FabSwingers.com forum: Fun or Run ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok this is a hypothetical situation:

You are having fun with someone .. seen them a few times and all is well

You discover that they are related albeit distantly to someone you work with

THEY discover the same as their surname is unusual

All is good until

Your work colleague mentions they have been asking questions about you . .

And have shown them your picture to check it is really you . .

CLANG ! ! So, what has effectively (theoretically) happened here is you have been "outed" as a swinger to someone you work with.

Do you

Tell your playmate to go jog on

Rip a strip off em but continue playing

Delete, block and deny all contact

something else

curious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally shrug and say what of it. Most people I work with know. It was a talking point for a week then nobody cared. I get asked occasionaly if we've got anyone coming over but otherwise its yesterdays news

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how much you like them I guess

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

"Depends how much you like them I guess"

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"Ok this is a hypothetical situation:

You are having fun with someone .. seen them a few times and all is well

You discover that they are related albeit distantly to someone you work with

THEY discover the same as their surname is unusual

All is good until

Your work colleague mentions they have been asking questions about you . .

And have shown them your picture to check it is really you . .

CLANG ! ! So, what has effectively (theoretically) happened here is you have been "outed" as a swinger to someone you work with.

Do you

Tell your playmate to go jog on

Rip a strip off em but continue playing

Delete, block and deny all contact

something else

curious

I would be furious. I would rip a strip off them and then block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be furious too! How has he told your colleague that he knows you? Has he actually 'outed' you as a swinger?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be furious, tear a strip off them. Then threaten to out them to see if they like the idea, of course I would not go through with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be fuming too.. Most of my friends and family know Im on here and some of my work colleagues but the fact he was ' checking up on you ' and flashing your pic around would be enough for me.. It doesn't matter if he's divulged you're a swinger.. Where's the good old fashioned confidentiality that we all rely on?? Why is he checking up on you anyway?? I would be having strong words that's for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been outed at work twice now. Once by a school friend I found on here and once by my ex who posted photos and my profile round my work and town. I was livid! The school friend one was done by accident and we just carrier on playing for a while til it fizzled out. The ex I got revenge on lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There clearly not very discreet block and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell them to fuck off for being a gobshite with a total lack of respect for privacy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would no carry on seeing someone who showed me and my privacy such little respect

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