FabSwingers.com forum: Do women prefer straight guys or bi guys?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi, I'm just interested to know, are women more interested if the guy is only interested in women, or if he's open to playing with another guy as well?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can only speak for myself but I prefer bi guys, even if I meeting 1 on 1 I tend to still be drawn towards bi guys, as a rule they are more open to my likes and its easier to arrange a bi MMF if you already have a few ni guys under your belt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer straight men.

Can you see how this thread will go OP? Everyone is different and has different preferences/choices.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I prefer straight men.

Can you see how this thread will go OP? Everyone is different and has different preferences/choices."

Yes I know what you mean, just wanted to hear some women's opinions on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only straight guys for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And what % of men prefer straight women ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to be attracted to straight guys... I know in couples and clubs and those that aren't honest I have met some bi guys but if I had a choice I would go for straight.

In fact the type of guy that really attracts me is very obviously straight x.it's just my preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No preference

either will do, have been with both and no difference, perhaps when it comes to my mmf bi may be handy

but really doesn't matter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally prefer straight guys!

The idea of two men doing sexual activities together turns me of big time! Just doesn't seem right to me, but this is of course just my opinion before I start getting accused of being homophobic! I'm not against same sex or anything lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And what % of men prefer straight women ?

It depends on the girl.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can only speak for myself but I prefer bi guys, even if I meeting 1 on 1 I tend to still be drawn towards bi guys, as a rule they are more open to my likes and its easier to arrange a bi MMF if you already have a few ni guys under your belt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only straight guys for me

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In fact the type of guy that really attracts me is very obviously straight "

Many gay guys have the same preference

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By *borostephanieTV/TS
over a year ago

eastrea

in my experience i would say women just like men who prefer people who tell the truth most women i meet prefer a bi guy full stop and obviously straight women just like straight guys prefer straight people the problem arises in my case having loads of straight men and women contacting me for bi play and if only these people had put bi on their profile they might have a chance xx mwah stephanie

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I personally prefer straight guys!

I only play with straight men as bi guys (generally) don't meet my play needs, but watching two guys sucking and banging the shit out of each other (no pun intended)

hottest thing ever!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love bi guys for a purely sexual relationship, but if it were a long term where I was in love with the guy, I'd much prefer if he were fully straight.

The reason being, if it were a long term relationship, I wouldn't want to share my man with anyone and I'd know I'd never be enough if he also loved being with guys.

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

I prefer bi guys as much more sexually open and liberal qith less hang ups

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By *obandruthCouple
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Strait men for us , we dont meet bi men full stop,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Strait men for us , we dont meet bi men full stop,

Only problem with that being how do you know they are 100% straight?

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

Ideally bi guys x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer straight guys.

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By *lpha-and-FoxtrotCouple
over a year ago

Kettering

"I personally prefer straight guys!

So do you like guys together or not? In one sentence it turns you on big time in the next it's not right...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see what the difference is, if a bi guy is with a woman then he's not going to be doing anything bi is he????

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By *lpha-and-FoxtrotCouple
over a year ago

Kettering

"Strait men for us , we dont meet bi men full stop,

Only problem with that being how do you know they are 100% straight? "

The amount of guys who state straight on their profiles that contact us saying "I'm bi but I put straight because women are put off" or similar to that is amazing. Each to their own but from our experience there are a lot of guys who are bi just don't want to advertise it for fear of women not being interested in them. Ignorance must be bliss for those who meet with these guys I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Strait men for us , we dont meet bi men full stop,

Only problem with that being how do you know they are 100% straight?

I would never hide my sexuality in the hope of getting a meet, that means id be lying before we even started and thats not a good thing

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By *lpha-and-FoxtrotCouple
over a year ago

Kettering

We've had another message from a "bi" guy with straight on their profile this morning as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We to find that a large number single straight males as stated on their profile message saying they are bi but put straight for various reasons. This isn't limited to single guys either, lots of males with straight in their couples profile declare they are bi either curious/occasional/situational or whatever label they wish to use after bi but bi never the less.

So all those who say they have only meet straight guys I'm sorry to say you've been duped.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've had another message from a "bi" guy with straight on their profile this morning as well."

i just don't get it

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By *lpha-and-FoxtrotCouple
over a year ago

Kettering

"We to find that a large number single straight males as stated on their profile message saying they are bi but put straight for various reasons. This isn't limited to single guys either, lots of males with straight in their couples profile declare they are bi either curious/occasional/situational or whatever label they wish to use after bi but bi never the less.

