FabSwingers.com forum: Too complicated.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Swinging is too complicated I get messages from men and cant think of what to say half the time so unless they are very keen and say a lot then im not really that interested.

I have been on here a long time had some good meets, some not good.

what put me off is someone not turning up when they had been texting me on the day to say they were coming and blocking me too, after they had been on my friends list for years.

I may be wrong but I think if the man wants to see you he will keep messaging you and will have read your profile.

you can tell if someone is that interested or not.

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By *otpair255Couple
over a year ago

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"Swinging is too complicated I get messages from men and cant think of what to say half the time so unless they are very keen and say a lot then im not really that interested.

I have been on here a long time had some good meets, some not good.

what put me off is someone not turning up when they had been texting me on the day to say they were coming and blocking me too, after they had been on my friends list for years.

I may be wrong but I think if the man wants to see you he will keep messaging you and will have read your profile.

you can tell if someone is that interested or not."

Some are dreamers only, best way is to move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not just say what you think, in a reply?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why not just say what you think, in a reply?"

thanks I will give it a try.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its their loss not turning up,move on dont give them a second chance xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Its their loss not turning up,move on dont give them a second chance xx

thanks, I shouldn't dwell on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its their loss not turning up,move on dont give them a second chance xx

thanks, I shouldn't dwell on it."
your wellcome xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Swinging is too complicated I get messages from men and cant think of what to say half the time so unless they are very keen and say a lot then im not really that interested.

I have been on here a long time had some good meets, some not good.

what put me off is someone not turning up when they had been texting me on the day to say they were coming and blocking me too, after they had been on my friends list for years.

I may be wrong but I think if the man wants to see you he will keep messaging you and will have read your profile.

you can tell if someone is that interested or not."

Maybe you have irritated him and he just wanted to teach you a lesson its not beyond a possibility.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why not just say what you think, in a reply?

thanks I will give it a try."

Though as the Chinese say, wise man says nothing. But I'm neither Chinese nor wise!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Swinging is too complicated I get messages from men and cant think of what to say half the time so unless they are very keen and say a lot then im not really that interested.

I have been on here a long time had some good meets, some not good.

what put me off is someone not turning up when they had been texting me on the day to say they were coming and blocking me too, after they had been on my friends list for years.

I may be wrong but I think if the man wants to see you he will keep messaging you and will have read your profile.

you can tell if someone is that interested or not.

Maybe you have irritated him and he just wanted to teach you a lesson its not beyond a possibility. "

I was thinking maybe I had irritated someone he knew on here maybe, but not him because we hadn't been chatting for that long. you know if you block someone or change your mind about meeting them. he was texting me non stop at 9am and I was trying to get ready, so I sent short answers.

when he said what time train he would be catching my hubby said, oh but there isn't a train at that time, but I didn't think too much about it as was worried about getting ready on time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Swinging is too complicated I get messages from men and cant think of what to say half the time so unless they are very keen and say a lot then im not really that interested.."

Why would you want to meet someone who's messages are so uninspiring that you don't know what to say when replying?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The same goes for women, not just men lol.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"Swinging is too complicated I get messages from men and cant think of what to say half the time so unless they are very keen and say a lot then im not really that interested.

I have been on here a long time had some good meets, some not good.

what put me off is someone not turning up when they had been texting me on the day to say they were coming and blocking me too, after they had been on my friends list for years.

I may be wrong but I think if the man wants to see you he will keep messaging you and will have read your profile.

you can tell if someone is that interested or not."

maybe time for a short break, you sound a little jaded with it..?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Swinging is too complicated I get messages from men and cant think of what to say half the time so unless they are very keen and say a lot then im not really that interested..

Why would you want to meet someone who's messages are so uninspiring that you don't know what to say when replying?

Good answere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when he said what time train he would be catching my hubby said, oh but there isn't a train at that time, but I didn't think too much about it as was worried about getting ready on time."

So did you go down the station anyway + was a no show?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

when he said what time train he would be catching my hubby said, oh but there isn't a train at that time, but I didn't think too much about it as was worried about getting ready on time.

