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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

we regularly get these, usually from profiles that cant of read our profile, either from couples with straight fems or ,for full swap.

We always try to message back and politely point out that we might not be suited ect and that we clearly state in our profile (the bit before the pics) the replies can sometimes be funny or cringeworthy. Whats the strangest reply you guys have had in reply to this kind of thing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We clearly state we don't meet BI guys.

We had a message where we declined the guy because he was BI. Cue a message exchange where he denied having BI on his profile even though he had it written three times.

When pointed out he perhaps better check his profile then. he replied saying he knows his own profile thank you and had no need to as he was very straight.

It was quite frankly bizarre

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Not the same, but 6 months ago I received my second hate message (hard to believe I know, you'd think I'd have had waaaay more) and I tried to reason with them. It's only with hindsight, that I realise I should have sent in response to their bile filled missive:

Thank you for your lovely message, however, I regret that I only have so much time to meet people and at present my diary is complete. If you wish to message me another time, I may be free and able to meet you.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You reply to them?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and another corker where we replied to a message where we declined the male in question. And he messaged us back and had a go saying why did you bother replying if you didn't want to meet me.

Can't win either way!!!

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By *ikki ShooterTV/TS
over a year ago

Epsom


"Not the same, but 6 months ago I received my second hate message (hard to believe I know, you'd think I'd have had waaaay more) and I tried to reason with them. It's only with hindsight, that I realise I should have sent in response to their bile filled missive:

Thank you for your lovely message, however, I regret that I only have so much time to meet people and at present my diary is complete. If you wish to message me another time, I may be free and able to meet you.....

"
nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh and another corker where we replied to a message where we declined the male in question. And he messaged us back and had a go saying why did you bother replying if you didn't want to meet me.

Can't win either way!!! "
is it not a about both in a couple though?

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh and another corker where we replied to a message where we declined the male in question. And he messaged us back and had a go saying why did you bother replying if you didn't want to meet me.

Can't win either way!!! is it not a about both in a couple though?

Her"

Is what about both?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never sent a copy and paste message can't see the point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh and another corker where we replied to a message where we declined the male in question. And he messaged us back and had a go saying why did you bother replying if you didn't want to meet me.

Can't win either way!!! is it not a about both in a couple though?

Her

Is what about both? "
was it a couple or single male?

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh and another corker where we replied to a message where we declined the male in question. And he messaged us back and had a go saying why did you bother replying if you didn't want to meet me.

Can't win either way!!! is it not a about both in a couple though?

Her

Is what about both? was it a couple or single male?

Her"

Single male. We would not decline but offer to meet the nice looking one of the couple that's just plan nasty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh and another corker where we replied to a message where we declined the male in question. And he messaged us back and had a go saying why did you bother replying if you didn't want to meet me.

Can't win either way!!! is it not a about both in a couple though?

Her

Is what about both? was it a couple or single male?

Her

Single male. We would not decline but offer to meet the nice looking one of the couple that's just plan nasty. "
yes I see my apologies, thought it was a couple, yes I agree.

Her

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

the backpeddaling usual ones are..

'I thought my wife ect would like to try her bi side' and the inevitable

'we are in your area' or the ones that try to question your preferences after they have contacted you??? lazybones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well I decide if they aren't my type by their pictures or lack of them and by reading their profile, then they sometimes say well how do you know I am not your type if you havnt met me, so it proves I was right about them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"well I decide if they aren't my type by their pictures or lack of them and by reading their profile, then they sometimes say well how do you know I am not your type if you havnt met me, so it proves I was right about them."
?? did you read the op, this post is on about copy and pasted messages that don't suit your preferences

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ironically, we have just had another.... this time inviting us to a houseparty tomorrow from a straight fem cpl with the promise of plenty of single men and bbc, when asked if it was a copy and paste blanket message they said no and thankfully blocked us so it cant happen again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well I decide if they aren't my type by their pictures or lack of them and by reading their profile, then they sometimes say well how do you know I am not your type if you havnt met me, so it proves I was right about them.?? did you read the op, this post is on about copy and pasted messages that don't suit your preferences "

