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By *lan43sum OP   Man
over a year ago

Leicester

OK, does anyone admit to browsing profiles when their privacy settings are such that they can't be seen by the profile's owner?

I wonder if ladies do this so that the hunky guys don't know they've been perved over? (lol)

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I do it so I don't get 'Oh I see you looked at my profile so I thought I would message you'

Well actually genius if I liked you after I looked at your profile I would of messaged you. Haha!!

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

I do, but not so I can perv. Simply to avoid the 'I see youve just looked at my profile, what do you think?' messages

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By *andd2Couple
over a year ago

The Dungeon

Same as the two posts above.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do, but not so I can perv. Simply to avoid the 'I see youve just looked at my profile, what do you think?' messages"

I do this too, some people go through there looked at me and assume that im interested. Real truth is im nosey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same as the two posts above. "

Always on stealth mode

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I browse in secret too,but if I like what I see then ill say so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Newbie here so wouldn't know how to go into stealth mode

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't browse in stealth mode, but yes women does it so the men don't bombard them with msgs as they view who looked lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Newbie here so wouldn't know how to go into stealth mode "

Its in your privacy settings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do it so I don't get 'Oh I see you looked at my profile so I thought I would message you'

Well actually genius if I liked you after I looked at your profile I would of messaged you. Haha!!"

Exactly the same...learned that one very early on xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Newbie here so wouldn't know how to go into stealth mode

Its in your privacy settings"

Thanks hun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I do 'private browsing' simply because I like to do the messaging.....90-odd per cent of the "messages" I recieve are from clowns.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"I do, but not so I can perv. Simply to avoid the 'I see youve just looked at my profile, what do you think?' messages

I do this too, some people go through there looked at me and assume that im interested. Real truth is im nosey "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the time, I'm always I'm stealth mode

some guys i go back and look at over and over, if i was viewable i would look wierd they may even start a thread about why this wierd woman keeps viewing them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not in stealth mode myself.

Everyone who's contacted me so far has not come up in 'looked @ you'. Guess there is a lot of stealth moders out there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, I do 'private browsing' simply because I like to do the messaging.....90-odd per cent of the "messages" I recieve are from clowns."

Clowns x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do it so I don't get 'Oh I see you looked at my profile so I thought I would message you'

Well actually genius if I liked you after I looked at your profile I would of messaged you. Haha!!"

That's why you are a detective!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes I don't want people to know how nosy I am, that im not always interested in them but looking at their friends and their friends friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do it so I don't get 'Oh I see you looked at my profile so I thought I would message you'

Well actually genius if I liked you after I looked at your profile I would of messaged you. Haha!!"

Yes, doesn't take a genius to work that out does it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yhep we stay hidden. Dont want ppl to know we are stalking them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OK, does anyone admit to browsing profiles when their privacy settings are such that they can't be seen by the profile's owner?

I wonder if ladies do this so that the hunky guys don't know they've been perved over? (lol)"

Talking to people over the years I would say 90% or more of women and couples do this as it saves unnecessary pestering.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I so it because I'd frighten off all the ones I like with looking at a profile a million times a day

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By *lan43sum OP   Man
over a year ago

Leicester

Thanks ladies. As yet I don't see any men saying they hunt in stealth mode.

I understand the logic of folk saying they don't want the follow up mails but maybe the site should find a way of saying how often profiles were viewed as many a fella might be forgiven for thinking that nobody cares about them! (when in fact some girls are perving at their 6 packs etc)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't see the point of browsing covertly myself.

For example, I may look at someones profile, take a liking to it, but not quite feel up to messaging them there and then.

If they see i've looked and then view mine and like what they see, they very well decide to message me.

At the end of the day, it get's dark - no, it's all about getting yourself seen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't see the point of browsing covertly myself.

For example, I may look at someones profile, take a liking to it, but not quite feel up to messaging them there and then.

If they see i've looked and then view mine and like what they see, they very well decide to message me.

At the end of the day, it get's dark - no, it's all about getting yourself seen."

i would never mail anyone just because they had looked at me, if someone views my profile and does not message i take that to mean they are not interested, i think it could get quite annoying if people kept mailing you just because you viewed their profile

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"OK, does anyone admit to browsing profiles when their privacy settings are such that they can't be seen by the profile's owner?

I wonder if ladies do this so that the hunky guys don't know they've been perved over? (lol)"

I never used to hide when I looked at profiles but after too many messages saying 'you looked at me, wanna meet/fuck' I put the cloaking device on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't see the point of browsing covertly myself.

For example, I may look at someones profile, take a liking to it, but not quite feel up to messaging them there and then.

If they see i've looked and then view mine and like what they see, they very well decide to message me.

At the end of the day, it get's dark - no, it's all about getting yourself seen.

i would never mail anyone just because they had looked at me, if someone views my profile and does not message i take that to mean they are not interested, i think it could get quite annoying if people kept mailing you just because you viewed their profile "

Yes, I would agree. To a point.

I'm not suggesting for one minute that I message everybody who views my profile.

I hardly message anyone who view's my profile and doesn't message me.

But there is the odd occasion that someone may have viewed me that I may take something of a shine to and may (just may) send a polite message to 'test the water' as it were.

I kinda feel like there could be an added useful feature with the hotlist where you are notified if someone has added you to theirs. Just a thought.

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By *lan43sum OP   Man
over a year ago

Leicester

A thought for the ladies who use the stealth way, if profiles were washing machines in a out of town store of which they were the manager -how would they react if their sales staff didnt take an interest in the potential customers who are browsing the models?

We all hate intrusive sales people but the good ones can actually help us.

At least with Fab you can set filters to block many.

Sadly the rubbish/abusive ones can't be sacked like you would a bad salesman.

The one good thing about being a bloke on Fab is that we don't suffer these profile view follow ups.

Let's have one day when we all view openly...set Fab alight!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

I put my cloak on about 2-3 months ago after one too many 'I see you looked at me, waddya think?' messages.

Never looked back since !! This is 'Revenge of The Worm', baby!!!

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"[Removed by poster at 02/09/14 03:34:35]"

Thought this was about browsing in secret, not posting in secret

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah so that's why it appears no bugger ever bothers to check me out, all you hot ladies and couples obviously in stealth / stalker / multiple repeat viewing mode

To all of you who have viewed but have the filter up "I can't see that you viewed me recently. Fancy a fuck"!?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always perve in stealth!

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