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"Don't think you can just come on here and talk common sense!!?!?!! You may get a meet the way your carrying on sunshine. " Oh I'm sorry....could you direct me to the common sense forum please? | |||
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"I wouldn't be saying thanks but no thanks " That's very kind of you! Xxx | |||
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"I wouldn't be saying thanks but no thanks That's very kind of you! Xxx" I'm a very kind person | |||
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"I wouldn't be saying thanks but no thanks " See the common sense is working already. After a weekend of people bashing just about everything on here this thread has come at the right time. | |||
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"...Not been a member on here long, but over the last couple of days I've had a couple of people reply to messages with a "Thanks but no thanks"... Makes a lot of difference...." You're not wrong, If anyone messages me I wouldn't ignore them outright- a simply put "Thanks, but it's a no from me" works wonders (well, it does for Mr Cowell anyway. lol) | |||
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"I would definitely not be refusing! Damn the distance and my filthy smoking habit!!!x" Distances can be overcome....and filthy habits can be hidden x | |||
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"I would definitely not be refusing! Damn the distance and my filthy smoking habit!!!x Distances can be overcome....and filthy habits can be hidden x" Ooooooooooh really??x | |||
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"...Not been a member on here long, but over the last couple of days I've had a couple of people reply to messages with a "Thanks but no thanks"... Makes a lot of difference.... ...so dick head guys...please don't spoil it by being abusive if someone says "no thanks"..." Mmmm yes please! ;-p | |||
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"...Not been a member on here long, but over the last couple of days I've had a couple of people reply to messages with a "Thanks but no thanks"... Makes a lot of difference.... ...so dick head guys...please don't spoil it by being abusive if someone says "no thanks"... Mmmm yes please! ;-p" Yes please to politeness obviously! | |||
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"...Not been a member on here long, but over the last couple of days I've had a couple of people reply to messages with a "Thanks but no thanks"... Makes a lot of difference.... ...so dick head guys...please don't spoil it by being abusive if someone says "no thanks"... Mmmm yes please! ;-p Yes please to politeness obviously!" I wasn't on about being polite! | |||
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"...Not been a member on here long, but over the last couple of days I've had a couple of people reply to messages with a "Thanks but no thanks"... Makes a lot of difference.... ...so dick head guys...please don't spoil it by being abusive if someone says "no thanks"... Mmmm yes please! ;-p Yes please to politeness obviously! I wasn't on about being polite!" ...but I'm so old! | |||
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"...Not been a member on here long, but over the last couple of days I've had a couple of people reply to messages with a "Thanks but no thanks"... Makes a lot of difference.... ...so dick head guys...please don't spoil it by being abusive if someone says "no thanks"... Mmmm yes please! ;-p Yes please to politeness obviously! I wasn't on about being polite! ...but I'm so old!" Haaaa!!! Your so not! | |||
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"...Not been a member on here long, but over the last couple of days I've had a couple of people reply to messages with a "Thanks but no thanks"... Makes a lot of difference.... ...so dick head guys...please don't spoil it by being abusive if someone says "no thanks"... Mmmm yes please! ;-p Yes please to politeness obviously! I wasn't on about being polite! ...but I'm so old! Haaaa!!! Your so not!" Not too old for you and your age bracket? | |||
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"...Not been a member on here long, but over the last couple of days I've had a couple of people reply to messages with a "Thanks but no thanks"... Makes a lot of difference.... ...so dick head guys...please don't spoil it by being abusive if someone says "no thanks"... Mmmm yes please! ;-p Yes please to politeness obviously! I wasn't on about being polite! ...but I'm so old! Haaaa!!! Your so not! Not too old for you and your age bracket? " Nooo!!! X | |||
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"...Not been a member on here long, but over the last couple of days I've had a couple of people reply to messages with a "Thanks but no thanks"... Makes a lot of difference.... ...so dick head guys...please don't spoil it by being abusive if someone says "no thanks"... Mmmm yes please! ;-p Yes please to politeness obviously! I wasn't on about being polite! ...but I'm so old! Haaaa!!! Your so not! Not too old for you and your age bracket? Nooo!!! X" Yep...only up to 40! | |||