So all those who say they have only meet straight guys I'm sorry to say you've been duped."

We've had it with couples as well, not to the same degree but it has happened. We don't message guys who state straight as one would assume they aren't going to be interested, quite misleading.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am straight.

But i am happy playing around other men in a mmf, group or gang situation. Its to be expected that 'a crossing of swords' happens in these situations, so I wonder why some prefer bi for an mmf, unless they like watching the guys together?

Have also participated in dvp. As far as I was concerned, just helping the lady with her fantasy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I'm meeting on my own then I couldn't give a monkey's arse whether he's bi or straight or lying through his teeth about it. It makes no difference whatsoever. If I'm meeting with my hubby then much prefer bi as it makes it much more fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I'm meeting on my own then I couldn't give a monkey's arse whether he's bi or straight or lying through his teeth about it. It makes no difference whatsoever. If I'm meeting with my hubby then much prefer bi as it makes it much more fun."

Well feel free to invite me over lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Strait men for us , we dont meet bi men full stop,

Only problem with that being how do you know they are 100% straight? "

Try a sneaky bi attempt the man reaction will tell you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only straight guys for me

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By *enandmollyCouple
over a year ago

Galway

I am happily married to a bi man, I was fully aware of this before I married him. I adore bi males as they in my opinion are more in touch with their emotions and are very relaxed in themselves. They are always perfectly groomed, very clean and tremendous company for a female. So in short bi males all the way for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've had another message from a "bi" guy with straight on their profile this morning as well.

i just don't get it "

theres more bi guys then straight on here apparently.

too much unwanted winks and invite since i unblock M MM on my profile for the GB i am organising

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By *enandmollyCouple
over a year ago

Galway

From what I've seen, straight men are more likely to do bareback, have group sex with out even a shower between each shag. That to me is more worrying, bi men are only acutely aware of their cleanliness and sexual health and more so than any straight guy. Those that have no bi males on their profiles would want to think again about the actual meets they have had , due to the biased opinion here a lot of actively bi men put straight up on profiles which in itself is sad that they feel the need to do so. Maybe if their was more acceptance and less biased opinion more men would be more inclined to be honest

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By *exine xCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

Easy answer is "Each to their own"

It does sadden me that there is still a stigma in being a Bi Male, yet being a Bi Female gets the Reaction of "Bring it on!"

I think a lot of people in the Swinging Scene are not as liberated and open minded as they like to think.

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London

"Hi, I'm just interested to know, are women more interested if the guy is only interested in women, or if he's open to playing with another guy as well?"

all depends on the lady in question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a lot of people in the Swinging Scene are not as liberated and open minded as they like to think. "

This

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By *nIMidlandsCouple
over a year ago

Rugeley

straight men

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By *enandmollyCouple
over a year ago

Galway

I think a lot of people in the Swinging Scene are not as liberated and open minded as they like to think.

This

So so true and it's alive and well here on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a lot of people in the Swinging Scene are not as liberated and open minded as they like to think.

This

I think those that don't enjoy the whole social aspect of swinging then this applies. my experiences especially in clubs even on none bi nights has been very good. its about mutual respect for people wishes and desires

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By *lpha-and-FoxtrotCouple
over a year ago

Kettering

"Easy answer is "Each to their own"

It does sadden me that there is still a stigma in being a Bi Male, yet being a Bi Female gets the Reaction of "Bring it on!"

I think a lot of people in the Swinging Scene are not as liberated and open minded as they like to think. "

Yep, there seems to be some sort of assumption that every bi or gay guy will just jump at the chance of another guy. It took us over a year to find someone right for my first experience, I have tastes and standards which we'd like to think the majority do. Shocking as it may seem to some I don't struggle to keep my hands to myself with another male around. Everyone is entitled to their opinions just seems a little hypocritical when some people, especially women who are bi themselves seem repulsed by the thought of a bi guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Easy answer is "Each to their own"

It does sadden me that there is still a stigma in being a Bi Male, yet being a Bi Female gets the Reaction of "Bring it on!"

