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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

... a guy was looking for someone to meet whether that be a couple or a single female for more than just your typical sexual meet i.e. meeting and doing social activities and generally having a bit of fun and if at the end of the 'date' you both fancy a roll in the sack then it would result in that. I know it would be swinging doing this on your first meet but what I mean having a sort of fuck buddy that would be more than a fuck buddy but less than a girlfriend.

This is something I want, I am just wandering as to whether there are anyone else out there who also want this.

I probably will get it in the neck now as now I have read it through it does sound like I am just saying I want a girlfriend without the commitment haha! xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Yes there are people who want this and it doesn't matter what you call it, if you're all totally honest about it and enjoy it where's the harm?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well I hope I find someone who is looking for something similar to what I am looking for x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A friend with benefits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's a date to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most people see swinging as including the social side.....my best friend I met through this site and clubs and parties. She is now off the site...we are more than just friends. Spent 6 of the last 8 weekends away with her in her caravan.

But I will be at Xtasia with someone else on Saturday and holding a naughty party here on Oct 18th without her as she no longer lives the lifestyle as such.

Other weekends I will be with her.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Sounds like a pretty good arrangement to me, whatever you call it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want one

Gimme!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can honestly say these types of relationships exsist...

Met an amazing couples on here where we are good friends, we go out andcplay as mmf....but also the hot wife and myself enjoy nights or weekends away with hubbys full permission.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Relationship-lite.

If it wirks for then great, good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Understand exactly what you are saying, and as everyone has different views on what defines swinging, some will say it is some it isn't ,

At the end of the day who cares if it works for you and the lady/couple then that's what its all about.

Personally I have been on sites for about 7yrs and had allsorts of meets,

Now I have been lucky enough to meet a very special couple and the lady and myself meet regularly with the hubbies full knowledge and consent, we also meet socially all together, I recently attended there wedding, and spent the day with them at the weekend just socially.

The lady and I only meet each other ,nobody else is involved, we are all happy with this arrangement,

Some might say that's not swinging but tbh we are all happy so who care's

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By *upcake68Woman
over a year ago

Ely

Yes there are relationships like that is the answer!

My FWB & I have just this type of relationship, I am happily married, he is single & only meets myself. We have an amazing friendship, going out for meals etc with the added bonus of also having the intimate side with full consent & knowledge of my hubby!

It works for both of us far better than we ever expected, finding the right person is key! We have what we both want/need without the commitment that a full relationship brings/needs.

Good luck in your search

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the replies everyone

Feel a bit more confident of finding what I want now. The idea of a woman having a hubby and a boyfriend is rather hot too.... anyone interested? haha xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a bloody good question

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