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"...Not been a member on here long, but over the last couple of days I've had a couple of people reply to messages with a "Thanks but no thanks"... Makes a lot of difference.... ...so dick head guys...please don't spoil it by being abusive if someone says "no thanks"... Mmmm yes please! ;-p Yes please to politeness obviously! I wasn't on about being polite! ...but I'm so old! Haaaa!!! Your so not! Not too old for you and your age bracket? Nooo!!! X Yep...only up to 40! " Amended! ! | |||
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"I wouldn't be saying thanks but no thanks That's very kind of you! XxxI'm a very kind person " Yes you are a very kind person Karen. | |||
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"If only that small minority would listen ..... " | |||
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"...Not been a member on here long, but over the last couple of days I've had a couple of people reply to messages with a "Thanks but no thanks"... Makes a lot of difference.... ...so dick head guys...please don't spoil it by being abusive if someone says "no thanks"..." | |||
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"...Not been a member on here long, but over the last couple of days I've had a couple of people reply to messages with a "Thanks but no thanks"... Makes a lot of difference.... ...so dick head guys...please don't spoil it by being abusive if someone says "no thanks"..." well said hun | |||
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"...Not been a member on here long, but over the last couple of days I've had a couple of people reply to messages with a "Thanks but no thanks"... Makes a lot of difference.... ...so dick head guys...please don't spoil it by being abusive if someone says "no thanks"..." Do you realise a quarter of guys will pester you after saying no thanks and go on till blocked! Sometimes its far better not to reply. | |||
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"...Not been a member on here long, but over the last couple of days I've had a couple of people reply to messages with a "Thanks but no thanks"... Makes a lot of difference.... ...so dick head guys...please don't spoil it by being abusive if someone says "no thanks"..." Oh that's where i've been going wrong | |||
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"...Not been a member on here long, but over the last couple of days I've had a couple of people reply to messages with a "Thanks but no thanks"... Makes a lot of difference.... ...so dick head guys...please don't spoil it by being abusive if someone says "no thanks"... Do you realise a quarter of guys will pester you after saying no thanks and go on till blocked! Sometimes its far better not to reply." Yes Its strange they seem to forget that you said they weren't your type or they think you will change your mind. | |||
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"...Not been a member on here long, but over the last couple of days I've had a couple of people reply to messages with a "Thanks but no thanks"... Makes a lot of difference.... ...so dick head guys...please don't spoil it by being abusive if someone says "no thanks"... Do you realise a quarter of guys will pester you after saying no thanks and go on till blocked! Sometimes its far better not to reply." Or worse still, turn abusive and call you derogatory names. Very immature. Best either not to reply, but to be honest, they'll probably message again, or just block after sending a polite no thanks. No comeback then. | |||
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"...Not been a member on here long, but over the last couple of days I've had a couple of people reply to messages with a "Thanks but no thanks"... Makes a lot of difference.... ...so dick head guys...please don't spoil it by being abusive if someone says "no thanks"..." So a post bemoaning abuse refers to 'dickhead guys' | |||
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"I wouldn't say no either. lovely eyes x" Shame I'm over your age bracket then! | |||
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"...Not been a member on here long, but over the last couple of days I've had a couple of people reply to messages with a "Thanks but no thanks"... Makes a lot of difference.... ...so dick head guys...please don't spoil it by being abusive if someone says "no thanks"..." | |||
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"...Not been a member on here long, but over the last couple of days I've had a couple of people reply to messages with a "Thanks but no thanks"... Makes a lot of difference.... ...so dick head guys...please don't spoil it by being abusive if someone says "no thanks"..." Trouble is, they're most likely to be the sort that don't read the profiles, let alone the forums. I always appreciate a polite rejection message, as I realize it's impossible for some, to answer every one (not me! Lol) Especially vwhen they say they liked the message, as I do try and make an effort with them. | |||
