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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A question for the guys.

How often do you find a woman/couple contacting you first on this site?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

extremely rarely .. then im wary of it being a scam .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"extremely rarely .. then im wary of it being a scam . "

Really?? Surely you would apply common sense as to whether they were genuine just as you would if you were to contact them first.

I make first contact cos I have my filters on. Nothing worth contacting at the moment tho.

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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know


"extremely rarely .. then im wary of it being a scam . "

Scam.....Hence, the reason I don't contact anyone if this is what they automatically think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have 3 friends on here,

They all made first contact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"extremely rarely .. then im wary of it being a scam .

Scam.....Hence, the reason I don't contact anyone if this is what they automatically think. "

It's easy to prove you're real. No point being a sitting duck.

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By *oody39Man
over a year ago

tunbridge wells

Apart from a forum inbox, I can not recall a woman ever making first contact. Soul I be wary? Well no, I'd just go and check her profile!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happened rarely, two ladies contacted me first recently, both have been banned by admin for some reason...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It happened rarely, two ladies contacted me first recently, both have been banned by admin for some reason..."

Perhaps they were blokes lol. I often message guys first, works well for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"extremely rarely .. then im wary of it being a scam .

Scam.....Hence, the reason I don't contact anyone if this is what they automatically think.

It's easy to prove you're real. No point being a sitting duck. "

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"A question for the guys.

How often do you find a woman/couple contacting you first on this site?"

About 50:50, as I often message to compliment on photos and sometimes that leads to more. Not often though as everyone seems to be so far away. I do get messages from women, couples and men. I don't often do anything about it due to time constraints. So it does happen!

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By *idsTonyMan
over a year ago

RUGBY

Mostly it's me making the first move, but it is a lovely suprise to be messaged out of the blue by people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have 3 friends on here,

They all made first contact "

Lucky !

Still awaiting first contact from someone got to live in hope lol

By the way great profile name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It happened rarely, two ladies contacted me first recently, both have been banned by admin for some reason..."

The only 'women' that contact me are men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its very rare and usually due to them being let down at the last minute so they are checking local guys on line to stand in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get a few messages first but only one turned into a meet so far getting used to spotting fakes though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"extremely rarely .. then im wary of it being a scam .

Scam.....Hence, the reason I don't contact anyone if this is what they automatically think. "
rarely but when they do i respond check out there profile take it from there an id deffo reply to _eerise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get ladies contact me first fairly often, its usually motivated by something I've written on the forum.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

I often wondered this myself but it does happen ...had a few make first contact in the last week or 2

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