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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Weve been on this site for a little while now and have so great and fun times.we've never encountered anything bad or unusual until earlier and wonder really who's had any experience with anyone on this site that has msgd them and straight up asking 'is your name ***** & ****?!' But wont mention there own name and straight away puts u in a akward situation. Then get very personal mentioning where your family live and saying that basically if you don't play by their own rules they're going to spread it. Its very stalkerish. We've let admin deal with it .... But really why! Anyone had a similar experience?

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!

No...thank god! That would freak me out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No though I met a guy who was threatened by another guy when he refused to meet him even though he had told him in his first message that he was only exploring his bi side

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

I've had a local guy to me describe my car, tell me where I was, who I was with, and when all he saw me, making comments about being close enough to reach out and touch me in the local shops, and mentioning passing my car on the road etc... freaked me right out!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No...thank god! That would freak me out! "

It is me! It could be anyone but this littler f*ckers playing a dangerous game :/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would just let them, most people i know already know I'm on here so it doesn't bother me at all! I've got nothing to hide!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Weve been on this site for a little while now and have so great and fun times.we've never encountered anything bad or unusual until earlier and wonder really who's had any experience with anyone on this site that has msgd them and straight up asking 'is your name ***** & ****?!' But wont mention there own name and straight away puts u in a akward situation. Then get very personal mentioning where your family live and saying that basically if you don't play by their own rules they're going to spread it. Its very stalkerish. We've let admin deal with it .... But really why! Anyone had a similar experience?

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That is freaky. Just had a look on your profile, nothing apart from the tattoo is identifiable. Do you think it's someone that you have refused to meet, or turned down for whatever reason?

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!


"No...thank god! That would freak me out!

It is me! It could be anyone but this littler f*ckers playing a dangerous game :/"

Block and report hun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Weve been on this site for a little while now and have so great and fun times.we've never encountered anything bad or unusual until earlier and wonder really who's had any experience with anyone on this site that has msgd them and straight up asking 'is your name ***** & ****?!' But wont mention there own name and straight away puts u in a akward situation. Then get very personal mentioning where your family live and saying that basically if you don't play by their own rules they're going to spread it. Its very stalkerish. We've let admin deal with it .... But really why! Anyone had a similar experience?

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but then again he'd be outing himself and would have to explain how he knew you were on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not yet but sounds like the game, simon sais lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Weve been on this site for a little while now and have so great and fun times.we've never encountered anything bad or unusual until earlier and wonder really who's had any experience with anyone on this site that has msgd them and straight up asking 'is your name ***** & ****?!' But wont mention there own name and straight away puts u in a akward situation. Then get very personal mentioning where your family live and saying that basically if you don't play by their own rules they're going to spread it. Its very stalkerish. We've let admin deal with it .... But really why! Anyone had a similar experience?

That is freaky. Just had a look on your profile, nothing apart from the tattoo is identifiable. Do you think it's someone that you have refused to meet, or turned down for whatever reason? "

Everything has come down picture wise that may show anything someone could guess... All set to private or friends only. We don't really talk to anyone local unless they're verified just because of them being genuine or verified.very confused

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Its just weird! I don't understand why some people like to try and ruin it for others.... However there's always that small minority!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Its just weird! I don't understand why some people like to try and ruin it for others.... However there's always that small minority! "

Yes there are. God knows what goes on in their heads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Weve been on this site for a little while now and have so great and fun times.we've never encountered anything bad or unusual until earlier and wonder really who's had any experience with anyone on this site that has msgd them and straight up asking 'is your name ***** & ****?!' But wont mention there own name and straight away puts u in a akward situation. Then get very personal mentioning where your family live and saying that basically if you don't play by their own rules they're going to spread it. Its very stalkerish. We've let admin deal with it .... But really why! Anyone had a similar experience?

"

Freaky, anyway simple block and avoid in order I think. If it gets more sinister or blackmail starts then the Police is the place to go (hopefully won't get anywhere near that)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a couple contact me claiming to know my husband saying they would tell him all about my activities on here next time they see him. My hubby really enjoyed reading those messages!!

Sounds like you've done the right thing OP. Try not to worry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a fireman from this site recognise Emily when a house up the road caught fire and she was outside talking to neighbours. I mentioned the fire on here and he was adding detail to us but wouldnt say who he was so we thought it was somebody in our street. He told us thats who he was when we made it clear he was creeping us out.

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By *eonlylive1seCouple
over a year ago

Atherstone

We've never had anything like that ( thankfully)

But we had a guy message us a few weeks ago asking if he could pay to play with Mrs W's tits ! Said he was very serious and genuine etc. she told him to fuck off , find a prostitute , then we blocked him . Oddball ! Lol

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By *landfordfabbersCouple
over a year ago

Blandford ish


"Weve been on this site for a little while now and have so great and fun times.we've never encountered anything bad or unusual until earlier and wonder really who's had any experience with anyone on this site that has msgd them and straight up asking 'is your name ***** & ****?!' But wont mention there own name and straight away puts u in a akward situation. Then get very personal mentioning where your family live and saying that basically if you don't play by their own rules they're going to spread it. Its very stalkerish. We've let admin deal with it .... But really why! Anyone had a similar experience?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Invite round and beat into submission, strip and drop them off in the City Centre.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a message from a guy who thought I was my sister. A little bit awkward but we had a chat and both agreed to not mention it to anyone. As far as I know he hasn't

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By *egs11Woman
over a year ago

liverpool

I had that on another site on a meet i think they just don't like rejection i was freaked out as emails and phone alls got a bit out of hand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As with anything on the internet, people can innocently give out too much info, pics etc.

I learnt that the hard way, had a guy threaten to put up pictures I sent with my name etc on them

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