FabSwingers.com forum: Men who don't read

By *ucylocket1 OP Woman
over a year ago

over the hill and the last on the left

How come men don't read an respect profiles.

I have put what I want and then get inundated with exactly the opposite of what I do want do others have the same experience and how do you stop it shy of leaving again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you not know - Men can not read. They like pictures.

That is why boys reads comics, girls read books.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just ignore the messages and move on. Most men don't read mind neither lol. But there are a few that do read

Its not just men that don't read tho. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

* Mine not mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not just men,unless of course it's the male half of couples that contact us.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

"How come men don't read an respect profiles.

I have put what I want and then get inundated with exactly the opposite of what I do want do others have the same experience and how do you stop it shy of leaving again."

Nice tits.

...did you say something?

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

One eye blocks everything out from the two optical eyes

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

I doubt the answers on this thread will be any different from the eleventy thousand threads already posted asking the same thing.

Even the white knight posts are the same.

"They are all shits, look at me, look at me I'm different"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My profile clearly states im only meeting via my couples profile now and just use this for the forums, hasnt stopped 3 single guys from asking me if I want to meet them today. They have either obviously nor bothered to read my profike or have and thought they would chance it anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How come men don't read an respect profiles.

I have put what I want and then get inundated with exactly the opposite of what I do want do others have the same experience and how do you stop it shy of leaving again.

Nice tits.

...did you say something? "
pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I doubt the answers on this thread will be any different from the eleventy thousand threads already posted asking the same thing.

Even the white knight posts are the same.

"They are all shits, look at me, look at me I'm different""

And not reading profiles is not exclusive to single males

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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And the same for the whinging men who arent getting meets...

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Ignorance is not restricted to just males on here I can assure you of that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How come men don't read an respect profiles.

I have put what I want and then get inundated with exactly the opposite of what I do want do others have the same experience and how do you stop it shy of leaving again.

Nice tits.

...did you say something? pmsl "

Did someone say tits? Where?? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just redirect them to my profile or say no thanks and block

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

You won't stop it. Use your filters, that's what they are there for and choose the men you want to message. Problem solved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How come men don't read an respect profiles.

I have put what I want and then get inundated with exactly the opposite of what I do want do others have the same experience and how do you stop it shy of leaving again."

Delete everything off your 'looking for' and go looking yourself.

Believe me... it works great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i put on my profile and add a meet that i want to meet men who have face pic and recent verifications and all i got was men messaging me with no verifications on show, or been on here a year and not met anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take another careful read, we never tar ALL single guys, just MOST.

And again guys, if you think we sound angry, please just walk on by, we have no issues with not being contacted.

Funny thing is though, our inbox is never empty of people agreeing with us.

The majority of single guys do not read profiles, or if they do they ignore what you want. Simply just how it is on here. Even some of the ones who come on these forums saying they don't behave like that have bothered us.

Sad, but true.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

So much angst....have you considered therapy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*Makes a brew and waits for the knock out blow*

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

"Take another careful read, we never tar ALL single guys, just MOST.

Yeah! Read the post properly! What are you FFS? a single bloke?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You really need glasses chap.

What's up??

Been rejected by lots of couples again?

Is that your frustrations?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You won't stop it. Use your filters, that's what they are there for and choose the men you want to message. Problem solved. "

I do use filters but they don't always work and anyone can have verified genuine on their profile doesn't mean anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow! Such hostility!

I've found that if you make your profile interesting then guys do bother to read.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmm a bit of small man syndrome going on here !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How angry small men in there fifties are !!

Wow i

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't real care about anything to do with you to be honest.

But it seems that what we have said has touched a nerve.

You get rejected by couples a lot?

You agree with single guys not respecting other peoples choices?? You think couples shouldn't be allowed choices?

What is it with you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deselect all your looking for options. Block single males and do the searching yourself.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

"We don't real care about anything to do with you to be honest.

But it seems that what we have said has touched a nerve.

You get rejected by couples a lot?

You agree with single guys not respecting other peoples choices?? You think couples shouldn't be allowed choices?

What is it with you?

Looks like I'm taking this one for all the guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are not angry, just sad and disturbed at the lack of respect and manners most single guys have on here.

But hey! You aren't in our wish list so think we care?

The ones who bother us just expose themselves as the arseholes they are.

And what about the so called decent ones who come out in support of them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Deselect all your looking for options. Block single males and do the searching yourself. "

Tadaaa thats how u do it !

