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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

were doing something wrong, out of our last 4 meets we've had 2 absolute crackers and 2 wonky ones one of the bad ones the males face pic was about 20 years old so we declined and left and the other we turned up they were wasted on dope and booze and she starting crying and getting angry at her fella so again we left, our process hasn't changed that much or have we just had a little unlucky streak ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you can swing for a very long time and once in a while just have a blip. Its happened to me met a couple similar age and preference, heavily verified, spoke on the phone and local. I arrived and they both got really d*unk overstepped pre-planned boundaries and when she was being sick I legged it out of the door.

My point even when you think you have an airtight plan once in a while things just don't go to plan.

MissD

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think you can swing for a very long time and once in a while just have a blip. Its happened to me met a couple similar age and preference, heavily verified, spoke on the phone and local. I arrived and they both got really d*unk overstepped pre-planned boundaries and when she was being sick I legged it out of the door.

My point even when you think you have an airtight plan once in a while things just don't go to plan.

MissD"

Yeah couldn't agree more don't see what else we could of done if people send old photos or decide to get wasted, don't see how we can Forsee that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's shocking that they have been

verified. If someone turned up and didn't look like their pics I wouldn't verify them.

Sadly some things you just can't predict. As long as your method has worked in the past I would say you have been unlucky.

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By *erseyridersCouple
over a year ago

wallasey

u cant forsee that hun ,..y we try 2 now meet up in clubs rather than at ppls homes ,,,,we met up with Cpl at their home ,,was sat having drink n going threw boundries ,wen her kids 5 of em ran down stairs ,n sed r u gonna shag my dad ,,time 2 get out ,,,,,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"u cant forsee that hun ,..y we try 2 now meet up in clubs rather than at ppls homes ,,,,we met up with Cpl at their home ,,was sat having drink n going threw boundries ,wen her kids 5 of em ran down stairs ,n sed r u gonna shag my dad ,,time 2 get out ,,,,, "

Yeah we've just recently started doing private meets after mainly doing club meets I suppose it's just one of the risks you take with people being honest and not mental

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I expect we could all come up with examples where meets went badly including clubs.

We visited a club and lots of couples all sat around dressed sexily but no one mixed with others we all just sat there looking for inspiration then when people did try and go to play 4 or 5 single guys would follow everywhere and try to get involved which killed it instantly. We had more succes at private meets so no one size fits all im afraid

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I always skype first, then a social then a play meet in a club if it's all going well...

Even with all that there have still been a couple of interesting shenanigans!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't mind it as long as a shag was installed lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think we will just chalk it up as experience and consider ourselves lucky we've had a lot more good meets than bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you can swing for a very long time and once in a while just have a blip. Its happened to me met a couple similar age and preference, heavily verified, spoke on the phone and local. I arrived and they both got really d*unk overstepped pre-planned boundaries and when she was being sick I legged it out of the door.

My point even when you think you have an airtight plan once in a while things just don't go to plan.

MissD

Yeah couldn't agree more don't see what else we could of done if people send old photos or decide to get wasted, don't see how we can Forsee that "

Definitely just unlucky. Chin up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"u cant forsee that hun ,..y we try 2 now meet up in clubs rather than at ppls homes ,,,,we met up with Cpl at their home ,,was sat having drink n going threw boundries ,wen her kids 5 of em ran down stairs ,n sed r u gonna shag my dad ,,time 2 get out ,,,,, "

Good grief! That's awful.

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