FabSwingers.com forum: Member for over yr but still no meets

By *ittleBitOfFun OP Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Been having a chat with a few couples lately with couples who have been members for 6months to over a year and haven't had any meets...

Do some couples just like to look? Thought the whole point of this was to meet peeps??

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many do meet and not leave veris, I had one of them lol.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Theres nothing that says that anyone has to meet.

As you say, some people like to look. Some are interested but want to find out a bit more about the scene. Some want to just chat. Some want to just cam. Some want to meet eventually but just havent found what they are looking for. Some are nervous and havent yet taken the plunge.

Its all ok. Whatever suits them.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Yes some couples do like to look or just meet on clubs.

The whole point of this is to enjoy the site in a way that suits you individually

try not to be over concerned with people who don't use it the same way you do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No veri's does not necessarily mean no meets. I've been lucky enough to have a meet with one verified couple for a gangbang but they didn't / don't verify back, so it still looks like I'm 'meet-free'.

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By *ittleBitOfFun OP Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Yes some couples do like to look or just meet on clubs.

The whole point of this is to enjoy the site in a way that suits you individually

try not to be over concerned with people who don't use it the same way you do."

Oh yeah I totally agree, I was only asking other people's opinion on this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've found it nigh on impossible to get meets on here in the past.

Trying to arrange things in advance and around shift work, seems to be a no-no, as everyone wants instant meets.

We'd rather meet people via clubs etc thesedays.. that way you know who makes it out from behind a screen..

But as previously said.. use the site the way you want to.

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By *ittleBitOfFun OP Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"We've found it nigh on impossible to get meets on here in the past.

Trying to arrange things in advance and around shift work, seems to be a no-no, as everyone wants instant meets.

We'd rather meet people via clubs etc thesedays.. that way you know who makes it out from behind a screen..

But as previously said.. use the site the way you want to.

Yeah I know we've had lots of keyboard warriors off here, met some great couples in Xtasia if me &mrs had more free weekends we would go to more clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you cannot get meets "ob here", ask yourself if you will be more successful outside the scene. If the answer is no - what made you think this would be easier?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No veri's does not necessarily mean no meets. I've been lucky enough to have a meet with one verified couple for a gangbang but they didn't / don't verify back, so it still looks like I'm 'meet-free'."

I agree. I've had a couple of meets that i've not received a veri for, but it's no big deal - even though I always leave one myself.

It's entirely up to them if they wish to leave one or not, it's entirely their choice, and I certainly won't go chasing for them.

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By *elsh swingersCouple
over a year ago

newport

We tend to stick to the club scene, and have made friends with lots of ppl from all around. We find it easier meeting ppl we are attracted to physicals , good fun to be with and talk to .

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By *antonkid1955Man
over a year ago

cardiff

My wife and me are on here..we have meets..separately.. But we choose not to have veris..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We choose not to display our verifications. We have the little icon so the fab community know we are a couple.

We are quite happy to chat using other methods to verify I am a missus and he's a mista

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By *ittleBitOfFun OP Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Thanks for your comments guys. It is each to their own on here and we have had two bad experiences on here meeting 'couples' who weren't verified, so to be safe we tend to only meet couples who have been verified. It's a shame that there are fakes on here that ruin it for us genuine people but hey ho! Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for your comments guys. It is each to their own on here and we have had two bad experiences on here meeting 'couples' who weren't verified, so to be safe we tend to only meet couples who have been verified. It's a shame that there are fakes on here that ruin it for us genuine people but hey ho! Mrs x"

We've been messed about by "verified" couples and other profiles in the past, and some who were verified multiple times - so be careful with the word genuine..lol

It does however make you suspect of anyone and everyone..

But the cream rises to the top - eventually!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes just cos someone aren't verified doesn't mean they are not genuine, like me, I meet many non verified members, I don't have to have loads of veris cos I don't want sound big headed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i havent had a meet yet which is a bit strange

its finding what you want though. then they need to want the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never use veris dont like the idea of reveiwing people like u would on ebay being easy to get on with seems to help when arranging meets x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My missus won't play on fab even though I have asked.

We do chat about bring another guy in or maybe another couple and when we do the sex is amazing - never actually played it out yet.

But it seems better than the couples you see in the chat rooms on cam where he is sitting watching the football twiddling his missus' nips as she sits playing candy crush...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Verified people still can mess you about but i agree with the OP unless the couple had a reason ( as already stated on here ) i wouldn't be comfortable arranging something with them, especially after a year.. Its been pointed out many times on here.. If it had been a single guy, people would be questioning why when there are social and Webcam just to get verified.. Why is a couple any different?? I would air with caution towards anyone that hasn't been verified after a year regardless of their status

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

When we set up our account on here, we forgot about it essentially for 8 months, so it was probably more like 18 months before we had our first meet.

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

I dont know when I joined, have only met once, by accident, not arranged. Im not too bothered about meeting anymore, used to bug me.

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By *homasP80Man
over a year ago

Linwood

Yea, noticed a few that been on a year, and no meets or verifications.

I think to myself - why bother, or why they still on site. I know people may stuggle for a meet at first, but once you get a verification etc, makes it easier/better to get meets, most people then realise your genuine for meets.

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