Yeah its the same sort of thing though isn't it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"well I decide if they aren't my type by their pictures or lack of them and by reading their profile, then they sometimes say well how do you know I am not your type if you havnt met me, so it proves I was right about them.?? did you read the op, this post is on about copy and pasted messages that don't suit your preferences

Yeah its the same sort of thing though isn't it."
thats the kind of excuses the people that ignore the profile give aswell

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Oh and another corker where we replied to a message where we declined the male in question. And he messaged us back and had a go saying why did you bother replying if you didn't want to meet me.

Can't win either way!!! "

I've had that a couple of times. Wish they'd post a thread on it - 'What's the point of replying to messages if you don't want to meet'. Now THAT would be a change!

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By *qua vitaeWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire/Midlands

Only just recently had a reply to a 'no thanks' from another site. After exchanging half a dozen messages over the course of several days, I decided he wasn't for me and only thought it was polite to do a 'no thanks'. I made the mistake though, to explain why in the most delicate way as I could (and apologizing as I went), only to have a surprizing and disturbing response. He called me 'shallow', 'trawling the net for something better', 'that he was better than what I've had' and called me something in French - suggesting that I google it (something along the lines of being crazy in the head lol), since he was fluent having worked over there. He also picked things out of my profile to throw back at me and accused me of being economic with the truth!!

I chose not to respond, even though there were a few choice things I would have loved to have said to him. At least I made the right the decision not to meet him...How would he had reacted if I had and turn him down in person?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only just recently had a reply to a 'no thanks' from another site. After exchanging half a dozen messages over the course of several days, I decided he wasn't for me and only thought it was polite to do a 'no thanks'. I made the mistake though, to explain why in the most delicate way as I could (and apologizing as I went), only to have a surprizing and disturbing response. He called me 'shallow', 'trawling the net for something better', 'that he was better than what I've had' and called me something in French - suggesting that I google it (something along the lines of being crazy in the head lol), since he was fluent having worked over there. He also picked things out of my profile to throw back at me and accused me of being economic with the truth!!

I chose not to respond, even though there were a few choice things I would have loved to have said to him. At least I made the right the decision not to meet him...How would he had reacted if I had and turn him down in person? "

I've had a few abusive responses to a polite no thanks, I just block after now but I always liked to thank them for showing their true colours and confirming my decision to not want to meet them as the correct one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read your profile cheekys. I'm a single male so WONT be contacting you...and your too far to attend my parties....so look forward to not messaging each other.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I read your profile cheekys. I'm a single male so WONT be contacting you...and your too far to attend my parties....so look forward to not messaging each other."

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By *qua vitaeWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire/Midlands


"Only just recently had a reply to a 'no thanks' from another site. After exchanging half a dozen messages over the course of several days, I decided he wasn't for me and only thought it was polite to do a 'no thanks'. I made the mistake though, to explain why in the most delicate way as I could (and apologizing as I went), only to have a surprizing and disturbing response. He called me 'shallow', 'trawling the net for something better', 'that he was better than what I've had' and called me something in French - suggesting that I google it (something along the lines of being crazy in the head lol), since he was fluent having worked over there. He also picked things out of my profile to throw back at me and accused me of being economic with the truth!!

I chose not to respond, even though there were a few choice things I would have loved to have said to him. At least I made the right the decision not to meet him...How would he had reacted if I had and turn him down in person?

I've had a few abusive responses to a polite no thanks, I just block after now but I always liked to thank them for showing their true colours and confirming my decision to not want to meet them as the correct one."

Yes, I realised after receiving his reply...I'm a person who wears their heart on their sleeve sometimes, but I'll do that from now on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

its the weekend again.. 3 different messages, all from folk that must just look at the pics on our profile, 1 of the profiles messaged us a few months ago and we pointed out then that we were after different things, the block button is the only way forward cos politeness didn't work??

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