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Are some people just to picky on here ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What do you think ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No "

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By *astersfuckpigCouple
over a year ago

Eastbourne


"What do you think ? "

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No we'll fuck anything with a cock and a pulse. (Pulse is optional)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. People can be as picky as they like. It's pretty straightforward really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only the ones that turn you down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope no such thing as charity with us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No....everybody is looking for something in particular, regardless of what that maybe. So not picky just selective in choosing the right person to fulfill their requirements.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes especially women are as the ratio is 100 men to 1 woman, the more men the even more fussier they will get, soz its the truth lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No we'll fuck anything with a cock and a pulse. (Pulse is optional) "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No ! We arnt picky ... We just want "genuine single guys "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Define "too picky"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not being picky it's having a certain taste x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With this many men..we can afford to be picky! Lol...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I am but lots of people aren't.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

This is nothing to do with noses is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's just personal preference, I don't think anyone is picky they just know what they want and I imagine most people don't take time to read the profile. If I don't match anyone's needs or requirements I won't waste either of our time

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By *adgodCouple
over a year ago

Greensburg

It is fantasy fulfillment....there is no such thing as too picky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'too picky'??? Does the OP expect a sympathy shag?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sometimes you have to take what you can get picky or not. within reason though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" sometimes you have to take what you can get picky or not. within reason though."

No, you really don't...self respect and respect for those we meet dictate otherwise for us...I would hate it if I thought people met us because we were all they could get...

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By *astersfuckpigCouple
over a year ago

Eastbourne

We have noticed that women who are very fussy online are less fussy in clubs when there's fitter and better looking girls there..lol

But single woman will be more fussy as its a whole nights fun for most with just one guy so you have to like him..And lets face it for a lot its a date not just a fuck..

But for woman in couples its just another cock..or six..so less fussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sometimes wonder, that if this place is a 'market', and a persons sex appeal is their own price or bank balance, how much do people think they can afford?

Can you only afford the bargains, or are you a premium shopper?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with being choosy. I relaxed this once or twice. Big Mistake

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Can I just say I'm not just trying to pee people off it's just a question and convo

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By *ncorMan
over a year ago

Ipswich

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By *ncorMan
over a year ago

Ipswich


"No we'll fuck anything with a cock and a pulse. (Pulse is optional) "

Chellesterfem.... Not bad from a lady who only wants to be with other ladies....confused.com

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I sometimes wonder, that if this place is a 'market', and a persons sex appeal is their own price or bank balance, how much do people think they can afford?

Can you only afford the bargains, or are you a premium shopper?"

I'm up for a 3 for 2...

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can be picky.....but never too picky. Just the right amount of pickiness to pick the ones I want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Define picky?

Is it because they turn you down?

Or do you feel that since they are members of this site they are under some sort of obligation to offer sex to whoever asks?

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"No we'll fuck anything with a cock and a pulse. (Pulse is optional)

Chellesterfem.... Not bad from a lady who only wants to be with other ladies....confused.com"

Think sarcasm,

I'm so picky I wouldn't even choowe myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With this many men..we can afford to be picky! Lol..."

So if there were less men you would drop your standards?

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By *WcplCouple
over a year ago

Tameside

So .... "Most" men (not all), will say yes because they just want a fuck. Most cpls and fems will probably say no because they are here for the whole lifestyle experience (just our thoughts)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's where we've been going wrong.

Come on then we'll take allcomers, anything, anytime, anyplace

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No we'll fuck anything with a cock and a pulse. (Pulse is optional)

Chellesterfem.... Not bad from a lady who only wants to be with other ladies....confused.com"

Do they not have sarcasm where you come from?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No we'll fuck anything with a cock and a pulse. (Pulse is optional)

Chellesterfem.... Not bad from a lady who only wants to be with other ladies....confused.com

Do they not have sarcasm where you come from? "

What? Sarcasm on the forums? Whatever next?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you think ? "

People are selective and why not the only people who feel aggrieved are ugly fuckers after all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

too picky suggests it's not quite right.