I think a lot of people in the Swinging Scene are not as liberated and open minded as they like to think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I consider Bev to be quite adventerous and does not have many dislikes but i do know bi-sexuality is s big turn off for her. Neither of us want to meet bisexual men the thought puts us both off. Bev goes cold at the thought of a woman touching her although id be partial to that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Easy answer is "Each to their own"

It does sadden me that there is still a stigma in being a Bi Male, yet being a Bi Female gets the Reaction of "Bring it on!"

I think a lot of people in the Swinging Scene are not as liberated and open minded as they like to think.

Agreed....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"From what I've seen, straight men are more likely to do bareback, have group sex with out even a shower between each shag. That to me is more worrying, bi men are only acutely aware of their cleanliness and sexual health and more so than any straight guy. Those that have no bi males on their profiles would want to think again about the actual meets they have had , due to the biased opinion here a lot of actively bi men put straight up on profiles which in itself is sad that they feel the need to do so. Maybe if their was more acceptance and less biased opinion more men would be more inclined to be honest"

I've actually found the exact opposite of this! It's the main reason i try not to sleep with bi guys. Of the bi men i know, they admit to being far more indiscriminate and they are constantly asking me to go with them to the doctor when "they went a bit crae-crae at the weekend". I value my health and based on my own experiences with bi guys, i'm not prepared to risk it for a biscuit!

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I never quite get why a bi guy would want to meet people who are turned off by them, it is all about sexual compatibility.

I admire the people who declare their preferences in an honest manner.

If people are offensive about a guy's sexuality, then that's a different matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ever thought that might just be a reflection on the guys that you know and not bi guys in general?

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By *lpha-and-FoxtrotCouple
over a year ago

Kettering

"I consider Bev to be quite adventerous and does not have many dislikes but i do know bi-sexuality is s big turn off for her. Neither of us want to meet bisexual men the thought puts us both off. Bev goes cold at the thought of a woman touching her although id be partial to that"

The two cocks in your wife's mouth at the same time must have been very awkward and off putting then lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer straight men but most men on here seem to be bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I, danne, far prefer bi guys, in fact i wouldnt ever meet a straight guy as they tend to be boring imo and obviously as we are a couple with a bi male then we look for bi guys.

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By *arteeneWoman
over a year ago

aylesbury

"I never quite get why a bi guy would want to meet people who are turned off by them, it is all about sexual compatibility.

I admire the people who declare their preferences in an honest manner.

If people are offensive about a guy's sexuality, then that's a different matter."

Bi straight does it matter as long as you are Honest with your self that is what counts ,you are who you are as long as you are happy I am contacted by a lot of guys and cpls who on there profile they don't show an interest in the trans girls but they still contact us wanting to meet all I say is don't worry just be happy

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By *un In SussexMan
over a year ago

Hailsham

How about orally bi? I consider myself as straight, but when I shag my girl and she sucks cock the same time it turnes me on so much! On few occassions Istarted to kiss her face and swapping that cock in our mouths. That was hot! It happened few times now. But I never see other guys as attractive for me, and would never go for anal. I hardly do anal anyway... only if girl really really wants it... Erotic touching or kissing other guy - no way! How should I describe myself? Bi courious.... I am not... jus ocasionally we sharing the cock when kissing

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By *lpha-and-FoxtrotCouple
over a year ago

Kettering

"How about orally bi? I consider myself as straight, but when I shag my girl and she sucks cock the same time it turnes me on so much! On few occassions Istarted to kiss her face and swapping that cock in our mouths. That was hot! It happened few times now. But I never see other guys as attractive for me, and would never go for anal. I hardly do anal anyway... only if girl really really wants it... Erotic touching or kissing other guy - no way! How should I describe myself? Bi courious.... I am not... jus ocasionally we sharing the cock when kissing

State that you're orally bi in your profile, doesn't necessarily need a "label". I'm confused that the female half of your couple enjoys being licked and touched by women yet isn't bi. Surely there has to be a level of attraction to really enjoy?

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London

well one thing for sure your not 100% straight then if you like to suck cock pick whatever label you want to use

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I definitely prefer straight guys - we don't meet couples where the guy is bi (always assuming they're being honest of course!)

Neither my OH or I have anything against bi or gay men, it just doesn't do anything for either of us sexually so we prefer not to meet them.

(Her)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The two cocks in your wife's mouth at the same time must have been very awkward and off putting then lol.

We only have 2 hidden pics on profile and none are of BJ's.

