FabSwingers.com forum: Swinging pimping or profiteering ?

By *ood fella OP Man
over a year ago

London

Seems a lot of people now are charging "contributions " if you wanna meet them in a hotel or gangbang £30 each guy when you invite 30 guys and you say it's only to cover your expenses !!! Is it prostitution disguised as swinging ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my opinion yes. If I were to do it with a partner I would split the cost of hotel between all who attended,minus maybe cost of refreshments if we supplied them

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

This one is down to the people being charged. If you're happy to pay a fee for a party then go for it. Some party organisers have hired a nice property and laid on food and drinks and so would need a contribution.

However if its a BYOB and condoms in a Travelodge then a high fee is going to be a bit suss. And men being charged sometimes gives them the idea that they are guaranteed a shag, which might make for an atmosphere.

Each to their own - if you don't want to pay to attend a party, don't!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if it was 30quid then no.. And would depend if your guaranteed sex

We went to a party in an apartment and they had about 10 single guys, all paid about 60quid but they were told entry did not guarantee sex and we certainly turned a few down x

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By *ood fella OP Man
over a year ago

London

That is my point the single guys were solely invited to make money ,surely the motive for swinging is pleasure but if you do it just to make money it should be called something else

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

you always have the radical option of "not going"... after all no one is pointing a gun to your head making you do anything you dont want to....

you don't want to jump thru those hoops.... dont!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That is my point the single guys were solely invited to make money ,surely the motive for swinging is pleasure but if you do it just to make money it should be called something else "

yes of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do guys not pay more at clubs ?

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Or it could be that only 3 will turn up and the room cost £90

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By *luezuluMan
over a year ago

Suffolk

Average price for a single in clubs is between £40 - £50

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ve done a recent cross reference between this site and a well known escort site and found an awful lot of people using both .Also found a couple on here using pics of their male playing with a much younger escort girl ,not being judgemental but it was an eye opener

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its 100% prostitution i know i been there an done it min 35 max 70 how i lost my virginaty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately swinging is no different to any other walk of life where scamming is concerned.

People will always find opportunities to make money. When reading profiles you will notice references to being spoilt. Xxxx wsnts a sugar daddy to buy me nice things. Its a form of escorting and prostitution.

Id like to see this as prohibited in the site rules and anyone using these terms banned.

I notice one femsle fabber write defending this recently stating if men wsnt her to smell and dress nice they should pay. What about the zguys who dress smart and also dress nice its same for both parties. Fabs is about people with simlar interests meeting for free not people trying to make money

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Average price for a single in clubs is between £40 - £50"

Is it? Do you go to clubs then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Unfortunately swinging is no different to any other walk of life where scamming is concerned.

Id like to see this as prohibited in the site rules and anyone using these terms banned.

Pretty sure it is against site rules and could nt agree more with the rest of your post

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Average price for a single in clubs is between £40 - £50

Is it? Do you go to clubs then? "

I was going to say never been as expensive as that in any club I have been to... (as normal admission... not the one off admission and membership)

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Unfortunately swinging is no different to any other walk of life where scamming is concerned.

Id like to see this as prohibited in the site rules and anyone using these terms banned.

Pretty sure it is against site rules and could nt agree more with the rest of your post

but if people have that little respect for themselves... and think with the cocks instead of their heads... and decide to pay the money...

more fool them..... thats not just on the person advertising... thats also on the people that are prepared to pay!

like I said... no one is holding a gun to their heads making them do anything..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do guys not pay more at clubs ? "

Does that make it any different? A guy can go to a club and spend all night there socialising with lots of people,using the facilities,having the opportunity to play with a few people

A slot for a gangbang in a hotel room along with many other men can't be compared to a night at a club

Asking for stupid amounts of money to be fucked and disguising it as covering 'expenses' for a £60 travelodge or premier Inn is prostitution

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford

"Seems a lot of people now are charging "contributions " if you wanna meet them in a hotel or gangbang £30 each guy when you invite 30 guys and you say it's only to cover your expenses !!! Is it prostitution disguised as swinging ? "
. As no one is compelled to attend I don't see the issue. If you don't want to pay thirty pounds just ignore the advert . Hotel rooms can be expensive and couples inviting guys are giving them pleasure . In any event no one knows how many will turn up. If no one they are out of pocket. You can of course avoid all these charges by providing accommodation for them at your place

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford

"I ve done a recent cross reference between this site and a well known escort site and found an awful lot of people using both .Also found a couple on here using pics of their male playing with a much younger escort girl ,not being judgemental but it was an eye opener "
. If people are using both sites does it matter? You can simply ignore their request . Out of interest what technique did you use to do your cross referencing . I am assuming you could not download the profiles from both sites and do a data match, and as such any matching process would have to be manual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do guys not pay more at clubs ? "
yes possibly, but they also get many more facilities and meet more people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I just point out that couples attending are not always aware that the guys have been charged either.

we have attended a few events where it was free for us... but later found out the guys had paid quite a lot...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simply _iewed pics and we re not judging just found it interesting to find so many swingers operating as escorts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think the girls in the named profile conscious do it for the money - they have been offered porn work before and at least one of them has turned it down since if she was getting paid it would feel like work to her - or that's what I understand anyway.

