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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it just me, or has anyone noticed that it's mostly the woman that's bi in a couple, not the men?

Do the guys only look for straight single males aswell? Not bi guys? Or don't they mind?

Just wondering that's all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both bi here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are both bi, and its amazing how many male halves of couples as well as single males all say they are straight in their profiles but say they are bi in messages. There still appears even in this enlightened age that there is a stigma attached to openly saying your bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are both bi, and its amazing how many male halves of couples as well as single males all say they are straight in their profiles but say they are bi in messages. There still appears even in this enlightened age that there is a stigma attached to openly saying your bi."

This... just because it says they are straight, doesn't mean they are.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We are both bi, and its amazing how many male halves of couples as well as single males all say they are straight in their profiles but say they are bi in messages. There still appears even in this enlightened age that there is a stigma attached to openly saying your bi."

Ahh true! I'd never thought of that! If you had a mmf surely it'd be better if both the guys were at least orally bi?

In my opinion anyway..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im definately very straight but we are fine with bi guys playing with Emily as I dont play anyway and if we have more than one guy they are asked to play straight while with us. Neither of us have any need to see man on man play. But what they do elsewhere is not our concern

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By *unlovincoupleXCouple
over a year ago

DUDLEY

Both bi here too. Don't see anything wrong with it at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me, or has anyone noticed that it's mostly the woman that's bi in a couple, not the men?

Do the guys only look for straight single males aswell? Not bi guys? Or don't they mind?

Just wondering that's all "

I've noticed that too. 80 percent of women are bi or bi curious and barely any men in couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are both bi, and its amazing how many male halves of couples as well as single males all say they are straight in their profiles but say they are bi in messages. There still appears even in this enlightened age that there is a stigma attached to openly saying your bi."

This is quite true, I've had some openly hostile responses, more so from females, but then for a lot the bi part seems a huge fantasy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do most of the so called bi guys only play bi in a ladies company?

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By *cmsideCouple
over a year ago

WIRRAL

Both bi here.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

My experience of meets with couples is that the guy usually is bisexual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both bi here and open about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Both bi here and open about it "

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Why do most of the so called bi guys only play bi in a ladies company?"

As has often been said before - many are often more 'bi-playful' than the traditional definition of bi.

I have no interested in playing in an MM situation - but enjoy it as part of a couple meeting others, whether that be other couples or single males. It's simply another avenue of fun during a meet.

Just as the majority of bi curious fems in couples tend to play WITH their partners rather than without them.

It's like anything else - a preference.

A

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By *indys loverCouple
over a year ago

Stratford on avon

straight male here , we would bypass a bi male couple when looking to play

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"straight male here , we would bypass a bi male couple when looking to play"

Don't you trust yourself?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One thing I've noticed about 'straight' men is that all the other 'straight' men/ TV/TS's that leave them verifications must all be liars, what are the odds on that?.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One thing I've noticed about 'straight' men is that all the other 'straight' men/ TV/TS's that leave them verifications must all be liars, what are the odds on that?......."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do most of the so called bi guys only play bi in a ladies company?"

I do really just more fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do most of the so called bi guys only play bi in a ladies company?"

I'll play alone with guys too

100% bi male here

100% straight female

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By *ndercover2016Couple
over a year ago

turriff


"Why do most of the so called bi guys only play bi in a ladies company?

As has often been said before - many are often more 'bi-playful' than the traditional definition of bi.

I have no interested in playing in an MM situation - but enjoy it as part of a couple meeting others, whether that be other couples or single males. It's simply another avenue of fun during a meet.

Just as the majority of bi curious fems in couples tend to play WITH their partners rather than without them.

It's like anything else - a preference.

A"
definitely this 100%.....we are both bi playful but only in a group or couple meet

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By *mooth4uMan
over a year ago

Kings kynn

We're open about male being bi , the amount of straight guys that message and want to play makes us think at lease half on here are bi guys , no matter what the profile says !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bi threesomes are the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do most of the so called bi guys only play bi in a ladies company?"

