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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anyone on both sites? If yes which is the most productive in terms of meets?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Erm meets or dates

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way would I pay to be on a dating site. IE (match.com).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think both sites seemed to have merged into one at times causing all sorts of confusion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use both. I get more dates from online dating sites and I get more casual sex meets from Fab. Unsurprising, really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Brother-in-law and his now wife met on Match. So that site DOES work!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on pof. Most of the guys I see on here too...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought the usual combi was fab n POF.... I know a few on both.

And a few also on badoo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought you have to pay for match?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

forget match or any paid for dating sites

pof is a good shout

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met on POF

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'm on Trip Advisor - crap for sex but cool for visiting places.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on POF

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are on Just-Eat ........ again crap for meets but good for food

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By *urious_JSMan
over a year ago

Boothstown

I'm on POF as well as on here..trying to find someone that want's this lifestyle as well as the romance etc...a hard gem to find it would seem

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By *entadreadMan
over a year ago

Essex


"I use both. I get more dates from online dating sites and I get more casual sex meets from Fab. Unsurprising, really. "

Off to join now...

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Was on POF but now only on OKCupid, Tinder, Badoo, Uniform dating and a couple of others

Dont use them now though as Fab is all I need. pof wss great and had lots of fun relationships from there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On POF too...and yes...see alot of the same faces

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was on POF but now only on OKCupid, Tinder, Badoo, Uniform dating and a couple of others

Dont use them now though as Fab is all I need. pof wss great and had lots of fun relationships from there. "

I had SO much fun with OkCupid! I may try it again, I'd forgotten about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I use both. I get more dates from online dating sites and I get more casual sex meets from Fab. Unsurprising, really. "

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my experiance alot of ladies on here need to be on the other site !

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By *ark NoirMan
over a year ago

London

Certain guys I see on the scene get way to possessive. Telling women they want to be with them and no one else and that they don't want them to play elsewhere, pfft please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have found that the 'pay' sites often use 'tricks' to get you to part with money.

I've found a number of them that allow you to register and browse without having to part with any money, but require you to part with a significant sum in order to read messages.

In my experience, one can receive numerous messages from members while on free member status, but once you have paid, not only do the messages dry up, but if you reply to the messages you received as a free member, that is where the conversation ends.

I even found one pay dating site that had a member on there that I actually knew personally. The system generated a message from her.

Rather than pay up to read it, I contacted her through facebook to ask if she'd messaged me on this dating site - which she hadn't.

I then contacted the site owners to point out that I had very clearly caught them in the act of misleading users - they denied it of course, but I cited the 'evidence' I had and demanded they delete my account and any and all personal data they had on me.

In my opinion, this sort of practice only ruins the reputation of 'pay' dating sites.

And it seems that they're all at it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are using Match.com for meets that's seriously fucked up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Milk tray.com ermmm No

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm on Trip Advisor - crap for sex but cool for visiting places. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dunno why everyone is talking about different sites...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Certain guys I see on the scene get way to possessive. Telling women they want to be with them and no one else and that they don't want them to play elsewhere, pfft please "

Unfortunately they want a sexually open women but don't want her seeing other men. Other women yes,men no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hahahah mega

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone on both sites? If yes which is the most productive in terms of meets?"

I tend to have far more success on vanilla sites - although I haven't tried M.com.

But I'd say vanilla.This site, for example, is particularly difficult to get on meets on - well that's my experience anyway.

But you do find that some women are on both, yes.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

I've never understood the whole uniform dating bollocks!

A site for people in uniform or people who like uniforms. So - theoretically - anyone!

And does tesco, asda or McD's count as a uniform?

A

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I have been on match and pof before but they seem to be surprised about my "hobbies and experience" lol.

I don't bother now as I would need to meet ladies too anyway so stick with fab. Every so often I re join but don't tend to find anyone I click with.

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By *BW100Couple
over a year ago

Suffolk/Norfolk border

I actually met my partner over 2 years ago on FAB, both not looking for a relationship but love at first sight so you do meet the right person when your not looking, now got the best of both worlds as we swing together ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never understood the whole uniform dating bollocks!

A site for people in uniform or people who like uniforms. So - theoretically - anyone!

And does tesco, asda or McD's count as a uniform?

A"

Yes they are uniformed but the emergency services and the army are a more attractive prospect.

You never see profiles saying Ex Burger flipper on here

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