FabSwingers.com forum: Straight swap couples

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Whilst we are not adverse to fem fem play does anybody else find it hard to find straight couples to straight swap partners without fem/fem play?? I really enjoy watching wife with another guy so so horny and have a few brilliant mmf sessions but wife would love to watch me with another female while she fucks her husband but find these kinda couples quite elusive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sure you could ask the couple to play it straight. My missus likes girls but can manage to keep her hands of other girls who are not bi.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Not saying wife dont like playing with women but she just loves cock much much more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not saying wife dont like playing with women but she just loves cock much much more

There is nothing wrong with that. If she doesn't want to lay with other girls then she should say so.

Sure bifem couples can control themselves and have a great straight full swap meet.

Just be honest and up front and there should be no issue, if there is just move on, plenty of fish on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

But what am saying is it is increasingly hard to find couples that really enjoy watching each other with others at the same time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sure you could ask the couple to play it straight. My missus likes girls but can manage to keep her hands of other girls who are not bi."

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"But what am saying is it is increasingly hard to find couples that really enjoy watching each other with others at the same time"

I find it a bit off putting if the guy I am having sex with is busy concentrating on watching his wife with A. That could be the problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But what am saying is it is increasingly hard to find couples that really enjoy watching each other with others at the same time

I find it a bit off putting if the guy I am having sex with is busy concentrating on watching his wife with A. That could be the problem."

Surely that is half the point of same room swapping, watching your partner have fun? Separate room different matter of course. If the people involved are only there for their own sexual enjoyment rather than a shared experience then they might as well go off on their own for meets, no!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"But what am saying is it is increasingly hard to find couples that really enjoy watching each other with others at the same time

I find it a bit off putting if the guy I am having sex with is busy concentrating on watching his wife with A. That could be the problem.

It depends. There is a huge difference between eye contact with your husband or wife now and again and effectively being treated like s blow up doll while a man watches your husband and his wife. I'm not saying that is what happens with the op but if they concentrate on the watching each other aspect of a meet it might put people off.

As I often say it's a four way thing and if two people appear to want the situation to be more about them it would put us off. Of course being in an erotically charged situation with your partner is a huge turn on, the sight and sound of someone you love enjoying themselves and giving pleasure is great but the same goes for the other couple too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But what am saying is it is increasingly hard to find couples that really enjoy watching each other with others at the same time"

We seem to get winked by them all the time... It's not for us because I like the flexibility that the prospect of bi play offers...it's not that I can't control myself, it's that it feels stilted if I have to stop myself reaching out constantly...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But what am saying is it is increasingly hard to find couples that really enjoy watching each other with others at the same time"

Bev and I are both straight and enjoy watching one another play with other straight couples.

Fucking a persons wife while watching Bev being fucked by hubby is a huge turn on for us both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We find it hard to find couples who are genuinely ok to play straight, some say they are until we arrange a meet then the same old questions start like "do you think mrs will be up for some girl girl play when we meet" or "your mrs doesnt know what shes missing not playing with another woman" dont get us wrong mrs mids is bi curious but it sometimes seems like this is a invite for other women to play with her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we often get approached by couples that are wanting full and straight swaps, its the norm on here to always be inundated with offers that don't meet your boundaries on your profile

we are going to change ours and put that we no longer want beautiful single bi fem nymphomaniacs lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we also love straight full swap meets, although i am bi (fem) i do love hubby to have sex with other women as he likes me doing the same

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By *extoysareusCouple
over a year ago

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As a bi curious couple you may find it harder to find straight couples

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Personally I don't see any difference in straight couples meeting other straight couples or those with a bi fem (or even a bi guy!).

If you can't agree boundaries before a meet - why meet them? It's no different to any other preference or activity such as no anal, kissing or taking pics. It's simple communication surely?

Or are all the bi fems as unable to control their bi urges as much as bi guys allegedly are?

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By *ue and robCouple
over a year ago

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Kim prefers cock we love straight swap but true it's very hard to find a similar couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have no problem with meeting bi couples and have done in the past and most of the times we have had some great full straight swap fun but it sort of spoils the moment when the female of the other cpl pushes girl girl play onto mrs mids, dont get me wrong I cant wait fir the moment I see another woman explore mrs mids fir the first time but I would want it to be when shes ready and with who she wants and not to be felt pushed into it,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally I don't see any difference in straight couples meeting other straight couples or those with a bi fem (or even a bi guy!).

If you can't agree boundaries before a meet - why meet them? It's no different to any other preference or activity such as no anal, kissing or taking pics. It's simple communication surely?

Or are all the bi fems as unable to control their bi urges as much as bi guys allegedly are?

Summed up perfectly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We prefer FF fun but it is by no means essential and straight swap while different is just as enjoyable.

We have met women who clain to be bi but clearly aren't and would much prefer honesty and a straight swap. Sadly I think some women feel the need to lie purely as bisexuality is seen as the norm

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By *ornycoupleleedsCouple
over a year ago

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we find it very hard to find straight couple.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We find it almost as hard to find a straight couple as it is to find a single female if not harder at times :/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well def no doubts with us. We only play straight weeven turn down others who have bi or curious on their profile as its off putting for us.

Bev goes cold and dries up at the thought of another woman touching her and the thought of a guy being aroused at me would send me into meltdown.

Dont mind dvp with another guy in bev but i put him out my mind and concentrste on Bev.

