FabSwingers.com forum: Pathetic & past it at 36?

By *SweetVioletx OP Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I find it quietly amusing to be accused of being past it now that I am 36 along with being labelled as pathetic. But small wonder that young single guys get a rough deal on here after some of the responses I get from the under 30's.

I know that all men are not the same having met many wonderful single guys on and off this site but they are a clear minority. Bearing in mind that I had a hidden profile up until 4 days ago I have had to block nearly every single male who contacted me for one reason or another since then.

It is a sad state of affairs that a girl can't say no without receiving abuse. In this case all I did was not provide my kik user name.

If they are like that on here god help them in real life x

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

block all guys and do the searching for someone who takes your fancy, craft a message and get the ball rolling...

may take the angst away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not you that's pathetic, its the people (and not just single guys) who cannot take rejection without resorting to abuse.

As for being past it at 36 ..... REALLY??!! I'm having the best sex I have ever had and often with much younger guys and I'm 54!!

Continue blocking and meet the guys you want to meet. Have fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't sound like you are the pathetic one in that conversation!

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

"It's not you that's pathetic, its the people (and not just single guys) who cannot take rejection without resorting to abuse.

As for being past it at 36 ..... REALLY??!! I'm having the best sex I have ever had and often with much younger guys and I'm 54!!

Continue blocking and meet the guys you want to meet. Have fun x"

Same here!!!! Phew. Glad I'm not the only one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find it quietly amusing to be accused of being past it now that I am 36 along with being labelled as pathetic. But small wonder that young single guys get a rough deal on here after some of the responses I get from the under 30's.

It is a sad state of affairs that a girl can't say no without receiving abuse. In this case all I did was not provide my kik user name.

If they are like that on here god help them in real life x"

You definitely don't look past it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Past it!

They must be mad,

I would of loved it if I got some attention of Women older the me,

Oh and I had to fab your profile pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All this talk of blocking single guys is whats pathetic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All this talk of blocking single guys is whats pathetic

It's in everyone's interest to block those who are antagonistic. Why should she tolerate a bad attitude? Ridiculous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All this talk of blocking single guys is whats pathetic

It is idiot single guys who ruining it for everyone else. Pathetic is anyone who cannot cope with rejection

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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago

a land up north..... of leicester

"block all guys and do the searching for someone who takes your fancy, craft a message and get the ball rolling...

may take the angst away.

This x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Idiot single guys make the other shine brighter

Im sure the OP has endless compliments everyday on here compared to abuse,and abusive people are easy to deal with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Past it xSweetvioletx?

I hardly think so!!

You're hot!

I most definitely would.

Even fabbed some of you pics.

You're only as old as you feel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have to remember that 36 is grandma age in Liverpool

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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago

a land up north..... of leicester

"You have to remember that 36 is grandma age in Liverpool

Lol I don't think that's restricted to just Liverpool though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not you that's pathetic, its the people (and not just single guys) who cannot take rejection without resorting to abuse.

As for being past it at 36 ..... REALLY??!! I'm having the best sex I have ever had and often with much younger guys and I'm 54!!

Continue blocking and meet the guys you want to meet. Have fun x"

so very true block the twats their not worth you time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"block all guys and do the searching for someone who takes your fancy, craft a message and get the ball rolling...

may take the angst away.

Simple and very effective.

I wonder why more women don't do it that way...

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By *teveeb46Man
over a year ago

Blackpool

"It's not you that's pathetic, its the people (and not just single guys) who cannot take rejection without resorting to abuse.

As for being past it at 36 ..... REALLY??!! I'm having the best sex I have ever had and often with much younger guys and I'm 54!!

I could agree more with you in all what you have said. I'm almost 68 and still going strong. If a lady say's no why on earth do these young know it guys get upset....just move and there is nothing your going to do to change a girls mind....listen to the older generation and treat a lady like a lady and not something just to be use....sitting back in my rocker now

Continue blocking and meet the guys you want to meet. Have fun x"

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By *SweetVioletx OP Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Bless you all for your sweet comments - I know there are some great guys out there and only the odd few who are idiots - maybe I just got a flurry in a few days and the next couple of weeks will be plain sailing x

Ps. 36 and a great grand ma :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"block all guys and do the searching for someone who takes your fancy, craft a message and get the ball rolling...

may take the angst away.