What makes me laugh is how people can hold GB's at their house for 8 or so men charging them £30 each, and then say it's only a small charge so the lady can buy something nice for herself. That's on the same pay grade as cheap escorts.

If they charge £30 and rent a large hotel room with only a few men going, I can see the sense in that though.

Arranged a meet with a single woman on here and she as we where arranging it she was saying that she wanted a take away (with a bottle of wine included as a package in one of these deal things), and that I must pay for all of it - even though I was not hungry. So I go round to some ladies house, and buy her the most expensive takeaway on the menu and feed her for a good few days? - Needless to say I messaged back later with an excuse saying maybe meet another time. If she had just asked me to bring a bottle of wine to hers that would be O.K.

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By *iss-curvesWoman
over a year ago

nottingam

I am one of those girls that have done swinging and escorting but I don't involve the two in eachother it's completely different, escorting is paid and is their time, whatever they want or enjoy to do basically, where as swinging is for me, I can choose who & when and what I want to enjoy, if I meet people off fab I wouldn't dream of charging them I have done gangbangs on fab that have all been free so please don't assume that a girl who does escorting can't swing the same as everyone else, I do agree there is people on here trying to make money but don't judge everyone as we aren't all the same. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any hotel meet we do is fully paid by us, we feel it's the best way even if our guest stays for a few hrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

see that as totally acceptable

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford

"I am one of those girls that have done swinging and escorting but I don't involve the two in eachother it's completely different, escorting is paid and is their time, whatever they want or enjoy to do basically, where as swinging is for me, I can choose who & when and what I want to enjoy, if I meet people off fab I wouldn't dream of charging them I have done gangbangs on fab that have all been free so please don't assume that a girl who does escorting can't swing the same as everyone else, I do agree there is people on here trying to make money but don't judge everyone as we aren't all the same. X"
. I have done male escorting. On a simplistic basis you are providing a service and will usually need to be available at an hours notice and through the night. In addition you will need to be able to pass the attitude test and perform to the couples requirements. The fees earned will only cover your expenses . Advertising is very expensive . Quite a few clients have become regulars who I see free of charge . If advertising on fab you are doing so because you enjoy meets and clearly cannot charge. Escorts can also enjoy their work. Thre couples who I see regularly made a one off investment . Paid for their first meet and all other meets free. Some of the comments that they have about what other escorts attempted to charge them are interesting.

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By *oobbiensarCouple
over a year ago

erith

I couldn't agree more hotel meets are normally a 50/50 split or one party agrees to pay. There are NO overheads or expenses involved,simple as that.

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By *oobbiensarCouple
over a year ago

erith

"Average price for a single in clubs is between £40 - £50

Is it? Do you go to clubs then? "

Single guys do pay either the same as a couples or slightly more in clubs but we have noticed clubs charging up to £75 for single guys and they have "working girls" on hand to accommodate the single guys. This in my opinion is one step away from a brothel, and not a swingers club. As many have said the idea of swinging is fun and choices, not being party to prostitution, however you pretty it up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess it gives guys who can't get a meet a chance to get laid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I guess it gives guys who can't get a meet a chance to get laid "

It's not guaranteed sex. Women can still say no

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By *ood fella OP Man
over a year ago

London

Thanks a lot to all who participated in this topic with their _iews and opinions. I guess a few people are managing to spoil the whole swinging scene. A few years back you never heard of people holding parties in their own homes and charging anyone who wants to attend. In my _iew if you want to host it's gonna be at your expense unless you hire a venue then everyone contributes

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Agreed

Anything over and above the cost of hotel and snacks should be given straight back to those attending.

It's not like setting a meet up is that hard, or uses excessive resources. If you keep any profits, you are making sex a business. The business of sex = prostitution.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Paying to play with swingers is not swinging its business, we wouldn't ever want to be part of that.

Some people do obviously organise events at hotels and sometimes also provide refreshments the problem the have is usually guys not showing hell we have heard that guys don't show for free gang bangs. I'm guessing that's why they want such a high price, to actually guarantee covering their costs and it's a bonus if they make a profit.

