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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Talking to couple I had a meet with they said it was hard to find single males that could accommodate .They would say they can but then it would be can you come when my flat mates are out and things like that .Do other people have this problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Talking to couple I had a meet with they said it was hard to find single males that could accommodate .They would say they can but then it would be can you come when my flat mates are out and things like that .Do other people have this problem."

Why are you looking to meet single males who can accommodate?

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By *ovemenotWoman
over a year ago

yeovil


"Talking to couple I had a meet with they said it was hard to find single males that could accommodate .They would say they can but then it would be can you come when my flat mates are out and things like that .Do other people have this problem."

I would say that's fine . As I can accommodate but only when my kids arnt here . Accommodate dosent have to mean your free 24/7 dose it ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No thank you I have my own place and can accommodate.Just looking to see if it's a problem other people have like the couple I was talking to.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"No thank you I have my own place and can accommodate.Just looking to see if it's a problem other people have like the couple I was talking to."

Yes its a problem. I'd rather they put that they couldnt then maybe used their status for when they are available.

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish


"Talking to couple I had a meet with they said it was hard to find single males that could accommodate .They would say they can but then it would be can you come when my flat mates are out and things like that .Do other people have this problem."
No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

often means theyre happy to pay for a room -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Talking to couple I had a meet with they said it was hard to find single males that could accommodate .They would say they can but then it would be can you come when my flat mates are out and things like that .Do other people have this problem.

Why are you looking to meet single males who can accommodate?"

Where did he say he was? And even if he was why do you care?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the time. Its not just a case of they can only at certain times its they tell you straight away they can't full stop! I think they put it to be included in more searches or they are actually attached and want to give the impression they aren't x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why worry about it. You can so move on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was just asking if other people found it a problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Talking to couple I had a meet with they said it was hard to find single males that could accommodate .They would say they can but then it would be can you come when my flat mates are out and things like that .Do other people have this problem."

don't get your point, if a guy says he can accommodate but only when his flat mates out he can do what he says so what's the problem?

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

I can accommodate but never first meet xx

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

I am very accomodating. Occaisionally my 27 yr old lesbian lodger may be in but that seems to be no problem at all

And NO...before you ask, she is like a daughter to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can accommodate but never first meet xx"

i can accommodate but only friends, i don't want every tom dick and harry i meet knowing where i live so first meet/play will always be a hotel then when I'm satisfied they arnt using me and my home as a free hooker i will invite them to my house, all because people can accommodate they still have the rights to choose who and when, very few people i meet get as far as my home as most guys just want one offs, which is fine but if they just want fuck and go meets they can pay for a room, if they want to become friends and meet more regular then I'm happy for them to come here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Some said they were single but could they come over when the wife was shopping

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Talking to couple I had a meet with they said it was hard to find single males that could accommodate .They would say they can but then it would be can you come when my flat mates are out and things like that .Do other people have this problem."

We will entertain at ours but only when it suits us! Just because you can accomodate doesn't mean you can or will all of the time.

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By *plankyMan
over a year ago

Beeston

I'm single.

I can accommodate 24 x 7, come over immediately.

I'm desperate!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I am single, I can accommodate, I choose not to.

if people have a problem with that: cool, no skin off my nose.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

guys can change their mind as well. so if they say they can and change that, that should be respected.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can accommodate but never first meet xx

i can accommodate but only friends, i don't want every tom dick and harry i meet knowing where i live so first meet/play will always be a hotel then when I'm satisfied they arnt using me and my home as a free hooker i will invite them to my house, all because people can accommodate they still have the rights to choose who and when, very few people i meet get as far as my home as most guys just want one offs, which is fine but if they just want fuck and go meets they can pay for a room, if they want to become friends and meet more regular then I'm happy for them to come here "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some said they were single but could they come over when the wife was shopping"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nah they could always book a room and we would go 50/50 if needed failing that a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"nah they could always book a room and we would go 50/50 if needed failing that a club"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can accommodate but got really nosey neighbours and don't want them getting any ideas. I'd sooner travel to the ones who can accommodate or hotel room for a few hours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can accommodate and travel (with short notice) I might add, but only for women lol, nice place in crystal palace

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"Talking to couple I had a meet with they said it was hard to find single males that could accommodate .They would say they can but then it would be can you come when my flat mates are out and things like that .Do other people have this problem."

its fairly common sometimes genuine reasons often in truth the mrs doesnt like strangers coming round!!!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Talking to couple I had a meet with they said it was hard to find single males that could accommodate .They would say they can but then it would be can you come when my flat mates are out and things like that .Do other people have this problem."

I've heard this mentioned a number of times. Don't see the point saying you can accommodate if you can't.

I myself can not always travel, but will amend my profile accordingly.


"I would say that's fine . As I can accommodate but only when my kids arnt here . Accommodate dosent have to mean your free 24/7 dose it ? "

Same here. Every other weekend when I have them and also some of school hols - but then I don't play when I have them anyway so doesn't really make much difference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I struggle to understand why anyone married or single would want to invite strangers they have met on the internet into their home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I struggle to understand why anyone married or single would want to invite strangers they have met on the internet into their home.

