FabSwingers.com forum: Couples - would you take one for the team?

By *D40 OP Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

If you went on a meet & your partner really wanted to get with the other person but you didn't fancy your counterpart what would you do?

A. Take one for the team but tell them it won't happen again & they owe you one?

B. Tell them it aint happening for either of you?

C. Sit & have a cuppa while they got it on?

Just curiousity. If you've been in that position feel free to share

Mrs Dolph xxx

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But A has happened in the past

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We need to try C

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't go on a meet without knowing who we are meeting. We don't meet anyone without us both seeing photo's. Even then, we always have a social first. Always the option to say no thank you and not play. So probably b except politely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

B it shortens the odds of finding a couple but we are in it together and would not expect to just make do.

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By *overs14Couple
over a year ago

norwich

I'd like to say B but it would possibly be A.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have done A in the past, now I'm more experienced it would be B.

Hasten to add my A wasn't anyone from this site

Jules

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hard to say because I dont play so it wouldnt be a problem for me. But I know Emily wont put up with one half of a couple to get to the other half. If she doesnt like both of them its a non starter.

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By *D40 OP Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

My first swap was an A, have to say once we started i was glad for my choice. Aesthetically it wasn't a massive attraction but he did everything i love

Mrs Dolph x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also c in a club. They were all playing, I just watched. It was fun watching though. I'd do that again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you went on a meet & your partner really wanted to get with the other person but you didn't fancy your counterpart what would you do?

A. Take one for the team but tell them it won't happen again & they owe you one?

B. Tell them it aint happening for either of you?

C. Sit & have a cuppa while they got it on?

Just curiousity. If you've been in that position feel free to share

Mrs Dolph xxx"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's rare you all find each other just right... And as long as the chemistry is right I Dont think its always seen as taking one for the team.

If we meet a couple at a club And I Dont like the guy so much I will just suggest we all pleasure the lady.... And then if I need to wander off for a drink and come back at the end.

I find situations sexy sometimes not always the physical characteristics of the people. If I really Dont Want to I will just watch x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We arrive as a couple , play as a couple and leave as a couple always....

We have both been in situation where the other isn't into it and although can be a little bit of a disappointment at the time it's always the done thing

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By *razymadlunaticsCouple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

A but the less desired person would still have to make it onto the 'Doable' list.. unfair to subject a partner to someone who made their skin crawl x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

b if it was a couple

c if it was girl girl for an hour or so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

B, we are in this together and neither one of us would the other to do something they didn't want to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't go on a meet without knowing who we are meeting. We don't meet anyone without us both seeing photo's. Even then, we always have a social first. Always the option to say no thank you and not play. So probably b except politely."

This. + 1

The most typical scenario for us is one where we receive a message from another bi fem couple, the fem half of which both K and I find attractive, but K isn't attracted to the male half.

In that kind of a situation, we don't mind suggesting that the girls play with each other and then with their own respective partners afterwards, but where usually the male half pushes for full swap, K would never agree to 'take one for the team' so I could 'have a go' with the attractive fem, and I'd never ask nor expect her too either!

It gets frustrating at times, as she's missed out on the opportunity to get her hands (and tongue!

) on some truly beautiful women in the past because of this, but it's one of our rules, and we stick to it.

I cringe at the selfishness of the idea of her sharing her body and being intimate with someone who doesn't turn her on just for my sake (like that face you pull after swallowing really foul-tasting medicine!), and at the same time, in a funny sort of way, I don't think it'd be fair to deceive the other couple like that either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

B. Never would, either of us "take one for the team"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For shel it's A if the female of the couple was bi and sexy then I would play with her partner as long as there was some spark there.

Paul would be a B, he has to be attracted to the fem 100% before he plays.

Must say though as we have got more into the scene I'm getting fussier where Paul is less so

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By *iceduoCouple (FF)
over a year ago

manchester

Option B, the younger me would have said A. Xxjen

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

Definitely B. The OH has final say even if I'm all up for it.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

B. No compromise.....ever!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's always been B in our case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

from a different viewpoint ~ if I go with someone to a club I'd expect to stay together, however whilst I wouldn't take one for the team I'd be happy to let them crack on as along as the favour was reciprocated.

