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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Never wanted to open this thread but really fed up now .We ve posted a meet this week looking to meet another couple for outdoor fun and yet we ve been inundated with messages from single guys .We ve updated our profile and deleted and blocked most messages and still suffered abuse ,do single guys not realise they are killing any chance they may have of a future meet with this behaviour .We say this as a couple who do meet single guys when the mood takes us but if you re blocked by us you won't ever get the chance .we don't wish to filter out single guys we just want respect for our wishes our fem is not a slut she's a swinger who wishes to live out her fantasies so guys how about some respect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it infuriating how guys out there can't simply read a profile, understand requirements and move on. It's what I do.

I'm certain I couldn't persuade anyone to change their criteria and wouldn't even dare try.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it infuriating how guys out there can't simply read a profile, understand requirements and move on. It's what I do.

I'm certain I couldn't persuade anyone to change their criteria and wouldn't even dare try."
totally agree move on is def the right advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it infuriating how guys out there can't simply read a profile, understand requirements and move on. It's what I do.

I'm certain I couldn't persuade anyone to change their criteria and wouldn't even dare try.totally agree move on is def the right advice "

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

The simplest way to avoid any hassle or unwanted mail is to apply the single male block and remove it only when the mood takes you. That or message single men yourself....

There will always be people (men, women and couples) that won't read your profile and will try their luck. Filtering helps reduces the amount.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Our veris prove that we sometimes post a meet for single guys and have some really good single male friends .this thread is borne out of exasperation and genuine swingers obviously understand this xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with you we aren't all sluts on here but some men on here think we are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I totally agree with the op on this post,even if im chatting to couples or single females,and for any reason they stop responding,i dont and will not pester them i just move on and if they do want to come back and chat,so be it,respect people wishes thats what i say

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The simplest way to avoid any hassle or unwanted mail is to apply the single male block and remove it only when the mood takes you. That or message single men yourself....

There will always be people (men, women and couples) that won't read your profile and will try their luck. Filtering helps reduces the amount.

Would this block our existing male friends because we chat most days with some of these ?

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single guys have a tendency to ignore any and all instructions unfortunately.

Never understood why. If its on the profile, leave it..

Of course you CAN block them, but if you want to talk to a single guy about something unrelated, you cut them off too..

Not great!

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"The simplest way to avoid any hassle or unwanted mail is to apply the single male block and remove it only when the mood takes you. That or message single men yourself....

There will always be people (men, women and couples) that won't read your profile and will try their luck. Filtering helps reduces the amount.

Would this block our existing male friends because we chat most days with some of these ?

"

No it doesn't block any men who are on your friends list or those who you have exchanged messages with before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The simplest way to avoid any hassle or unwanted mail is to apply the single male block and remove it only when the mood takes you. That or message single men yourself....

There will always be people (men, women and couples) that won't read your profile and will try their luck. Filtering helps reduces the amount.

"

seems the simplest and obvious solution to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our veris prove that we sometimes post a meet for single guys and have some really good single male friends .this thread is borne out of exasperation and genuine swingers obviously understand this xx"

Genuine swingers? Sorry I'm missing the relevance of that comment

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Our veris prove that we sometimes post a meet for single guys and have some really good single male friends .this thread is borne out of exasperation and genuine swingers obviously understand this xx

Genuine swingers? Sorry I'm missing the relevance of that comment"

Explain your question and I ll answer you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our veris prove that we sometimes post a meet for single guys and have some really good single male friends .this thread is borne out of exasperation and genuine swingers obviously understand this xx

Genuine swingers? Sorry I'm missing the relevance of that comment

Explain your question and I ll answer you "

I fail to see what it is that genuine swingers obviously understand? More of an observation than a question, why doessomeone being 'genuine' understand more than someone that doesn't?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why don't u use the sites options and block single men, this could been solved a lot easier lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The simplest way to avoid any hassle or unwanted mail is to apply the single male block and remove it only when the mood takes you. That or message single men yourself....

There will always be people (men, women and couples) that won't read your profile and will try their luck. Filtering helps reduces the amount.

Would this block our existing male friends because we chat most days with some of these ?

No it doesn't block any men who are on your friends list or those who you have exchanged messages with before."