Not our thing and I believe it's a wrong way to behave swinging is free love in a nutshell.

If you want to hold these events it should be at your own expense after all the couples involve want the gangbang in the first place they need the guys to facilitate that.

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By *oxycouple28Couple
over a year ago

bexley

"Average price for a single in clubs is between £40 - £50

Is it? Do you go to clubs then?

We have been to quite a few clubs and never seen a working girl, would be interested to know where you have been...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've organised gbs in the past in hotels and £5 to cover a £35 hôtel Room woth no réception is covering thé Costs xxlee

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

a penny in profit, it's not swinging......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive never paid to have sex in my life !

It seems these events are set up to help the guys on here not lucky enough to have a meet actually get laid . But it does feel slightly like prostitution to me .

I also find the extraodinary high price for a guy to get into a seingers club totally extortionate. When ive been its as a cpl usually with a lady off here. And guys those clubs aint worth it anyway ...

Put the work in on here and find a meet with a genuine person and bloody enjoy yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and 1 other point it was once pointed out to me about some cpls on here also being on AW . But like that lady says one is business and one is pleasure

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

OP are there any charges for people attending your parties?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP are there any charges for people attending your parties?"

Haha

Good question

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over a year ago

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

the way I cold heartedly bluntly look at this is this...

would you pay 30 quid to have sex with someone with for example, a card in a telephone box... or an advert in the newspaper....

nope???

then why would you pay the same 30 quid to then be part of this sort of meet... and then complain that it is some sort of business......

as others have said... you have choices... no one said "do it or die!"... no one force people into making that decision...

so is the principle you are made at... because if it is... vote with your feet and walk!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"the way I cold heartedly bluntly look at this is this...

would you pay 30 quid to have sex with someone with for example, a card in a telephone box... or an advert in the newspaper....

nope???

then why would you pay the same 30 quid to then be part of this sort of meet... and then complain that it is some sort of business......

as others have said... you have choices... no one said "do it or die!"... no one force people into making that decision...

so is the principle you are made at... because if it is... vote with your feet and walk!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Average price for a single in clubs is between £40 - £50"

eureka's is £20 friday,£30 saturday for a single male/ couple its less than most organised partys charge

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By *ood fella OP Man
over a year ago

London

Eureka is not really a swingers club. It's a naturist or at best exhibitionists club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Eureka is not really a swingers club. It's a naturist or at best exhibitionists club. "

Oh dear I have been doing it all wrong when ive been to parties there if thats the case

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By *ood fella OP Man
over a year ago

London

It can not compare with abfab radlett pleasures in kent. Main action is dancing naked. Swinging is secondary but I guess people can have different impressions about the same place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a fine line, like others have said if it's in a hotel then I'm happy to pay a fair share to cover accommodation costs.

There have been some local-ish gangbangs where it's in someone's own home and I've been informed it's £30 a head. Even if they get just a couple of guys in that more than covers any expenses incurred so it must start to verge on prostitution.

But also as others have said, you have the option to say 'no' so each to their own!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Eureka is not really a swingers club. It's a naturist or at best exhibitionists club.

Oh dear I have been doing it all wrong when ive been to parties there if thats the case"

oops same here

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

OP are your parties free and you are looking for female hosts to run it with you for free.

Swinging sites, parties, clubs all have overheads and its up to those attending if they wish to pay that price.

You can go in a cheap cafe or expensive restaurant and eat the same and pay way over the price of what the other charges...again choice.

Just avoid it if it offends you and look for free parties rather than moan about it.

The whole adult industry costs money, we pay stealth taxes to ATVOD for our sites and clubs and sex shops pay high licence fee's simply because its the sex industry.

The government are the first to charge sky high prices because sex is involved yet £30 a guy to you seems high...pay taxes for your intended parties get the right permission s and see how cheap you can run organised events.

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

I think people are missing the point. A swinger party, held and organised by swingers, is just that. A PARTY set up by someone who likes PARTIES.

Private parties do not have the overheads of a club - they dont employ people, promote the business, pay for excessive water bills (showers) or electricity bills for things like cleaning. A swingers club does! That is why they charge a set fee!

Private parties are entirely different to clubs. So unless the people organising them run it as a business, which they dont, then they are profiteering: charging for what; a few mails or meet today posts and classing it as swinging. Bollocks. They are just cashing in on the number of single guys wanting a fuck.