Oh and I wouldn't be having a cuppa lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We need to try C"

Don't know about C. We think you should try.... U and S.

But then again we have been wrong on occasions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id take one for the team to a degree. But if I turn into Mr Floppy then it is a tell tale that cannot go unnoticed

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By *oughnut and radoxWoman
over a year ago

Ashingdon

Hubby used to do c at party's

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By *ancpl05Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it was C, would you have to brew up yourself? Because that would really be like rubbing the salt in...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hopefully we wouldnt get to play without knowing all of us were ok - we both say unless both happy it aint happening -both have our things we like/dislike - some we agree some we differ slightly but neither do something we dont like just for the other - and then there is the flip side where we both go - fuck yes please

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By *emon tart Double creamCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

We were in a club once and the sexiest girl ever walked in....we both agreed that she was hot. Her partner was not Lemons type at all.

We did feel like asking if only the girl could play

We watched them upstairs later and she went even further up in our estimations...she was hot.

So if we didn't do A then, I doubt we would although maybe if in a situation or in a different frame of mind we might.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only ever B

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A or C depending on the situation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

B as A has happened in the past but won't happen again.

We wouldn't won't anybody taking one for the team for us either

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"B as A has happened in the past but won't happen again.

We wouldn't won't anybody taking one for the team for us either"

I would hate to think someone was having sex with me and thinking of it as taking one for the team......shudder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"B as A has happened in the past but won't happen again.

We wouldn't won't anybody taking one for the team for us either

I would hate to think someone was having sex with me and thinking of it as taking one for the team......shudder.

It's not a nice thought at all but for all we know it might of happened without us knowing already

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By *indys loverCouple
over a year ago

Stratford on avon

now im going to turn this around , I have a beautiful other half who turns a lot of heads , I myself would not be classified as one of lifes handsome men .

So we don't try arranged meets as I would hate to put another couple through the agony of having to tell me thanks but your wifes fit but you don't do it for us .

Hence we go to clubs and have a lot of fun either alone watching others play or hopefully find another couple who see me for what I am

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"B as A has happened in the past but won't happen again.

We wouldn't won't anybody taking one for the team for us either

I would hate to think someone was having sex with me and thinking of it as taking one for the team......shudder.

It's not a nice thought at all but for all we know it might of happened without us knowing already

Yes it might have already happened

how awful if it has..........

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By *erotic_adventureMan
over a year ago

London, Scotland & The North,

We we we not another fem.ion as a single with a male lurking in the background as an unwanted extra!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did A when I was with my ex. The husband had a massive cock to put it bluntly and I didn't wanna deny her the chance to try it. As it happened she didn't like it cos he was too big but I entertained his "wife" who looked like Peter Beardsley while he entertained my GF.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I did A when I was with my ex. The husband had a massive cock to put it bluntly and I didn't wanna deny her the chance to try it. As it happened she didn't like it cos he was too big but I entertained his "wife" who looked like Peter Beardsley while he entertained my GF.

Poor lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Poor lady

What? He was a brilliant footballer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a couple so I can't answer the question. It makes me smile to think though, that it must happen where two couples meet and one person for each couple feels as if they've taken one for the team

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over a year ago

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Poor lady

What? He was a brilliant footballer. "

That's ok then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We we we not another fem.ion as a single with a male lurking in the background as an unwanted extra!

People can have more than one profile you know....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've done A, never again so B every time

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

B every time... Not happening unless we BOTH happy for it to. Neither of us have ever taken ' one for the team' and wouldn't expect each other too either

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By *ittleBitOfFunCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

B only. I think the other options would end in divorce!!

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

"Not a couple so I can't answer the question. It makes me smile to think though, that it must happen where two couples meet and one person for each couple feels as if they've taken one for the team

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I like to think we would be able to tell? But who knows! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We we we not another fem.ion as a single with a male lurking in the background as an unwanted extra!

People can have more than one profile you know.... "

and many of us do - for different types of meets. Would never take one for the team now. (Have in the past played when not both 100% happy and its disastrous. Never again!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

B everytime

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When meeting as a couple A a few times. Meeting as a single woman meeting a couple C once, to be honest it was a little awkward.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That has to be B for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only time we ever did A was at a club and it wasn't so much taking one for the team so much as I was unsure if he was that much into the whole scenario... It quickly turned into C as I got bored of trying.

