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Percentage of meets that actually happen

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

After another let down on fab by a women whos attitude frankly stunk.does anyone know what the percent of meets that actually happen and go through. 10 percent? Higher or lower?

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

100% of my meets happen. I'm sure quite a few have my type of stats too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been let down as yet

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

I would say at least 90% of mine have, apart from a couple of last minute unavoidable cancellations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have been on here a long time and only had about 6 meets but never had a problem with cancelling or not meeting. If the percentage is that low that's really sad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only one person has cancelled on me. I've had no other issues other than that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a couple I think we've two couples reschedule but both neither no-showed. One are a local couple who we've met a few times but their work commitments mean cancellations are always a risk and the others were friends from around 100 miles away who cancelled a club meet because they had been ill and not up to travelling.

If I was saying 'another no show' as if it was the norm then I'd look at what Io was doing wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also why on earth meet a woman who's attitude stinks?

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

100% for us so far, although not had loads of meets.

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish

100% of my meets have taken place

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I would say 70% of mine but then that's due to me having to cancel too, it's not always the guys fault

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Around 95% of our meets have gone ahead as planned....

We have had the odd cancellation which is be expected. Most of them have then rescheduled at a later date.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That some high figures iv had to cancel in two weeks. Very difficult on here. Didn't know her attitude was that bad until we had a disagreement

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Forgot to add that we have also had to cancel/change a couple of meets ourselves in the past.

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By *sThunderThighsWoman
over a year ago

Toy Land


"I would say 70% of mine but then that's due to me having to cancel too, it's not always the guys fault "

Same here , real life has to come first ! That's why I don't book to far ahead! Catching me at the Right time right place works best for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That some high figures iv had to cancel in two weeks."

You really need to look at your part in this. You are the constant factor in these meets not happening


"Didn't know her attitude was that bad until we had a disagreement "

So had you actually agreed to meet? And it got cancleed because of the disagreement - or were you making the mistake of assuming that just because someone is chatting that a meet was guaranteed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After another let down on fab by a women whos attitude frankly stunk.does anyone know what the percent of meets that actually happen and go through. 10 percent? Higher or lower? "

do you think she has bad sttitude as she didnt meet or because she didnt let you know. Maybe she told you the truth you werent her type after all thats not bad attitude thats honesty.

Provide some detail around her attitude

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No it was all agreed was meeting next Friday booked a hotel and paid for it, I said something jokingly she flipped. Told her, her attitude stinks and she did the usually blocked me etc. been speaking every day. Bit of a pothead, slightly paranoid about stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No it was all agreed was meeting next Friday booked a hotel and paid for it, I said something jokingly she flipped. Told her, her attitude stinks and she did the usually blocked me etc. been speaking every day. Bit of a pothead, slightly paranoid about stuff "

So you upset/offended her (albeit unintentionally) and then rather than apoloogise you told her that her attitude stinks. And you are honestly wondering why this meeet never happened?

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"No it was all agreed was meeting next Friday booked a hotel and paid for it, I said something jokingly she flipped. Told her, her attitude stinks and she did the usually blocked me etc. been speaking every day. Bit of a pothead, slightly paranoid about stuff

So you upset/offended her (albeit unintentionally) and then rather than apoloogise you told her that her attitude stinks. And you are honestly wondering why this meeet never happened?"

Was once told, that the meaning of the communication is the response you get.

Might have meant something to you and meant something completely different to her - illogical semantics.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"After another let down on fab by a women whos attitude frankly stunk.does anyone know what the percent of meets that actually happen and go through. 10 percent? Higher or lower? "

Maybe you can answer your own question. You have a number of verified meets so what percentage of your arranged meets does that represent?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive had a few cancelation's most of which have been rearranged, one no show and one guy who left the site the day before we was meeting

Still pretty high though about 99% of arranged meets happen though I don't arrange many

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% for me, but sadly 100% of zero

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All my meets happen. Never had a no show that I can remember.

Many times had meets cancelled but things come up, I don't see that as an issue at all. I think it depends on how you look at it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No it was all agreed was meeting next Friday booked a hotel and paid for it, I said something jokingly she flipped. Told her, her attitude stinks and she did the usually blocked me etc. been speaking every day. Bit of a pothead, slightly paranoid about stuff "

Depends on exactly what happened. But if someone said my attitude stinks I wouldn't meet them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No it was all agreed was meeting next Friday booked a hotel and paid for it, I said something jokingly she flipped. Told her, her attitude stinks and she did the usually blocked me etc. been speaking every day. Bit of a pothead, slightly paranoid about stuff "

Charming

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By *ala.malaMan
over a year ago

poole

had 1 social meet cancel by other party.

All real meets on here and off site have gone ahead as planned.

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By *eKoopleCouple
over a year ago

Germany / Manchester

We've experienced being contacted by couples, a little too and from pleasant messaging but when it gets to organising a meet, silence. Though we shan't complain as we go to clubs and use other sites it seems to happen quite regular here. -Mr.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us 95% of meets initially arranged have happened its all about communication after all to gain mutual attraction and respect.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

For me, I'd say 95% of meets go ahead, 4% are changed/cancelled by either party for good reason and 1% no shows or cancellations by other party for dodgy reasons

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

100% of our meets happen. Never had a no show .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Around 95% of our meets have gone ahead as planned....

We have had the odd cancellation which is be expected. Most of them have then rescheduled at a later date.

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Thats about the same for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No it was all agreed was meeting next Friday booked a hotel and paid for it, I said something jokingly she flipped. Told her, her attitude stinks and she did the usually blocked me etc. been speaking every day. Bit of a pothead, slightly paranoid about stuff

Charming "

As a woman, if you haven't met before then the decision to meet a complete stranger in a hotel is not one taken lightly by most women as safety is a major factor. If you said something that made her uneasy or upset her in some way then maybe apologise and explain it was taken the wrong way rather than tell her that her attitude stinks?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple of cancellations due to reasons beyond people's control, one frankly dodgy excuse from a couple and one no show when we set aside our usual checks...we're happy with our statistics...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One no-show out of about 20 so I suppose 95% ain't bad!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a few no shows in clubs wherecthey have bottled it. No sweat tho still had fun

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

I've had cancellations but they have been legitimate and ended up in meets later on.

I've had a few vague 'see you at the club' type things where the lady hasn't turned up - but that's hardly an issue as a firm meet wasn't agreed.

So, really, I'd say none.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"After another let down on fab by a women whos attitude frankly stunk.does anyone know what the percent of meets that actually happen and go through. 10 percent? Higher or lower? "

mine is close to 100%.... because I do all my due diligence before I get to the stage of meeting...

I think and do all of that with my head... rather than letting my cock rule my head...

So i don't meet people until I have done everything on my check list....

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"After another let down on fab by a women whos attitude frankly stunk.does anyone know what the percent of meets that actually happen and go through. 10 percent? Higher or lower?

mine is close to 100%.... because I do all my due diligence before I get to the stage of meeting...

I think and do all of that with my head... rather than letting my cock rule my head...

So i don't meet people until I have done everything on my check list...."

I was wondering if the legend that is Fabio was still on here. Nice to see you again my good sir

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