FabSwingers.com forum: How to lose friends and alienate yourself

By *lligator3 OP Man
over a year ago

Dundee

Well there's no doubt this place is full of some very lovely, sexy people in all shapes, sizes and ages.

But its about time I put it out there....tattooes are such a turn off!

From the quirky to the deep meaningful ones I think I dislike them all, in my opinion it's fast becoming your more likely your standout by not having one which I think is a bit ironic.

It is of course a personal choice to have one and their right is their own but I find an un-inked thigh, back or bum so much sexier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind tattoos on a girl as its just one time I am gonna fuck her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love tattoos ..esp full sleeves on a man..fucking sexy!!!

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By *lligator3 OP Man
over a year ago

Dundee

"I love tattoos ..esp full sleeves on a man..fucking sexy!!!"

Yep I feel I'm on a hiding here, I think I'm in the minority lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love tattoos ..esp full sleeves on a man..fucking sexy!!!

Yep I feel I'm on a hiding here, I think I'm in the minority lol"

Ha ha!!

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By *enithWoman
over a year ago

closer than you think

that's ok .... you are too far away anyway! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whilst I like tattoos on a man, I dont like them on women. However, I recently took my son to a water park and I swear I knew every child's name in there just by reading mens backs!! I agree with you that you stand out more if you dont have one now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well there's no doubt this place is full of some very lovely, sexy people in all shapes, sizes and ages.

But its about time I put it out there....tattooes are such a turn off!

From the quirky to the deep meaningful ones I think I dislike them all, in my opinion it's fast becoming your more likely your standout by not having one which I think is a bit ironic.

It is of course a personal choice to have one and their right is their own but I find an un-inked thigh, back or bum so much sexier."

why do you think you will loose friends by saying that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love tattoos ..esp full sleeves on a man..fucking sexy!!!

Yep I feel I'm on a hiding here, I think I'm in the minority lol"

You are entitled to voice your opinion on anything you see fit .

We both have tattoos , and love them . As do the people we meet .

It doesn't really matter that you may be on a hiding to nothing on this one does it ?

Whatever your reasoning for posting , it's done now , and at least you were honest in voicing your thoughts .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm actually with the OP here.

A small, discreet tattoo or 2 looks great. But I'm not a huge fan of big / multiple tattoos all over a lady.

Live for today of course, and they can look good on a fit, lithe, firm young body but I'm always thinking what are they going to look like as a pensioner? Ha!

I wonder how many people who are perfectly happy with them now will look back in 20 years time and say 'WTF was I thinking!?'

Only my opinion of course, like the OP I think I'm in a minority!

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By *lligator3 OP Man
over a year ago

Dundee

"Well there's no doubt this place is full of some very lovely, sexy people in all shapes, sizes and ages.

But its about time I put it out there....tattooes are such a turn off!

From the quirky to the deep meaningful ones I think I dislike them all, in my opinion it's fast becoming your more likely your standout by not having one which I think is a bit ironic.

It is of course a personal choice to have one and their right is their own but I find an un-inked thigh, back or bum so much sexier.

why do you think you will loose friends by saying that?"

Na I don't really, just one of those topics to polarise people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whilst I like tattoos on a man, I dont like them on women. However, I recently took my son to a water park and I swear I knew every child's name in there just by reading mens backs!! I agree with you that you stand out more if you dont have one now "

Since you are straight , it doesn't really matter if you dislike tattoos on women does it ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm actually with the OP here.

A small, discreet tattoo or 2 looks great. But I'm not a huge fan of big / multiple tattoos all over a lady.

Live for today of course, and they can look good on a fit, lithe, firm young body but I'm always thinking what are they going to look like as a pensioner? Ha!

I wonder how many people who are perfectly happy with them now will look back in 20 years time and say 'WTF was I thinking!?'

Only my opinion of course, like the OP I think I'm in a minority!"

I think exactly the same but only about women with tattoos. I look at very mature women with them and I think they are so unattractive. A bit unfair and sexist of me I know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since you are straight , it doesn't really matter if you dislike tattoos on women does it ?

I'm talking about in general, its got nothing to do with my sexual preferences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well there's no doubt this place is full of some very lovely, sexy people in all shapes, sizes and ages.

But its about time I put it out there....tattooes are such a turn off!

From the quirky to the deep meaningful ones I think I dislike them all, in my opinion it's fast becoming your more likely your standout by not having one which I think is a bit ironic.