I'm picky & quite happy to admit it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a little bit picky but overall I'm not bothered but people are bothered at me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

men are probably more picky but they cant always be on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to choose the men I think I'm going to have best sex with. That could be anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to choose the men I think I'm going to have best sex with. That could be anyone "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm exceptionally picky, (or choosy, as I like to think) and, it's always paid me to be this way, what anyone thinks of me for this is totally irrelevant, it's my body and my life.......there's a lot of people I will not tolerate.

There!! now I'm a snob as well.....whatever..!! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes im very picky hence why i only have 2 meets

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"'too picky'??? Does the OP expect a sympathy shag? "

probably lol

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

yes they are, far too picky.

it is only sex after all, no big deal getting naked and slipping your meat into an orifice.

it is bewildering.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For the record though, yes I am picky, but not excessively. This means I don't meet nearly as often as I'd like to, but if I'm not attracted to someone then I'm not going to meet them, regardless of how many offers I get - and that goes for couples too, I've turned down women who I'd have otherwise met in a heartbeat, but as I'm not looking for MMF, had to decline.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not picky at all. I'll shag anyone that matches my 'Looking For' criteria.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there such a thing as too picky? Surely you meet or talk on the basis of whether you find someone attractive?

Simply because a find b attractive doesn't mean that c will, so is c being to picky if they don't want to meet b?

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By *razymadlunaticsCouple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

there has to be some margin for attraction i guess.. but i think many try find others that are identical copies of themselves and so are silly-picky to the extremes. ie toe nails too long, she's got stretchmarks, hes got a bent willy, their too fat (even tho they may happen to be one size up)- thats just being silly picky in my eyes. however i think many have a deeper agenda such a insecurities, like the other couple being more attractive then they see themselves even if this is not so. So set aside the timewasters and long-talkers, their are still a large number of genuine people/couples who would love to take the plunge but are under a psychological/mental block/fear that seems to prevent them from actually going through with a meet.. i dunno, just a theory i guess x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you think ? "

Now I bet you'd never ask that at a McDonalds

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"With this many men..we can afford to be picky! Lol..."

I have the same standards/tastes/preferences (what ever you want to call it) whether I have 100 men to choose from or 10.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"men are probably more picky but they cant always be on here."

Yes they can... Not all men will meet people they are not attracted to just for the sake of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"men are probably more picky but they cant always be on here.

Yes they can... Not all men will meet people they are not attracted to just for the sake of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really don't get what's wrong with being picky, they throw out the "there's so many men to women "line every time. If there were only 10 men on here, if I didn't like them, wouldn't Shag them~ simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm picky why would I let any old person have sex with me?!! I don't understand why the question needs to be asked!!

Surely why aren't people more picky would be a better question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really don't get what's wrong with being picky, they throw out the "there's so many men to women "line every time. If there were only 10 men on here, if I didn't like them, wouldn't Shag them~ simples "

Quite right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No - simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I see a man or woman that just fucked everyone for the sake of it, I would say no.

So maybe I am being picky.

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too picky? No such thing.

Attraction and personal standards also apply here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Too picky? No such thing.

Attraction and personal standards also apply here. "

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By *all-Eddies QosCouple
over a year ago

wirral

I am very picky.....I shouldn't be though, should be grateful of the attention cos I'm fat and unattractive

Yeah.....my beloved adores me, I can be as picky as I want.....fab is a fun occasional pastime.....not the be all of my world

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I'm extremely picky.

Why?

Because I'm worth it.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Really don't get what's wrong with being picky, they throw out the "there's so many men to women "line every time. If there were only 10 men on here, if I didn't like them, wouldn't Shag them~ simples "

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am

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By *aptain VMan
over a year ago

Birstall, Leicester


"What do you think ? "

Fuck yea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too picky

We don't pick anyone off here, it's about the meet and how we get along, neither of us has a specific type apart from some intelligence, good manners and hygiene x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm extremely picky.

Why?

