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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Have you ever bumped into people from here in ordinary life? Did they recognise you? How did it go?

I have done recently but if they recognised me they didn;t say... Not really what you want when you're with your parents!

What are your experiences?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, it's happened to me twice.

Once, I was approached by someone I'd spoken with a few weeks previously in a nightclub near my office (I was with my colleagues!). We chatted for a bit, had a drink and then parted ways. Luckily for me, when my nosey team mates asked him how he knew me, he said we'd dated but lost touch.

Second time was less awkward and just a polite "hello".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, never happened to me yet lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Mine were running an ice cream van my family wanted to go to.

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By *arkman69Man
over a year ago

Erdington

I once saw someone who I've spoken to briefly in the past while taking my mom shopping in Asda!! This woman looked even hotter in her fitted dress than she did in her naked pics.

Was tempted to say hi but I thought, best not to

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By *orksfuncoupleCouple
over a year ago

huddersfield

yes went to see Prince in leeds a few moths back, the couple in front of us Karl had met alone before, nothing was said then a message sent asking if we enjoyed concert, why would anyone approach someone they have met when they are with friends etc i don't know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont think so but then i occasionally bump into sommeod i one and think gee i know them from somewhere - and it makes me wonder

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have heard of one lady who works at a supermarket checkout that is very open about saying hello to people she has met in clubs and about what they got up to. I am sure it entertains the other people waiting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have come across many local fabbers where i work so i just smile politely and serve them as i would every other customer

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have come across many local fabbers where i work so i just smile politely and serve them as i would every other customer"

Best way!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, i have. I was alone but in a supermarket. Stopped, had a general chat, then went on my way. No big.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember talking to a lady I met and she was with her hubby. Was weird

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was with my son in Asda once and the woman behind me was a reg from the local club, tried to strike up a convo but I panicked haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a meet with a couple and it turned out we had a mutual friend / acquaintance.

Two days later, I saw the female half of the couple while in the business premises of the mutual friend.

Needless to say we were both totally discreet and behaved like complete strangers - i.e. not letting on that we knew each other.

But it does feel a little weird, lol

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By *it of fun cplCouple
over a year ago

village between York and Hull

We have bumped into people we know, we just carry on as normal. The one that annoyed me was when someone we know from swinging told a mutual friend that we were into swinging. Have not spoken to her since! it is called discretion.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

A couple of times when I have been glammed up. It's always been a positive experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha ha ha yes this has happened. It's was quite cool. A cheeky smile as she was serving me at the counter with a que forming. Then we laughed about it later actually made the next meet really hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha! - trying to get my comfortable girl to join on here as well, and this question came up.

My answer was ;

"Well. If someone you know in real life, recognises you here, the last thing they are going to do is go on Facebook and shout out I SAW THEM ON MY SWINGING SITE!!!" ..

... Think about that. xD

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

We turned down the aisle in a supermarket straight into the couple we had met a week or so earlier. They had their child with them! We smiled at each other and said hello as we went past them. Was a bit awkward but not too much as they messaged us a few hours later and asked if we wanted to meet again soon.

We also regularly bump into another couple in various places but we are very friendly with them so it's very much like seeing old friends, much hugging and kissing

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Have you ever bumped into people from here in ordinary life? Did they recognise you? How did it go?

I have done recently but if they recognised me they didn;t say... Not really what you want when you're with your parents!

What are your experiences?"

Yes, bumped into a playmate in Sainsbury. We're both single and on our own, we just looked at each other and didn't break a step. There was nothing to prevent us talking but as my sub he wouldn't have approached me and I wasn't in Domme "mode".

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hopefully all parties can be discreet, but theres always one! Just cos you let the whole world know what you get up to in private doesn;t mean everybody wants to do that.

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By *regboy49Man
over a year ago

Sandhurst


"Have you ever bumped into people from here in ordinary life? Did they recognise you? How did it go?

I have done recently but if they recognised me they didn;t say... Not really what you want when you're with your parents!