It is of course a personal choice to have one and their right is their own but I find an un-inked thigh, back or bum so much sexier.

why do you think you will loose friends by saying that?

Na I don't really, just one of those topics to polarise people "

i think your reading to much into it, don't take this the wrong way but i don't think anyone on here is really that bothered about whether you like them or not

same as noone on here is that bothered about what i like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm actually with the OP here.

A small, discreet tattoo or 2 looks great. But I'm not a huge fan of big / multiple tattoos all over a lady.

Live for today of course, and they can look good on a fit, lithe, firm young body but I'm always thinking what are they going to look like as a pensioner? Ha!

I wonder how many people who are perfectly happy with them now will look back in 20 years time and say 'WTF was I thinking!?'

Only my opinion of course, like the OP I think I'm in a minority!

I think exactly the same but only about women with tattoos. I look at very mature women with them and I think they are so unattractive. A bit unfair and sexist of me I know"

when I'm old i think i will have more important things to worry about than my tattoos, like who's going to wipe my arse for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well there's no doubt this place is full of some very lovely, sexy people in all shapes, sizes and ages.

But its about time I put it out there....tattooes are such a turn off!

From the quirky to the deep meaningful ones I think I dislike them all, in my opinion it's fast becoming your more likely your standout by not having one which I think is a bit ironic.

It is of course a personal choice to have one and their right is their own but I find an un-inked thigh, back or bum so much sexier."

Did you tell this to the one woman (with tattoos) who's verified you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since you are straight , it doesn't really matter if you dislike tattoos on women does it ?

I'm talking about in general, its got nothing to do with my sexual preferences "

Fair enough , but since the post is in swingers chat , what people think generally , doesn't really matter .

Although we love tattoos , we don't have an opinion of those who don't have them .

Nor do we necessarily prefer those who do have them .

Would anyone make a conscious decision not to play with a person simply because they have tattoos ?

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By *lligator3 OP Man
over a year ago

Dundee

"Well there's no doubt this place is full of some very lovely, sexy people in all shapes, sizes and ages.

But its about time I put it out there....tattooes are such a turn off!

From the quirky to the deep meaningful ones I think I dislike them all, in my opinion it's fast becoming your more likely your standout by not having one which I think is a bit ironic.

It is of course a personal choice to have one and their right is their own but I find an un-inked thigh, back or bum so much sexier.

Did you tell this to the one woman (with tattoos) who's verified you?

Well that's what my subject title is for really...don't grass me up to them and my other fab friends will ya haha

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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know

"Well there's no doubt this place is full of some very lovely, sexy people in all shapes, sizes and ages.

But its about time I put it out there....tattooes are such a turn off!

From the quirky to the deep meaningful ones I think I dislike them all, in my opinion it's fast becoming your more likely your standout by not having one which I think is a bit ironic.

It is of course a personal choice to have one and their right is their own but I find an un-inked thigh, back or bum so much sexier."

Well I have three tattoos so I'll leave you to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since you are straight , it doesn't really matter if you dislike tattoos on women does it ?

I'm talking about in general, its got nothing to do with my sexual preferences

Fair enough , but since the post is in swingers chat , what people think generally , doesn't really matter .

Although we love tattoos , we don't have an opinion of those who don't have them .

Nor do we necessarily prefer those who do have them .

Would anyone make a conscious decision not to play with a person simply because they have tattoos ?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some can be good as long as they are tastefully done especially on a woman. One or two on a man isn't bad. If you get to many however if gives off the look of a convict ( sorry our opinion.) and we don't find them appealing at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe put in your profile your not looking for women with tattoos, it may cut down all the mail you have to sort through make finding miss right easier

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By *esharepantiesCouple
over a year ago

stafford

running all the way to cover mine up

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

I love my tattoos. I have 2, both very personal to me.

Anyone got a problem with them, then I'm not forcing them to meet.

How will I feel about them when I'm old... well on the non-senile days, I'll love them the same way as I love every scar and mark - they tell my story, who I am and whats taken me to this point in my life. On the dotty days, I won't even know they are there, but I'll be too busy trying to remember where the toilet is so I don't piss my pants, or accusing the old woman next to me of stealing my pandrops!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some of mine are over 20 years old :p

i like them, i understand some people don't though and that's fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate it when people say, what are your tattoos going to look like when you're old?

Erm....who gives a shit, most people can't see them now and most people won't when I'm old.

It is a shame that it's become so much of an accessory now as some of us still just get them because we like/want/have a deeper meaning for getting one.

