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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is there a swingers signal so other swingers know. Hand signal or something. If not shall we invent one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've been wondering the same! We're on holiday and wish there was an easy way to spot swingers x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think we should invent one. How about middle finger left hand tucked in half under. By Middle finger I mean the one next to wedding ring finger. Will put a picy on our profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah we've thought that too! I think there should be FAB car stickers! Xx

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By *irtygirl11Couple
over a year ago

East Cheshire

Just a small badge on shirt or blouse would be ok. Just so others can spot them. .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good idea. But would have to always have it with you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah you can wear a badge of a chameleon that's the recognised symbol

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

displaying an aero bar seemed popular this morning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have sasked this several times. There are several like rings ankle Braceletes. But all could be fools gold. Never know unless suggest it.

I thought of making a shirt Which says something like swingEn with golf clubs or 2 swing dancing that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fingers all together, thumb tip resting on finger tips to make an 'O' shape. Then move hand side to side while staring intently at the person you suspect is a swinger.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Fingers all together, thumb tip resting on finger tips to make an 'O' shape. Then move hand side to side while staring intently at the person you suspect is a swinger. "

I'm on the bus trying it now.........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a small badge on shirt or blouse would be ok. Just so others can spot them. ."

Blouse?? Who wears blouses these days? I don't think they exist anymore

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

so The Daily Mail gets hold of it and.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes they tap their ears 2 times on the right side lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Mmm not sure if everyone is taking this seriously lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Mmm not sure if everyone is taking this seriously lol

I was thinking of something very simple like a finger tucked under so you can display it when you feel it is the right time. Maybe in a pub while drinking or out and about. But by simple stopping nobody would be the wiser. Lol but thanks for all the comments

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Mmm not sure if everyone is taking this seriously lol

I was thinking of something very simple like a finger tucked under so you can display it when you feel it is the right time. Maybe in a pub while drinking or out and about. But by simple stopping nobody would be the wiser. Lol but thanks for all the comments "

For many of us this is an occasional pastime, not something we're looking to be involved in 24/7 so if someone made any sort of sign we'd ignore it.

Can you really not see how something like this might backfire?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mmm not sure if everyone is taking this seriously lol

I was thinking of something very simple like a finger tucked under so you can display it when you feel it is the right time. Maybe in a pub while drinking or out and about. But by simple stopping nobody would be the wiser. Lol but thanks for all the comments

For many of us this is an occasional pastime, not something we're looking to be involved in 24/7 so if someone made any sort of sign we'd ignore it.

Can you really not see how something like this might backfire?"

It would never stay a 'secret' signal. Idiots would do it then scream and point "swinger!!!!".

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The advantage of only displying a sign when you want allows you to ignore it. We are the same doing this for occational fun nothing more.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Scarlet your probably right xx

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

With the increase of threads recently about being approached by people in the supermarket whilst kids are with you, I don't think this would be a fantastic idea.

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By *arnaclebillMan
over a year ago

Robin Hood County

Perhaps we should carry a plant pot full of pampas grass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess it would have to be well advertised across all sites and within clubs etc. And by then it may get into irresponsible hands sadly.

Would be good however, there's so many big workplaces I've been in over the years and wondered how many there would be in there!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I often used to say 'fab' on occasion to see if anyone noticed. The chameleon might be an idea or a thunderbirds enamel badge 'F.A.B'.....never seen a lady wear an ankle chain and I wouldn't notice something as subtle as a hand movement. I'd need something like a T shirt with 'I'm a swinger' on it to actually go up to someone and ask 'are you a swinger?'

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By *K DriverMan
over a year ago

Weston super Mare

What about wearing a pair of red shoes?

or does that mean no knickers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

White pop socks

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Scarlet your probably right xx"

Sorry... I don't mean to diss your idea... but some people are eejits and don't understand discretion. x

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"I often used to say 'fab' on occasion to see if anyone noticed. The chameleon might be an idea or a thunderbirds enamel badge 'F.A.B'.....never seen a lady wear an ankle chain and I wouldn't notice something as subtle as a hand movement. I'd need something like a T shirt with 'I'm a swinger' on it to actually go up to someone and ask 'are you a swinger?' "

If I had a quid for every time someone at work said 'fab' - I'd be friggin loaded!

For the first month after I'd joined I did that whole 'do they know something?' internal panicky thing.

Now it goes over my head. It's a very common word!

