FabSwingers.com forum: Open Relationship

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm after advise, I've entered into an open relationship and after any advise people can offer as to what is asking to much from him, how open should we be about other people?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All swingers are in open relationships . Just how the way you see it. Most swingers have open relationship with boundrys which you don't cross ours are only safe sex and no meeting others without consulting the othet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you mean swinging or polygamy?

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By *uthLessKnickersCouple
over a year ago

Cornwall/Devon

Honesty is the key along with communication. What destroys a relationship is lies and deceit not what one does. We have a open relationship and loving it.

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!

"Honesty is the key along with communication. What destroys a relationship is lies and deceit not what one does. We have a open relationship and loving it."

Although I'm not in a relationship, this is exactly how I'd see it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The rules are whatever you decide, and may change over time. So long as you both agree the boundaries they can be whatever you choose. I was in an open relationship for 21 years where neither of us ever had sex outside the relationship, but we could have if we wanted to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is wanting to meet or talk/message the other person involved in our relationship wrong? Is that too much to expect?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My partner and I swing together as a couple. But we also have the option to meet alone. We have rules we tell each other if we are going to meet anyone even if it is for coffee before hand not after the event. We have a strict set of rules involved. We have both met alone since being in our relationship and we are still as strong as always x

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By *ee 123456Man
over a year ago

ipswich

Be honest and open with each other and talk talk talk oh did I say talk ? Lol

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"I'm after advise, I've entered into an open relationship and after any advise people can offer as to what is asking to much from him, how open should we be about other people?"

would you not be better talking to each other about boundaries, what is acceptable etc..?

wish you good luck

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I'm after advise, I've entered into an open relationship and after any advise people can offer as to what is asking to much from him, how open should we be about other people?

would you not be better talking to each other about boundaries, what is acceptable etc..?

wish you good luck"

I agree. Boundaries must be your own it doesn't matter what other people think it say if it's right for you and mutually acceptable that's all that matters.

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By *rtemisiaWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

"Honesty is the key along with communication. What destroys a relationship is lies and deceit not what one does. We have a open relationship and loving it."

This is very true I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Honesty is the key along with communication. What destroys a relationship is lies and deceit not what one does. We have a open relationship and loving it.

This is very true I think.

No think about it.. It is what destroys it.. Been there done that and got the t-shirt.. Do believe you need boundaries though, what you each think is acceptable within the relationship before you start your journey together

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I've just entered into one. We still meet solo as well as in a couple but always let each other know beforehand. He texted me while I was at work on Wednesday for example to let me know he was on his way to meet a girl. It works for us, it would be hiding things that would be a problem. And we talk honestly. If ever there's a potential issue we raise it rather than expecting the other one to mind-read. Our boundaries are fluid and always mutually agreed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If ever there's a potential issue we raise it rather than expecting the other one to mind-read. Our boundaries are fluid and always mutually agreed."

As stated above, your rules your way, but they must be talked about agreed and obeyed by both sides

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm after advise, I've entered into an open relationship and after any advise people can offer as to what is asking to much from him, how open should we be about other people?"

You need to be totally honest with each other if one side feels the other is not being so things can fall apart very quickly.

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By *bflirtyCouple
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Apart from honesty you also need to be 100% comfortable with the situation - if you are not then you must say and your partner should at least listen/compromise.

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By *otpair255Couple
over a year ago

Langley

We love swinging but we only meet as a couple, thus we think we are not in open reliationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was in a club on Friday and was speaking to a couple.. She was clearly there because of him and felt if she didn't do what he wanted.. He would leave her.. She expressed to me that she didn't like doing it but is prepared to do it to keep her man..now he defined it as an open relationship.. Not quite what I call it but she did it anyway

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