Or would u loose your feeling of power when u rudely turn guys down ! Lol

And i dont meet cpls so im not bitter towards them ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not just men,unless of course it's the male half of couples that contact us."

We tend to have more couples who message and can't read. It is annoying because some seem rather interesting but we won't make exceptions if they haven't bothered to read.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How come men don't read an respect profiles.

I have put what I want and then get inundated with exactly the opposite of what I do want do others have the same experience and how do you stop it shy of leaving again."

I'm fed up receiving 'messages' from illiterate, ignorant or just stupid impetuous 'men'.......The warnings are there on my profile, if they've obviously not read what's written, I block without hesitation. I don't wish to know, (let alone meet), any imbeciles.

My block list has topped 400 in twelve months, I very rarely now get messages from people who can't or will not read.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe they think as there are some on here who will say yes to anyone, that you will too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How come men don't read an respect profiles.

I have put what I want and then get inundated with exactly the opposite of what I do want do others have the same experience and how do you stop it shy of leaving again.

My block list has topped 400 in twelve months, I very rarely now get messages from people who can't or will not read."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't worry yourself chap, when we need advice on how to use this site we will ask for it.

Simple really, people should learn to read and respect others choices.

Not a hard standard is it? But it seems to be for so many guys on here.

If guys didn't bother us, we wouldn't need to turn them down.

Let's face it, our profile clearly says no single guys.

But, whoops!! They never read it, do they??

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

block and do the searching for guys that take your fancy.

it is that easy to take away your angst

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"maybe they think as there are some on here who will say yes to anyone, that you will too.

This is very true ! Theres some very very ugly ladies on here who are verified !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"maybe they think as there are some on here who will say yes to anyone, that you will too.

This is very true ! Theres some very very ugly ladies on here who are verified !"

Some very ugly men also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wow! Such hostility!

I've found that if you make your profile interesting then guys do bother to read.

Interesting like yours? thanks for the advice.

I never said mine was interesting, but then I don't come on here complaining about everything that is wrong!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"maybe they think as there are some on here who will say yes to anyone, that you will too.

This is very true ! Theres some very very ugly ladies on here who are verified !

Some very ugly men also.

Yeah definatly men too ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"We have no angst, and we say no single guys in our profile that is enough for us.

Simple really.

All we expect, is people to read and respect."

I was answering the OP, apologies I should have quoted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have no angst, and we say no single guys in our profile that is enough for us. Everyone makes their own rules on here and set them out in their profile.

Simple really.

All we expect, is people to read and respect.

If we don't want you, find someone who does!

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By *uicylucy76Woman
over a year ago

thornton cleveleys

Wen I went through a period of not meeting I wrote on my profile on about 8 different languages that I wasn't meeting at the moment, I still had people messaging!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How come men don't read an respect profiles.

I have put what I want and then get inundated with exactly the opposite of what I do want do others have the same experience and how do you stop it shy of leaving again.

My block list has topped 400 in twelve months, I very rarely now get messages from people who can't or will not read.

Thank you...!

Having said all that, I forgot to add the fact that I receive some lovely messages from wonderful folk and I answer each and every one just as soon as I can.

I really appreciate good people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How come men don't read an respect profiles.

I have put what I want and then get inundated with exactly the opposite of what I do want do others have the same experience and how do you stop it shy of leaving again.

My block list has topped 400 in twelve months, I very rarely now get messages from people who can't or will not read."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We personally think that if the names are deserved they are called.

It isn't about moral ground or unjustified.

It is simply describing a person by what they are after showing their standard of behaviour.

If people do not respect our choices and leave us alone, what else do they expect?

A pat on the back maybe?? A thank you for being so rude?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"My profile clearly states im only meeting via my couples profile now and just use this for the forums, hasnt stopped 3 single guys from asking me if I want to meet them today. They have either obviously nor bothered to read my profike or have and thought they would chance it anyway."

block them from contacting you on the single profile, end of the hassle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If peoples don't show respect, they certainly don't deserve it.

We don't disrespect the thousands of decent people on here, nor are our comments aimed at them.

We have made it perfectly clear who they are aimed at.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

block them from contacting you on the single profile, end of the hassle."

I actually have done now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If peoples don't show respect, they certainly don't deserve it.

Does this apply to everyone? Or everyone other than you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We personally think that if the names are deserved they are called.

It isn't about moral ground or unjustified.

It is simply describing a person by what they are after showing their standard of behaviour.

If people do not respect our choices and leave us alone, what else do they expect?

A pat on the back maybe?? A thank you for being so rude?"

Agreed.

If guys totally ignoring profiles was a rare experience then it would not be a problem.