Because I'm worth it. "

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"What do you think ? "

I'm perfectly happy with my degree of pickiness. If I wasn't, I'd change it.

Other people are entitled to decide how picky they are. It's none of my business and not up to me to decide if they are "too picky".

I wouldn't expect, or want, anyone to lower their standards for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a bloke I prefer to play with people who are picky.

I'm selective on the basis of wanting a few good friends to play with. I don't particularly want a woman who cannot remember my name or if I was the 3rd or 7th bloke that week. That isn't me being judgmental before everyone boards the outrage bus.

I just feel privileged that I have been chosen over others. And if a lady chooses not to meet me, I don't need a justification, I'm just not for her!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

ladies can afford to be picky .. i feel very honoured if they pick me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you think ?

I'm perfectly happy with my degree of pickiness. If I wasn't, I'd change it.

Other people are entitled to decide how picky they are. It's none of my business and not up to me to decide if they are "too picky".

I wouldn't expect, or want, anyone to lower their standards for me."

No one has to lower their standards for me

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

If I can get away with being picky, then anyone can

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By *4nc3rCouple
over a year ago

Clacton-On-Sea, Essex

I'm picky but it's because there are certain things I want.

I don't mind if someone has flabby bits like me or a not-huge cock etc

My pickiness comes in how they handle themselves - if they make no effort with their profile or pictures I won't give them the time of day.

And if a girls picture (not including during-the-act shots) looks like she's got last nights 99p eyeliner all round her face and more grease than a chip shop then I'm sorry my first thought will question the cleanliness.

No make-up or good make-up is my policy! Sorry lol

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By *4nc3rCouple
over a year ago

Clacton-On-Sea, Essex

Same goes for men

The minute I see a picture taken from below the guys chin with a webcam in darkness with just a bedside light and no smile = No

I don't care how big your dick is if you can't be bothered to spend 10 minutes in your profile...

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By *yldebooCouple
over a year ago

alabama

I have noticed that most people on here arent picky. However Ive also noticed that the people from the USA seem to be very picky and uptight. Just my thoughts. Please dont bash or hate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I'm up for a 3 for 2... "

The last time I saw the monkey it was 3 for 1!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

surely people can be selective if they want. after all who wants to get intimate if they dont fany the other parties.

Obviously good looking ladies and gents get more interest than us ordinary folk but hey thats life

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

i suppose i must be picky .. because i dont just message anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No we'll fuck anything with a cock and a pulse. (Pulse is optional) "

phew nearly missed out there, glad you made pulse optional

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

totally. im one of em

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's just personal preference, I don't think anyone is picky they just know what they want and I imagine most people don't take time to read the profile. If I don't match anyone's needs or requirements I won't waste either of our time "

this is the full length answer. My short answer is yes

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

I am most definitely too picky xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have noticed that most people on here arent picky. However Ive also noticed that the people from the USA seem to be very picky and uptight. Just my thoughts. Please dont bash or hate."

How do you know they aren't picky?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a bloke I prefer to play with people who are picky.

I'm selective on the basis of wanting a few good friends to play with. I don't particularly want a woman who cannot remember my name or if I was the 3rd or 7th bloke that week. That isn't me being judgmental before everyone boards the outrage bus.

I just feel privileged that I have been chosen over others. And if a lady chooses not to meet me, I don't need a justification, I'm just not for her!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"What do you think ? "

too picky... or are you not picky enough?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I can get away with being picky, then anyone can "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm picky. Sue me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am prickly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I can get away with being picky, then anyone can

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Even me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

excatly

Everybody has own rules and own expectations. .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I sometimes wonder, that if this place is a 'market', and a persons sex appeal is their own price or bank balance, how much do people think they can afford?

Can you only afford the bargains, or are you a premium shopper?"

What's your net worth?

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"If I can get away with being picky, then anyone can

Even me? "

Of course, but then you are pretty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would it bother you? We're the ones not getting shagged and staying in on a Saturday night because no-ones good enough to put their penis in us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I'm up for a 3 for 2...