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Me too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I struggle to understand why anyone married or single would want to invite strangers they have met on the internet into their home.

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I married one of the buggers as well!!!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I struggle to understand why anyone married or single would want to invite strangers they have met on the internet into their home.

Me too. "

some say 'let yourself in and I will be tied to the bed "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I struggle to understand why anyone married or single would want to invite strangers they have met on the internet into their home.

"
No but i bet your still fuck these strangers

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

I don't find it a problem if people have "cannot accomodate" on their profile. I've never had problems booking hotel rooms either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I struggle to understand why anyone married or single would want to invite strangers they have met on the internet into their home.

Me too.

some say 'let yourself in and I will be tied to the bed " "

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

Single guys that accom are a rarity we think. We often find the the randy army boys here in Colchester say they can accom ... but it turns out they live in the barracks and could sneak just me in but not the OH! With what I wear on a meet I don't fancy walking past his mates on the way to the room either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I put that I can accommodate because I can. Neighbours are fine and I live totally on my own.

And I agree, if anyone (not just guys) can't accommodate, it's best just to say so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always could..but just when it suited lol...unless people were happy knowing my dad was in the living room(obviously not in the same room haha)..now I've moved out on my own again..and can accom...when I wish

*besides..I need to tidy up first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not worried if they can or can't,It's never been an issue for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can accommodate, but 24/7 as I have a housemate who I don't particularly want to be involved in my activities. I don't think that makes me a fraud for putting that I can accommodate on my profile - I thought meets were supposed to be for mutually agreeable times..?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a pet hate of mine, wish there was "can accommodate, sometimes" option.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a pet hate of mine, wish there was "can accommodate, sometimes" option."

Perhaps guys are happy to have a woman round but not a strange couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its not just single males this applies to - but a lot explain why in the profiles which is fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Talking to couple I had a meet with they said it was hard to find single males that could accommodate .They would say they can but then it would be can you come when my flat mates are out and things like that .Do other people have this problem."

So they can accomodate but would prefer to keep their swinging life private? How very dare they...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I struggle to understand why anyone married or single would want to invite strangers they have met on the internet into their home.

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If you trust them enough to invite them into your body then why not your home?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I struggle to understand why anyone married or single would want to invite strangers they have met on the internet into their home.

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Because that's where I feel most comfortable and confident...I know I can find things if I want them, know where the loos are and can wash my hands whenever I feel the need...can get myself a drink, and draw things to a close whenever I want to...

everyone has their own way of doing things...do you turn down invitations to someone's home because you don't understand why they would invite you there?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I can accommodate but got really nosey neighbours and don't want them getting any ideas. I'd sooner travel to the ones who can accommodate or hotel room for a few hours "

Now you see, I don't understand when people say that and would never invite into my home a man that used his neighbours as an excuse for not inviting me to his!

I have all my gear here and used to meet at home following getting to know people and a social meet. My daughter was returning from uni and I said to one regular meet we'll have to meet at yours next week as my youngest is back for three months. He was horrified at the thought saying he didn't invite people he met off the net into his home, it wasn't a knocking shop! The cheeky barstard was in my bed at the time! After I ejected him I changed how I met people: if they didn't accommodate I didn't meet them.

I also found some men said they could accommodate: technically they did but it was by throwing an old sheet on the lounge floor, not in their bedroom...I've walked away from two such meets.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I struggle to understand why anyone married or single would want to invite strangers they have met on the internet into their home.

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I've met men with your _iew: their home is sacrosanct yet have no qualms seeking meets in someone's home.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I struggle to understand why anyone married or single would want to invite strangers they have met on the internet into their home.

No but i bet your still fuck these strangers "

Silly boy, of course not, it's just cyber!

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Come one, come all. I have no issues as I have nothing to hide.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I struggle to understand why anyone married or single would want to invite strangers they have met on the internet into their home.

If you trust them enough to invite them into your body then why not your home?"

You'd think so wouldn't you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't want to meet in hotels I feel its people too cheap to pay for an escort. Plus I would like to meet somebody with the potential to become a regular and booking hotel every week is not feasible for most. I dont like to meet at theirs first time though, much prefer a social or a club so I feel safe.

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire


"Some said they were single but could they come over when the wife was shopping

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To be fair that probably gives a 12 hour window so no rushed meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well as I appear to have been taken to task for my comment I will excercise my right of reply.

I live with my adult son and my daughter also lives here periodically.

I consider this their space as much as mine and would not want strangers here for that reason firstly.

Secondly I would refer youto the post Bad Meets if you want specifics of what could potentially go wrong. A cautionary list if ever I saw one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*Worst Meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can accommodate, sometimes I can't. Personal life I don't really like explaining on here to anyone unless I trusted them implicitly and there's only maybe 1 or 2 I trust with that information

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