If we did and Bev has sucked 2 guys same time they were both straight. Dont need to be bi to get 2 cocks in mouth same for dp. Done that but both guys straight not that difficult is it

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By *enandmollyCouple
over a year ago

Galway

There are a lot of bi men who are not physically attracted to men but do however enjoy sexual contact and play with a man. Being bi does not mean you have to be physically attracted nor does it mean that you want to be with every tom , dick and Harry .

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By *lpha-and-FoxtrotCouple
over a year ago

Kettering

"The two cocks in your wife's mouth at the same time must have been very awkward and off putting then lol.

We only have 2 hidden pics on profile and none are of BJ's.

If we did and Bev has sucked 2 guys same time they were both straight. Dont need to be bi to get 2 cocks in mouth same for dp. Done that but both guys straight not that difficult is it "

Not sure what your hidden pics have to do with this, I was reading a verification. It was also said tongue in cheek...never mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The two cocks in your wife's mouth at the same time must have been very awkward and off putting then lol.

We only have 2 hidden pics on profile and none are of BJ's.

If we did and Bev has sucked 2 guys same time they were both straight. Dont need to be bi to get 2 cocks in mouth same for dp. Done that but both guys straight not that difficult is it "

Agree totally, two cocks in a female mouth, dp or dvp does not make the men bi.

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over a year ago

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By *lpha-and-FoxtrotCouple
over a year ago

Kettering

"The two cocks in your wife's mouth at the same time must have been very awkward and off putting then lol.

We only have 2 hidden pics on profile and none are of BJ's.

If we did and Bev has sucked 2 guys same time they were both straight. Dont need to be bi to get 2 cocks in mouth same for dp. Done that but both guys straight not that difficult is it

Agree totally, two cocks in a female mouth, dp or dvp does not make the men bi."

Did I say it made them bi? It was a light hearted, but clearly too subtle joke.

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By *un In SussexMan
over a year ago

Hailsham

She is not bi because she cant get herself to go down on another girl... she is ok with kissing and being licked etc..

. Or maybe we got it all wrong...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She is not bi because she cant get herself to go down on another girl... she is ok with kissing and being licked etc..

. Or maybe we got it all wrong...

Any act with the same sex, be it receiving or giving is a bisexual act.

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London

"She is not bi because she cant get herself to go down on another girl... she is ok with kissing and being licked etc..

. Or maybe we got it all wrong...

Any act with the same sex, be it receiving or giving is a bisexual act."

tell that to all the guys sucking cock still claiming they are 100% straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She is not bi because she cant get herself to go down on another girl... she is ok with kissing and being licked etc..

. Or maybe we got it all wrong...

Any act with the same sex, be it receiving or giving is a bisexual act.

tell that to all the guys sucking cock still claiming they are 100% straight

Ok line them up and I'll blindfold them and see if they can tell the difference between a man and woman haha

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By *arteeneWoman
over a year ago

aylesbury

"She is not bi because she cant get herself to go down on another girl... she is ok with kissing and being licked etc..

. Or maybe we got it all wrong...

Any act with the same sex, be it receiving or giving is a bisexual act.

tell that to all the guys sucking cock still claiming they are 100% straight

Ok line them up and I'll blindfold them and see if they can tell the difference between a man and woman haha"

Mmm bet they can not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She is not bi because she cant get herself to go down on another girl... she is ok with kissing and being licked etc..

. Or maybe we got it all wrong...

Any act with the same sex, be it receiving or giving is a bisexual act.

tell that to all the guys sucking cock still claiming they are 100% straight

Ok line them up and I'll blindfold them and see if they can tell the difference between a man and woman haha

Mmm bet they can not "

Unless the bloke has stubble, but hey a woman might too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love girls...so that technically is me being straight right? What about if I liked samenage and younger TVs/traps, but I wouldn't suck or let them penetrate me does that make me straight or bi or bi curious?... You guys make this sexuality thing so confusingly black and white.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love girls...so that technically is me being straight right? What about if I liked samenage and younger TVs/traps, but I wouldn't suck or let them penetrate me does that make me straight or bi or bi curious?... You guys make this sexuality thing so confusingly black and white.

Call yourself whatever you like, just don't lie about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The two cocks in your wife's mouth at the same time must have been very awkward and off putting then lol.