So all you similar straight couples add us to your list and form our own friends circle.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"We prefer FF fun but it is by no means essential and straight swap while different is just as enjoyable.

We have met women who clain to be bi but clearly aren't and would much prefer honesty and a straight swap. Sadly I think some women feel the need to lie purely as bisexuality is seen as the norm"

Is it? Is that why people express surprise when I say I'm straight?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We meet as straight swap. If we meet a couple we play straight as my wife is straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We prefer FF fun but it is by no means essential and straight swap while different is just as enjoyable.

We have met women who clain to be bi but clearly aren't and would much prefer honesty and a straight swap. Sadly I think some women feel the need to lie purely as bisexuality is seen as the norm

Is it? Is that why people express surprise when I say I'm straight? "

I think it is by many. We've had plenty of people trying to tell my wife it's just because she's not met the right girl yet.

Perhaps I should say something similar to their straight fella

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By *bthreeCouple
over a year ago

Yeovil

"Not saying wife dont like playing with women but she just loves cock much much more

There is nothing wrong with that. If she doesn't want to lay with other girls then she should say so.

Sure bifem couples can control themselves and have a great straight full swap meet.

Just be honest and up front and there should be no issue, if there is just move on, plenty of fish on here"

totally agree, we are not into being pushy and play only as much the others want too, other wise its not fun is it xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"We prefer FF fun but it is by no means essential and straight swap while different is just as enjoyable.

We have met women who clain to be bi but clearly aren't and would much prefer honesty and a straight swap. Sadly I think some women feel the need to lie purely as bisexuality is seen as the norm

Is it? Is that why people express surprise when I say I'm straight?

I think it is by many. We've had plenty of people trying to tell my wife it's just because she's not met the right girl yet.

Perhaps I should say something similar to their straight fella

Lol!

You should see their faces when I say I don't like receiving oral

right after I say I'm straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We prefer FF fun but it is by no means essential and straight swap while different is just as enjoyable.

We have met women who clain to be bi but clearly aren't and would much prefer honesty and a straight swap. Sadly I think some women feel the need to lie purely as bisexuality is seen as the norm

Is it? Is that why people express surprise when I say I'm straight? "

I have nothing to substantiate it but I think that there are a disproprtionately high number of bi and bi-curious women on here (and other sites) compared to society as a whole. And while I'll accept that bisexual women are going to potentially drawn to non-monogomy, I don't believe it explains the majority of people.

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By *rank_SimoneCouple
over a year ago

Bideford

We are a straight couple and only play it straight, we have played with couples where the female is bi - bi curious but they have respected our wishes.

But the reason its difficult to find other couples is because all four have to clique, not unless you have a relationship where one is prepared to take one for the team.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We prefer FF fun but it is by no means essential and straight swap while different is just as enjoyable.

We have met women who clain to be bi but clearly aren't and would much prefer honesty and a straight swap. Sadly I think some women feel the need to lie purely as bisexuality is seen as the norm

Is it? Is that why people express surprise when I say I'm straight?

I'd agree with that. Lots that do it just for their man but don't really want to. Seems to be almost some unwritten rule that swinging women are 'supposed to be' bi.

I think it's very brave of swinging women to 'come out' as straight.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"We prefer FF fun but it is by no means essential and straight swap while different is just as enjoyable.

We have met women who clain to be bi but clearly aren't and would much prefer honesty and a straight swap. Sadly I think some women feel the need to lie purely as bisexuality is seen as the norm

Is it? Is that why people express surprise when I say I'm straight?

I hate to disagree........but.........

The site isn't desperate from society. You can't gauge a percentage of bi fems/males based on membership of a swingers site.

You can only see it more clearly!

*assuming profiles have honest statuses!

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Separate - not desperate!!!!!!

Friggin autocarrot!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi guys! Is a straight single fem allowed to join in the debate?

Firstly, in my opinion there is a hugely disproportionate number of bi-curious and bi women on fab than there is in society as a whole! Perhaps because those ladies are more likely to adore sex and explore boundaries/ experiment in a way that society as a whole doesn't? ( Most of my friends have sex once a month if that - poor things!)

I've also - i'm delighted to say in my short time here - found most swingers to be a disproportionately open and friendly bunch!

If you're struggling to find straight couples to swap qith - might it be easier to find a single straight fem and a single straight male chosen by both fems?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Separate - not desperate!!!!!!

Friggin autocarrot!!

Right first time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We prefer FF fun but it is by no means essential and straight swap while different is just as enjoyable.

We have met women who clain to be bi but clearly aren't and would much prefer honesty and a straight swap. Sadly I think some women feel the need to lie purely as bisexuality is seen as the norm

Is it? Is that why people express surprise when I say I'm straight?

I think it is by many. We've had plenty of people trying to tell my wife it's just because she's not met the right girl yet.

Perhaps I should say something similar to their straight fella

Lol!

You should see their faces when I say I don't like receiving oral

right after I say I'm straight

My wife's the same. She much prefers to suck cock than receive oral. Shame really because I love going down on ladies. Especially when they cum.

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By *extoysareusCouple
over a year ago

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my wife has had bi experiences with myself in vanilla land, but she has always said she was straight, but enjoyed it.

from when we discovered swinging she seems to be more hungry for cock which she never has or experienced.

She is straight with a by curious side depending on her emotions of the experience

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