It is not rare. It happens to us at least 15 times every day - often more.

It is immensely irritating writing back 15 plus times a day politely referring them to our profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does this apply to everyone? Or everyone other than you?

That is quite an offensive comment in itself.

We have not shown any disrespect for anyone on here who didn't deserve it.

Like we said, respect our profile and our choices and we show the same respect back.

Not a complicated concept, and one decent people usually to live by.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We personally think that if the names are deserved they are called.

It isn't about moral ground or unjustified.

It is simply describing a person by what they are after showing their standard of behaviour.

If people do not respect our choices and leave us alone, what else do they expect?

A pat on the back maybe?? A thank you for being so rude?

Agreed.

If guys totally ignoring profiles was a rare experience then it would not be a problem.

It is not rare. It happens to us at least 15 times every day - often more.

It is immensely irritating writing back 15 plus times a day politely referring them to our profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How come men don't read an respect profiles.

I have put what I want and then get inundated with exactly the opposite of what I do want do others have the same experience and how do you stop it shy of leaving again."

Sorry, but having looked at your profile you ask for mf / ff couples and men / women between 18 50. Your status though says no black asian or miles away.

So are you being swamped with messages from the black mm couple commumity from Orkney or the asian ts village in the Scily isles?

Your profile told me you only want a select few and no one who repeat messages...

Granted a lot of guys will chance their luck irrespective of what you write

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How come men don't read an respect profiles.

I have put what I want and then get inundated with exactly the opposite of what I do want do others have the same experience and how do you stop it shy of leaving again."

Its a case of SOME males (also some females and couples) that dont read profiles and may like your pictures and try there luck.

everybody gets offered opposite of what they want, there are lots of filters to use eg block single men and search them yourself when you wink a male it allows them to message you

ignore or block those your not interested in or say no thankyou

DONT let it get to you, chill and enjoy the site,

rudeness brings rudeness/defensive replys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You really need glasses chap.

What's up??

Been rejected by lots of couples again?

Is that your frustrations?

Who are you replying to? Use the reply + quote button.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seeing as we said chap, and it clearly refers to a man, why are you concerned?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seeing as we said chap, and it clearly refers to a man, why are you concerned?

Who on earth are you talking to???!!!

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By *rof SalamanderMan
over a year ago

glasgow

"We just call them what they are; ignorant fucking pricks.

Doesn't go down too well, but hey! If the cap fits, they have to wear it!"

What if thry only admire pics does that recieve short shrift also ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All women get inundated with msgs not just you op lol.

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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago

a land up north..... of leicester

"How come men don't read an respect profiles.

I have put what I want and then get inundated with exactly the opposite of what I do want do others have the same experience and how do you stop it shy of leaving again."

Where do you stand on winks?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How come men don't read an respect profiles.

I have put what I want and then get inundated with exactly the opposite of what I do want do others have the same experience and how do you stop it shy of leaving again.

Where do you stand on winks?

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I sent a wink lol

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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago

a land up north..... of leicester

"How come men don't read an respect profiles.

I have put what I want and then get inundated with exactly the opposite of what I do want do others have the same experience and how do you stop it shy of leaving again.

Where do you stand on winks?

I sent a wink lol"

Lol I did too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ffs - my profile says straight I put an ad on looking for cples, fem or fem/fem....a single bi guy messages me and asks what I am after???? doh...READ THE AD....

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By *an and wifeyCouple
over a year ago

n lincs

We get asked on so many occasions silly questions which you will find the answers in our profile lol so usually politely reply then the sarcasm kicks in and they get verbally abusive and block us like we are really gonna be upset about. A single guy only messaged this week after we have politely said no on many occasions asking for social meet and if all ok full swap. I said what you gonna swap me a packet of biscuits to which he replied he had a fb. Eventually verbal abuse off him and blocked us. Really. Some people don't get the message. I offered to send him a drawing in the end fir him to understand. Think that's when he got abusive ha ha. Some people have no sense of humour ha ha

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London

"How come men don't read an respect profiles"

The same reason as some women, MF couples, TS or MM couples it's not just single MEN

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we can 100% assure you that its not just the single male profiles that skip the text and just look at the pics

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

"ffs - my profile says straight I put an ad on looking for cples, fem or fem/fem....a single bi guy messages me and asks what I am after???? doh...READ THE AD....

You can easily filter out single guys contacting you. End of problem.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Ive removed posts and Im closing this.

OP if you dont want men to contact you then use your filters. Thats what they are there for.

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