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how come its easier to meet with a couple then single females

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Like the tittle says

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would hazard a guess that single females feel more vulnerable.

Guess it comes down to the principle of safety in numbers.

I'm more than happy for a single female to bring a friend along

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have the opposite problem

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes can see what you mean there yes but meet in public place would be alright aswell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have no trouble getting a meet with a single male but even us as a couple find it very difficult to meet other couples

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

Probably just the numbers game

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably just the numbers game"

Agree

There are more couples than single women on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes think i agree has not so many single females but seems more couples i get replys off couples and met two couples but hardly get a reply with single ladies i don't know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funny that

I struggle meeting couples although to be honest I've never really put any effort into meeting couples

I suppose unless I try I won't find out

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By *stwoforfun2Couple
over a year ago

South Suffolk Area


"Probably just the numbers game

Agree

There are more couples than single women on here"

Totally agree with you here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Funny that

I struggle meeting couples although to be honest I've never really put any effort into meeting couples

I suppose unless I try I won't find out

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i admit make more of an effort in single girls has you don't know which one you talking to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I assume its down to competotion. There are so may guys on here that will meet any female the good and not so good looking.

This gives the not so good looking an air of superiority and they probably choose the fittest hottest guys they can get and why not, would always choose fillet over brisket in beef.

So as they are choosing the hot guys the normal and mediocte fall down the pecking order.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I assume its down to competotion. There are so may guys on here that will meet any female the good and not so good looking.

This gives the not so good looking an air of superiority and they probably choose the fittest hottest guys they can get and why not, would always choose fillet over brisket in beef.

So as they are choosing the hot guys the normal and mediocte fall down the pecking order."
top answer your prob right my pic does me no good but cant upload any but i do say ive got kik has its on my profile and that way can send decent pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Easier as there are two of us.

We meet single males, females at clubs, and for the single female, I am sure they feel safer with this.

I was a single female on another site, and I took my time getting to know a single male through messages, before committing to a meet.

Where as we together can say ok, let's meet in a couple of days or something.

Things can be sorted quicker with couples.

So I can understand and respect a single female, taking her time, to meet up, she has her safety to think of.

Her

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Easier as there are two of us.

We meet single males, females at clubs, and for the single female, I am sure they feel safer with this.

I was a single female on another site, and I took my time getting to know a single male through messages, before committing to a meet.

Where as we together can say ok, let's meet in a couple of days or something.

Things can be sorted quicker with couples.

So I can understand and respect a single female, taking her time, to meet up, she has her safety to think of.

Her"
yrs i respect that answer makes sense in not a pushy person or a dirty seedy guy like you see on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Easier as there are two of us.

We meet single males, females at clubs, and for the single female, I am sure they feel safer with this.

I was a single female on another site, and I took my time getting to know a single male through messages, before committing to a meet.

Where as we together can say ok, let's meet in a couple of days or something.

Things can be sorted quicker with couples.

So I can understand and respect a single female, taking her time, to meet up, she has her safety to think of.

Heryrs i respect that answer makes sense in not a pushy person or a dirty seedy guy like you see on here "
yes so the key with a single female is patience, and more likely club meets.

Her

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Think i can do that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey, the secret is to have a verification already. Plus photos which aren't selfies. A pic with no dirty laundry in the background. A pic that shows personality, not just a cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All personal preference, effort and what you do to get what you want, that matches what others want.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hey, the secret is to have a verification already. Plus photos which aren't selfies. A pic with no dirty laundry in the background. A pic that shows personality, not just a cock. "
ive no cock pics every women says seen one seen them all i have got verys but my pic does me no justice but i cant upload any but with kik i can my kik name is on my profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hey, the secret is to have a verification already. Plus photos which aren't selfies. A pic with no dirty laundry in the background. A pic that shows personality, not just a cock. "
ive no cock pics every women says seen one seen them all i have got verys but my pic does me no justice but i cant upload any but with kik i can my kik name is on my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are more couples than single ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its hard either way, depends as well were you live, the most horniest places is in north England and scotland lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Its hard either way, depends as well were you live, the most horniest places is in north England and scotland lol."
cant seem to find any in northwest that's for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have no trouble getting a meet with a single male but even us as a couple find it very difficult to meet other couples "

Exactly the same here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have no trouble getting a meet with a single male but even us as a couple find it very difficult to meet other couples "
I think its people expectations ect, we just go with the attitude of its a drink and a night out,and if anything happens, it happens, no harm done if it doesn't.