The last time I saw the monkey it was 3 for 1!! "

And he wasn't complaining!!

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By *SweetVioletxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

It should be spelt "too" not "to".

I am both picky grammatically and sexually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No we'll fuck anything with a cock and a pulse. (Pulse is optional) "
i have a pulse and a cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone is picky. I haven't had a meet off here since I rejoined but I still have standards. I'm horny not desperate. Everyone has a standard even if they don't want to admit it. Would any woman off here meet a man with an cheesy knob? Or would any fella meet a woman with a sweaty unwashed fanny? That's being choosy. Albeit with good reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, we are

and I am quite happy for others to be also

What point going into a meet half hearted ?

We want potential for Kappow not Kerplunk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, we are

and I am quite happy for others to be also

What point going into a meet half hearted ?

We want potential for Kappow not Kerplunk"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I'm up for a 3 for 2...

The last time I saw the monkey it was 3 for 1!!

And he wasn't complaining!! "

Nope! That's what you get for being picky, 2 of your 4 unicorns!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I'm up for a 3 for 2...

The last time I saw the monkey it was 3 for 1!!

And he wasn't complaining!!

Nope! That's what you get for being picky, 2 of your 4 unicorns!"

Who were not complaining!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I feel sorry for the people that aren't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm happy to be picky.

There do seem to be a few people who aren't too fussy, but it's all personal preference.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I'm very picky... I like what I like and I would rather go without than settle for something that doesn't work properly for me.

The site is here for us to use as each person likes.

I'm not at all desperate for sex... I just love it .

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By *emon tart Double creamCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

If they say no is that being too picky??

If so, then yes we are too picky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

better to be a bit picky than hate yourself afterwards.

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By *uggarbunnyWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"I'm very picky... I like what I like and I would rather go without than settle for something that doesn't work properly for me.

The site is here for us to use as each person likes.

I'm not at all desperate for sex... I just love it ."

I've been trying to think how to word it and you've hit the nail on the head. I tend to think if I was out in a bar would I be attracted to that person. If not then it won't work. Same here. So yes I am picky and yes I can choose. Simplz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most would consider me to be picky and I'm the first to admit I block anyone who doesn't interest me. But I'm having sex with guys I'm very attracted to and when I want. So I say there's no such thing as too picky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I can get away with being picky, then anyone can

Even me? "

Don't be daft

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I can get away with being picky, then anyone can

Even me?

Don't be daft"

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

I don't think you can be too picky but you can't really complain about no meets if you are turning everyone away.

Personally what I'm looking for changes depending on place mood and situation.

I can start talking to someone I don't find attractive and as a conversation builds I can become attracted to their personality and vibe.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"No....everybody is looking for something in particular, regardless of what that maybe. So not picky just selective in choosing the right person to fulfill their requirements."

Simply: this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since a few dodgy meets not realy got into the swing of things pardon the pun and seems to have been to long ago now to realy start over as the longer it goes on the more it gets harder it seems that we're happy enough to just chat now thinking back being glad we haven't played as yet we enjoy chatting and looking at other pics etc but who knows one day it may just happen naturally

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


" sometimes you have to take what you can get picky or not. within reason though."
Really?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No....everybody is looking for something in particular, regardless of what that maybe. So not picky just selective in choosing the right person to fulfill their requirements.

Simply: this! "

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By *asmanian TigerMan
over a year ago

lala land

I am picky yes.

I have been on here for 6 months and not found what i am looking for, I have met a few for socials, the main reason for me the girls I like are either on here as a couple looking for specific things, which doesn't interest me or they are miles away. unlike some guys on here i don't treat fab as a sex site and I am not desperate, I like using the forum's and have fun talking to people. I am sure i will find the right person eventually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No we'll fuck anything with a cock and a pulse. (Pulse is optional) "

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No plenty to choose from so why should nt we

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By *ittleBitOfFunCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

We have each other so other people we ask to join us are a bonus so we will be choosy. We wouldn't shag anyone

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

You call it picky, I call it discerning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not too picky just way too many people and not enough time, it's all about ratios you see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm picky..I'm allowed to be . .

