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Should there be a name and shame thread?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well, i may be new to the site but i really think one thing that will stop people playing games is a name and shame thread. Just 1 tread so its contained, but a place where anyone who takes the pi*s and wastes peoples time can be named.

I know some of you will disagree with this but if there was a thread where we can name time wasters and then if the time waster wants to defend themselves they can.

Obviously there should be rules, for example, if someone is due to meet but contacts the other person with a reason then this wouldnt be considered as a time waster, as we all know, things happen that are beyond our control sometimes and seeing as a lot of us have kids or partners etc, then this has to be taken into account, but if someone messes you around more than a reasonable amount of times then people should be able to warn others abouth that person.

I personally have only been on here for just over a week at this point, and a lot of people are saying thay wont meet because ive no veris, but then how am i suppose to get any veris, if the people i make arrangements with are ust messers?

If i am able to say i had a meet with this person but they didnt turn up or they generally wasted my time, at least then others will see that although ive not met anyone at this point, its not that i havent tried.

What do you guys think? and Admin, i think you should really consider this and give your feed back as to why you wont or if you can do something to help.

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

Admin have said many times that name and shame will never be a feature here. It is too open to abuse.

If you are experiencing a high number of time wasters after only a week of being here, I'd suggest seriously looking at your own approach.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We arranged a night of hot fun with Liverpooladmirer and he never bothered to turn up, wasting an entire evening and money for travel and hotels.

None of the above is true but can you spot a problem with naming and shaming?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That Liverpooladmirer really takes the piss, is a fake & unreliable.

Now we all know that's not true, but do you see why a name & shame thread would never work, it's too open to abuse & personal vendettas.

Just report, block and move on if you have issues.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Too open to abuse.

Only a tiny majority of fab users come on the forums anyway so no one would even see it.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

In answer to your question - no. Categorically. Two sides to every story and all that and a public thread is not the place to air them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We arranged a night of hot fun with Liverpooladmirer and he never bothered to turn up, wasting an entire evening and money for travel and hotels.

None of the above is true but can you spot a problem with naming and shaming?"

He let me down as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How would you stop someone who holds a grudge against you making things up ans naming and shaming ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 week ! Please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, i may be new to the site but i really think one thing that will stop people playing games is a name and shame thread. Just 1 tread so its contained, but a place where anyone who takes the pi*s and wastes peoples time can be named.

I know some of you will disagree with this but if there was a thread where we can name time wasters and then if the time waster wants to defend themselves they can.

Obviously there should be rules, for example, if someone is due to meet but contacts the other person with a reason then this wouldnt be considered as a time waster, as we all know, things happen that are beyond our control sometimes and seeing as a lot of us have kids or partners etc, then this has to be taken into account, but if someone messes you around more than a reasonable amount of times then people should be able to warn others abouth that person.

I personally have only been on here for just over a week at this point, and a lot of people are saying thay wont meet because ive no veris, but then how am i suppose to get any veris, if the people i make arrangements with are ust messers?

If i am able to say i had a meet with this person but they didnt turn up or they generally wasted my time, at least then others will see that although ive not met anyone at this point, its not that i havent tried.

What do you guys think? and Admin, i think you should really consider this and give your feed back as to why you wont or if you can do something to help.

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It would be abused no matter what you say if you have an issue there is a report feature on this for admin to assess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

totally agree! rather than getting uptight about it, block and move on...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No No No ....to open to abuse and lies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes OP

Lets start with you,you're a complete timewaster who didn't turn up when you said you would

I booked a hotel room too so I want my money refunded

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Also everyone's idea of a time waster differs. I wouldn't consider my time wasted unless I actually was waiting for someone and was stood up.

Others seem to think their time is wasted by not getting replies to messages etc.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Why do you need a name and shame thread if you haven't met anyone yet? Sour grapes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do you need a name and shame thread if you haven't met anyone yet? Sour grapes?"

Judging by his status....yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

Next

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As people say too open to abuse.

I wish admin would take a firmer line with people who post fake pics on here though. We had someone who was caught bang to rights by Google image search passing off a picture from a Gay Porn site and he still frequents these forums. I find these sort of people more dangerous and sinister thank time wasters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As people say too open to abuse.

I wish admin would take a firmer line with people who post fake pics on here though. We had someone who was caught bang to rights by Google image search passing off a picture from a Gay Porn site and he still frequents these forums. I find these sort of people more dangerous and sinister thank time wasters "

God yeah. I've reported 3 fake profiles since I've been hear. All images taken from various places, ones even a famous model and still the profiles are active and recent used

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"As people say too open to abuse.

I wish admin would take a firmer line with people who post fake pics on here though. We had someone who was caught bang to rights by Google image search passing off a picture from a Gay Porn site and he still frequents these forums. I find these sort of people more dangerous and sinister thank time wasters "

Bet he was straight too!

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As people say too open to abuse.

I wish admin would take a firmer line with people who post fake pics on here though. We had someone who was caught bang to rights by Google image search passing off a picture from a Gay Porn site and he still frequents these forums. I find these sort of people more dangerous and sinister thank time wasters "

Depends who it was as one guy actually is genuine and earns money from posing on gay porn sites.....so his do come up on google reverse image....he's open about it when challenged.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"[Removed by poster at 28/08/14 22:31:02]"

Timewaster!

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As people say too open to abuse.

I wish admin would take a firmer line with people who post fake pics on here though. We had someone who was caught bang to rights by Google image search passing off a picture from a Gay Porn site and he still frequents these forums. I find these sort of people more dangerous and sinister thank time wasters

Depends who it was as one guy actually is genuine and earns money from posing on gay porn sites.....so his do come up on google reverse image....he's open about it when challenged."

No this was not that guy. He had his face pic up which was hopefully genuine and then the body pic which when reverse image searched came back as someone completely different.

It wasn't our first rodeo when it came to outing an outlandish fake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 28/08/14 22:31:02]

Timewaster!

A"

Totally

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Admin have said this will never happen as it is open to abuse.

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