What are your experiences?"

I always say as I leave a meet ' it's nice not to meet you ' and I have bumped into a couple of people from and we've just exchanged a nod to each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ironically, a couple that are on here have just walked past me as they were on their way to a wedding at the bottom of my street, we have never been in contact with them as they are into different things but its always on your mind in similar situations weather anyone recognises others in civvy world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We bumped into another couple we had been chatting on on here , I'm Primarni they tried to talk but we had our 13 year old Girl with us, a few days later the male half turned up at Miss giggles work trying to talk to her ...he did it a couple of times and told her not to tell his partner

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I have seen quite e few I've the years but you just nod or say hi if you get the chance as then just carry on as normal, there is no need to shout it from the roof tops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive got two ladies from my village on here ...

They havnt recognised me as i didnt return face pics once i recognised them .

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By *iguy for funMan
over a year ago

CIRENCESTER

for me it's almost the opposite - there is a guy on here with no publically available pics who I got chatting to online and says he sees me all the time in my local (small) tescos! but I have no idea what he looks like......

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

yes, I just walk past with my nose in the air...

fuck speaking to dirty swingers in the street.

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By *ittykate84Woman
over a year ago

CHESTER

I had a meet which ended half way through when he confessed he lied and had a girlfriend so he left quickly then! Week or so later im walking round Tesco and come face to face with him.. So quite loudly said "you left your lighter in my bedroom on Saturday" ... Just as his mum and girlfriend come round the corner... Needless to say I walked off and left him to that one!

Cruel yes but I hate being lied to!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a meet which ended half way through when he confessed he lied and had a girlfriend so he left quickly then! Week or so later im walking round Tesco and come face to face with him.. So quite loudly said "you left your lighter in my bedroom on Saturday" ... Just as his mum and girlfriend come round the corner... Needless to say I walked off and left him to that one!

Cruel yes but I hate being lied to! "

Well done Kate

I luv it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a meet which ended half way through when he confessed he lied and had a girlfriend so he left quickly then! Week or so later im walking round Tesco and come face to face with him.. So quite loudly said "you left your lighter in my bedroom on Saturday" ... Just as his mum and girlfriend come round the corner... Needless to say I walked off and left him to that one!

Cruel yes but I hate being lied to! "

i can never think off the cuff remarks quickly enough - i love that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone messaged me on here the other day saying he recognised me from being next to me at the traffic lights whilst driving through town!

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By *rRetourMan
over a year ago

T.Wells

It's an interesting thought.. There's a Spa down the road I'd love to try out....but I'm SURE I'd meet a load of peeps from work in there!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive got two ladies from my village on here ...

They havnt recognised me as i didnt return face pics once i recognised them .

"

Hate to be the one to break this to you but you use a face pic for your profile pic...........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive got two ladies from my village on here ...

They havnt recognised me as i didnt return face pics once i recognised them .

Hate to be the one to break this to you but you use a face pic for your profile pic........... "

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!


"Ive got two ladies from my village on here ...

They havnt recognised me as i didnt return face pics once i recognised them .

Hate to be the one to break this to you but you use a face pic for your profile pic........... "

I was thinking the very same thing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As far as I know no one has ever recognised me when in my 'civvies', and if they have they have never approached me. I don't understand why people freak out bout genuinely bumping, I'd quite enjoy it. But that's probably got something to do with the fact that im single childless and all my friends know what I get up to. I'm still discreet with it though I'm not gonna start screaming 'OMG HE FUCKED ME SENSELESS LAST WEEK'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes a guy I meet sometimes is in the same supermarket.. We don't ever speak there..

And a couple of guys at work...

Its a large place but I get the odd message saying nice dress today...

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By *ifferent69Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

If your brave enough to put face pics on profile.......

I think it is only a matter of time you,ll bump into some else....

You just have to except it, though i I understand the awkwardness of it.

Maybe we all should agree in a special fab gesture ie. Wink/ tongue in cheek / or hand sign.

To enable us to covertly clock each other..

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