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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I make a few very selective and tentative messages to some profiles.

I get a few no responses, a very polite no, and someone interested.

We chat a little, discuss likes etc and then I give my number.

We talk on the phone, it all seems great and they ask me to meet for an afternoon coffee.

Perfect idea in my humble opinion so I agree, we set the place etc and all seems good in my world.

A confirmation call from them an hour before sets my day right up and I get there in time to order 3 lattes before they arrive.

Which they don't...

And now their profile has disappeared.

Pretty sure I couldn't have done much more to prevent having my day ruined other than actually asking for their number but I reckoned for their peace of mind, they withheld it for other reasons than to lead me on.

Was there anything more you think I could have done?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a crap thing to do to someone. Sounded pretty genuine but I'd have to have their mobile number to go through with a meet.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I'm not sure you could have done much more. Did you speak to both?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes people are just arsewipes regardless of you doing what you can to prevent being let down

Im sure there will be posts telling you you should have cammed,asking you if they were verified and had a recent CRB check and then telling you it was all your fault anyway,try not to blame yourself though,just refer to the first line of this post

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah that's the one thing I thought would have secured it completely!

I do feel pretty lousy to be fair but I'm also a tad concerned about them. I hope they're ok and this whole thing hasn't been detrimental to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably got a kick out of it. Could have even been there watching and deciding you wasn't for them. Maybe chickened out. Either way no need just cowardly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Never considered that one...Jeez that's low if they did that.

I was pissing for ages after those coffees too!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Yeah that's the one thing I thought would have secured it completely!

I do feel pretty lousy to be fair but I'm also a tad concerned about them. I hope they're ok and this whole thing hasn't been detrimental to them.

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If anything awful had happened to them they wouldn't have logged on here to delete their profile. Whatever happened to them has nothing to do with anything you've done.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"Sometimes people are just arsewipes regardless of you doing what you can to prevent being let down

Im sure there will be posts telling you you should have cammed,asking you if they were verified and had a recent CRB check and then telling you it was all your fault anyway,try not to blame yourself though,just refer to the first line of this post "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP have they blocked you or left the site? Report if its the former, if its the latter, I bet they'll be back on here soon. Sad disrespectful people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You did the right things, not your fault. x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers, you've all helped.

Much appreciated x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It says they don't exist, so I assume that means killed profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still plenty of great people to talk to on here. So I would not be to down about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've hardly ruined your day, unless you were daft enough to make major changes to plans for them?

Plus, you've learned a lesson. Always get a contact number.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Did you notice a couple laughing to themselves in the corner? Some people get their kicks from timewasting.

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

maybe they came in saw you and left?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I make a few very selective and tentative messages to some profiles.

I get a few no responses, a very polite no, and someone interested.

We chat a little, discuss likes etc and then I give my number.

We talk on the phone, it all seems great and they ask me to meet for an afternoon coffee.

Perfect idea in my humble opinion so I agree, we set the place etc and all seems good in my world.

A confirmation call from them an hour before sets my day right up and I get there in time to order 3 lattes before they arrive.

Which they don't...

And now their profile has disappeared.

Pretty sure I couldn't have done much more to prevent having my day ruined other than actually asking for their number but I reckoned for their peace of mind, they withheld it for other reasons than to lead me on.

Was there anything more you think I could have done?"

Out of interest OP, were they verified?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"maybe they came in saw you and left? "

If they did its a horrible thing to have done. You can drink a cup of coffee with someone surely.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"maybe they came in saw you and left? "

If they did its a horrible thing to have done. You can drink a cup of coffee with someone surely.

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford


"maybe they came in saw you and left?

If they did its a horrible thing to have done. You can drink a cup of coffee with someone surely. "
i agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a few time wasters on here x fortunately we haven't had anything like this happen x Take a contact number next time x Good luck (her)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't think of anything else you could of done. Some sad people out there. People have suggested you get their contact number but not everyone will give one (I wouldn't) and only contact people i don't know via the site. Dust ya self down and better luck next time

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Having a contact number probably wouldn't have made any difference either, she / he / they still wouldn't have turned up.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers everyone.

They were verified but only on cam if I recall.

I didn't ask for their number out of respect. I figured they'd get loads of guys calling them repeatedly if they gave it out. I'm sure I'd be reluctant to ad a cpl.

It's done now, New day and all that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The world is full of people who get there kicks out of pissing people about, chalk one down to experience and carry on

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