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By *andWCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd

"Oh and 1 other point it was once pointed out to me about some cpls on here also being on AW . But like that lady says one is business and one is pleasure"

We used to use AW back in the day, we were still swingers, back in those days it was some business some pleasure, these days it's always pleasure x

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By *omCoyoteMan
over a year ago

Northern England

"I am one of those girls that have done swinging and escorting but I don't involve the two in eachother it's completely different, escorting is paid and is their time, whatever they want or enjoy to do basically, where as swinging is for me, I can choose who & when and what I want to enjoy, if I meet people off fab I wouldn't dream of charging them I have done gangbangs on fab that have all been free so please don't assume that a girl who does escorting can't swing the same as everyone else, I do agree there is people on here trying to make money but don't judge everyone as we aren't all the same. X. I have done male escorting. On a simplistic basis you are providing a service and will usually need to be available at an hours notice and through the night. In addition you will need to be able to pass the attitude test and perform to the couples requirements. The fees earned will only cover your expenses . Advertising is very expensive . Quite a few clients have become regulars who I see free of charge . If advertising on fab you are doing so because you enjoy meets and clearly cannot charge. Escorts can also enjoy their work. Thre couples who I see regularly made a one off investment . Paid for their first meet and all other meets free. Some of the comments that they have about what other escorts attempted to charge them are interesting. "

I'm not wishing to sound judgmental Patrick (far from it), but your profile looks to me like you're blatantly touting for business. I'm surprised you've gotten away with it! I'm sure you're very good at what you do, but considering the there are literally thousands of horny single blokes on here, I'm astonished that you get any response at all!

Anyway, good luck to ya!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we are arranging a meet in a hotel we pay

We do hire a club for events with costs to hire

We ask for an entrance fee to cover those costs and we provide lunch too.

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

Will the OP charge for his parties yes or no...if its yes then he as answered his own question lol.

House parties are illegal and are classed as prostitution by councils and police even if the smallest charge is asked, if taking these chances why can't the people make it worth chancing by charging a nominal fee.

Even mortgage lenders don't allow paid swinging parties as again its classed as prostitution.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It can not compare with abfab radlett pleasures in kent. Main action is dancing naked. Swinging is secondary but I guess people can have different impressions about the same place "

I must remember my tutu so I can shake my naked tush when I go there again

abfabs/kestrals are simalar to eureka

radlett and pleasures are just party venues and like clubs have outlays to pay.

yes we are moving of the subject as its private partys and private gangbangs that men are paying 30ish when ten guys could pay a fiver and there outlay would be paid.it is all wrong and thats why I prefer to go to organised partys/clubs not private ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said...

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

Well said...

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

"Eureka is not really a swingers club. It's a naturist or at best exhibitionists club.

Oh dear I have been doing it all wrong when ive been to parties there if thats the case

oops same here

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and again here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% its classed as sex for money..no.other alternative for desperate single guys to pop their cherry in.a hole..

they have no choice but to pay assuming theyll get a few shags..

easy way out for money makers..

but one little word about charging uve had it..see forums for more

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By *carineMan
over a year ago

Armthorpe, Doncaster

I have occasionally let local Doncaster people who cannot accom use my place to meet, without charging them.

Mind you, there`s no food on offer, and they`re lucky if they get a cup of tea/coffee!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seems a lot of people now are charging "contributions " if you wanna meet them in a hotel or gangbang £30 each guy when you invite 30 guys and you say it's only to cover your expenses !!! Is it prostitution disguised as swinging ? . As no one is compelled to attend I don't see the issue. If you don't want to pay thirty pounds just ignore the advert . Hotel rooms can be expensive and couples inviting guys are giving them pleasure . In any event no one knows how many will turn up. If no one they are out of pocket. You can of course avoid all these charges by providing accommodation for them at your place "

If I wanted to get a hotel room to get fucked in, I'd pay for it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks a lot to all who participated in this topic with their _iews and opinions. I guess a few people are managing to spoil the whole swinging scene. A few years back you never heard of people holding parties in their own homes and charging anyone who wants to attend. In my _iew if you want to host it's gonna be at your expense unless you hire a venue then everyone contributes "

Fully agree with this. I have held several parties...next one Oct 18th. I have NEVER charged yet I provide condoms, soft drinks plus a few beers and couple of bottles of wine and I put on a decent buffet! I even have people staying over and I provide breakfast.

Some people offer a contribution off their own bat but I never set a fee!

