FabSwingers.com forum: Pissing up lamp posts

By *hole Lotta Rosie OP Woman
over a year ago

Deviant City

Anybody who has numerous verifications within a short period of time, do you display them proudly?

I know I have one or two veri's off various people, but if I come across a profile with several off the same profile, I find it off putting, as if they are there to put off others from messaging or meeting them. Territory marking if you will.

Interested to hear your views.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting view and yeah I suppose there can be a bit of one-up-manship

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By *hole Lotta Rosie OP Woman
over a year ago

Deviant City

if I see a lovely mans profile, then see he has been verified 12 times in 4 months by the same woman and just 1 couple, I'd feel like I'd get stalked or something! Perhaps I'm just overthinking it.

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

Widnes

I would be the same, if I see a profile that has multiple veri's off the same person, I tend to steer clear.

Although, a lot of profiles might be in the same position but the profile has chosen not to display them all - so in those cases you wouldn't know anyway, but still might end up getting stalked…..

There is nothing like gut instinct though when you start chatting or when you have met someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love watching men piss outside, mmmmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't make a difference how many verifications one person left. Some people like displaying them some don't. If I like someone after talking to them I will meet them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on what you consider verifications to mean.

Personally, my first two veri's are from the same couple.

I like to look at this from a positive point of view. I.e. They enjoyed the experience so much they came back for more.

I don't consider it territory marking at all.

What I do find disturbing about some veri's is when they are from someone who's known them for ages etc etc rather from an actual meet arranged through the site.

Those are the ones I tend to give a wide berth to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest. I barely read verifications. I'd much rather get to know her than those that she has already met. I can make my own mind up if she is for me or not without having a look at the veri.

If anybody begins stalking. That's their problem. Not mine. They need to grow up and pull their finger out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends on what you consider verifications to mean.

Personally, my first two veri's are from the same couple.

I like to look at this from a positive point of view. I.e. They enjoyed the experience so much they came back for more.

I don't consider it territory marking at all.

What I do find disturbing about some veri's is when they are from someone who's known them for ages etc etc rather from an actual meet arranged through the site.

Those are the ones I tend to give a wide berth to."

Why does that disturb you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, my first two veri's are from the same couple.

see I'm ok with that.

Its the lady's who insist in every veri that he is the best, keeping him to myself, treat him right or you'll have me to answer to....those types.

I don't usually take much notice of veri's, as long as there are recent meets, but just cant help noticing the territory marking ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be honest. I barely read verifications. I'd much rather get to know her than those that she has already met. I can make my own mind up if she is for me or not without having a look at the veri.

If anybody begins stalking. That's their problem. Not mine. They need to grow up and pull their finger out.

but I'm allowed to stalk you aren't I? I'm gonna restrain yo to my hotel bed and keep you there forever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck, sorry was meant to be from my single profile, I'll have you all confused.

Purring Pussy xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't go near people that have had their territory well and truly marked by the same person

Its not always the amount of verifications from the same person its the content of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be honest. I barely read verifications. I'd much rather get to know her than those that she has already met. I can make my own mind up if she is for me or not without having a look at the veri.

If anybody begins stalking. That's their problem. Not mine. They need to grow up and pull their finger out.

but I'm allowed to stalk you aren't I? I'm gonna restrain yo to my hotel bed and keep you there forever

Finally. I got myself a stalker.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Lets hope its her Pops.....the alternative is you tied face down to the hotel bed....shouting

'Prepare to repel boarders !!'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends on what you consider verifications to mean.

Personally, my first two veri's are from the same couple.

I like to look at this from a positive point of view. I.e. They enjoyed the experience so much they came back for more.

I don't consider it territory marking at all.

What I do find disturbing about some veri's is when they are from someone who's known them for ages etc etc rather from an actual meet arranged through the site.

Those are the ones I tend to give a wide berth to.

Why does that disturb you? "

Because it indicates to me that someone has tried to bypass the system - as it were.

I've seen people post statuses asking for others to verify them etc.

Not necessarily saying I would avoid ALL profiles with such veri's but it certainly makes me more careful.

Might be because I had a no-show from a verified user who had such verifiactions only.

I can also understand now why some users won't meet those with hidden veri's either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why does that disturb you? "

For example, yours I don't have a problem with - because you have had meet veri's since.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wouldn't make a difference how many verifications one person left. Some people like displaying them some don't. If I like someone after talking to them I will meet them "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, my first two veri's are from the same couple.

see I'm ok with that.

Its the lady's who insist in every veri that he is the best, keeping him to myself, treat him right or you'll have me to answer to....those types.

I don't usually take much notice of veri's, as long as there are recent meets, but just cant help noticing the territory marking ones.

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By *hole Lotta Rosie OP Woman
over a year ago

Deviant City

"Lets hope its her Pops.....the alternative is you tied face down to the hotel bed....shouting

'Prepare to repel boarders !!'

It was me

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By *hole Lotta Rosie OP Woman
over a year ago

Deviant City

"To be honest. I barely read verifications. I'd much rather get to know her than those that she has already met. I can make my own mind up if she is for me or not without having a look at the veri.

If anybody begins stalking. That's their problem. Not mine. They need to grow up and pull their finger out.

but I'm allowed to stalk you aren't I? I'm gonna restrain yo to my hotel bed and keep you there forever

Finally. I got myself a stalker.

Can I piss on your lamp post though? That's the question? You into watersports pops? I'll piss on you whilst you're tied up

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By *hole Lotta Rosie OP Woman
over a year ago

Deviant City

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over a year ago

Deviant City

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over a year ago

Deviant City

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if I see a lovely mans profile, then see he has been verified 12 times in 4 months by the same woman and just 1 couple, I'd feel like I'd get stalked or something! Perhaps I'm just overthinking it."

yes it might put me off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like the 'pissing up lamp post' kinda varies either and although I have and have left 3 for the same profile they are over six months.