It's an optional extra . .right?

(Her)

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By *ittykate84Woman
over a year ago

CHESTER

I would call it picky i just cant physical let someone who i am not attracted to shag me simple as

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By *icefellatwoMan
over a year ago

hastings


"I would call it picky i just cant physical let someone who i am not attracted to shag me simple as"

Its not picky its what you want is where its at

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not picky at all. I'll shag anyone that matches my 'Looking For' criteria. "

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By *ittykate84Woman
over a year ago

CHESTER


"I would call it picky i just cant physical let someone who i am not attracted to shag me simple as

Its not picky its what you want is where its at "

Can tell im half asleep meant to be wouldn't

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By *eKoopleCouple
over a year ago

Germany / Manchester


"What do you think ? "

Not at all, some just have higher standards than others. It's the way the world works. -Mr.

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By *anglefootedMan
over a year ago

northampton

Yes, some people are picky. That's a good thing!!! Surely the best meets happen when there is an attraction and some chemistry. Why would you want to meet with someone who wasn't picky at all, and didn't really care what you were like as long as they got some action?

To be clear, I'm not taking about judging people based purely on looks/physique. personality is a massive factor!

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By *ouple36DDCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

We're not that picky but trying to find a compatible couple in London is very hard. Been looking for a while

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Damn right I'm picky, same as I am in real life, I'd rather go without than fuck anyone just for the sheer hell of it, I wouldn't say it's about having standards, just that I go for specific types and if that means I get few meets because of that then so be it,

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By * Busty HotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Bradford

No. People's perogative not to lower their standards and perhaps an incentive for others to raise theirs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very picky with Food friends and Women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why wouldnt they be picky?! People are trying to have actual sexual relations with them, they're bound to want to fancy them first! If youre not their type.....tough shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being picky on here is a lot harder for single males, we just don't have the same number of options that women do - mind though having said that, just because women have a much bigger pool to choose from, doesn't always mean they're more likely to find the sort of sexual partner they're looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its like going to one of these 'Eat All You Can' gaffs.

No-one sits there and eats fried rice for an hour-you go for the tasty stuff.

However, if you were stuck on a desert island with only ugly fried rice- you'd happily eat it every single day.

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By *how m3 the ropesMan
over a year ago

llanelli


"It's not being picky it's having a certain taste x"

Thats right x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not that I'm riceist - theres room for all rices in my world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fine they(women) are too picky.

If you message them nicely then they fine you too boring

If you message them be crude then your a dirtbird

So where are fellas meant to start them ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with being picky. I'd like to think I am too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You gotta sift alot of shite before you find the diamond!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Quite simple....it's called using your common sense, after READING someone's profile you SHOULD have an idea about the type of person they are.

But oh no, you go straight to the pics and then all sense goes out the window!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not? There is lots of people

Her

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By *ranthamThroatMan
over a year ago

Grantham.


"What do you think ? "

I am not too picky, just picky, works for me.

I wouldn't want to meet anyone who wasn't picky either.

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By *how m3 the ropesMan
over a year ago

llanelli


"Quite simple....it's called using your common sense, after READING someone's profile you SHOULD have an idea about the type of person they are.

But oh no, you go straight to the pics and then all sense goes out the window! "

Lol amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"men are probably more picky but they cant always be on here.

Yes they can... Not all men will meet people they are not attracted to just for the sake of it.

"

No that's quite true not all men will meet just anyone if they aren't attracted to them.

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By *mmie2014Man
over a year ago

London


"Only the ones that turn you down "

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"men are probably more picky but they cant always be on here.

Yes they can... Not all men will meet people they are not attracted to just for the sake of it.

No that's quite true not all men will meet just anyone if they aren't attracted to them."

If it just about sex I wont meet anyone am not attracted to

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"What do you think ? "

Yes! How dare they be picky when I'm so horny!!