That's why I seem to be getting more opening messages from women....they must be doing just that!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"block all guys and do the searching for someone who takes your fancy, craft a message and get the ball rolling...

may take the angst away.

Simple and very effective.

I wonder why more women don't do it that way...

I like to rant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been away from FAB for a year and it does seem to be less open and social than it was... Or maybe I am past it too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm nearly 36, I'm not past it. I never had it to begin with.

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

"Bless you all for your sweet comments - I know there are some great guys out there and only the odd few who are idiots - maybe I just got a flurry in a few days and the next couple of weeks will be plain sailing x

Ps. 36 and a great grand ma :p"

I'm 36 aswel, it is frustrating the amount of young girls on here who set their age preference at 18 to 35, so i'm a year out and unable to contact them.

If that is their personal preference then i understand and respect that, but it is frustrating non the less. I refuse to lie about my age.

On the point that some moron called you pathetic for not giving him your kik, i don't even have a kik account so what does that make me? LOL.

You should've offered to give him a kik of a different kind?.....maybe a swift Kik in the nuts would've changed his attitude?

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

That's why I seem to be getting more opening messages from women....they must be doing just that!"

That is the one reason some dont do it...the opening message.

Lots of ladies refuse to make the first move so blocking all is counterproductive.

I tell any lady who will listen to do this. The reduction of white noise in the form of messages is enough to make your Fab experience more relaxing.

Then treat it like a menu and select from whatever YOU want.

I am reliably informed it is very liberating.

In case you are wondering...I am in the meat section; rare but always get a well done at the end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All this talk of blocking single guys is whats pathetic

It's in everyone's interest to block those who are antagonistic. Why should she tolerate a bad attitude? Ridiculous. "

Absolutely! Some total idiots on here at the moment who don't have a clue about swinging. There the pathetic ones who totally deserve to be blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single guy I'd like to think I'm pretty reasonable but I also know that I'm an acquired taste and one of those blokes that a lot of women probably won't find attractive in that way... but I remain polite and respectful. No-one is taking that away from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm nearly 36, I'm not past it. I never had it to begin with."

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By *ozzy87Man
over a year ago

Crawley

It is a shame when single guys are like that. It's horrble for the recipient and makes single guys look bad.

Makes things difficult for those of us with manners.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah this site is going downhill fast.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is a shame when single guys are like that. It's horrble for the recipient and makes single guys look bad.

Makes things difficult for those of us with manners."

I don't see it like that, surely it makes it easier?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had to have a sneaky peaky at your profile for scientific reasons of course. everything certainly seems to be in tip top condition and looking rather fine.

Mr Ejit obviously needs to grow up a little bit before he's allowed to take his stabilisers off, don't block everyone, just the muppets and make sure you report the abusive ones- if everybody did that the site would be a nicer place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just to say that most of the men that this is aimed at won't even read this because alot of them aren't interested in swinging, they are interested in "smashing" as many women as possible and think they have every right to feel like that because all women on here are" well up for it "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"block all guys and do the searching for someone who takes your fancy, craft a message and get the ball rolling...

may take the angst away.

Simple and very effective.

I wonder why more women don't do it that way...

I like to rant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is a shame when single guys are like that. It's horrble for the recipient and makes single guys look bad.

Makes things difficult for those of us with manners.

I don't see it like that, surely it makes it easier? "

It does, it makes it LOADS easier. I don't know why people moan so much about idiot single guys. It's easy to spot the idiots. The decent ones stand out a mile.

Same goes for couples....

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By *horltzMan
over a year ago

heysham

With a bum like that , I think more women could do with being 36 and past it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've had some bad luck. When I have my single men block off I've said no thank you to loads and not had abuse. Only one so far has been rude. They are usually quite polite and say thanks for the reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is a sad state of affairs that a girl can't say no without receiving abuse. In this case all I did was not provide my kik user name.