Obviously each to their own though and everybody has their turn offs...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In our opinion some tats are done tastefully and others are crap !

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally...even if a guy was v cute with a great personality....If he was civered In tats he just wouldn't be my type.. maybe that's tattooist of me...but that is how I feel. One or two well placed tattoos on a man I could probably cope with though.

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

This is why the site is so good, it caters to all preferences. My husband has some tattoos, I have quite a few

I don't choose meets on the basis of their tattoo status but I do enjoy looking at and meeting people with tattoos. So either is good in my world.

I wouldn't meet with someone who disliked or was disapproving because there are plenty of other people out there who are either not bothered or actively enjoy them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own. Shame you can't do an ink filter to reduce your mail to a more manageable level.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well there's no doubt this place is full of some very lovely, sexy people in all shapes, sizes and ages.

But its about time I put it out there....tattooes are such a turn off!

From the quirky to the deep meaningful ones I think I dislike them all, in my opinion it's fast becoming your more likely your standout by not having one which I think is a bit ironic.

It is of course a personal choice to have one and their right is their own but I find an un-inked thigh, back or bum so much sexier.

Well I have three tattoos so I'll leave you to it."

snap and he has one as well - might go and get another just cos i can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love tattoos ..esp full sleeves on a man..fucking sexy!!!"

mmmm yes definately agree i love it

her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only place I dont like them is on boobs.

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By *astersfuckpigCouple
over a year ago

Eastbourne

"From my perspective I wouldn't not meet anyone or be friends with them if they had tattoos even though I've already declared that lots of tattoos are not really my thing.

I'm not that shallow that I can't look beyond some ink to decide what is attractive.

It's interesting that so many inked people are getting defensive on here (or at least seem to be - interpreting the mood of the written word is often difficult of course).

As 'single' men on here we are always told to just accept it if we're not what people are looking for and move on (quite right too) but change 'single men' to 'inked people' that you don't want to shag and it becomes more contentious!

Just an observation

To some people its just a tattoo and to others it's part of their alternative identity and by passing judgement on it, they may feel that their lifestyle is being attacked and so become defensive..

We are both inked and like other inked people but don't really care as long as we like someone

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By *lttattoocoupleCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Tbh I'm a little offended by the op, having tattoos defines you just as much as not having tattoos define you.

I've not lost any friends or been alienated from having tattoos, in fact it often opens up conversations with complete strangers

If you don't like them that's fine that part dosnt bother me as were are each our own person

Think the title of your thread is insulting though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tbh I'm a little offended by the op, having tattoos defines you just as much as not having tattoos define you.

I've not lost any friends or been alienated from having tattoos, in fact it often opens up conversations with complete strangers

If you don't like them that's fine that part dosnt bother me as were are each our own person

Think the title of your thread is insulting though"

I thought the title of the thread applied to the OP (as he is voicing his 'anti' opinion of them) not the people with the tattoos.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have Tattoos and you have your opinion on them and I have mine and mine is I couldn't care less what you think of em

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

"I have Tattoos and you have your opinion on them and I have mine and mine is I couldn't care less what you think of em

I love your tattoos PP

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By *omMLMan
over a year ago

The Centre of the Universe

There are some tasteful tattoos and some not but that's only a personal opinion. I don't mind them on others but I would never have one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind the odd one or two on men.. one lady's I have friends who have them but I do not have one... I will never have one.... I don't like a man to be covered in them or sleaves.. but everyone is different. .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have Tattoos and you have your opinion on them and I have mine and mine is I couldn't care less what you think of em

I love your tattoos PP

thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well there's no doubt this place is full of some very lovely, sexy people in all shapes, sizes and ages.

But its about time I put it out there....tattooes are such a turn off!

From the quirky to the deep meaningful ones I think I dislike them all, in my opinion it's fast becoming your more likely your standout by not having one which I think is a bit ironic.

It is of course a personal choice to have one and their right is their own but I find an un-inked thigh, back or bum so much sexier."

Good! Cause you'll like mine so!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had my tattoos done because I wanted them I love them I know to some people some of them look a mess but they are for me no one else so I really dont care what people think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since you are straight , it doesn't really matter if you dislike tattoos on women does it ?

I'm talking about in general, its got nothing to do with my sexual preferences

Fair enough , but since the post is in swingers chat , what people think generally , doesn't really matter .

Although we love tattoos , we don't have an opinion of those who don't have them .

Nor do we necessarily prefer those who do have them .