*unless there's shitloads more people in my company up to mischief than I've ever suspected!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I write it on the back of my truck sometimes "are you FAB? " have had a beep from one car,, was a guy though just my luck!

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By *nn and PeterCouple
over a year ago

.Meon Vale Stratford Upon Avon

I wear a chameleon tie pin at work it's been in plain view to the public for our fours years , nothing know one understood the significance of it

, thinking of getting the wife an ankle bracelet

With mffm on it and see if anybody understands the meaning of the letters lol .

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By *regboy49Man
over a year ago

Sandhurst


"Fingers all together, thumb tip resting on finger tips to make an 'O' shape. Then move hand side to side while staring intently at the person you suspect is a swinger. "

Think this is already in use for a lot of drivers in London

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fingers all together, thumb tip resting on finger tips to make an 'O' shape. Then move hand side to side while staring intently at the person you suspect is a swinger. "

Might backfire though! If someone gave me that signal, I'd deck em lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it should be the same as a Freemasons handshake that way I win all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fingers all together, thumb tip resting on finger tips to make an 'O' shape. Then move hand side to side while staring intently at the person you suspect is a swinger.

Might backfire though! If someone gave me that signal, I'd deck em lol"

I guess you tried it and figured out what I meant...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fingers all together, thumb tip resting on finger tips to make an 'O' shape. Then move hand side to side while staring intently at the person you suspect is a swinger. "

Ah excellent news! People do this all the time to me so they must all be gagging to swing with me!

Blimey thinking about it there's some really surprising swingers out there, Mrs Miggins from the bakery, my Doctor always gives me the Swinger signal as I leave the surgery, even the vicar is clearly an ardent Swinger after my body then!

I thought it was hard for lone Males on here, but everybody wants to Swing with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We wear t-shirts with matching slogans on them 'indiscreet swingers happy to be approached by anybody'. Works for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What if a non swinger is sitting with their finger tucked under? They might take offence at being approached.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or you could just walk over and say hello. It works for me

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

Feathers!!!!! Anyone wearing feathers has to be a swinger

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By *razymadlunaticsCouple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough


"Fingers all together, thumb tip resting on finger tips to make an 'O' shape. Then move hand side to side while staring intently at the person you suspect is a swinger.

I'm on the bus trying it now.........

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well just be careful you dont get arrested lol

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By *razymadlunaticsCouple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough


"Fingers all together, thumb tip resting on finger tips to make an 'O' shape. Then move hand side to side while staring intently at the person you suspect is a swinger.

Ah excellent news! People do this all the time to me so they must all be gagging to swing with me!

Blimey thinking about it there's some really surprising swingers out there, Mrs Miggins from the bakery, my Doctor always gives me the Swinger signal as I leave the surgery, even the vicar is clearly an ardent Swinger after my body then!

I thought it was hard for lone Males on here, but everybody wants to Swing with me "

i once seen a magistrate doing the same thing to a guy he locked up! so it must be so!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Scarlet no worries just thought it might be a good ideabbut am now thinking not lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we thought the same and so sue is getting a tattoo just above her bikini line ..two male and two female symbols

intertwined . so basically four overlapping circles for a 4 some

will post pictures on the 23rd lol

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

We have worn Chameleons bracelet / pendant and the 'swingpin' but these haven't produced any reaction. Had a few swinger meets on holiday but those have been from us coming straight out and saying we were swingers. Some people have said "we're not" but a few have said "great, so are we!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there a swingers signal so other swingers know. Hand signal or something. If not shall we invent one? "
carry a pampas grass around with you in a big pot lol.....chameleons do a range of jewellery x

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

Nobody listens to sayme (massive sigh)......FEATHERS...oh and PAMPASS GRASS....the first one sticks out of their bottom....the other one you will find makes a mean basket when weaved! T

2 for 1

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone. Think we might just say hi you look fab and see if it gets a reaction iof hi are you on fab.

The pampas grass seemed like a good idea then if the person is boring you could hide behind it.

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fingers all together, thumb tip resting on finger tips to make an 'O' shape. Then move hand side to side while staring intently at the person you suspect is a swinger.

Might backfire though! If someone gave me that signal, I'd deck em lol

I guess you tried it and figured out what I meant... "

Oh yes

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By *bthreeCouple
over a year ago

Yeovil


"Just a small badge on shirt or blouse would be ok. Just so others can spot them. ."

great idea

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