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"I wouldn't say no either. lovely eyes x Shame I'm over your age bracket then! " I can make exceptions x | |||
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"...Not been a member on here long, but over the last couple of days I've had a couple of people reply to messages with a "Thanks but no thanks"... Makes a lot of difference.... ...so dick head guys...please don't spoil it by being abusive if someone says "no ithanks"..." i totaly agree if i get a no thanks i reply no worries happy swingin nice to be nice | |||
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"I wouldn't say no either. lovely eyes x Shame I'm over your age bracket then! I can make exceptions x" ...and would you for me? | |||
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"I wouldn't say no either. lovely eyes x Shame I'm over your age bracket then! I can make exceptions x ...and would you for me? " of course I would | |||
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"I wouldn't say no either. lovely eyes x Shame I'm over your age bracket then! I can make exceptions x ...and would you for me? of course I would " Well I'd love to message you....but it appears I'm blocked | |||
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"...Not been a member on here long, but over the last couple of days I've had a couple of people reply to messages with a "Thanks but no thanks"... Makes a lot of difference.... ...so dick head guys...please don't spoil it by being abusive if someone says "no thanks"..." To be honest we can count on one hand the amount of abusive messages from sending a thanks but no thanks message. Most reply with a best wishes and thanks for replying type message. | |||
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"Don't think you can just come on here and talk common sense!!?!?!! You may get a meet the way your carrying on sunshine. " Blimey. Lol | |||
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"It's nice to be nice, politeness costs nothing. I can't understand people who send abusive messages or what they hope to achieve." Exactly. Rather counter productive, and, if they applied an ounce of brain power, they may realise that such abusive messages could get them kicked off the site. If I don't get a reply to a message then fair enough. I'm not going to appeal to everybody in the same way that not everybody will appeal to me. That's life. I've received messages from people I have no interest in, but as I am a single guy and therefore receiving considerably less messages than the ladies, I don't need to employ a secretary to manage my inbox, so I always attempt to reply - even if it's a no thanks. In some cases however, it may be difficult to find the right words, so if anything, the no reply is sometimes the best choice. I'd rather get nothing than receive insults - and I've had a couple of those Completely unnecessary | |||
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"...Not been a member on here long, but over the last couple of days I've had a couple of people reply to messages with a "Thanks but no thanks"... Makes a lot of difference.... ...so dick head guys...please don't spoil it by being abusive if someone says "no thanks"... So a post bemoaning abuse refers to 'dickhead guys' " There is a certain irony in a thread entitled "politeness" where the author of the thread calls people dickheads!! | |||
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"...Not been a member on here long, but over the last couple of days I've had a couple of people reply to messages with a "Thanks but no thanks"... Makes a lot of difference.... ...so dick head guys...please don't spoil it by being abusive if someone says "no thanks"... To be honest we can count on one hand the amount of abusive messages from sending a thanks but no thanks message. Most reply with a best wishes and thanks for replying type message." If you would like a abusive message I could sell you one for a Fiver or buy two get one free | |||
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"...Not been a member on here long, but over the last couple of days I've had a couple of people reply to messages with a "Thanks but no thanks"... Makes a lot of difference.... ...so dick head guys...please don't spoil it by being abusive if someone says "no thanks"... To be honest we can count on one hand the amount of abusive messages from sending a thanks but no thanks message. Most reply with a best wishes and thanks for replying type message. If you would like a abusive message I could sell you one for a Fiver or buy two get one free " So I don't feel left out...I'll take two and get the third one free, thanks. | |||
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"So i tried to be nice and respond to all messages with a polite no thanks.... Oh no It dosnt stop there people then reply saying well what u looking for or why not e.t.c Think i will go back to deleting messages!!!!" Makes me wonder if they would do the same thing in pubs etc.... | |||