Would anyone make a conscious decision not to play with a person simply because they have tattoos ?"

Yes, we do most of our playing at clubs and we simply would not play with people who have more than one or two discreet tattoos. The same as we don't play with very large people. It about aesthetics, we need to find someone attractive before we play and how they look is the major part of that

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"I love tattoos ..esp full sleeves on a man..fucking sexy!!!

Yep I feel I'm on a hiding here, I think I'm in the minority lol"

No you're not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"II agree with you that you stand out more if you dont have one now"

I am sufficiently arrogant to find this remark appeals to my ego. But sufficiently honest to admit one of the main reasons I am ink free is the aversion to having explain some weird small meaningless tat in amway that is more convincing than "Well it was supposed mto be a Zimbabwe bird, but it was so painful I wimped out"

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Very occasionally a person's tattoos can put me off. In the most part I'm not bothered if they do or don't have them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have no tattoos between us, even though Sean's cousin is a well known tattoo artist, we used to be a little tattoo phobic To be honest, but actually we have both grown to like them and appreciate the artwork of some x

It's not a put off or turn on....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have Tattoos and you have your opinion on them and I have mine and mine is I couldn't care less what you think of em

i love it when people say to me you have to many......for a woman

so if i was a guy id be ok?

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By *lle adie 2Woman
over a year ago

newcastle upon tyne

My pet hate is when a woman has a tattoo on her boob and you can see it urgh.

But that's only my opinion too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had my tattoos done because I wanted them I love them I know to some people some of them look a mess but they are for me no one else so I really dont care what people think

Same for me. My tats are for me. No-one else. And if you like them you do, if you don't, you don't. No sweat to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being into rock music, tattoos have always been round in the places i hang out and the cultureand I think women look great with tattoos, my favourite currently are thigh pieces.

The difference now is that everyone is getting tattooed up and not always by good tattooers. And people seem to be getting a lot of face tattoos now. That could be something the regret big time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well by the time I (Mr) am old and senile I don't think I will have much skin left. I was even debating tattooing my member in the same style as the rest but I chickened out.

The Mrs is has a sleeve in the process of being completed and one down her side.

I know quite a few people who can't stand tattoos. You are not OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there are some very unique tattoos out there, real pieces of art but in the main I'm not a fan much these days. There are too many generic and bad ones, a tattoo doesn't seem to be something people are really passionate about anymore just something people do because it's a fashion. Sleeve tattoos have lost all appeal for me now every Tom, Dick and Jane has one. This isn't a hard and fast rule but I find people without tattoos catch my interest more these days and that hasn't always been the case. Just my opinion.

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By *lttattoocoupleCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

"Tbh I'm a little offended by the op, having tattoos defines you just as much as not having tattoos define you.

I've not lost any friends or been alienated from having tattoos, in fact it often opens up conversations with complete strangers

If you don't like them that's fine that part dosnt bother me as were are each our own person

Think the title of your thread is insulting though

I thought the title of the thread applied to the OP (as he is voicing his 'anti' opinion of them) not the people with the tattoos....."

An that's fine. If you'd have read my post correctly you'd see that in short. I couldn't care what someone's opinion is. It's like an asshole we've all got one.

But to say having a tattoo will make you alienated and loose your friends is pretty disrespectful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think there are some very unique tattoos out there, real pieces of art but in the main I'm not a fan much these days. There are too many generic and bad ones, a tattoo doesn't seem to be something people are really passionate about anymore just something people do because it's a fashion. Sleeve tattoos have lost all appeal for me now every Tom, Dick and Jane has one. This isn't a hard and fast rule but I find people without tattoos catch my interest more these days and that hasn't always been the case. Just my opinion."

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

"Well there's no doubt this place is full of some very lovely, sexy people in all shapes, sizes and ages.

But its about time I put it out there....tattooes are such a turn off!

From the quirky to the deep meaningful ones I think I dislike them all, in my opinion it's fast becoming your more likely your standout by not having one which I think is a bit ironic.

It is of course a personal choice to have one and their right is their own but I find an un-inked thigh, back or bum so much sexier."
you're just weird

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tbh I'm a little offended by the op, having tattoos defines you just as much as not having tattoos define you.

I've not lost any friends or been alienated from having tattoos, in fact it often opens up conversations with complete strangers

If you don't like them that's fine that part dosnt bother me as were are each our own person

Think the title of your thread is insulting though

I thought the title of the thread applied to the OP (as he is voicing his 'anti' opinion of them) not the people with the tattoos.....

