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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Or is it ?

We often feel somewhat ostracised on the forums as we use fab for the purpose of finding like minded people to enjoy sexual pleasure with . Be that single guys , girls or couples . Now that may seem fine , yet time and again we see the majority of forum posters saying its about socialising , making friends , chatting etc.....

Are we missing something ?

Are we on the wrong site ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or is it ?

We often feel somewhat ostracised on the forums as we use fab for the purpose of finding like minded people to enjoy sexual pleasure with . Be that single guys , girls or couples . Now that may seem fine , yet time and again we see the majority of forum posters saying its about socialising , making friends , chatting etc.....

Are we missing something ?

Are we on the wrong site ?

"

No not at all. We only "socialise" at "Action" (for want of a better phrase) parties and meets.

Others do find socialising only part of teh scene- each to their own but youre definately not in the wrong place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sre you interperetting it wrong.

Ive seen references to socialising also but i usually see it when people moan about not getting any meets for sex and others state they use it for socialising too.

If you read the forum posters profiles loads seem to meet for sex.

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By *ilthydirtyfuckersCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Or is it ?

We often feel somewhat ostracised on the forums as we use fab for the purpose of finding like minded people to enjoy sexual pleasure with . Be that single guys , girls or couples . Now that may seem fine , yet time and again we see the majority of forum posters saying its about socialising , making friends , chatting etc.....

Are we missing something ?

Are we on the wrong site ?

"

No your not , but I guess people have different views / needs that they look for the site to provide. Your like us . We use it to meet sexually adventurous people for hot sex. Simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab is a broadchurch and is many different things to many different people. No one should feel ostracised for doing things differently, if it works for you that's all that matters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your not on the wrong site, people use the site in different ways and ways that suit them, we enjoy the social side of swinging as well as the playing side!

As you say each to their own

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Or is it ?

We often feel somewhat ostracised on the forums as we use fab for the purpose of finding like minded people to enjoy sexual pleasure with . Be that single guys , girls or couples . Now that may seem fine , yet time and again we see the majority of forum posters saying its about socialising , making friends , chatting etc.....

Are we missing something ?

Are we on the wrong site ?

"

I think it is just the 'bias' of the forum - this is where the most social animals hang out.

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By *otpair255Couple
over a year ago

Langley

well we do not mind to have a drink or little chat before and/or after. But we are here purely for sex . Finding real Friend here would be beneficial though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the thoughts everyone .

It does seem to work for us , so we will carry on regardless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have met socially with couples and single women as we like both sides to swinging.

I like to chat first as I need to have some kind of mental connection also as I'm slightly domme and a cuckquean I also like to check were all on the same page.

So I guess it all goes hand in hand for us.

MissD

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Thanks for the thoughts everyone .

It does seem to work for us , so we will carry on regardless

"

You socialise!

You just probably spend less time doing so at clubs than others.

There's no rules, right way or wrong way - people do what people want to do!

A

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks for the thoughts everyone .

It does seem to work for us , so we will carry on regardless

You socialise!

You just probably spend less time doing so at clubs than others.

There's no rules, right way or wrong way - people do what people want to do!

A"

This is true , I guess we do socialise at clubs etc...

But it becomes a problem sometimes when we bump into 'friends' at a club as we are there to meet new playmates and get caught up with chatting !

The same thing sometimes happens when we meet at a club and get so caught up in too much chat , that the moment for play is lost .

Hey Ho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol they say socialising for not sounding desperate, infact everyone just wanna fuck

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Use fab as it works for you, and as you get meets, its obviously working for others as well.

Meeting as a single female, I have a social meet first to ensure I feel safe with the person or couple, and they are who they say they are. Thats not to say its never progressed into play from that social, but its never to be expected.

From previous experience of meeting as a couple, having the back up of another person is reassuring in that you are not on your own, or likely to be overpowered.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no better site than fab; purely on its accessibility. That self same accessibility brings fourth a whole array of people "in the scene" some of whom may not match your criteria or desires.

As many will say "use the site your way and let others use it their way" now however trite that may sound (and perhaps a little blunt) it is solid advice. Use the accessibility of this site to find those that mirror your desires/expectations and let the ones who do not, cause you no worries.

Perhaps one of the things that fab does so well is bring people together to talk about sex openly and this is a good starting point for all manner of fun, is it not.

Happy Swinging x

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

I suppose some use social to get know people in a relaxed atmosphere, possibly line up a potential meet later. You could meet someone you might have missed before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or is it ?

We often feel somewhat ostracised on the forums as we use fab for the purpose of finding like minded people to enjoy sexual pleasure with . Be that single guys , girls or couples . Now that may seem fine , yet time and again we see the majority of forum posters saying its about socialising , making friends , chatting etc.....

Are we missing something ?

Are we on the wrong site ?

"

I often feel the same as you.....then I think fuck it! What I do works for me. A lot of the people in the forums are only there to chat on the forum so I tend not to worry about what they say. It's definitely the right site for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you set up a meet on the forums, fair play I say, the forums are here for us all, and provided you don't offend anyone, who gives a shit what others think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

but sex just doesnt happen with other people off fab - you have to chat, build up a rapport and meet up before the deed is done

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Or is it ?

We often feel somewhat ostracised on the forums as we use fab for the purpose of finding like minded people to enjoy sexual pleasure with . Be that single guys , girls or couples . Now that may seem fine , yet time and again we see the majority of forum posters saying its about socialising , making friends , chatting etc.....

Are we missing something ?

Are we on the wrong site ?

"

You've always struck me as being really sure about what you do, confident in your approach and that you aren't influenced by what anyone else says. I'd say this is the right site for you and I'm sorry you feel ostracised.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many just use fab to keep in contact with real world meets and as has been said many on the forums are social monsters.

We are very much social monsters we are here to make sexy friends that we may play with, ok so that is not swinging in its rawest form but it's how we do things.

It's a place to meet and keep in contact that's all.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"Many just use fab to keep in contact with real world meets and as has been said many on the forums are social monsters.

We are very much social monsters we are here to make sexy friends that we may play with, ok so that is not swinging in its rawest form but it's how we do things.

It's a place to meet and keep in contact that's all."

Yup, same here, we love the socials, love making friends, and love the fun that comes with that!

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