FabSwingers.com forum: overfeeding

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi just wondered what you all thought about your partner overearing to excess so they put on more and more weight?

I always bring home my wife a treat (chocolate, cream cakes etc) and she is putting on weight. She is already size 18. She loves eating and won't stop, sometimes she demands I go to shops and buys her more and she scoffs everything

I do find something v sexy about her desire to eat and eat.

To answer any queries, no she hasn't got an waring disorder or medical condition, she just loves food.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a documentary that you may find interesting if you can download it from somewhere,its called fat girls and feeders

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There is a documentary that you may find interesting if you can download it from somewhere,its called fat girls and feeders"

Hi that's interesting I will look that up later, thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feeding is a kinky role play to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are in a feedee relationship - its quite well known amongst people with (as they term it) a fat fetish, or those who just love bbw/ssbbws.

It can have very adverse effects on the lady, if not managed correctly. As I see it anything can become a problem if it interfers somehow with peoples lifes. A problem is how you define it.

I do love bbw's myself, and it's almost the bigger the better lol - but apart from this shallow bit of me, I do know peoples weight causes medical issues, ranging from diabetes to self esteem.

If your partner wants to be big I can't see a problem with it.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Hi just wondered what you all thought about your partner overearing to excess so they put on more and more weight?

I do find something v sexy about her desire to eat and eat.

To answer any queries, no she hasn't got an waring disorder or medical condition, she just loves food. "

If it was my partner I wouldn't be happy but you must do what makes you both happy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Feeding is a kinky role play to

I have a fantasy of me bring her useful slave and feeding her loads of cream cakes and just watching her gorging on more n more food

Anyone else done this?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If it was my partner I wouldn't be happy but you must do what makes you both happy

I totally agree with you,its her body and I respect what she decides to do with it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You are in a feedee relationship - its quite well known amongst people with (as they term it) a fat fetish, or those who just love bbw/ssbbws.

It can have very adverse effects on the lady, if not managed correctly. As I see it anything can become a problem if it interfers somehow with peoples lifes. A problem is how you define it.

I do love bbw's myself, and it's almost the bigger the better lol - but apart from this shallow bit of me, I do know peoples weight causes medical issues, ranging from diabetes to self esteem.

If your partner wants to be big I can't see a problem with it."

Yeah I do say to her and she understands about adverse effects etc but she just doesn't stop eating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You are in a feedee relationship - its quite well known amongst people with (as they term it) a fat fetish, or those who just love bbw/ssbbws.

It can have very adverse effects on the lady, if not managed correctly. As I see it anything can become a problem if it interfers somehow with peoples lifes. A problem is how you define it.

I do love bbw's myself, and it's almost the bigger the better lol - but apart from this shallow bit of me, I do know peoples weight causes medical issues, ranging from diabetes to self esteem.

If your partner wants to be big I can't see a problem with it.

Yeah I do say to her and she understands about adverse effects etc but she just doesn't stop eating"

Its ok now while she is still a size where she can look after herself but I work with a few obese people where their weight has becomes a disability and need care, will you be happy still if you have to become her full time carer and have to give up your job/life to look after her, believe me it happens

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I read somewhere that the feeder will feed someone and feed them until they can't move then move on to someone else. Not saying this is the op btw, just saying.

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By *ilver_medallistMan
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

"You are in a feedee relationship - its quite well known amongst people with (as they term it) a fat fetish, or those who just love bbw/ssbbws.

It can have very adverse effects on the lady, if not managed correctly. As I see it anything can become a problem if it interfers somehow with peoples lifes. A problem is how you define it.

I do love bbw's myself, and it's almost the bigger the better lol - but apart from this shallow bit of me, I do know peoples weight causes medical issues, ranging from diabetes to self esteem.

If your partner wants to be big I can't see a problem with it.

Yeah I do say to her and she understands about adverse effects etc but she just doesn't stop eating

Is that not part of the fetish though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I watched that programme, the woman's husband was basically killing her because of the over feeding, she was huge and I'm sure she had a gastric band put in 2 lose the weight and he didn't like.

Constantly feeding sum1 2 get them 2 such a size is classed as sum sort of abuse, I'm sure that's wot they sed on there. I could b wrong.

I can't see how ppl can get 2 that size, feeding/eating huge amounts is damaging whether ur healthy b4 it or not, men who r into it r basically killing there other halves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I read somewhere that the feeder will feed someone and feed them until they can't move then move on to someone else. Not saying this is the op btw, just saying. "

Yeah its usually when they cant do anything for themselves they move on, soon as the ladies need their arses wiping they move on cause that's not part of the fantasy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

TLC -- Strange Sex: Feederism...his goal was immobility. She since decided to become healthy and apparently they've now split up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite a sensitive subject this. I fully believe it is completely up to you and her and if you're both 100% happy then it's nobody else's business. However, I also know that overeating can be linked to depression, and it can also be a vicious circle - you eat coz you feel down when you look in the mirror but that in turn makes you feel down. I'm not saying that is how your other half feels, merely that it could be the case.

Speaking as a woman whose weight has yo-yoed over the years, I would find it incredibly hard if my partner tried to influence me to either lose weight or gain weight.

If your OH is genuinely happy with her size then great, but she may need to know that you would find her attractive whatever weight she is..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for all your comments

My wife enjoys eating and of course knows that would lead to putting on weight. She is aware of the consequences.

I tell her on a daily basis I love her for who she is and show my appreciaton to her.

In fact last night I brought some cream éclairs into the bedroom...needless to say we had a good time wink wink

Love to hear from more people, has anyone been a feedee or feeder etc x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I like combining food and sex but not in a feeder way, more in a rolling about in trifle on a plastic sheet way. Perfectly normal - I know this because I read it in a magazine at Hove train station.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry, but have you not seen these programmes !!! The person eating has got so big~they can't do a thing!!

They class it as a "disability" !! No, they got really fat. Makes my blood boil.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And at the end of the day the good old National Health will be there to sort you both out.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"I like combining food and sex but not in a feeder way, more in a rolling about in trifle on a plastic sheet way. Perfectly normal - I know this because I read it in a magazine at Hove train station. "

This made me chuckle

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