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"I had a wonderful reply from a couple today saying thanks but not looking for a single guy It makes all the difference! Manners cost nothing but time" From a couple who are looking for males trust me it isn't about manners Yes it only takes 2 mins to send a thanks but no thanks but when u are getting 30-40 messages a day that's 60-90 mins per day just saying no There just isn't enough time unless you spend your whole life on here and we don't. It certainly isn't personal we just message back the ones that do interest us | |||
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"I had a wonderful reply from a couple today saying thanks but not looking for a single guy It makes all the difference! Manners cost nothing but time From a couple who are looking for males trust me it isn't about manners Yes it only takes 2 mins to send a thanks but no thanks but when u are getting 30-40 messages a day that's 60-90 mins per day just saying no There just isn't enough time unless you spend your whole life on here and we don't. It certainly isn't personal we just message back the ones that do interest us " This is a great explanation of why us single guys should not expect a response. It would be great if everyone had the time to respond. But with so many messages it's unreasonable to expect one. Accept you didn't get one and move on. | |||
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"If only CurvyTattooedGeek would open up her restrictions...I'd message her..." There's nothing stopping her messaging you if she's interested | |||
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"If only CurvyTattooedGeek would open up her restrictions...I'd message her... There's nothing stopping her messaging you if she's interested " I know... | |||
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"I was once told I was frigid for sending a thanks but no thanks message, it was the best insult I've had on here. It made me really giggle and think if only you knew " Oh thats brilliant, i would have had to reply to that one, frigid, swinger site? oxymoronic? | |||
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"I was once told I was frigid for sending a thanks but no thanks message, it was the best insult I've had on here. It made me really giggle and think if only you knew " I replied with a no thanks to a fancy a fuck message once and was then asked why not, its a sex site?!! | |||
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" ...so dick head guys...please don't spoil it by being abusive if someone says "no thanks"..." good, that's that problem now solved | |||
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"I was once told I was frigid for sending a thanks but no thanks message, it was the best insult I've had on here. It made me really giggle and think if only you knew Oh thats brilliant, i would have had to reply to that one, frigid, swinger site? oxymoronic?" I was too busy giggling to reply | |||
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"I was once told I was frigid for sending a thanks but no thanks message, it was the best insult I've had on here. It made me really giggle and think if only you knew I replied with a no thanks to a fancy a fuck message once and was then asked why not, its a sex site?!!" I've had those too and delete and block | |||
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"I was once told I was frigid for sending a thanks but no thanks message, it was the best insult I've had on here. It made me really giggle and think if only you knew Oh thats brilliant, i would have had to reply to that one, frigid, swinger site? oxymoronic? I was too busy giggling to reply " And people wonder why single guys have a bad name on here, and therefore, limited success rate when it comes to meeting. We really don't do ourselves any favours do we | |||
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"I was once told I was frigid for sending a thanks but no thanks message, it was the best insult I've had on here. It made me really giggle and think if only you knew Oh thats brilliant, i would have had to reply to that one, frigid, swinger site? oxymoronic? I was too busy giggling to reply And people wonder why single guys have a bad name on here, and therefore, limited success rate when it comes to meeting. We really don't do ourselves any favours do we" Ahh I tend not to take too much notice of people like that and prefer to take notice of the polite ones who have good social skills | |||
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"I was once told I was frigid for sending a thanks but no thanks message, it was the best insult I've had on here. It made me really giggle and think if only you knew Oh thats brilliant, i would have had to reply to that one, frigid, swinger site? oxymoronic? I was too busy giggling to reply There is hope for us all then And people wonder why single guys have a bad name on here, and therefore, limited success rate when it comes to meeting. We really don't do ourselves any favours do we Ahh I tend not to take too much notice of people like that and prefer to take notice of the polite ones who have good social skills " | |||
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