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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

in my opinion and i know there are exceptions but all in all this is pretty accurate, most guys will agree,

its a place where ordinary women are treated like supermodels, and decent looking guys feel unwanted, seems like a guy has to be a model or have a six pack and chiseled good looks to even get to chat to women.. i cant comment on how couples are treated as ive never had a couple profile... rant over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"in my opinion and i know there are exceptions but all in all this is pretty accurate, most guys will agree,

its a place where ordinary women are treated like supermodels, and decent looking guys feel unwanted, seems like a guy has to be a model or have a six pack and chiseled good looks to even get to chat to women.. i cant comment on how couples are treated as ive never had a couple profile... rant over"

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I don't know if your profile has been amended down, as you are looking to leave; however, 1 and a half lines and no public pics is going to make it an uphill struggle for anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

how many profiles have you looked at?

iv seen lots of rough looking men meeting quite fit looking women on here

and I certainly don't get treated like im a super model. maybe the ones that are up for anything are.so that's not because of the way they look is it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I certainly haven't been made to feel like a supermodel on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how many profiles have you looked at?

iv seen lots of rough looking men meeting quite fit looking women on here

and I certainly don't get treated like im a super model. maybe the ones that are up for anything are.so that's not because of the way they look is it."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I certainly haven't been made to feel like a supermodel on here

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

If all the guys who start these sorts of threads added all of their profiles together, they would have at least one decent one!

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By *SweetVioletxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

How would anyone be able to make a judgement as to whether they would want to meet you? Even if you sent the most ground breaking message on checking your profile there is nothing on there to seal the deal unless you wanted some shelves putting up x

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By *ratty_DamselWoman
over a year ago

South East London

A two line profile with no pic to see. Is that really all the effort you have put in and then complain about lack of attention by blaming women?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with this statement....

Women are unbelievably put upon a pedestal on here.

It isn't a bad thing for women to to be made to feel special or desired, but there are women on here who take advantage of this and act quite like little knobhats.

I think everyone just needs to remember, this isn't real life.

One girl who is made out to be a queen on here, could very simply be overlooked when she's out and about.

And vice versa, a guy who is overlooked on here, could very well be chased by the masses when he's out and about.

Just have to take this place as it is however, or go back to the old fashioned way of meeting people in real life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"in my opinion and i know there are exceptions but all in all this is pretty accurate, most guys will agree,

its a place where ordinary women are treated like supermodels, and decent looking guys feel unwanted, seems like a guy has to be a model or have a six pack and chiseled good looks to even get to chat to women.. i cant comment on how couples are treated as ive never had a couple profile... rant over"

What a complete load of tosh .

Ordinary women are treated like supermodels ?

What's this special treatment you speak of ?

Guys need to be all that ?

If you just treat the site and people for what it is , it can be good for everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I think everyone just needs to remember, this isn't real life.

One girl who is made out to be a queen on here, could very simply be overlooked when she's out and about.

And vice versa, a guy who is overlooked on here, could very well be chased by the masses when he's out and about.

Just have to take this place as it is however, or go back to the old fashioned way of meeting people in real life."

I disagree to me and no doubt many other it is real life. Its just a function to find like minded people without the risk of causing offence if we tried the same thing in say Waitrose (Other supermarkets are available)

In many ways its no different to a club or bar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually have to disagree here with the OP. It takes a lot of time and effort (and money) to get the ball rolling as a single male, and you can't rely exclusively on this site to do that but once you start making yourself known things take off.

For example I started chatting to a nice lady on another site - and found we were both on fab as well. Went to a club near heathrow and randomly started talking to her, ended up playing

One thing that is really difficult is just getting the attention of women, but once that has been done opportunities abound. I must really start going to socials that people organise on here and say "Hi" to people in that way - I never know where that could lead, or in what situations.

If you just rely on one opputunity this site has to offer in sending random messages to people you will probably end up sending 100 messages and getting 1 meet, if you're lucky. If you combine all the functions of this site with what the wider swinging community has to offer you will slowly but surely build up a list of contacts and friends.

What is good for me is that most single men don't persist and just dabble with the result that they get one meet a year and feel despondent and frusterated.

using the bar/club anaology to for this site - If I just used the bar to pick people up I would not be that successful but if I have a life outside the bar, the bar then makes a great deal of sense! Of course it's very different for women - they could just frequent a bar and pick up a guy any night of the week.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op your wrong. I got a 6pack like van dam and women are not interested either, tbh it makes women insecure lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the mood im in makes me want to say - youve been here before so you know the score - 3 months and you are verified all without a pic on show and bugger all to show the kind of person you are - so stop moaning you're doing better than some

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By *entleman JackMan
over a year ago

Loughborough

I have a wonderful time from meets on here! Fantastic, thank you!

You on the other hand have a rubbish profile, no picture, and obviously have put in bugger all effort.

So if you keep on doing the same old thing, you will keep on getting the same old results.........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never been made to feel like a super model or ever made a huy feel inadequate of his looks etc. I tend to all the bullshiters out, and meet only genuine guys who are as genuine as me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not overly good looking and certainly don't have a six pack, never caused me a problem in my single days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP

ur right to some degree but wrong on others

i think its more difficult for goodlooking guys onhere. that makes absolutely no sense but Fab is kinda backwards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"in my opinion and i know there are exceptions but all in all this is pretty accurate, most guys will agree,

its a place where ordinary women are treated like supermodels, and decent looking guys feel unwanted, seems like a guy has to be a model or have a six pack and chiseled good looks to even get to chat to women.. i cant comment on how couples are treated as ive never had a couple profile... rant over"

I wouldn't say I get treated like a supermodel lol far from it!