An that's fine. If you'd have read my post correctly you'd see that in short. I couldn't care what someone's opinion is. It's like an asshole we've all got one.

But to say having a tattoo will make you alienated and loose your friends is pretty disrespectful

What??? He said that his opinion will alienate people and lose HIM friends not that having tattoos alienates people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love tattoos ..esp full sleeves on a man..fucking sexy!!!"

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"tattooes are for shell suit wearing chavs! people with tattooes should be banned from swinging! why wud sum1 want to meet a chav that destroys they body that way! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm with the OP on this - I hate tattoos - they instantly turn me off...

Yet if I express my dislike, no mater how casually, people seem to think that they can put me down because of it!

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By *oulou45Woman
over a year ago

Bucks

"Well there's no doubt this place is full of some very lovely, sexy people in all shapes, sizes and ages.

But its about time I put it out there....tattooes are such a turn off!

From the quirky to the deep meaningful ones I think I dislike them all, in my opinion it's fast becoming your more likely your standout by not having one which I think is a bit ironic.

It is of course a personal choice to have one and their right is their own but I find an un-inked thigh, back or bum so much sexier."
entitled to your opinion I dont have tats yet. But if a woman has them good luck to them. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tbh I'm a little offended by the op, having tattoos defines you just as much as not having tattoos define you.

I've not lost any friends or been alienated from having tattoos, in fact it often opens up conversations with complete strangers

If you don't like them that's fine that part dosnt bother me as were are each our own person

Think the title of your thread is insulting though

I thought the title of the thread applied to the OP (as he is voicing his 'anti' opinion of them) not the people with the tattoos.....

An that's fine. If you'd have read my post correctly you'd see that in short. I couldn't care what someone's opinion is. It's like an asshole we've all got one.

But to say having a tattoo will make you alienated and loose your friends is pretty disrespectful

No.....you're just not getting it are you?!

if you read my post correctly you will see I am explaining to you that the OP meant that he will alienate & not make himself friends by not liking tattoos....NOT the people that have them...... So he's not being disrespectful...!!!

As to having an asshole.....

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By *ombshellWoman
over a year ago

islington

"tattooes are for shell suit wearing chavs! people with tattooes should be banned from swinging! why wud sum1 want to meet a chav that destroys they body that way!

dont wear shell suits and aint a chav but yes i have tattoos and piercings cos guess what .....i chose too! simples.....

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

I have 6 tattoos and a number of piercings . I always say up front about them as fully respect they aren't everyone's cup of tea. All the years swinging i have only received postative responses to them . If a person doesn't wish to meet me due to my inks then I have no issue with that .plenty of people on here who don't worry about them I can meet .

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By *lttattoocoupleCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

"I'm with the OP on this - I hate tattoos - they instantly turn me off...

Yet if I express my dislike, no mater how casually, people seem to think that they can put me down because of it!

That's unfair, everyone is entitled to there opinion

Ps don't look at our pics lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whoops finger slipped

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!

Oh nooooo ...I have tattoos...I'm an older woman...does that mean I'm going to lose friends and alienate myself???

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By *lligator3 OP Man
over a year ago

Dundee

"Oh nooooo ...I have tattoos...I'm an older woman...does that mean I'm going to lose friends and alienate myself???

Only if you steam in with smarty pants replies without understanding the original post.

I don't think having a tatt would alienate anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh nooooo ...I have tattoos...I'm an older woman...does that mean I'm going to lose friends and alienate myself???

The OP was saying that HIS OPINION on tattoos would alienate him and lose him friends, not that tattoos do that. I give up, its Monday morning and I'm too bloody tired

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

No.....you're just not getting it are you?!

As to having an asshole.....

Yes you do have one and I am sure it is delightful and would not alienate me at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.....you're just not getting it are you?!

As to having an asshole.....

Yes you do have one and I am sure it is delightful and would not alienate me at all

Haha very funny

I gave up trying to make my original point understood... !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well there's no doubt this place is full of some very lovely, sexy people in all shapes, sizes and ages.

But its about time I put it out there....tattooes are such a turn off!

From the quirky to the deep meaningful ones I think I dislike them all, in my opinion it's fast becoming your more likely your standout by not having one which I think is a bit ironic.

It is of course a personal choice to have one and their right is their own but I find an un-inked thigh, back or bum so much sexier."

Such a good thing that we all don't like/dislike the same thing as I love my tatts hubby does too x

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