FabSwingers.com forum: What got you into swinging?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How did you start?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We started 3 years ago as we drive past a well known dogging site every day and we were curious .

We went one Saturday night , Sabrina got covered in cum and I loved seeing it and so our adventure began !

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By *rymeplsMan
over a year ago

manchester

Violent wife so put me off relationships

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take after my parents lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dirty chat that was taken to another level

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like the thrill of sex, enjoy finding out how to make some one new cum

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By *eicsbimaleMan
over a year ago

loughborough

a 3 sum at college many years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An old girlfriend and I had been discussing and fantasising about the numerous scenarios for a while.

We then had a chance encounter with a couple when on holiday who were swingers and with in a week at the resort they took us from dipping our toes in and experimenting through to fully fledged and we never turned back.

Her and I unfortunately parted ways as a couple but we still remain on good terms and we both still enjoy that part of life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After watching the documentarie on ch4, where they were in the forest and masked whilst shagging in the car

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

originally went on a similar site as this as a dare - took a few years to get to where i am now -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I came on here to see if I liked the bi side of things originally.

Mercy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was curious as to what I would be like to be a swinger so I thought id give it a go and I loved it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Started 8yrs ago to spice up a failing marriage and sex life. It did the trick still together and more horny than ever xx

it is such a turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 10 years ago I worked with someone who was on the scene. We talked about it, at length sometimes and eventually I decided to set up a profile, get involved and see what it was all about.....had some great times back when I was a young & horny and now I'm just a more mature....& still horny lol. I have taken the odd break now and then to help wind down and reassess life etc....but I missed the thrill of meeting people too much so I decided to come back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess I've always wanted to try anything sexually, i dont really have any inhibitions (except scat, animals and children - eerghh) so decided that this lifestyle would suit my desires. Some experiences have left me knowing that i dont want to try them again but most have been amazing. The only downside is that a vanilla lifestyle/ relationship just doesn't work longterm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hubby wanted to did it for a long time I was against it but then we had a very long chat and I decided to give it ago glad I did met some great people and had a lot of fun

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By *in and YangCouple (MM)
over a year ago

London

Now I'm curious what was in that deleted thread Slutmeup! I was reading it late last night and now it's gone!

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By *luezuluMan
over a year ago

Suffolk

It was him your Honour. He made me do it

HONESTLY

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For the chance to meet like minded people, Have a good time out and a lot more sex,

Maybe a few long term friends along the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All started with a few drinks and a chat about fantasies....here we are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I could do anything like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This may sound strange but all my early dealings with sex have been in groups and my liking for it never stopped. As a guy in my teens my group of friends were both male and female (all straight lol) we used to go to one anothers houses if parents were out get naked and experiment.

When i first got martied first wife was misdionery most time snd thought doggy wss risque.

Second wife liked sex more but still boring positions.

And then i met Bev and fuck me what a woman she really enjoys most aspects of sex and is ready and wanting all the time hence her meeting guys alone lol id be dead if it was me that had to satisfy her alone lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hubby reading and enjoying erotic stories then plucking up the courage to ask me if i fancied a threesome with another guy after years of not saying anything in case i flipped, took my time to think about it and here we are.

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By *ornstudMan
over a year ago

alnwick

was out dogging one night years ago and loved it then saw a ad in a paper

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Went to op4f with my previous FB and met a dude who told me about this site. Tbh hasn't been great but better than nothing.

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By *ap AdgeMan
over a year ago

Wirral

Was getting a blow job from.a girlfriend when. She mentioned. Her friend had a three some wow that's adventurous. Do you want one? Yes and carried on sucking me a week later we had a debauched weekend in Amsterdam. The rest is history

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After 15 years of married monogamy hubby and I discussed spicing up our sex life. We spent almost a year discussing it, finally started going to clubs, only played with others on our 4th outing. Now I also play alone.

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By *ipswingCouple
over a year ago

portrush

living in a commune many moons ago ,where nudity and sharing was normal... in an open relationship, (19 years now)..our first 3sum with an old friend (m) ...living in the middle of nowhere...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friends were into it so we though why not and went to a party with them. The rest is history.

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By *arehamMan
over a year ago

handforth

Mate asked me to fuck his wife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mate asked me to fuck his wife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tried it with an ex after seeing something about it on the telly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"After watching the documentarie on ch4, where they were in the forest and masked whilst shagging in the car

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How did you start?"

How did you start OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An old fuck buddy of mine told me about it, we joined up as a couple but now have our own separate profiles. When he first told me he thought I'd enjoy it i thought he was mad! But turns out he knows me quite well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Violent wife so put me off relationships"

Similar circumstances.

Wasn't married, but partner was very aggressive and emotionally and psychologically abusive.