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

I am too picky for my own good x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had far too many meets where I've not been picky enough.....forced into a night of passion and had to just grin and bear it

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By *how m3 the ropesMan
over a year ago

llanelli


"Had far too many meets where I've not been picky enough.....forced into a night of passion and had to just grin and bear it "

Lol ive had one.... It was awful. Face n body Definatley didn't match pictures xx

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By *r jblMan
over a year ago

from parts unknown


"What do you think ? "
. I'am picky I supposes. I have turned down a few meets on here, only because I did not fined them attractive. But should I be kicking myself? I've not had any meets since? Is that karma? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say there are people here who don't choose wisely and base their decision on photographs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No we'll fuck anything with a cock and a pulse. (Pulse is optional) "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have noticed that women who are very fussy online are less fussy in clubs when there's fitter and better looking girls there..lol

But single woman will be more fussy as its a whole nights fun for most with just one guy so you have to like him..And lets face it for a lot its a date not just a fuck..

But for woman in couples its just another cock..or six..so less fussy "

spot on!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had far too many meets where I've not been picky enough.....forced into a night of passion and had to just grin and bear it

Lol ive had one.... It was awful. Face n body Definatley didn't match pictures xx"

why were you forced?? Could have said no thanks!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No....everybody is looking for something in particular, regardless of what that maybe. So not picky just selective in choosing the right person to fulfill their requirements."

Spot on, shame they've gone lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet with the intention of having sex and for sex I need to be aroused... No attraction means no arousal, so yes I am picky otherwise what's the point?

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"No we'll fuck anything with a cock and a pulse. (Pulse is optional) "

Sounds good, do I have to look your profile first?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm very picky... I like what I like and I would rather go without than settle for something that doesn't work properly for me.

The site is here for us to use as each person likes.

I'm not at all desperate for sex... I just love it .

I've been trying to think how to word it and you've hit the nail on the head. I tend to think if I was out in a bar would I be attracted to that person. If not then it won't work. Same here. So yes I am picky and yes I can choose. Simplz "

You took the words right out of my mouth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I meet with the intention of having sex and for sex I need to be aroused... No attraction means no arousal, so yes I am picky otherwise what's the point?"

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I'm very picky... I like what I like and I would rather go without than settle for something that doesn't work properly for me.

The site is here for us to use as each person likes.

I'm not at all desperate for sex... I just love it .

I've been trying to think how to word it and you've hit the nail on the head. I tend to think if I was out in a bar would I be attracted to that person. If not then it won't work. Same here. So yes I am picky and yes I can choose. Simplz

You took the words right out of my mouth "

I've found it's better to be 'picky' for all parties. Decide on what sort of people you want and never lower your standards, apart from for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My heads picky does that count

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

It's a great site, people choose who they want to talk to and take things further with. Sometimes I think if only we'd actually, met, spoke on the phone etc. But sod it, life's to short for regrets. A lady friend recently received a Whatsapp message and photo from a woman who'd got the the wrong number and showed it me. I said I fancy her, she looks and sounds horny, let me have her number. At first she was a bit surprised and shocked. Bur she didn't object and remarked that I wasn't shy. I followed it up, it turns out we both like to play, we've met and fucked. Just do what you want to and if you don't then don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with being selective.

I prefer not to meet guys that would shag anything with a pulse..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you think ? "

It's t'internet.

Nowt as queer as folk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I meet with the intention of having sex and for sex I need to be aroused... No attraction means no arousal, so yes I am picky otherwise what's the point?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being picky or choosy is fine as a personal choice. What is irritating are those that feel unjustifiably and arrogantly superior to others who are not so picky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im extremely fussy choosy n picky,,tough titties if that offends anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being picky or choosy is fine as a personal choice. What is irritating are those that feel unjustifiably and arrogantly superior to others who are not so picky. "

why does being picky make you arrogant and superior,its my choice to be picky and I don't see why that is an issue with people,,as for other peoples choices that none of my business n I don't care its their life.

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