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Like a thief in the night.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Went to an organised party and whilst I had a good time there the host asked us to strip off in the lounge before heading to the bedroom. After we finished I drove home and stopped by the car wash, only when I came to pay there was none of the cash I had in my wallet before the event. I'm not going to name names but I was fucking furious and won't be making that mistake again. Luckily my phone was still there but you need my fingerprint to unlock that so that's probably why.

Keep your valuables safe kids.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Theft is theft. Do you feel up to reporting it?

You also need to give admin a heads up.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No I'm just gonna put it down as a life lesson just wanted a bit of a rant on here.

Was embarrassing at the car wash not being able to pay but they were cool.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Oh .

Hope you didn't have too much cash but what Topsy says is right, theft is wrong and the police won't turn a hair concerning circumstances. I would think twice I admit though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It wasn't a huge amount and there were a lot of people there so I don't think it's worth the hassle but valuables locked in glove box next time.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"It wasn't a huge amount and there were a lot of people there so I don't think it's worth the hassle but valuables locked in glove box next time. "

Yes once bitten etc.

Still not a nice thing to happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would report

Also next time don't take any cash or valuables with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't leave my bag alone at a vanilla party no different for a swingers party.

Sad but true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shocking.

car key on a chain then, like an army tag...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would report

Also next time don't take any cash or valuables with you "

But what to do if you have to travel? Or the car gets stolen?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe mention to the host - you might not be the only one it happened to

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I would report

Also next time don't take any cash or valuables with you

But what to do if you have to travel? Or the car gets stolen? "

Man bag?

I would find it a little odd to be asked to remove my clothes in a separate room but probably would have. These things don't add up until afterwards. Mind you if someone asks us to leave our.stuff elsewhere in that situation we would refuse now.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"maybe mention to the host - you might not be the only one it happened to "

I think it was the host who did it , hence the rather unusual (to me anyway) request to undress in a separate room.

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

That's an awful thing to happen!

We went to a big social once and the next day, one of the organisers held an open house where people could just turn up and chill - and finish off the buffet from the night before. She'd also opened her doors and put a few people up for the night. Later on, she reported that £100 had been taken from her grandchild's money box. Shows how low some people can go. Never assume swingers are inherently honest just because we share a lifestyle choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"maybe mention to the host - you might not be the only one it happened to

I think it was the host who did it , hence the rather unusual (to me anyway) request to undress in a separate room."

i thought that after i had posted

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

That scenario hadn't occurred to me! You know it's one of the people at the party, OP, so I'd consider reporting it.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"maybe mention to the host - you might not be the only one it happened to

I think it was the host who did it , hence the rather unusual (to me anyway) request to undress in a separate room.

i thought that after i had posted "

Mind you it might not have been! We can share the Sherlock Holmes hat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"maybe mention to the host - you might not be the only one it happened to

I think it was the host who did it , hence the rather unusual (to me anyway) request to undress in a separate room.

i thought that after i had posted

Mind you it might not have been! We can share the Sherlock Holmes hat "

i was brought up to share

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"maybe mention to the host - you might not be the only one it happened to

I think it was the host who did it , hence the rather unusual (to me anyway) request to undress in a separate room.

i thought that after i had posted

Mind you it might not have been! We can share the Sherlock Holmes hat

i was brought up to share "

Me too, with three younger brothers it was necessary.......I still hate sharing a Mars bar

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By *ack Genuine BullMan
over a year ago

Loughborough

Why take your wallet / jewellery / valuables to a meet anyway?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Why take your wallet / jewellery / valuables to a meet anyway? "

You need some money if you've travelled any distance.

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