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degrees of being naughty/slutty

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Last night I walked in to this bar Feel aÀnd some beautiful Russian girl maybe in her 20s grabs me and pulls me on to empty dance floor.

With out saying a word she looks deep in my eyes and gives me a look as if she wants a hard shag.

My mind is going wild thinking is this for real.

We start making out, feeling her breasts, slightly teasing her clit through here silky dress. I have my hand up her dress for sure giving a view of her ass.

Then she walks to bar and comes back. Still no words exchanged, not even a hello. She starts kissing me again and then she passes me ouzo while kissing.

Now this shocks me. First of all cause I hate ouzo and secondly I started of thinking of these snow ball threads on here. And instantly came back to earth. Turned off.

Now some of you are probably saying what an idiot for leaving that on platter. I thought I would have some remorse or regret this morning, but quite opposite.

This got me thinking at a club and there was a lady begging for cock. From any guy she get near her. Another turn off...

The question is there certain degrees of being a slut... and have you ever been in a situation where It was too naughty slutty and was turned off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she did not say a word how do you know she was Russian?

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Was dreaming of eating a giant marshmallow last night. Found on waking up that the pillow was gone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was a fresher in uni a long time ago I welcomed 'sluts' that threw themselves at anything it was new and one night stands were a novelty, now I can't be bothered by them, they are a massive turn off!!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I think we might see a few revealing comments on this thread.

Perhaps a few of the gents could say how they think a woman"should" behave sexually and why a woman who expresses her sexual desire very obviously is worthy of being described as slutty or naughty.

If someone's behaviour puts you off that's fine but I find this post slightly ironic from somebody who previously posted many times asking how he could pick up signals from couples indicating that they wanted him to join them. What's it to be? Subtle or obvious? You can't have both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think we might see a few revealing comments on this thread.

Perhaps a few of the gents could say how they think a woman"should" behave sexually and why a woman who expresses her sexual desire very obviously is worthy of being described as slutty or naughty.

If someone's behaviour puts you off that's fine but I find this post slightly ironic from somebody who previously posted many times asking how he could pick up signals from couples indicating that they wanted him to join them. What's it to be? Subtle or obvious? You can't have both."

Op forgot to tell is a few things before we can have a discussion

1. what type of club this was?

2. How old the girl was?

4. Was he alone?

5. Was she alone?

6. Was she sober?

Then we can all judge together whether the OP was the'slut' or the girl was the 'slut'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok, just to throw another aspect of this scenario, it could be possible that this is part of a fantasy for the girl in question and her partner, he may want her to play with a total stranger without saying a word?

I don't think you can suggest someone is to slutty? Surely any sexual behaviour is just that, an expression of desire, should any be criticised just because you don't find favour?

Well, just my opinion, perhaps I'm reading too much into it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think we might see a few revealing comments on this thread.

Perhaps a few of the gents could say how they think a woman"should" behave sexually and why a woman who expresses her sexual desire very obviously is worthy of being described as slutty or naughty.

If someone's behaviour puts you off that's fine but I find this post slightly ironic from somebody who previously posted many times asking how he could pick up signals from couples indicating that they wanted him to join them. What's it to be? Subtle or obvious? You can't have both.

Op forgot to tell is a few things before we can have a discussion

1. what type of club this was?

2. How old the girl was?

4. Was he alone?

5. Was she alone?

6. Was she sober?

Then we can all judge together whether the OP was the'slut' or the girl was the 'slut'

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Implying he is 41 and was sober

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

I understand from a friend who lived in Greece that young ladies are often employed in a hostess capacity to entice gentlemen to stay in the bars. Sounds like this could be one of those situations.

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

Some dont have slut oozing outta every pore! Some can be subtle too and all depends how you choose to read signals and basically learning to read em with regards to your own likes n dislikes as well...,deff works tho! Nothing written in stone! ps only one man will ever get away with calling me a slut!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I really didn't want to use the word slut, because who am I to judge. But couldn't think of a word as harsh to Express a limit of naughtiness.

This was about 1 am in a vanilla club I was buzzing... she had to be d*unk to kiss me lol.

But in honestly I thought of it when she kissed me if she was d*unk. I would never take advantage of a d*unk lady.

She was buzzing I would say to the point I was.

I found out later sitting at the bar. That she was there with her brother and we're looking for drugs.

I think the point of my thread was miss understood. It was supposed to be, have you ever been turned off by someone who sort of scared you off by going well beyond your limits!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not here I know the owners.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The misogynistic way slut has been used by the OP and a couple of others speaks volumes on how they appear to view sexually liberated women

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I think we might see a few revealing comments on this thread.

Perhaps a few of the gents could say how they think a woman"should" behave sexually and why a woman who expresses her sexual desire very obviously is worthy of being described as slutty or naughty.

If someone's behaviour puts you off that's fine but I find this post slightly ironic from somebody who previously posted many times asking how he could pick up signals from couples indicating that they wanted him to join them. What's it to be? Subtle or obvious? You can't have both."

Well put!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I really didn't want to use the word slut, because who am I to judge. But couldn't think of a word as harsh to Express a limit of naughtiness.

This was about 1 am in a vanilla club I was buzzing... she had to be d*unk to kiss me lol.

But in honestly I thought of it when she kissed me if she was d*unk. I would never take advantage of a d*unk lady.

She was buzzing I would say to the point I was.

I found out later sitting at the bar. That she was there with her brother and we're looking for drugs.

I think the point of my thread was miss understood. It was supposed to be, have you ever been turned off by someone who sort of scared you off by going well beyond your limits!

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If I was in a club and a man was behaving that way it would scare me yes, but I wouldn't go near him for it to go any further in the first place.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Also if a man grabbed me and dragged me on to the dance floor I wouldn't be enjoying any part of it, I'd probably scream blue murder.

I think this highlights some of the double standards that exist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think we might see a few revealing comments on this thread.

Perhaps a few of the gents could say how they think a woman"should" behave sexually and why a woman who expresses her sexual desire very obviously is worthy of being described as slutty or naughty.

If someone's behaviour puts you off that's fine but I find this post slightly ironic from somebody who previously posted many times asking how he could pick up signals from couples indicating that they wanted him to join them. What's it to be? Subtle or obvious? You can't have both."

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By *aisy2012Couple
over a year ago

everywhere

Slutty is fabulous. Can't ever fault a woman in tune with herself & prepared to ignore double standards & go for what she wants.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no problem with slutty behaviour. My fb and several close women friends tell me Im a total slut. Badge of honour!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to say I love slutty girls, turns me on LOADS!

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