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Why is it so hard to find people my age

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Any other people my age find it really hard to find people that are interested in meeting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably cause most folk on here have children not far off from your age lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Probably cause most folk on here have children not far off from your age lol "

Good point that, don't usually see many people my age on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Although age should not make a difference it does. Well for us anyway.

We have both discussed it and feel very uncomfortable with meeting any one same age as our son who is 25 it would just feel wrong.sorry.

If we were 10 years younger then not a problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Which is going to limit our options as we get older.

Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Which is going to limit our options as we get older.

Lol "

Yeah fair enough, age shouldn't matter if there legal, but a huge gap is understandable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Besides a young goodlooking guy like you should not need this place for fun. Isn't that what magaloof and benidorm is for?

It's only us ugly forty somethingsthat need fabs to pull.

Lol

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By *ench and StripeCouple
over a year ago

Stenalees


"Any other people my age find it really hard to find people that are interested in meeting?"

Mainly it is due to supply and demand. Most people in your age bracket are not looking for the experiences swinging offers this means less people around your age on the site. Next you are a single male on a site flooded with single males. None of this is bad but can be tough to work round.

Be polite, widen your horizons and have fun. Try getting on the chat and just talking to people. You might be surprised.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Besides a young goodlooking guy like you should not need this place for fun. Isn't that what magaloof and benidorm is for?

It's only us ugly forty somethingsthat need fabs to pull.

Lol "

True but I'm just looking to broaden my horizons on here by experimenting in what I think I may like!

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By *ushandkittyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

It may also not help your search for an interesting same age person when they read that you love older women on your profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It may also not help your search for an interesting same age person when they read that you love older women on your profile "

That's just a preference doesn't have to be older

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By *ushandkittyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"It may also not help your search for an interesting same age person when they read that you love older women on your profile

That's just a preference doesn't have to be older "

Granted, just saying that seeing that may put some ppl off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone I could be a mum to I avoid ..so people under 28 are out ..

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By *olden_Road_to_SamarkandMan
over a year ago

North Wessex Downs


"Any other people my age find it really hard to find people that are interested in meeting?"

The guys above have a point but don't despair! There are a host of younger people on here if you search for them - I've even met a few. Sadly most seem to be on the South Coast! I went to my first club (in Paris) aged 24 and had a whale of a time. Swinging is miles away from seedy resorts where sex just follows a night out boozing - I entirely understand your search for (more sober) sensuality and eroticism versus a quick bunk up! And actually most swingers are usuually careful people - so the chances of an STI are much lower than on a Club 18-30 binge.

This site is just a starting point - don't rely on it for all your explorations - it's patchy at best. I suggest you try out a few clubs - nothing beats actually chatting with people face to face - as long as you're polite abd friendly you may be pleasantly surprised at how popular you are with the ladies - even the older ones who may not respond to you oin this site! Another important suggestion - don't swing too often - particularly when young - there are a lot of addicts around who have sacrificed real life for swinging. I've never turned down a night out with friends in favour of visiting a club! Take care and good luck

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By *olden_Road_to_SamarkandMan
over a year ago

North Wessex Downs

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By *olden_Road_to_SamarkandMan
over a year ago

North Wessex Downs


"Any other people my age find it really hard to find people that are interested in meeting?"

PS - PM me for another idea for meeting younger swingers - LOL!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Besides a young goodlooking guy like you should not need this place for fun. Isn't that what magaloof and benidorm is for?

It's only us ugly forty somethingsthat need fabs to pull.

Lol "

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Any other people my age find it really hard to find people that are interested in meeting?

The guys above have a point but don't despair! There are a host of younger people on here if you search for them - I've even met a few. Sadly most seem to be on the South Coast! I went to my first club (in Paris) aged 24 and had a whale of a time. Swinging is miles away from seedy resorts where sex just follows a night out boozing - I entirely understand your search for (more sober) sensuality and eroticism versus a quick bunk up! And actually most swingers are usuually careful people - so the chances of an STI are much lower than on a Club 18-30 binge.

This site is just a starting point - don't rely on it for all your explorations - it's patchy at best. I suggest you try out a few clubs - nothing beats actually chatting with people face to face - as long as you're polite abd friendly you may be pleasantly surprised at how popular you are with the ladies - even the older ones who may not respond to you oin this site! Another important suggestion - don't swing too often - particularly when young - there are a lot of addicts around who have sacrificed real life for swinging. I've never turned down a night out with friends in favour of visiting a club! Take care and good luck "

Excellent advice, although the OP is probably a bit too young for most clubs. But its worth keeping an eye on the meet requests as getting a name as a reliable young gent will get the party invites rolling in.

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By *astersfuckpigCouple
over a year ago

Eastbourne


"Any other people my age find it really hard to find people that are interested in meeting?

The guys above have a point but don't despair! There are a host of younger people on here if you search for them - I've even met a few. Sadly most seem to be on the South Coast! I went to my first club (in Paris) aged 24 and had a whale of a time. Swinging is miles away from seedy resorts where sex just follows a night out boozing - I entirely understand your search for (more sober) sensuality and eroticism versus a quick bunk up! And actually most swingers are usuually careful people - so the chances of an STI are much lower than on a Club 18-30 binge.

This site is just a starting point - don't rely on it for all your explorations - it's patchy at best. I suggest you try out a few clubs - nothing beats actually chatting with people face to face - as long as you're polite abd friendly you may be pleasantly surprised at how popular you are with the ladies - even the older ones who may not respond to you oin this site! Another important suggestion - don't swing too often - particularly when young - there are a lot of addicts around who have sacrificed real life for swinging. I've never turned down a night out with friends in favour of visiting a club! Take care and good luck

Excellent advice, although the OP is probably a bit too young for most clubs. But its worth keeping an eye on the meet requests as getting a name as a reliable young gent will get the party invites rolling in. "

I would add that its very rare for me to met any single guy but in clubs when Master put me on my knees it very rare for me (him) to say no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol simple, there just aint enough women on the site

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

should have gone to Phukt @ Xstasia, that is where the young hot crowd go. You would have been inundated....

maybe next time...

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

exactly .. why is it

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Also those that are of your age are looking to meet up with people slightly older, that what I used to do in my teens.

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