Her

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We have no trouble getting a meet with a single male but even us as a couple find it very difficult to meet other couples I think its people expectations ect, we just go with the attitude of its a drink and a night out,and if anything happens, it happens, no harm done if it doesn't.

Her"
that's how i see it just cause you meet someone doesn't mean you have to fuck them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have no trouble getting a meet with a single male but even us as a couple find it very difficult to meet other couples I think its people expectations ect, we just go with the attitude of its a drink and a night out,and if anything happens, it happens, no harm done if it doesn't.

Her"

Thats fine if your at a club or happy to pick up strangers in a bar. But if you want to do that with couples from here you have to find a couple who want that night out with you and for us it seems they are very few and far between.

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By *arnaclebillMan
over a year ago

Robin Hood County


"Like the tittle says"

I disagree with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have no trouble getting a meet with a single male but even us as a couple find it very difficult to meet other couples I think its people expectations ect, we just go with the attitude of its a drink and a night out,and if anything happens, it happens, no harm done if it doesn't.

Her

Thats fine if your at a club or happy to pick up strangers in a bar. But if you want to do that with couples from here you have to find a couple who want that night out with you and for us it seems they are very few and far between."
I find its all about finding a like minded couple, not easy no, but if the messages flow in the same direction then it is all good.

No different really, to single blokes or fems.

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have the opposite problem "

I agree but don't see it as a problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Suppose it's the fact there aren't as many single females on here, speaking as one I prefer to chat for a while first before meeting, safety thing I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single female I do chat for a while before meeting. .it's not always the fit guy I go for... I take everything into consideration. ...I have never meet a couple ... but I have noticed a lot of couples looking at my profile. .. I do think thier has been a drop on men on here. ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have no trouble getting a meet with a single male but even us as a couple find it very difficult to meet other couples I think its people expectations ect, we just go with the attitude of its a drink and a night out,and if anything happens, it happens, no harm done if it doesn't.

Her

Thats fine if your at a club or happy to pick up strangers in a bar. But if you want to do that with couples from here you have to find a couple who want that night out with you and for us it seems they are very few and far between. I find its all about finding a like minded couple, not easy no, but if the messages flow in the same direction then it is all good.

No different really, to single blokes or fems.

Her"

Its different in that both halves of a couple have to be like minded and the majority of the time, they aint lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have no trouble getting a meet with a single male but even us as a couple find it very difficult to meet other couples I think its people expectations ect, we just go with the attitude of its a drink and a night out,and if anything happens, it happens, no harm done if it doesn't.

Her

Thats fine if your at a club or happy to pick up strangers in a bar. But if you want to do that with couples from here you have to find a couple who want that night out with you and for us it seems they are very few and far between. I find its all about finding a like minded couple, not easy no, but if the messages flow in the same direction then it is all good.

No different really, to single blokes or fems.

Her

Its different in that both halves of a couple have to be like minded and the majority of the time, they aint lol "
yes had that once

Her

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As a single female I do chat for a while before meeting. .it's not always the fit guy I go for... I take everything into consideration. ...I have never meet a couple ... but I have noticed a lot of couples looking at my profile. .. I do think thier has been a drop on men on here. ..."
i know what you mean wouldn't like to be single women on here has can see 20 percent at least being assholes and seedy guys i would rather chat then meet someone so you both feel at ease

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile asks if there is a woman who can 'tame you'. Perhaps that is narrowing down the numbers of ladies interested ?

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