So did you go down the station anyway + was a no show?"

No, he was coming to my house.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well at least you saved a few biscuits!

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By *omCoyoteMan
over a year ago

Northern England

when he said what time train he would be catching my hubby said, oh but there isn't a train at that time, but I didn't think too much about it as was worried about getting ready on time.

So did you go down the station anyway + was a no show?

No, he was coming to my house."

Had you met the guy socially on neutral ground, prior to this Hilda?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Swinging is too complicated I get messages from men and cant think of what to say half the time so unless they are very keen and say a lot then im not really that interested.

I have been on here a long time had some good meets, some not good.

what put me off is someone not turning up when they had been texting me on the day to say they were coming and blocking me too, after they had been on my friends list for years.

I may be wrong but I think if the man wants to see you he will keep messaging you and will have read your profile.

you can tell if someone is that interested or not."

only an opinion but I prefer the messages to be a 2 way thing with flirting and banter. I feel if I have to iinitiate everything all the time its a fine line towards hassling if that makes sense. Neil

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Swinging is too complicated I get messages from men and cant think of what to say half the time so unless they are very keen and say a lot then im not really that interested.

I have been on here a long time had some good meets, some not good.

what put me off is someone not turning up when they had been texting me on the day to say they were coming and blocking me too, after they had been on my friends list for years.

I may be wrong but I think if the man wants to see you he will keep messaging you and will have read your profile.

you can tell if someone is that interested or not."

This happens to some people that have travelled and booked a hotel. While it's annoying it could be much worse.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

when he said what time train he would be catching my hubby said, oh but there isn't a train at that time, but I didn't think too much about it as was worried about getting ready on time.

So did you go down the station anyway + was a no show?

No, he was coming to my house.

Had you met the guy socially on neutral ground, prior to this Hilda?"

No I only meet men at my house, not such a good idea I know but I have got my son and hubby so havnt got that much spare time.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Swinging is too complicated I get messages from men and cant think of what to say half the time "

Why would you want to continue communication with men that don't inspire you?!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Swinging is too complicated I get messages from men and cant think of what to say half the time

Why would you want to continue communication with men that don't inspire you?!!

I don't though, just that sometimes I don't have much choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Swinging is too complicated I get messages from men and cant think of what to say half the time

Why would you want to continue communication with men that don't inspire you?!!

I don't though, just that sometimes I don't have much choice."

Of course you have a choice?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are we allowed to be honest?

Having read your profile - can't help but think, if a guy put up such a profile he would get dogs abuse.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Are we allowed to be honest?

Having read your profile - can't help but think, if a guy put up such a profile he would get dogs abuse.

well I don't like yours much either, only im not an arse licker or that desperate, just a bit desperate

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Are we allowed to be honest?

Having read your profile - can't help but think, if a guy put up such a profile he would get dogs abuse.

The OP wasn't asking for profile advice.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

just checked my profile again and its ok.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Are we allowed to be honest?

Having read your profile - can't help but think, if a guy put up such a profile he would get dogs abuse.

Im like you, in no hurry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know why you expect the man to keep messaging you once a meet had been agreed, maybe the odd message to just confirm time and date?

We all get uninspiring messages from time to time, just delete or ignore or tell them your not interested!

You say that your a bit desperate, maybe take the initiative and send messages to those that interest you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hilda it happens to lots of people but the secret is for it not to get to you and move onwards and upwards.

Saying that your not short of suitors. You and your husband have a lovely arrangement which suits both of you.

If I lived your way I would be visiting you on a very regular basis. I'm a great oral sex lover too. Tc xxx Jim

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The OP wasn't asking for profile advice."

What came first - the chicken or the egg?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The OP wasn't asking for profile advice.

What came first - the chicken or the egg?"

Unless it's relevent to the thread it's against forum rules to critique a profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Unless it's relevent to the thread it's against forum rules to critique a profile

The profile is very much relevant to this thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes you can tell if they are " just keeping you sweet"

Her

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