We only have 2 hidden pics on profile and none are of BJ's.

If we did and Bev has sucked 2 guys same time they were both straight. Dont need to be bi to get 2 cocks in mouth same for dp. Done that but both guys straight not that difficult is it

Not sure what your hidden pics have to do with this, I was reading a verification. It was also said tongue in cheek...never mind."

sorry get the joke was over cautious about the pics as we thought someone had posted the pics on here but did realise after you got info from our veri lol

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

when we meet single guys , we want them to be bi as its much more fun for us

mrs crazy

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By *lpha-and-FoxtrotCouple
over a year ago

Kettering

Call yourself whatever you like, just don't lie about it

Precisely, don't lie about it, stating one thing yet claiming another is the thing that ticks us off.

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By *lpha-and-FoxtrotCouple
over a year ago

Kettering

"The two cocks in your wife's mouth at the same time must have been very awkward and off putting then lol.

We only have 2 hidden pics on profile and none are of BJ's.

If we did and Bev has sucked 2 guys same time they were both straight. Dont need to be bi to get 2 cocks in mouth same for dp. Done that but both guys straight not that difficult is it

Not sure what your hidden pics have to do with this, I was reading a verification. It was also said tongue in cheek...never mind.

sorry get the joke was over cautious about the pics as we thought someone had posted the pics on here but did realise after you got info from our veri lol"

No worries, all said in good humour

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By *aveandkate35Couple
over a year ago

telford

How come whenever I got to get checked at the clinic or when I used to give blood I always, as a male have to answer a long list of questions about sexual activity (protected or not ) with other men?

To me, that suggests that engaging with other males is statically more likely to increase my chances of catching an STD. That is a simple medical fact.

Yes, we chose to play safe and yes it's your own responsibility... Blah blah, you've probably played with someone, blah blah - yes, we know the usual a stuff - no need to go over it again.

However that's a higher risk demographic within what is already considered a higher risk lifestyle.

Everyone makes their own choices based in the information available.

Seeing as I'm straight and Kate gets nothing out of seeing 2 guys together it makes sense for us to avoid bi guys where possible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thing is when you say BI-curious on a profile, girls instantly think 'ooh this guy likes guys and likes cock, yuk!' I don't think that's the case, I been to many naturist camps, so I'm comfortable around cock I don't love it I love vagina.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thing is when you say BI-curious on a profile, girls instantly think 'ooh this guy likes guys and likes cock, yuk!' I don't think that's the case, I been to many naturist camps, so I'm comfortable around cock I don't love it I love vagina.

Doesn't really matter though, if you've had a sexual experience with a man, you are not straight. And I am sure people would appreciate honesty more than any label!

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By *lpha-and-FoxtrotCouple
over a year ago

Kettering

"How come whenever I got to get checked at the clinic or when I used to give blood I always, as a male have to answer a long list of questions about sexual activity (protected or not ) with other men?

To me, that suggests that engaging with other males is statically more likely to increase my chances of catching an STD. That is a simple medical fact.

Yes, we chose to play safe and yes it's your own responsibility... Blah blah, you've probably played with someone, blah blah - yes, we know the usual a stuff - no need to go over it again.

However that's a higher risk demographic within what is already considered a higher risk lifestyle.

Everyone makes their own choices based in the information available.

Seeing as I'm straight and Kate gets nothing out of seeing 2 guys together it makes sense for us to avoid bi guys where possible.

So you agree or disagree with guys who state straight but are bi? If it's more high risk then surely they aren't being fair to others by giving the impression they are straight and therefore "less of a risk". Hope the two bi guys you've met with kept their distance

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over a year ago

Doesn't really matter though, if you've had a sexual experience with a man, you are not straight. And I am sure people would appreciate honesty more than any label!"

But I haven't had any and don't plan to, so I been forced to put straight in my profile so guys and girl don't get the wrong idea.

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over a year ago

To me, that suggests that engaging with other males is statically more likely to increase my chances of catching an STD. That is a simple medical fact.

Yes, we chose to play safe and yes it's your own responsibility... Blah blah, you've probably played with someone, blah blah - yes, we know the usual a stuff - no need to go over it again.

However that's a higher risk demographic within what is already considered a higher risk lifestyle.

Everyone makes their own choices based in the information available.

Seeing as I'm straight and Kate gets nothing out of seeing 2 guys together it makes sense for us to avoid bi guys where possible.