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By *elkin1000Man
over a year ago

London

There's a nice invite addie for a GB in Hendon from a couple for a second gb at the home address yes please am I acceptable the response it's £60 for a single male max 10 males - £600 Er Er am I just naive or what u decide or comment xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you paid the money to go then id say you were a bit stupid rather than naive

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By *it of fun cplCouple
over a year ago

village between York and Hull

We once tried to arrange a gangbang on here, we said it would be £10 per guy, 21 guys put their names down, then someone reported us to admin saying we were trying to make money as we would get £210 for a £60 room. What the Knob head did not realise that on the day 3 turned up!! But to be fair to them they agreed to split the costs between them and we all had a great time.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

again.... who held a gun to your head making you go........

so again is the principle you object to... or the price.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We once tried to arrange a gangbang on here, we said it would be £10 per guy, 21 guys put their names down, then someone reported us to admin saying we were trying to make money as we would get £210 for a £60 room. What the Knob head did not realise that on the day 3 turned up!! But to be fair to them they agreed to split the costs between them and we all had a great time.

So what would you have done if 21 guys had turned up? Charge them £2.85 each?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bottle of wine, not compulsory, but don't being cheap shit! Bringing Nothing is better than bringing vinegar!!

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

why set an arbitrary figure, why not just say that room costs to be shared..

'knob head' was only reacting to what they saw, based on your posting..

we have had group meets and split it between us, in fact one guy had travelled a fair way so with his fuel costs we didn't count him in when we did..

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By *ovefun2Couple
over a year ago

wakefield

This is simple .... Its wrong and the site ops should ban anyone charging for sex or parties .. Swing should be for fun .. Not run as a business.. Or for profit

Its a shame the site allows it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it is my fantasy or what I want then I should be the one to cover the costs surely, if I am the one asking for the guys to turn up then should it not be free?, it would be my choice to incure those costs, I think it is wrong to charge someone if it is what you want my opinion.

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over a year ago

I would be willing to split costs for a hotel, with a single female or a couple. Have never payed for a gb. All have been paid for by the couple organising it, or at a private house.

Anybody charging for a gb, etc is, in my _iew tantamount to prostitution. I wouldn't feel this is acceptable on a swinging site and should be reported.

How people make there living is of no concern to me, but fab is a swinging site and should remain so!

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over a year ago

The difference between these kinds of events is the 'guarantee' of sex.

If the guys paying are guaranteed sex then we feel it's prostitution.

Simple....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it is my fantasy or what I want then I should be the one to cover the costs surely, if I am the one asking for the guys to turn up then should it not be free?, it would be my choice to incure those costs, I think it is wrong to charge someone if it is what you want my opinion."

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"The difference between these kinds of events is the 'guarantee' of sex.

If the guys paying are guaranteed sex then we feel it's prostitution.

Simple...."

which is why I asked a lot of the guys is it the principle they are objecting to... or is it the cost?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So ... what about paying income tax on these earnings then? 10 men, £60 each, once a week ... Over £30k a year ...

.... And with THAT time bomb I'm off ha ha!! (the whole income tax debate can usually go nuclear on escort forums apparently

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

"The difference between these kinds of events is the 'guarantee' of sex.

If the guys paying are guaranteed sex then we feel it's prostitution.

Simple...."

Admin think the same....so for anyone who you thinking is charging for guaranteed sex, please report and let Admin check it out.

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford

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. I often wonder what motivates people to report items such as this to admin. All you were doing was covering you costs .Glad the three who attended covered your losses.

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford

"There's a nice invite addie for a GB in Hendon from a couple for a second gb at the home address yes please am I acceptable the response it's £60 for a single male max 10 males - £600 Er Er am I just naive or what u decide or comment xx"
.Your calculations do depend on how many turn up. In any event no one is compelled to attend any of these events.

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I have no truck with mixing sex and money.

As has been, there's no obligation on anyone to attend pay to play events and I encourage everyone to give them a wide berth.

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

"The difference between these kinds of events is the 'guarantee' of sex.

If the guys paying are guaranteed sex then we feel it's prostitution.

Simple....

Admin think the same....so for anyone who you thinking is charging for guaranteed sex, please report and let Admin check it out.

Do we report for expensive house parties too...

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

. I often wonder what motivates people to report items such as this to admin. All you were doing was covering you costs .Glad the three who attended covered your losses. "

In the case of this thread the OP obviously wanted to knobble any other parties & advertise his own.

If he felt threatened or upset by costs he should contact admin not try for cheap advertising...pot kettle black springs to mind & I'm sure admin would agree.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"The difference between these kinds of events is the 'guarantee' of sex.

If the guys paying are guaranteed sex then we feel it's prostitution.

Simple....

Admin think the same....so for anyone who you thinking is charging for guaranteed sex, please report and let Admin check it out.

Do we report for expensive house parties too..."

Anything you think is excessive I would yes.

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