If they are like that on here god help them in real life x"

Lets be honest, you probably get a hundred complimentary messages from single guys to every one nasty one. You love single guys really lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You have to remember that 36 is grandma age in Liverpool

Lol I don't think that's restricted to just Liverpool though"

I think that's the trend in Cwmbran too!

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By *moSexGeeksCouple
over a year ago

Warwick

It is a sad state of affairs that a girl can't say no without receiving abuse. In this case all I did was not provide my kik user name.

If they are like that on here god help them in real life x"

Beauty is in a person, not their age. The proof is all around you and yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, I think that the OP looks fabulous, and at 36 has only just begun life!

I only started swinging in my late 50's and still get lots of offers - some of which I'm happy to accept.

Yes, there are some very childish souls on here - but you learn to let it bounce off you, and block with an air of serenity....

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Why let one comment get to you so much?

I would hazard a guess that you get far more nice messages than rude ones. Focus on those....The rude or silly comments make it easier for the 'good' ones to stand out.

We prefer to search and message single men ourselves. Far easier and find it more fun.

From another 36 year old, who's pass it.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"You've had some bad luck. When I have my single men block off I've said no thank you to loads and not had abuse. Only one so far has been rude. They are usually quite polite and say thanks for the reply "

This

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By *icefellatwoMan
over a year ago

hastings

It is a sad state of affairs that a girl can't say no without receiving abuse. In this case all I did was not provide my kik user name.

If they are like that on here god help them in real life x"

I cant understand some of the morons on here. Past it they must be joking the only time any of us are past it is when we are in the box.

Enjoy and keep smiling its them with the problem

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

i really hope that being 36 makes me past it as im 36 in 3 days and this would not make me happy

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"i really hope that being 36 makes me past it as im 36 in 3 days and this would not make me happy

Everyone knows that once you hit 36 that's it! You lose any powers of attraction and it all goes downhill....Once you hit 40, well that's your lot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it just me ? Or is there a really different answer to these posts if they are written by guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you have had to block every single guy thats contacted you maybe you need to lighten up

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By *SweetVioletx OP Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"if you have had to block every single guy thats contacted you maybe you need to lighten up

Nope just the ones who wouldn't take no for an answer or that got offensive - I don't like unnecessary blocking x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

WHAAAT?!

I really hope not

I'm doing OK and I don't doubt that whatever age you are you can have a good time. Life gets better in my opinion as you know more of what you want and how to get it

Roll on 40!!

Well, maybe not....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i really hope that being 36 makes me past it as im 36 in 3 days and this would not make me happy

Everyone knows that once you hit 36 that's it! You lose any powers of attraction and it all goes downhill....Once you hit 40, well that's your lot!

I'm approaching 50. What hope do I have??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it's true. I'm 41 so I know these things......

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I wouldn't worry; age is an arbitrary chronological measure that everyone always guesses wrong anyway so it only matters if you let it. I got ID'd in a supermarket today (I admit it; I was a little bit chuffed but that didn't really matter either).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it just me ? Or is there a really different answer to these posts if they are written by guys

Not just you. I wonder why......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it just me ? Or is there a really different answer to these posts if they are written by guys

Not just you. I wonder why......"

Meaty flaps?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it just me ? Or is there a really different answer to these posts if they are written by guys

Not just you. I wonder why......

Meaty flaps? "

S'me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Better off playing with us older guys, we know how to appreciate a woman.

BTW, you're stunning, don't let it bother you

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

i wouldnt worry about fuckwits like him .. im 22 years older than 36 and still having the best times ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 46 and beginning to think I'm past it

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"I'm 46 and beginning to think I'm past it

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your so not you naughty woman

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London

Pretty sure anyone over 30 is past it in many areas of life.

You can't put neither body nor mind under the same stresses as younger people.

But you will of learned to be more surgical and precise in how and where you expend energy.

Youth Vs experience?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pretty sure anyone over 30 is past it in many areas of life.

You can't put neither body nor mind under the same stresses as younger people.

But you will of learned to be more surgical and precise in how and where you expend energy.

Youth Vs experience? "

For real?? Give me an example of how I might be past it.

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