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Now that you are swinging - do you look at people differently and wonder if they do too?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I do it all the time.

I have always been a horny git. I was always chasing women. Not every female is up for it though and so you automatically looked for a certain type.

Then you get into swinging. Swinging is different to chasing women. The hard work is already done, leaving only the fun stuff. You also find you are enjoying the company of ladies you might not have chased before. Suddenly all women are back on the radar. Now when i see woman who are clearly out with thier partners / husbands, I am constantly thinking are they swingers??

Does anybody else look at people differently now they are swinging???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We look at people all the time now. Especially when we go out for a drink, if there are two guys and one lady, or even two couples come to that, we often wonder if they're arranging a meet. I've been told a couple of times that I look "innocent" and no-one would ever guess what we do, and that's just the way I like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its weird really as since me and hubby have been in the swinging scene we didnt no just how many people were into it,we was suprised at how many sites you have on the web just thousands of them,multiply them by the people who are members omg millions os swingers lol, from very young to the very old,they are all there,then thats when your out and you look at the people you no or genral public then the thoughts rush through your head woundering if they are also swingers like you are,like hiding this big secret that nobody knows about,everyone should come out i think like if your gay and just say yes we are SWINGERS and so what

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By *unterslickCouple
over a year ago

tullamore

lol,we do this the whole time,have met people iv known most of my life on sites,even met a neighbour once they were in the flat above us,and we didnt know,lol,another time i met an old boss of mine and his missus,lol

so we are always out looking and whispering,"i wonder if theyr swingers,or hmmm i wonder if shes on the scene" lol its fun and extremely eroyic

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By *ddiddyMan
over a year ago

kilkenny

ha ha there should be some kind of a sign or a small badge you could wear to show you are a swinger now wouldent that be fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ha ha there should be some kind of a sign or a small badge you could wear to show you are a swinger now wouldent that be fun "

maybe a wristband with im a swinger printed on it ???

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By *ddiddyMan
over a year ago

kilkenny

very obvious but even a wrist band maybe in a certain colour i heard something once bout a badge but forgot what it was now you can buy them in sex shops but dont know exactly what they are

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By *aravancoupleMan
over a year ago

A Secret Hideaway In the caravan of love

Yes we find our selves doing it all the time when we are out LOL

Carol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"very obvious but even a wrist band maybe in a certain colour i heard something once bout a badge but forgot what it was now you can buy them in sex shops but dont know exactly what they are"

chameleons in birmingham sell little chameleon badges colour coded for you sexuality !!!

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By *ddiddyMan
over a year ago

kilkenny

that would be good only swingers would know bout chameleons now i only hav to get there for one lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when i first got into swinging ,there were mags with only a cples , then internet really opend up the amount of people into it , i must admit when in local asda looking at people and wondering if they into it too? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"that would be good only swingers would know bout chameleons now i only hav to get there for one lol"

u can get them online i think ?? check out their site ..ive got one and i wore it to work afew people asked about it !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't really want a badge or wristband, think it keeps the intrigue or speculation going more. Plus it adds to the fun of thinking who is and who isn't a swinger when out and about people watching.

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By *ddiddyMan
over a year ago

kilkenny

ha ha did any of them know where it came from

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By *ddiddyMan
over a year ago

kilkenny

well even if people had a badge there would stil be people that wouldent waer it we have only met one guy who through chatting found out he was a swinger in a pub and he was on another site but as you say yes its fun not knowing for sure

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"I do it all the time.

I have always been a horny git. I was always chasing women. Not every female is up for it though and so you automatically looked for a certain type.

Then you get into swinging. Swinging is different to chasing women. The hard work is already done, leaving only the fun stuff. You also find you are enjoying the company of ladies you might not have chased before. Suddenly all women are back on the radar. Now when i see woman who are clearly out with thier partners / husbands, I am constantly thinking are they swingers??

Does anybody else look at people differently now they are swinging???

"

Actually I look at it differently to you...

I don't think the hard work is done at all!

In fact I think swingers are more picky about who they play with because they know who/what types of people they want...

just because people swing doesn't mean they will play with anyone and I think that is the first thing people and especially certain single guys need to be aware of......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do it all the time.

I have always been a horny git. I was always chasing women. Not every female is up for it though and so you automatically looked for a certain type.

Then you get into swinging. Swinging is different to chasing women. The hard work is already done, leaving only the fun stuff. You also find you are enjoying the company of ladies you might not have chased before. Suddenly all women are back on the radar. Now when i see woman who are clearly out with thier partners / husbands, I am constantly thinking are they swingers??

Does anybody else look at people differently now they are swinging???

Actually I look at it differently to you...

I don't think the hard work is done at all!

In fact I think swingers are more picky about who they play with because they know who/what types of people they want...

just because people swing doesn't mean they will play with anyone and I think that is the first thing people and especially certain single guys need to be aware of......"

Mate you beat me to it !!!! I totally agree with you but much prefer it to clubbing !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There IS a badge

It's called a SWINGPIN

Do a net search to see. It looks a bit yingy yangy ....

It's out there about £15.00

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We check out the talent, so to speak, when we are out and wonder if they swing. The wierdest thing being that before we did this I'd look at the ladies as well as the gents and catching myself doing it and wondering why. I have done that for a few years but being very naive at the time was horrified with myself and felt embarrassed. Now I look at the same women as my hubby and we both look at each other and grin!

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By *ickedWWoman
over a year ago

Chester


"There IS a badge

It's called a SWINGPIN

Do a net search to see. It looks a bit yingy yangy ....

It's out there about £15.00

"

HOW MUCH????

