FabSwingers.com forum: A dilemma

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

More and more, we are finding that when we talk to couples it's the female half we find attractive and the opposite male half does nothing for Mrs Ego.

Would you tell them this??? Would you meet up and just go with it??? Would you meet up and say you only wanted to play with the female half???

If you come across this dilemma, what do you do?

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"More and more, we are finding that when we talk to couples it's the female half we find attractive and the opposite male half does nothing for Mrs Ego.

Would you tell them this??? Would you meet up and just go with it??? Would you meet up and say you only wanted to play with the female half???

If you come across this dilemma, what do you do? "

If you only have one option, there is no choice.

If you have two options, you have a dilemma.

If you have three options, now you finally have choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't play, we wouldn't take one for the team, and certainly wouldn't want a sympathy shag just so they can get there hands on Mrs l I'd rather go without if the shoes on the other foot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oooo talk about taking one for the team!

Meet single fems

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Surely telling them would just be mean? Can't you just say no thank you without pointing out how unattractive you find one of them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Damn those blokes who punch above their weight eh?

I have to agree with earlier poster, don't take one for the team, not fair.

On the flipside, other cpls might be thinking the same about you.

We can't please everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"More and more, we are finding that when we talk to couples it's the female half we find attractive and the opposite male half does nothing for Mrs Ego.

Would you tell them this??? Would you meet up and just go with it??? Would you meet up and say you only wanted to play with the female half???

If you come across this dilemma, what do you do? "

Wouldn't meet up at all. if we are not both interested then no meet takes place.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Not looking at their pics they wouldnt be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to like both or I wouldnt meet x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would just say sorry your not what I'm looking for, to mislead them by offering to meet then telling them you only want the female half is simply time wasting in my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not looking at their pics they wouldnt be."

You fancy her hubby do you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't see the dilema. Never take one for the team

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By *roovytwoCouple
over a year ago

burnley

We have found that unless we both feel some attraction to the other couple then the fun just doesnt work...we both have to agree rather than one saying "well...go on then"

Looks are not the only thing either so sometimes a social to see how we interact can help so see if the initial spark is there.

Agree....Never take one for the team.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No dilemma, just move on to the next couple. Surely your not that desperate for a shag.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Unless they are happy for the lady of the couple to play alone, you really have no dilemma.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We found the same and im sure people thought the same about us too

We didn't play unless there was a 4 way attraction,no one took one for the team,and we would never have said we fancy one but not the other

When you do find the attraction that goes all ways is great fun though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Time to hang your coat up, if you take one for the team.

Mercy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Noticed the phrase "taking one for the team" being branded about here.

For the avoidance of doubt, we wouldn't play unless there was an attraction between all.

We appreciate that we aren't for everyone and it's our opinion that we would rather just be told.

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"More and more, we are finding that when we talk to couples it's the female half we find attractive and the opposite male half does nothing for Mrs Ego.

Would you tell them this??? Would you meet up and just go with it??? Would you meet up and say you only wanted to play with the female half???

If you come across this dilemma, what do you do? "

The best thing to do is not meet them. How would you feel if you met a couple and they said they only wanted to play with your Mrs and not the male?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That happens to me all the time. If I don't fancy both members of a couple I will not play with them. It's usually the guy that I find unattractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"More and more, we are finding that when we talk to couples it's the female half we find attractive and the opposite male half does nothing for Mrs Ego.

Would you tell them this??? Would you meet up and just go with it??? Would you meet up and say you only wanted to play with the female half???

If you come across this dilemma, what do you do? "

Would it be a problem if the male doesnt play and you were going for a mff with the fem half?

I ask because one couple turned us down due to me and I dont even play so I was a bit confused as to why they care what I look like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"More and more, we are finding that when we talk to couples it's the female half we find attractive and the opposite male half does nothing for Mrs Ego.

Would you tell them this??? Would you meet up and just go with it??? Would you meet up and say you only wanted to play with the female half???

If you come across this dilemma, what do you do? "

It happens to us often and no, we wouldn't tell them-we'd just decline an offer without giving a reason

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"More and more, we are finding that when we talk to couples it's the female half we find attractive and the opposite male half does nothing for Mrs Ego.

Would you tell them this??? Would you meet up and just go with it??? Would you meet up and say you only wanted to play with the female half???

If you come across this dilemma, what do you do? "

None of the above. We wouldn't meet other than socially.

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