I do worry that I am holding the monkey back, particularly at parties. We've met some couples with very attractive women but their partners have been men I haven't wanted to touch me for various reasons not just physical...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

B for us all day long, we play together or not at all, it wouldn't matter whether it was man woman or couple we both have to agree or its a no go,

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By *eKoopleCouple
over a year ago

Germany / Manchester

Definitely B. We've set some ground rules out of respect of our relationship. -Mr.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

At a party once we were discussing ground rules with a woman who was surprised to discover one of ours was "never take one for the team".

She told me that she did and had only the previous night, her tone suggested that she thought I was either uptight or selfish for not doing so myself. I guess attitudes differ.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm I guess I have 2 answers :

If it's me that didn't fancy the other party but my other half that really wanted to get on with the guy, provided hygiene wasn't the issue, I'd probably do option A and take one for the team so she could have her fun.

If it was the other way around and I fancied the lady but she didn't fancy the bloke, then definitely B as I wouldn't want to put her through that.

So basically putting her first depending on which scenario we're talking about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it's rare you all find each other just right... And as long as the chemistry is right I Dont think its always seen as taking one for the team.

If we meet a couple at a club And I Dont like the guy so much I will just suggest we all pleasure the lady.... And then if I need to wander off for a drink and come back at the end.

I find situations sexy sometimes not always the physical characteristics of the people. If I really Dont Want to I will just watch x"

this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done it in the past when I was married

best thing about being single is you only have yourself to think about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well ...we only play if we intrested in the couple(not only just in a male or a female)

Everybody has a different rules..for us the chemistry is really important. .without that its no point.

First we arrange a social see how is it goes.If they are not intrested in us enough (not really asking..or we can't hold the conversation) we just pass them too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i wonder how many people without knowing as only been fucked by their meet because they was taking one for the team

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"i wonder how many people without knowing as only been fucked by their meet because they was taking one for the team

It could have happened to all of us.

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By *dward and WallisCouple
over a year ago

lincoln

C for me last night and even worse I couldn't find the tea bags :

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By *andhCouple
over a year ago

Ilford

We have done all 3.

Wouldn't do A again. Do B most of the time. The time we did C was amazing but not something we make a habit of.

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By *ench and StripeCouple
over a year ago

Stenalees

As far as im concerned it should always be B for us but ive got a sneaking suspicion Elle might do A without consulting me over it as she can be somewhat headstrong when she gets an idea in her head.

Gotta say in the reverse situation im sure we have put off couples as im not the picture that Elle is

She gets alot more attention than i do.

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By *D40 OP Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"C for me last night and even worse I couldn't find the tea bags :"

Now that is truly wrong!!!!

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"If you went on a meet & your partner really wanted to get with the other person but you didn't fancy your counterpart what would you do?

A. Take one for the team but tell them it won't happen again & they owe you one?

B. Tell them it aint happening for either of you?

C. Sit & have a cuppa while they got it on?

Just curiousity. If you've been in that position feel free to share

Mrs Dolph xxx"

Mainly option B for us...but have also done option C at parties. But we would be watching the other one while drinking the tea.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"i wonder how many people without knowing as only been fucked by their meet because they was taking one for the team

It could have happened to all of us."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most defiantly B. We only take things further if we are both happy. If I took one for the team, it would happen all the time, because it generally seems to be the female that's hot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We won't take one for the team at any point... that's what makes finding couples harder ... usually ones a minger lol xxx

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By *indys loverCouple
over a year ago

Stratford on avon

"We won't take one for the team at any point... that's what makes finding couples harder ... usually ones a minger lol xxx"

I cant help it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

B 100 Per cent , were both in it for fun and that is definately not fun

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By *o-jCouple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Notts

C ; Never tried it and not sure I would want to .

B ; Don't want to be stroppy so not sure .

A ; Would only do that if either A the payback would be awesome or B my fantasy had kicked in and am forced to do what/who I'm told .

But I do try and not have set rules for situations ( not just for sex but for other situations too ) as the slightest variations can make a big difference .

Jo x

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