I'm a female and I would only play with a woman with a guy there x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Paul's straight but were happy to play with a bi couple as long as the male plays straight. It's a shame really as I would love to watch a man suck Paul off but he's not having any of it!!

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Paul's straight but were happy to play with a bi couple as long as the male plays straight. It's a shame really as I would love to watch a man suck Paul off but he's not having any of it!!

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How very selfish! Lol

It's always amused me the number of times I've seen profiles stating 'no bi men in couples'.

He's in a couple. He probably likes women as much as a straight guy in a couple.

And 'bi', by definition, means he enjoys sex with women too. I've yet to meet a bi guy in a couple that couldn't control the overpowering urge to jump in another male that obviously happens the second he's in a room with another naked couple.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are the other way around. Rhett is "bi playful" is only bi in a group or threesome situation and I (Scarlett) am straight. I was bi-curious, tried it, didn't like it especially with the overtones of only doing it because it turns the blokes on. I don't freak if a woman touches me but I do do "stuff" with women, they are much squidgier than I expected, not for me

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By *arkstaffsMan
over a year ago

Rugeley

Bi here, open about it. Bi threesomes and foursomes are awesome!

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"We are the other way around. Rhett is "bi playful" is only bi in a group or threesome situation and I (Scarlett) am straight. I was bi-curious, tried it, didn't like it especially with the overtones of only doing it because it turns the blokes on. I don't freak if a woman touches me but I do do "stuff" with women, they are much squidgier than I expected, not for me "

Squidgy is good!

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I might be bi, just haven't tried it yet (Mr C) Mrs C isn't interested in women at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both bi and proud here. ??

Most guys we have met for bi play do say straight on their couples profile. It apparently puts some people off. Each to their own but it hasn't put people off us and if it did, well I wouldn't want to meet them anyway (mrs) x

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By *moothies.Couple
over a year ago

Woodthorpe

Bi male and straight female here. It makes MMF play so much more fun, but I'm not interested in a MM only meet.

Playing with another woman does nothing for Mrs, although she doesn't have a problem when she's been touched by one in the past.

But as mentioned in previous posts, I wouldn't try and do anything with a straight male if he didn't want it.

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By *ouple_SpondonCouple
over a year ago

Spondon

Both bi here; can play straight if need-be, but much prefer bi play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most guys we have met for bi play do say straight on their couples profile. It apparently puts some people off. "

We have no problem meeting a bi guy who can play straight. But a guy claiming to be straight who is verified by a guy or admits to being bi will be blocked. We dont play with liars

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

all bi here

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By *earlyNipsCouple
over a year ago

St Neots

Guy in a couple here:

I debated putting "straight" on my profile, but thought I'd rather be honest about it. I'm not *actively* looking to play with another guy as such (far more interested in the ladies than the guys), but if it were the right guy and he was down with it too, then we'll see how it goes.

But, yea I've noticed that too. The ratio of bisexual women to men does seem oddly disproportionate. I find it hard to believe that male bisexuality in this community is as genuinely uncommon as the profiles suggest...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"straight male here , we would bypass a bi male couple when looking to play

Don't you trust yourself?!

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By *indys loverCouple
over a year ago

Stratford on avon

going on from my previous post someone mentioned 'if your straight how come you have a veri from a TV'

quite simple really we had a drink and a chat at a club with a well known person off the forums and a pleasure it was too ,,,,, although im straight im not homophobic

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London

It's simply more socially acceptable on here to be a bi woman than a bi man.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"going on from my previous post someone mentioned 'if your straight how come you have a veri from a TV'

quite simple really we had a drink and a chat at a club with a well known person off the forums and a pleasure it was too ,,,,, although im straight im not homophobic "

I bet that social was a right laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bi male str8 fem here, nothing better than a bi MMF threesum.

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