But any men with six packs please feel free to treat me like one if you like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"in my opinion and i know there are exceptions but all in all this is pretty accurate, most guys will agree,

its a place where ordinary women are treated like supermodels, and decent looking guys feel unwanted, seems like a guy has to be a model or have a six pack and chiseled good looks to even get to chat to women.. i cant comment on how couples are treated as ive never had a couple profile... rant over"

You don't even have to be an 'ordinary' woman. Just have a female profile even without pictures and you get the fawning sycophantic men telling you how gorgeous you are. It's totally pathetic! Says alot about how desparate some men on here are. Thankfully I see it all as bollocks and would rather people meet me in person at socials and make their own minds up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how many profiles have you looked at?

iv seen lots of rough looking men meeting quite fit looking women on here

and I certainly don't get treated like im a super model. maybe the ones that are up for anything are.so that's not because of the way they look is it."

Gosh mrs, I'm agreeing with you on something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where's Fabio and his common sense?

OP grow some balls and stop blaming one gender for your failings. Look a little closer to home!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gym is the new "sex" lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree with this statement....

Women are unbelievably put upon a pedestal on here.

It isn't a bad thing for women to to be made to feel special or desired, but there are women on here who take advantage of this and act quite like little knobhats.

I think everyone just needs to remember, this isn't real life.

One girl who is made out to be a queen on here, could very simply be overlooked when she's out and about.

And vice versa, a guy who is overlooked on here, could very well be chased by the masses when he's out and about.

Just have to take this place as it is however, or go back to the old fashioned way of meeting people in real life."

I can't take this post seriously . Sure there are knobhats of both genders, but they're very likely to be like that in real life. If not, then have some empathy for their world could come crashing down when the delusion breaks

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"A two line profile with no pic to see. Is that really all the effort you have put in and then complain about lack of attention by blaming women? "

Well said! I'm sick to death of men putting women down on these sites...

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"I have a wonderful time from meets on here! Fantastic, thank you!

You on the other hand have a rubbish profile, no picture, and obviously have put in bugger all effort.

So if you keep on doing the same old thing, you will keep on getting the same old

results.........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"in my opinion and i know there are exceptions but all in all this is pretty accurate, most guys will agree,

its a place where ordinary women are treated like supermodels, and decent looking guys feel unwanted, seems like a guy has to be a model or have a six pack and chiseled good looks to even get to chat to women.. i cant comment on how couples are treated as ive never had a couple profile... rant over"

I wouldn't say supermodels but a lot of guys bullshit coat women into believing they are fantastic just to get on the nest. We just find it funny to watch as some guys are prolific at it.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

why do you treat them like supermodels, if men would stop fawning at the alter of the vagina and behaved in a manner where mutual respect would flourish...

it would be better for all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A two line profile with no pic to see. Is that really all the effort you have put in and then complain about lack of attention by blaming women? "

What has his profile got to do with it? Your comments are little more than a personal attack kn the guy it just makes you look petty and vindictive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I aint got a 6 pack . I aint no model .i dont have chisled good looks . But what i do have is a personaity . And i have met lots of lovely ladies . Just saying

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By *it of fun cplCouple
over a year ago

village between York and Hull


"I aint got a 6 pack . I aint no model .i dont have chisled good looks . But what i do have is a personaity . And i have met lots of lovely ladies . Just saying "

The women do not think they are super models but just because it is a swingers site it does not mean they will shag anyone. To be honest with so many men chasing so few women they have plenty to choose from so perhaps they do decide to look for a chisle chinned hunk with a 6 pack... supply and demand I guess.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"I'm not overly good looking and certainly don't have a six pack, never caused me a problem in my single days.

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Yes, but you do have a degree in photo-bombing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"in my opinion and i know there are exceptions but all in all this is pretty accurate, most guys will agree,

its a place where ordinary women are treated like supermodels, and decent looking guys feel unwanted, seems like a guy has to be a model or have a six pack and chiseled good looks to even get to chat to women.. i cant comment on how couples are treated as ive never had a couple profile... rant over

You don't even have to be an 'ordinary' woman. Just have a female profile even without pictures and you get the fawning sycophantic men telling you how gorgeous you are. It's totally pathetic! Says alot about how desparate some men on here are. Thankfully I see it all as bollocks and would rather people meet me in person at socials and make their own minds up."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"in my opinion and i know there are exceptions but all in all this is pretty accurate, most guys will agree,

its a place where ordinary women are treated like supermodels, and decent looking guys feel unwanted, seems like a guy has to be a model or have a six pack and chiseled good looks to even get to chat to women.. i cant comment on how couples are treated as ive never had a couple profile... rant over"

Nope, I'm afraid there's flaws in your perception, having said that, I grant you that it is your perception.

There is an over inflation of the superlatives laden on ladies, particularly in the chat rooms.

However, I'm a rather normal average guy, maybe below average, and yet I've befriended a number of folk from these forums, although I do suspect that most are after my cake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always find the messages "you're gorgeous" that I receive hilarious. How can they tell whether I am or not by just looking at my tits? If i send a face pic and they respond with that message then whilst I'm obviously flattered, i take it with a pinch of salt. And what one person may find gorgeous, another may not.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

there was a forum post the other week in the Scottish forum and a guy answered another guy with something like ' the forum ladies in Scotland are the finest in swinging, be nice to them or run the risk of being sent to the Siberia of Swinging in Scotland'

what utter pish, there are probably 8/10 regular ladies in the forum there, all nice people from their forum postings but the forum represents approx 1% of the entire site... why if he wasn't fawning over these ladies, was he doomed to wanking for the rest of his swinging life. it was staggering

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