I also try to write about how much fun we had or they were and encourage others to look at meeting them.

The issue I've had which really gets me annoyed is after a meet receiving a message from someone I haven't spoken to before, saying they have spoken to bla.....bla and as they are friends can they come round for a bit if what bla.....bla had...

now that really is pissing up lamp posts

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

i only feel the need to show one by any one person....

but it does feel there is a bit of "Territory marking" going on when you read multiple veri's from the same person....

oh.. snap them up... oh I did so back off!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends on what you consider verifications to mean.

Personally, my first two veri's are from the same couple.

I like to look at this from a positive point of view. I.e. They enjoyed the experience so much they came back for more.

I don't consider it territory marking at all.

What I do find disturbing about some veri's is when they are from someone who's known them for ages etc etc rather from an actual meet arranged through the site.

Those are the ones I tend to give a wide berth to.

Why does that disturb you?

Because it indicates to me that someone has tried to bypass the system - as it were.

I've seen people post statuses asking for others to verify them etc.

Not necessarily saying I would avoid ALL profiles with such veri's but it certainly makes me more careful.

Might be because I had a no-show from a verified user who had such verifiactions only.

I can also understand now why some users won't meet those with hidden veri's either."

oh ok. Just wondering

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends on what you consider verifications to mean.

Personally, my first two veri's are from the same couple.

I like to look at this from a positive point of view. I.e. They enjoyed the experience so much they came back for more.

I don't consider it territory marking at all.

What I do find disturbing about some veri's is when they are from someone who's known them for ages etc etc rather from an actual meet arranged through the site.

Those are the ones I tend to give a wide berth to."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are some that leave territory marking veri's, more in the content than the number of veri's tho.

also appears occasionally in the 'shag, pass, kiss or who do you fancy' type threads.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

"There are some that leave territory marking veri's, more in the content than the number of veri's tho.

also appears occasionally in the 'shag, pass, kiss or who do you fancy' type threads."

A lot on those threads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be honest. I barely read verifications. I'd much rather get to know her than those that she has already met. I can make my own mind up if she is for me or not without having a look at the veri.

If anybody begins stalking. That's their problem. Not mine. They need to grow up and pull their finger out.

but I'm allowed to stalk you aren't I? I'm gonna restrain yo to my hotel bed and keep you there forever

Finally. I got myself a stalker.

Can I piss on your lamp post though? That's the question? You into watersports pops? I'll piss on you whilst you're tied up

Oh go on then. Have always wanted to explore watersports lol

Ooh. Is lampost a metaphor?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are some that leave territory marking veri's, more in the content than the number of veri's tho.

also appears occasionally in the 'shag, pass, kiss or who do you fancy' type threads.

A lot on those threads."

Ah I wondered if it was only me that thought so....

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

"To be honest. I barely read verifications. I'd much rather get to know her than those that she has already met. I can make my own mind up if she is for me or not without having a look at the veri.

If anybody begins stalking. That's their problem. Not mine. They need to grow up and pull their finger out.

but I'm allowed to stalk you aren't I? I'm gonna restrain yo to my hotel bed and keep you there forever

Finally. I got myself a stalker.

damn! I been stalking ya and ya didn't even notice! Sob sob!

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

Lamposts at dawn!!! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have nearly 200 verified meets....from various sources....and yes some are multiple ones....but none are stalkers. The one I see most often is an ex member.....and she is very aware I'm still on here and encourages me to play.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I sometimes give a social and a play verification. One guy I give a new verification once a year because I've been seeing him so long.

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By *tillup4funMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Can,t see why anyone would have a problem with people being verified by the same people just means they all get on well and like each other. Plus it saves having to look for friends to play with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be honest. I barely read verifications. I'd much rather get to know her than those that she has already met. I can make my own mind up if she is for me or not without having a look at the veri.

If anybody begins stalking. That's their problem. Not mine. They need to grow up and pull their finger out.

but I'm allowed to stalk you aren't I? I'm gonna restrain yo to my hotel bed and keep you there forever

Finally. I got myself a stalker.

damn! I been stalking ya and ya didn't even notice! Sob sob!

Oh. I thought i was stalking you all these days.

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

"To be honest. I barely read verifications. I'd much rather get to know her than those that she has already met. I can make my own mind up if she is for me or not without having a look at the veri.

If anybody begins stalking. That's their problem. Not mine. They need to grow up and pull their finger out.

but I'm allowed to stalk you aren't I? I'm gonna restrain yo to my hotel bed and keep you there forever

Finally. I got myself a stalker.

damn! I been stalking ya and ya didn't even notice! Sob sob!

Oh. I thought i was stalking you all these days.

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mutual stalking! Its a start! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be honest. I barely read verifications. I'd much rather get to know her than those that she has already met. I can make my own mind up if she is for me or not without having a look at the veri.

If anybody begins stalking. That's their problem. Not mine. They need to grow up and pull their finger out.

but I'm allowed to stalk you aren't I? I'm gonna restrain yo to my hotel bed and keep you there forever

Finally. I got myself a stalker.

damn! I been stalking ya and ya didn't even notice! Sob sob!

Oh. I thought i was stalking you all these days.

mutual stalking! Its a start! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't care about veris. After chatting in the forums, I know how opinions can vary hugely. I got one or two just to get verified so people know we are genuine. After these, I haven't asked anyone to verify us

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

"Why does that disturb you?

For example, yours I don't have a problem with - because you have had meet veri's since.

u dont like the fact me and Banana cake have known each other for years

im very happy ive known her for years

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