I'd rather sit in the pub playin 'I wonder if they are' game

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do it all the time.

I have always been a horny git. I was always chasing women. Not every female is up for it though and so you automatically looked for a certain type.

Then you get into swinging. Swinging is different to chasing women. The hard work is already done, leaving only the fun stuff. You also find you are enjoying the company of ladies you might not have chased before. Suddenly all women are back on the radar. Now when i see woman who are clearly out with thier partners / husbands, I am constantly thinking are they swingers??

Does anybody else look at people differently now they are swinging???

Actually I look at it differently to you...

I don't think the hard work is done at all!

In fact I think swingers are more picky about who they play with because they know who/what types of people they want...

just because people swing doesn't mean they will play with anyone and I think that is the first thing people and especially certain single guys need to be aware of......"

Oh good: it wasn't just me then!

However, since no one else on this thread seems offended at being of as easy and will play with anybody, he may have a point!

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By *prite128Woman
over a year ago

maidstone


"I do it all the time.

I have always been a horny git. I was always chasing women. Not every female is up for it though and so you automatically looked for a certain type.

Then you get into swinging. Swinging is different to chasing women. The hard work is already done, leaving only the fun stuff. You also find you are enjoying the company of ladies you might not have chased before. Suddenly all women are back on the radar. Now when i see woman who are clearly out with thier partners / husbands, I am constantly thinking are they swingers??

Does anybody else look at people differently now they are swinging???

Actually I look at it differently to you...

I don't think the hard work is done at all!

In fact I think swingers are more picky about who they play with because they know who/what types of people they want...

just because people swing doesn't mean they will play with anyone and I think that is the first thing people and especially certain single guys need to be aware of......

Oh good: it wasn't just me then!

However, since no one else on this thread seems offended at being of as easy and will play with anybody, he may have a point! "

I was just reading it and wondering if i was reading it right . Just because I swing doesnt not mean Ive lost any discrimination about who i may play with.

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

"The hard work is done?"

Sometimes we take one for the team but we try and sort out the wheat from the chaff first

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By *razydriver8Couple
over a year ago

plymouth

lol i thought it was just me.. swinging has changed the way i look ,, and flirt and smile at strangers... and i feel it has given me more confidence in the other parts of my life too.. not as shy. more inclined to ask for what i really want... anyone else noticed this effect too?

and the hard work contiues lol still hunting for the couple to take our couples cherry....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" lol i thought it was just me.. swinging has changed the way i look ,, and flirt and smile at strangers... and i feel it has given me more confidence in the other parts of my life too.. not as shy. more inclined to ask for what i really want... anyone else noticed this effect too?

and the hard work contiues lol still hunting for the couple to take our couples cherry.... "

Can't agree more, my confidence has increased tenfold since we've begun swinging. A lot of people have commented but they have no idea why, I just say it's my age, that I don't care now what others think of me now. (If only they knew!!!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i do this to

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

I know that some badges are "outed" by the Sunday muck rages every now and then on a quiet news day!! There was a wrist band and that collapsed. Swingpin has been around for years and is still nor recognised by other swingers. And as for the Chameleon badge? Suppose, just suppose that you had one and someone knew what it was? How would you explain that to your family and friends?

Yes, of course we sit in pubs and other public places people watching and even give others (wishful) swingers lives, but we are much more discerning than to want to meet everyone who is a swinger!

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By *unnysmileWoman
over a year ago

wakefield area ish

I chatted to my neighbour one night last week..thank god he didn't push for a face pic..i was highly amused by his repartee as you'd never guess in a million years in the real world lol. Can't stop looking at him now lol..but neither will i admit to him its me lol. But it was certainly amusing chatting pmsl. Didn't block him either lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes we are looking all the time at others to see if we can tell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do it all the time.

I have always been a horny git. I was always chasing women. Not every female is up for it though and so you automatically looked for a certain type.

Then you get into swinging. Swinging is different to chasing women. The hard work is already done, leaving only the fun stuff. You also find you are enjoying the company of ladies you might not have chased before. Suddenly all women are back on the radar. Now when i see woman who are clearly out with thier partners / husbands, I am constantly thinking are they swingers??

Does anybody else look at people differently now they are swinging???

Actually I look at it differently to you...

I don't think the hard work is done at all!

In fact I think swingers are more picky about who they play with because they know who/what types of people they want...

just because people swing doesn't mean they will play with anyone and I think that is the first thing people and especially certain single guys need to be aware of......"

Nice point. Well said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes we often look at couples when we are out drinking shopping etc so decided to use a code word when either of us see a couple we think are swingers. so if your in our local supermarket and you hear some one saying Bananas were not reciting our shopping list but have spotted a likely couple lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol i got spotted today at the shops ,got a message on here later telling me what i was wearing lol made me laugh !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before we 'started' so to say, we were totally involved in 'us' and our own appeal to each other ... now we are far more aware of what each other likes to see, what we perceive as attractive, and who we would both get on with in a given situation.

We dont look at others thinking "are they swingers" but when perving in tescos we often ask each other "would you if you could"...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love playing that game lol wondering who swings and who dont and when im lucky enough to stay over in hotel when I go to chams we have our secret winks lol. Oh and one time stopped of at chorley services and saw at least 5 couples there who I knew from chams and we were all whispering are you off to chams

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"very obvious but even a wrist band maybe in a certain colour i heard something once bout a badge but forgot what it was now you can buy them in sex shops but dont know exactly what they are

chameleons in birmingham sell little chameleon badges colour coded for you sexuality !!!"

What are the colours and what do they mean xx

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