Have had one relationship since then, but it didn't last long and it made me realise that I don't need a relationship at this stage of my life.

So this was the basis, or the foundation, if you like that got me here.

That said, since joining fab, I have learnt a great deal about swinging, and the lifestyle, so I understand that it is much more than 'just sex'

I am very much enjoying swinging and have made some good friends here.

Very much enjoying my continued voyage of discovery.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A chow mein and apple sourz with friends... Led to a mad night, 3 years later we have been here on and off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Played with friends years ago then had baby

Hubby couldn't keep his knob in his trousers lol no surprise there so decided to rekindle our journey 4 years ago and love the chilled relaxed life style it leads !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mate was on the site although I wasn't sure at first but then thought why not!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A passing interest.

'Picked up' by a couple in a west end club. Sex in public.

Sex in risqué places.

Found a similar site.

Found this site.

And the journey continues...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me grandad built one in the garden

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A friend sent me the link to his fab profile ~ I think he did it to shock me as I had no idea about any of this ~ but my curiosity took over, created a profile, lurked for months & here I am having fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (shel) used to live near Libs and a lot if people spoke about it, I was intrigued. When I was married we had one d*unken new year with friends with truth and dares, we ended up enjoying foreplay with them.

Then I left my husband and got with a older very kinky fb, he took me to Libs and the rest was history

Paul is new to swinging I met him 7yrs ago and was honest about my history. We dabbled in the beginning but it wasn't the right time as we were too new a couple. We then made a profile a couple of years ago but didn't have meets and then 4 months ago Paul decided he was ready and we have had lots of lovely meets and club nights

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

had my first moresum 10 years ago and missed it, til someone I met on another site told me about Fab and been on the scene just over 2 years now and love it. Works for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I followed a swinger on twitter and she kept posting links to the site about her meets. So I followed her here literally we arranged a few meets but it never happened.

Almost 3 years ago now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First MMF at 17 followed by first FFM at 18, both with my first long term bf. Had a ten year hiatus while I was married bit otherwise been hooked sine then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife planned a trip to Amsterdam for my 40th and wanted to find a woman to wrestle for me (to fulfil a long time fantasy). I found out about the trip and she said she had no idea how to arrange something like that and I suggested we maybe try a swingers club on the off chance that we might meet someone up for it. We got there and just had a fantastic night (without wrestling lol!), met some lovely people and had a lot of sex

we didn't expect to like it so much but we've learned to leave our expectations at the door and we've never looked back!

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago

A naughty gf and her gf then a cpl her gf knew

No complaints.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

I knew a friend on here and another lady who wanted to go to a club with her friends.

I offered to do some reading up for her and just stayed.

I am here by happenstance but wild horses couldnt drag me away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it was my cock!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have everything I want in life, except sex. I do not want another relationship to get sex. Fab is more discreet than picking men up in pubs/clubs. I fear I could eventually acquire a reputation I would never lose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Her...always had fantasies but too afraid to carry them out. Old school friend sent me link to site. Looked, chatted, researched what I wanted from it.

We both met on here 5 years ago. 3 houses later and living a lovely life together we have never looked back. We see the lifestyle as a little treat for when we have a little time spare. Since being together have lived out MOST of our fantasies.....but there's always more to try.

Life is good.

Ps....great question. This is one that the Mrs always asks when we meet new friends. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was bi curious and thought the best way to explore would be meet a couple where the make half is bi. It was the best way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea, been coming and going to sites like this sinse i my early 20's. Guess its the appeal of no strings sex, plus a sex drive i've struggled to control at times in my life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nick asked me 4 years ago what my thoughts was on me with another guy while he watched i said straight out NO. the subject was left but about 12 months ago after many hours of watching porn together we spoke about it again and i decided to give it a go .tried other sites then was told about this one it took another few months to accept the SWINGING word lol but here we are swingers and wouldnt look back

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By *aloo42Couple
over a year ago

preston

BF noticed I liked to use my fav toy whilst I blew him. One day when he said 'Bet you wish that was a real cock?' I didn't deny it. Saw an advert on the side of a van for a club. Rang up. Visited. Met a nice couple from Hereford and now, when the mood takes us. Party on. R

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of the mums from the school run turned out to be a naughty neighbour.

It all started with walking back from dropping the kids at school and then stopping at each others for a brew.

One morning I was having wifey trouble and telling her that I was frustrated in the bedroom department, so she told me about Fab, and then she got the Laptop out and showed me her account.

The next thing I know is as I'm looking around the site, she's under the table releasing my cock and taking it in her mouth.

From that moment on, it was coffee & sex 2 or 3 days a week for 18mths.

So that's how I started.

