FabSwingers.com forum: Good news and bad news

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all, first the good news - and hope for all of the 'single male' profiles on here bemoaning lack of meets!

Yesterday I has my first meet from this site after about 4 or so weeks on here

(to be honest that happened a lot sooner than I expected and I appreciate I'm lucky in this respect)

I had to go looking for it and work for it, I've dropped a few mails etc that have been ignored / deleted like many others. Yesterday was from a short notice published meet request from a verified member for a gangbang.

As it happened despite interest from a few guys I was the only one who actually turned up so instead of a GB I was treated to a wonderful 1 on 1 with a great lady as her fella watched on.

So the lesson and my message to those still awaiting their first meet is that Fab DOES work, and to keep trying, remain positive and respectful, only contact people if you're serious about meeting, and if you say you're going to turn up - do! You will get there in the end!

I felt sorry for this couple, I can see how couples have to deal with timewasters now and how frustrating that must be!

The bad news? Well despite them being verified members and saying that they would verify me (as a newbie with no veri's) they have deleted my email without leaving a verification.

This isn't a whinge as I know it's their perogative, they're under no obligation and I understand the rules on here, but obviously I'm a little disappointed as I thought I had done alright, turned up promptly on time as promised (the only one who did!), I thought that I was clean, polite, respectful etc the whole meeting and seemed to get on very well with them both whilst I was there.

Maybe I unknowingly did something wrong or they simply didn't Iike me (who knows?) but it seemed to go well and they positively indicated they would provide a veri. Looking at their veri's it seems they rarely verify back so maybe it's not just me.

Anyway, I'm not going to sulk or harass or chase them up or anything like that, they have chosen not to verify me and I accept and respect that.

C'est la vie - so still looking for more meets to get myself finally officially verified but delighted to have lost my Fab cherry!

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By *luezuluMan
over a year ago

Suffolk

Just because they delete your email, doesn't mean to say they won't verify.

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

Finally a positive post from a single man. Its a shame they have nor yet verified you but be patient, people have busy lives outside of this site and sometimes it can take a few days for them to find the time to do a veri.

And if they dont, you still have the satisfaction of knowing you have the right approach.

They may have deleted your message by mistake or just to clear their inbox.

Good luck and stay positive as moaning is very unattractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just because they delete your email, doesn't mean to say they won't verify."

I was just thinking the same

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks all, yes maybe the veri will follow. And yes, I agree not a moan as it is entirely the perogative of the verifier if they want to do one or not and I have no issues with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are ships in the night.Just move on as long as it went well the veri is neither here nor there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I too had a couple of meets before becoming verified. And that was despite being invited back. So it does happen, for whatever reason. Frustrating I know, especially after getting a meet. It may just be they were disappointed in not having the gb, they planned. Not your fault, I know. Give them time, it may still happen.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

well done OP, glad you had fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You are ships in the night.Just move on as long as it went well the veri is neither here nor there."

Yep agreed on the whole. At times a veri does go a long way though, many couples won't even contemplate a meet unless verified (or at least according to their profiles) but I'll keep working at that so those avenues do open themselves up

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