Thank you we ve tried it and you are correct xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Our veris prove that we sometimes post a meet for single guys and have some really good single male friends .this thread is borne out of exasperation and genuine swingers obviously understand this xx

Genuine swingers? Sorry I'm missing the relevance of that comment

Explain your question and I ll answer you

I fail to see what it is that genuine swingers obviously understand? More of an observation than a question, why doessomeone being 'genuine' understand more than someone that doesn't?"

The pattern that develops is it is mostly men with questionable verifications that ignore profiles or meet requests we don't have the time to do an in depth study but this seems to be the case .Its our opinion that some single men on here believe that by us being here and having veris that show we have played with single guys means that our fem is easy in some way which she is nt .hope this explains our opinion of genuine

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why don't u use the sites options and block single men, this could been solved a lot easier lol."

Think we explained that earlier however thank you we have learned something today which will help .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fully agree...and if you are polite..they usually come back with the usual slg,slut etc...we dont even reply to singles ..and do block them..leaves a downer on the whole swinging scene....xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as a single male i`d just like to say

somebody call a waaaambulance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only way to get some single men to read anything on a profile is to put it in one of your pics!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only way to get some single men to read anything on a profile is to put it in one of your pics!"

your a genius

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We very much want to point out this is no attack on single men as a whole but my wife ain't no free prostitute we have feelings and desires too we are swingers and love to meet other swingers x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only way to get some single men to read anything on a profile is to put it in one of your pics!

your a genius "
lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our veris prove that we sometimes post a meet for single guys and have some really good single male friends .this thread is borne out of exasperation and genuine swingers obviously understand this xx

Genuine swingers? Sorry I'm missing the relevance of that comment

Explain your question and I ll answer you

I fail to see what it is that genuine swingers obviously understand? More of an observation than a question, why doessomeone being 'genuine' understand more than someone that doesn't?

The pattern that develops is it is mostly men with questionable verifications that ignore profiles or meet requests we don't have the time to do an in depth study but this seems to be the case .Its our opinion that some single men on here believe that by us being here and having veris that show we have played with single guys means that our fem is easy in some way which she is nt .hope this explains our opinion of genuine "

That sounds more like respect and good manners rather than being genuine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our profile states no single men but was getting lots of mail from them, all asking to fuck the wife like she isn't getting none,(we are a couple ffs) we ended up blocking them all, no biggie to us as its not wot we want any way, some just have no respect

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By *luezuluMan
over a year ago

Suffolk

Whey hey

Just checked to see if I'm blocked.

Nope I can still see you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fully agree...and if you are polite..they usually come back with the usual slg,slut etc...we dont even reply to singles ..and do block them..leaves a downer on the whole swinging scene....xxx"

We have been criticized for our profile being too confrontational.

Unfortunately our experience has shown that politely outlining our preferences made no difference whatsoever.

Now we invariably block single guys who ignore the profile.

We could of course simply block contact from all single guys but refuse to penalise all for the misdeeds of the minority (a sizeable minority).

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By *ptimusDMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

As many have already said, block single guys and you won't get anymore emails. It's as simple as that.

Use the tools available on the site to set your profile up as close to what you'd like as possible, anything else that comes after that, you'd just have to learn how to get over it.

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By *ark NoirMan
over a year ago

London

Yet another single guy bashing thread from a couple, it's becoming boring like the single guys moaning because they cant get meets.

It's simple OP, block single guys and when you're in the mood unblock them or search for single guys yourselves. Job done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a single (straight) male. If any ladies are interested?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have not been on this site that long but from my point of view there are to many single men that reak of desparation and they seem to jump on anything to try and feed there seedy ways.way to many men its a sausage fest and they will try anything to blow there load.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have not been on this site that long but from my point of view there are to many single men that reak of desparation and they seem to jump on anything to try and feed there seedy ways.way to many men its a sausage fest and they will try anything to blow there load."

lol ur very perceptive

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By *artakissMan
over a year ago

morpeth

i agree there can be some sex pests on here it kills it for genuine users

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i agree there can be some sex pests on here it kills it for genuine users"

And there's that word genuine again

Are you sure there re 'sex pests' on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fully agree...and if you are polite..they usually come back with the usual slg,slut etc...we dont even reply to singles ..and do block them..leaves a downer on the whole swinging scene....xxx"

While ion no way condoning abusive messages, lets be realistic here @a downer on the whole swinging scene' is undeniably a touch melodramatic

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