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By *layfull pairingCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Innocently shagging a lady in a car one night, not realising it was a dogging site and thinking "these guys are a bit ballsy" as they blatently hung round car watching....started chattin to them... Explained to us about dogging and we started from there.. Moved on to clubs, meets, etc....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Started meeting couples through a chat room and it progressed from there into a lifestyle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On holiday in the Dominican and we noticed several of the ladies from hotel were spending the night with members of staff.

One of which was clearly married. Turned us both on and got us talking.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

[Removed by poster at 17/09/14 11:48:36]

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

My ex boyfriend's ex wife opened the door for me....

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By *stwoforfun2Couple
over a year ago

South Suffolk Area

Invited two couples back home after a party, friends and a regular party!

Guys outside having a beer and walked back in to find all three girls at it, turned out the other two were fully bi fems too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dirty chat that was taken to another level"

snap lol bed talk that went further lol

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By *rtemisiaWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

"How did you start?"

Had my first threesome aged 18 and I've been adventurous ever since!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A family friend for me (Sten) over a decade ago. Gave up when I started going out with Morrigan but she knew I had been on the scene and wanted to try.

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By *iggerooooCouple
over a year ago

Conwy

I was a bit of a lad in my teens, go on the pull as most do and one night I went back to a womans house ... her house mate was there too so being the cocky little (bleep) I was, I offered her to join us.

Took some time to convince them both ... great memories.

Anyway,as time went on I wanted more and more ... here I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always been promiscuous . Always played with couples and more than one guy at a time . Unless in a relationship then I have been one man woman. So my friend found the site and signed me up and packed me off to a club and I hated it lol . Then I went to a party and got involved with a poly relationship and that ended badly the woman becoming jealous . So since then I stuck to one man whom I have had as a fb for the last three years and found my way in the club scene and become a social butterfly with people who are as open as me .

I am leaving soon to concentrate on other stuff I have to say I won't miss te sexual side of this but I will miss te social side

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By *LFB.Woman
over a year ago

Farnborough.

An ex fb and his fiance invited me for a 3sum which i loved, and then told me about this site and said i should join, which i did and havent looked back since

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By *iganflirtMan
over a year ago

wigan

Works Xmas party in Manchester

And the boss & his wife introduced me to Xanadus....... Been addicted to the thrill ever since.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the way home 10 yrs ago bursting for a pee, Went to public toilets near to where i lived the urinal x3 were full!, & the 2 cubies had the doors shut. so thought ill wait for a min. then a cubie door opens & out walks a guy. Just as i go to nip in one man turned & jumped in, as i saw woman & man already in there!!. ok so now im not thinking i need a pee, just thinking WTF, the noises from in their get louder & i get horny.

with in 5 mins hes out & so is the guy from the cubie next to it so i jump in there still need a pee so have one with a semi on .lol.... then stand on the toilet to see the lady sitting with a cock in her mouth while her partner films, etc etc etc

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By *oandjohnCouple
over a year ago

South Wales, will travel to Hereford, Worcestershire and Shropshire

Few drink, dirty talk and nothing on tv led us the go to a swingers club. On the dance floor during a slow track having a smooch in the dark and this started to happen. Have not looked back....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dirty chat that was taken to another level"

Same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, it all started out as being a nudist. Always had fantasy of trying to join in with a cpl, but always thought that "swingers" were a myth or legend something left over from woodstock era.

First discovery, I met this cpl on deserted nude beach and they seduced me! I was in my 20s and they were in their 50s.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a couple neither of us were strangers to group sex, our second date was to a fet club with a couples room, never really looked back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My marriage put me off relationships. I started using Facebook dating sites to liven up my weekends away from the kids. My ex boyfriend introduced me to swinging.. Went to a houseparty where I met a very experienced guy (ex porn, worked in clubs etc) still seeing each other 2 yrs later as fbs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lady I was dating had a few contacts, several single men friends, a couple she was intimate with and a lady lover as well, she asked if I was interested in an open relationship. I wasn't at the time, but at the age of 32 I started to like the idea of a fuck buddy. I have been on the scene for around 5 and a half years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Was getting a blow job from.a girlfriend when. She mentioned. Her friend had a three some wow that's adventurous. Do you want one? Yes and carried on sucking me a week later we had a debauched weekend in Amsterdam. The rest is history

Lucky man getting a blowjob for the whole week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How did you start?"

A couple I chatted to in Yahoo chat totally out of the blue asked if I would like to have a threesome with them. I said yes. The rest is history lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We seen a documentary about swingers clubs about 10 year ago and thought we would go to one just for the giggle.

By the end of the night, Shaz was tied naked to a cross having a violet wand used on her

Never looked back since

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