Shocks me the amount that do play bare in the swinging world, crazy with the amount of people you are potentially coming into contact with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tbh I'd rather lose momentum of the moment whilst putting a rubber on than having the conversation about how we are not fucking without one!

Her"

Agree completely. Never found it to be a problem, myself - all part of the fun - a clear indication of what's happening next...!!

So, definitely a turn ON, for me....

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

They can be fun, he likes having one put on by the woman he's about to fuck and she enjoys "rubbering up" a cock that's about to do her. We've never used them for birth control though, either together or with our exes, not intimate enough.

Yes, the sensation is less but unless you know the people concerned it's best to be safe rather than sorry.

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By *asperthedogCouple
over a year ago

midlands

think a lot of guys use it as an exuse to cover the fact that they can't get it hard.

Its like anything else in life, just practice. can put one on with one hand now, just practice.

If condoms make you sore use lube. If you're going to be fucking for more then 15 mins then you will need lube

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always wear them only my partner gets it bare it makes our lovemaking more special too.x

8 out of 10 ladies who expressed a preference said that they prefered it condom on it feels great too.xx

Love having oral without though ill say that.xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I use 'Skyns'. they are latex free and pretty much tasteless. They are also very thin.

I struggled with condoms and have had, shall we say, 'issues' because of them and found little sensation & even less chance of cumming.

With Skyns (made by mates) I forget it's even there. They have revolutionised it for me.

I ensure my lovers wear them too that way I can suck their cock again once it's on without having that 'condom' taste in my mouth for weeks after!

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totally this. Skyns are the best.

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford


"During sex play do you find during heightened arousal putting a condom on can kill it?"
. Should not kill. Partners use of hands should enhance the arousal and make easier to keep on.

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London

No way to make this better...

Nobody really likes it, you just gotta do it.

Like paying tax. It elicits the same feeling of "ugh!".

But if it's of interest, if your losing your er... interest while putting them on its because they are too tight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Safety is a must especially with everyone fucking everyone these days. I'm no saint and have done it without a few times like im sure everyone has but it's better wrapping up than catching something.

That said sex os so much better without.

Oh and you ladies who can put one on with your mouth why not come and show me how you do ot lol

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London

Yep... I find these the best too...

Not sure about "revolutionised", but as good as it gets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its time women wear condoms, have any woman tried it and how did it feel?.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They do a spring loaded bin bag for ladies..... Not great I wouldn't think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mostly prefer them as the lack of friction makes me last longer without getting a sore cock! They also allow you to come inside someone which you wouldn't do if you were bare.

Bare is also awesome but obviously reserved for when I'm in a relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They do a spring loaded bin bag for ladies..... Not great I wouldn't think "
lol your right there.

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By *ench and StripeCouple
over a year ago

Stenalees

Will always use them with other than my OH. However I do find the lack of sensation can cause me to loose the erection sometimes. Just means I have to revert to tongue and fingers.

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By *ench and StripeCouple
over a year ago

Stenalees

Will always use them with other than my OH. However I do find the lack of sensation can cause me to loose the erection sometimes. Just means I have to revert to tongue and fingers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you know what your doing and have been using them then it's generally not an issure I can put one on one handed now (after lots of practice) and Mo can put one on with her mouth.

Always giggle at the over keen over horny guys who are so excited they can't even open the packet

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