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over a year ago

Doesn't really matter though, if you've had a sexual experience with a man, you are not straight. And I am sure people would appreciate honesty more than any label!

But I haven't had any and don't plan to, so I been forced to put straight in my profile so guys and girl don't get the wrong idea. "

To be fair, it's your account, your life ....don't worry about labels as I said just be honest with people, what you do in your own private life quite frankly is nothing to do with anyone else!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So there you go, OP.....in conclusion some women do prefer bi guys, while some prefer straight guys and some don't care!...who would have thought?

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over a year ago

"The two cocks in your wife's mouth at the same time must have been very awkward and off putting then lol.

We only have 2 hidden pics on profile and none are of BJ's.

If we did and Bev has sucked 2 guys same time they were both straight. Dont need to be bi to get 2 cocks in mouth same for dp. Done that but both guys straight not that difficult is it

Not sure what your hidden pics have to do with this, I was reading a verification. It was also said tongue in cheek...never mind.

sorry get the joke was over cautious about the pics as we thought someone had posted the pics on here but did realise after you got info from our veri lol

No worries, all said in good humour

and discussed and resolved like the fine adults we are

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By *lpha-and-FoxtrotCouple
over a year ago

Kettering

"The two cocks in your wife's mouth at the same time must have been very awkward and off putting then lol.

We only have 2 hidden pics on profile and none are of BJ's.

If we did and Bev has sucked 2 guys same time they were both straight. Dont need to be bi to get 2 cocks in mouth same for dp. Done that but both guys straight not that difficult is it

Not sure what your hidden pics have to do with this, I was reading a verification. It was also said tongue in cheek...never mind.

sorry get the joke was over cautious about the pics as we thought someone had posted the pics on here but did realise after you got info from our veri lol

No worries, all said in good humour

and discussed and resolved like the fine adults we are

You do know that saying I'm a fine adult could be misconstrued

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could never ever sleep with a bi guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I could never ever sleep with a bi guy."

But how do you know 100% that you haven't?

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

"I could never ever sleep with a bi guy."

u do know that alot and i mean alot of "straight" guys are actually bi or bi curious and more than likely u have play with sum

mrs crazy

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"I could never ever sleep with a bi guy."

me too....

they just shoot and go.

fuck overnight stays.

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London

"I could never ever sleep with a bi guy.

u do know that alot and i mean alot of "straight" guys are actually bi or bi curious and more than likely u have play with sum

mrs crazy

such nonsense that maybe the case on fab but not always the case off site , you can't say for sure who she has played with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I could never ever sleep with a bi guy."

wait...what!!! Your profile says your bi...

girls are weird. I'm so done haha

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By *andL-LiverpoolCouple
over a year ago

Huyton

I think a lot of people in the Swinging Scene are not as liberated and open minded as they like to think. "

Mr - L I second that, with my second wife who was a swinger as a couple we had a few man on man encounters where he sucked me off, after our divorce my ex wife who slept with many women as a couple and alone declared I was a gay in disguise!

3 kids later, a new wife and she encourages me to have fun with men both alone and as a couple

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By *aveandkate35Couple
over a year ago

telford

To me, that suggests that engaging with other males is statically more likely to increase my chances of catching an STD. That is a simple medical fact.

Yes, we chose to play safe and yes it's your own responsibility... Blah blah, you've probably played with someone, blah blah - yes, we know the usual a stuff - no need to go over it again.

However that's a higher risk demographic within what is already considered a higher risk lifestyle.

Everyone makes their own choices based in the information available.

Seeing as I'm straight and Kate gets nothing out of seeing 2 guys together it makes sense for us to avoid bi guys where possible.

I think people should just state what they are and what they like.

we much prefer contacts like that.

As for the 2 guys we've met, 1 was socially and the other was, well great really.

the thread was about preference, and we prefer not to - doesn't mean we don't or haven't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I personally prefer straight guys!

same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I personally prefer straight guys!

So do you like guys together or not? In one sentence it turns you on big time in the next it's not right...lol"

She said turns her off not on

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By *lpha-and-FoxtrotCouple
over a year ago

Kettering

"I personally prefer straight guys!

So do you like guys together or not? In one sentence it turns you on big time in the next it's not right...lol

She said turns her off not on

My mistake, must have seen an n instead of the missing f

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