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DO YOU INVITE STRANGER TO YOUR MATRIMONIAL BED ROOM

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By *ieutenant OP   Man
over a year ago

london

Some couples/female don't allow stranger into their bedroom or matrimonial apartment .instead they prefer secluded room for fun.of which I respect. I will do the same as well.

What about you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *lanwoodMan
over a year ago

Alton

I've come across that issue and also women who won't get under the covers as that feels "too personal". Can't see the problem myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No,absolutely not.our bedroom is for us and us only.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" We have little ones it's their home so no wouldn't have anyone in our bed x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have used our bedroom / bed a few times and it makes it all the more horny to be honest .

But then we have absolutely no issues in the sense of swinging , we don't have any don't do this or that , which some couples do .

Whole we totally respect that , it's not for us .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have been discusding having a guy stop the night with us. Id love to be woken in the early hours to a guy fucking. Bev the thought of this turns us both on very much

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Yes we have and do invite some people into our home. Usually those we have already met socially or elsewhere.

We mostly use the front room as there is more space. But we have used our bedroom on occasion too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my hubby doesn't mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have no issue with it personally but prefer club or hotel meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am single, but yes been invited to few and had sex in their marital bed. Cant see any problems myself by it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some couples/female don't allow stranger into their bedroom or matrimonial apartment .instead they prefer secluded room for fun.of which I respect. I will do the same as well.

What about you?"

Inflatable double bed in the living room

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

We use our 6' Queen size bed as it fits 4 on comfortably for naughty fun, our spare room is mainly for pics/films as its neutral & we also use that to accommodate couples/singles etc.

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By *lligator3Man
over a year ago

Dundee

It is a bit quirky that you can pound his missus till dawn but not enjoy his memory foam lol

Each to their own tho.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes we've used our bed for meets!

Our bed is a king size so can fit more people on it than the small double in the spare room, all I do is put a different duvet on it to play on. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No you cant fuck my mrs on our bed but you can in the car...outdoors or club. Confused.com lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

where I cant see the logic in it, its doesnt mean I wouldnt respect that choice..of course, others would have to respect mine,if it were in my own home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a couple of playmates who id definately allow into our bed and they'd be more than welcome to stay the night too

We don't accommodate though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are a couple of playmates who id definately allow into our bed and they'd be more than welcome to stay the night too

We don't accommodate though "

theyd have to put up with your rancid loud farts though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is a bit quirky that you can pound his missus till dawn but not enjoy his memory foam lol

Each to their own tho."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are a couple of playmates who id definately allow into our bed and they'd be more than welcome to stay the night too

We don't accommodate though

theyd have to put up with your rancid loud farts though "

They still have to in a hotel room,at least the windows open fully in my bedroom

What are you doing in here at this time? Get back to work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, our bedroom is our bedroom & is just for the two of us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope, our bedroom is our bedroom & is just for the two of us"

Same as us. We do meet at home but we stay downstairs. Our bed is just for us 2.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope, our bedroom is our bedroom & is just for the two of us

Same as us. We do meet at home but we stay downstairs. Our bed is just for us 2. "

Likewise re the downstairs.

BTW, nice pics......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first few meets were in a couples own bedroom (same couple, repeat meets) but they were watching / voyeurism meets as they had sex.

Something really exciting about being invited into their house, their own bedroom, with all their personal knick-knacks and family photos etc on the dresser. We had to do them lunchtimes while the kids were at school .. Loved it.

Much better environment wise I thought than a hotel room etc which is a bit more clinical

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh well i like to be different - the bed here could tell a few - we always seem to end up there

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By *illyjohnyCouple
over a year ago

brighton

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By *illyjohnyCouple
over a year ago

brighton

We have used the bedroom but broke the bed so the living room is much easier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, we don't accommodate, I keep my swinging life separate from my real life so I would feel uncomfortable with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have used the bedroom but broke the bed so the living room is much easier"

Ours broke as well, there were a few people on it at the time! Had to re-inforce the frame. Thinking of making a heavy duty bed for playtime.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the rare occasions we can accom we mostly use our bed, seems stupid not to really. I like to be comfortable when bring used lol.

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By *ay_yes_to_pinkyWoman
over a year ago

manchester

I used my bedroom a few times but once we got married and our new bed for a wedding present it's all about downstairs or spare room now

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Some couples/female don't allow stranger into their bedroom or matrimonial apartment .instead they prefer secluded room for fun.of which I respect. I will do the same as well.

What about you?"

I only meet single men and twice I've met men who didn't use their bedroom, but had old sheets for the floor. Needless to say I didn't stay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well ~i have sometimes ended up sleeping in the guest room whilst our visitor sleeps the night in bed with my wife, depends on the guy and what the wife wants of course.

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By *irtyAndCh33kyCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

We're happy to have people at our home and in our bed....it's really horny when everyone has gone lying in bed having a snuggle and reminiscing at the nights antics

We did discover that our bed doesn't hold 6 people though! It now has a dip at the bottom where the frame buckled lol

Mrs Dirty

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

my bed creaks, but its also mine and mine only. I dont share my bed, so I meet in clubs and occasionally hotels x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville

No. .I usually play alone with hubby's approval. .. But even if he joins us would usually be in hotel or other venue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have used our bedroom / bed a few times and it makes it all the more horny to be honest .

But then we have absolutely no issues in the sense of swinging , we don't have any don't do this or that , which some couples do .

Whole we totally respect that , it's not for us .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yea don't have a problem, invite to the house and straight upstairs mmm

After a social meet of course x ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

We have moved house 3 times & changed the bed in that time also.

It is just a room & a piece of furniture which in really does not represent in some kind of metaphorical way our marriage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, our guests, we untie, and they are free to, retire to the guest room... Eventually.

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By *ogloomMan
over a year ago

Levens

Experience of being taken to their bed was good. More relaxed atmosphere. Also waking him up in the morning as you take her is great. ... I think he thought so to.

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By *ouple_SpondonCouple
over a year ago

Spondon

When we first started out we agreed we wouldn't have sex with other people in our matrimonial bed. Instead we would lug this large mattress downstairs and prepare it on the living room floor.

However, we also realised that this was hardly inviting and started to see why people would rather not cum to ours.

Then we moved, and have much less space, so it became a necessity to use the bed.

Now we're wondering why we were fussing all that time!

Our bed works perfectly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just a bed after all!!!

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By *taceylacy1Couple
over a year ago

Notts

Yes, only bulls

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By *cutebum9Couple
over a year ago

wallsend

Yes all the time whilst I make hubby wait in the living room till I've finished having fun

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By *taceylacy1Couple
over a year ago

Notts

Does anybody want to share my matrimonial bed Saturday night whilst hubby is banished to the spare room.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have done yes

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

She didn't like the idea, so we just did club meets for well over a year. Then we became good friends with a couple and decided to invite them to our place. Had a great same-bed full swap foursome on the matrimonial kingsize. She was totally happy about it, so we started doing home meets with complete strangers.

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

We've got no problem with using our bed....there's just more room in the lounge

Do like the idea of a stopover though and being woken by *that* noise next to me....

Bry (and Charlotte)

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

I've only ever visited a handful of couples or wives who've not played in the marital bed - for me, it's by far the best place to enjoy another man's wife!

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By *taceylacy1Couple
over a year ago

Notts

bed available tonight

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

A nice cosy rug on the living room floor is fine too

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

No,our bed is for us only

Miss

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

A stranger absolutely not!

But someone we know, like and trust, no problem at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we're both involved then yes it's fine Mr

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By *eaven and Hell 69Couple
over a year ago

HULL

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