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By *erotic_adventure OP   Man
over a year ago

London, Scotland & The North,

What elements of control and or controlling behaviors have you experienced on here? Good or Bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't allow anysort of controlling or manipulative behaviour from anyone on here

Its an instant bye bye from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't allow anysort of controlling or manipulative behaviour from anyone on here

Its an instant bye bye from me "

ill second that

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I once had a message from a guy stating something like 'You will reply to my message and you will meet me.' How I laughed as I hit 'delete'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I once had a message from a guy stating something like 'You will reply to my message and you will meet me.' How I laughed as I hit 'delete' "

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By *astersfuckpigCouple
over a year ago

Eastbourne


"What elements of control and or controlling behaviors have you experienced on here? Good or Bad "

You mean the dimdoms who message sub women with no clue about how it really works?

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

The ones I hate: "I can do what I want, but you can't play!". Gets my back up every time, lol.

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By *ozzy87Man
over a year ago

Crawley


"I don't allow anysort of controlling or manipulative behaviour from anyone on here

Its an instant bye bye from me "

The skilled manipulator can manipulate without you ever knowing they're doing it.

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By *ikki ShooterTV/TS
over a year ago

Epsom

The last play party I attended there was a guy that had obviously thought he was Grey..... His date was an escort and I hope she stripped his wallet of all its gold. As for the rest of us, I'd be surprised if anyone played to his tune....

I've played with some of the best female doms in London and happy to submit as I know I'm safe. But too many people think they know what they're doing and are just abusing subs that know no better

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex


"The last play party I attended there was a guy that had obviously thought he was Grey..... His date was an escort and I hope she stripped his wallet of all its gold. As for the rest of us, I'd be surprised if anyone played to his tune....

I've played with some of the best female doms in London and happy to submit as I know I'm safe. But too many people think they know what they're doing and are just abusing subs that know no better "

Sadly, a lot of people don't know the different between dominant and domineering: they think they have to come off shouty/barking/aggressive to be dominant whe in actual fact, some of the world's best dom's do so with the most gentle of natures.

A true dom is a "guide" for the sub,.. not a military barracks drill instructor!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen and been involved in many different forms of control.. I myself like to be in control when on a meet or in a club and i ensure the people i play with knows that... That doesn't mean i control other people just the situation

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I've had a few plastic doms message me, but it's not my cup of Earl Grey.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 2 months ago I met a lady who shortly after become very apparent and disapproved with who I was meeting or who I had met previously.

Apparently her meeting whoever she wanted was ok but when I did it was an issue. I kindly reminded her I was single and could see whoever I wanted.

Easiest block I've ever done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been told what to wear a few times. I just said sorry not my thing and ended the conversation

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By *erotic_adventure OP   Man
over a year ago

London, Scotland & The North,

One couple who had my number would phone me and demand I met them within 30 mins....yet if I texted or called it would be ignored!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no control on here - had 20 yrs of that from a bastard of an ex - never again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good one, got a msgs saying can u come to Scotland to sort me out, sadly I replied with to far lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All ive ever had is a few guys i have met who have got arsey when i have met others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"no control on here - had 20 yrs of that from a bastard of an ex - never again "

Me too! I don't think the twat realised I was older and stronger than him and I'd swing him off every wall in the fecking house before he could touch me lol. He even told me to straighten my hair before I could get in bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"no control on here - had 20 yrs of that from a bastard of an ex - never again

Me too! I don't think the twat realised I was older and stronger than him and I'd swing him off every wall in the fecking house before he could touch me lol. He even told me to straighten my hair before I could get in bed "

xxxx i could write an essay - you could too i guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The last play party I attended there was a guy that had obviously thought he was Grey..... His date was an escort and I hope she stripped his wallet of all its gold. As for the rest of us, I'd be surprised if anyone played to his tune....

I've played with some of the best female doms in London and happy to submit as I know I'm safe. But too many people think they know what they're doing and are just abusing subs that know no better

Sadly, a lot of people don't know the different between dominant and domineering: they think they have to come off shouty/barking/aggressive to be dominant whe in actual fact, some of the world's best dom's do so with the most gentle of natures.

A true dom is a "guide" for the sub,.. not a military barracks drill instructor!"

We have the same trouble when looking for suitable bulls. They try to control my hubby and belittle him....they don't realise that they need to have him on side if it's going to work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"no control on here - had 20 yrs of that from a bastard of an ex - never again

Me too! I don't think the twat realised I was older and stronger than him and I'd swing him off every wall in the fecking house before he could touch me lol. He even told me to straighten my hair before I could get in bed

xxxx i could write an essay - you could too i guess "

Oh I could! Dumped him after 3 months lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a guy with a cock that was about 3 foot long who I messaged saying no thanks J doesn't like huge cocks. He replied with can I please txt your wife she'll understand me better than you will! I think he understood us as we pushed the delete and block button...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't allow anysort of controlling or manipulative behaviour from anyone on here

Its an instant bye bye from me "

Me to. I can spot a controlling freak from fifty paces.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was married to one and my boyfriend before him was also one. I will never ever let any man control me again.

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I once had an idiot take my handbag and told me to get on my knees and do something. I took my handbag back and made it quite clear thst I do things when I want. Not just because anyone tells me to.

Met a guy who in messages said he would have me on my knees servicing him when he wanted. I laughed at him as anyone knows me understands I call the shots. Not anyone else!

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By *icefellatwoMan
over a year ago

hastings


"Been told what to wear a few times. I just said sorry not my thing and ended the conversation "

Hi how are you could you please meet me in a banana skin but be careful you don't

slip up

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton


"What elements of control and or controlling behaviors have you experienced on here? Good or Bad "

none so far! and if anyone tried it, the request would be met with a glasgow kiss!!

had one bf try that controlling shit and i escaped. no way i am letting it invade my fun time in life!

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