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By *ewexperience83 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Ellesmere Port

When chatting to a single guy on here and he asks how big your hubby is? Does that really matter knowing this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How big is what?

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

penis fixation, perhaps the guy is bi..

or on some sort of wanking fantasy..

maybe..

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

some people make it all about the size of a penis, either theirs or the people they play with.

maybe he is sensitive to being deemed smaller than your husband or the reverse.

ask him?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unless someone has size insecurities it shouldnt matter..

Doesnt to me.

"its not the size of the wand, but the wizard doing the magic"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope - doesn't matter one iota in my mind, nothing to do with the bloke unless he has a tiny dick and doesn't want to be shown up.

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By *ewexperience83 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Ellesmere Port

That's what I was thinking too (maybe he's bi)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ewexperience83 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Ellesmere Port

He's quite a well built black dude, the look of his pics he's huge. But that's doesn't always go for every black guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe he is Bi........ Would that put you off him?

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

As a couple we meet another couple to play. The other man kept going on and on about his 7 inch cock, he only shut up about it when I started playing with my husband. All seemed to be going well but he wouldn't have full sex with me.

Later when we asked why he said because I have been regularly penetrated by my husband who was larger that it seemed pointless

So me being me, my mind immediately went to fanny like a clowns pocket, much to my hubby's amusement

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By *ewexperience83 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Ellesmere Port


"Maybe he is Bi........ Would that put you off him?"

Not at all really because I think he'd be more comfortable in a mmf situation that two straight guys.

I think hubs would be okay too but as long as the other guy didn't try anything on with him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as the "rules" are set out beforhand i dont think it should be a problem!


"Not at all really because I think he'd be more comfortable in a mmf situation that two straight guys.

I think hubs would be okay too but as long as the other guy didn't try anything on with him "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe he wants to find out if hes bigger than your husband so he can do the cliche thing of telling you how much better his cock will feel inside you blah blah blah

Maybe he has cock insecurities and can't get hard around around another man who is bigger than him

Maybe hes just a nosy bugger

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By *ewexperience83 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Ellesmere Port

I actually asked him, he's said it's not always about size it's the way you use it, and although he's very big he knows how to use it so that it doesn't hurt the women.

He's also said he likes to pleasure a women in ways their hubby may not be able too

I'm actually started to feel iffy about the guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I actually asked him, he's said it's not always about size it's the way you use it, and although he's very big he knows how to use it so that it doesn't hurt the women.

He's also said he likes to pleasure a women in ways their hubby may not be able too

I'm actually started to feel iffy about the guy"

If you're not sure, don't meet him. Trust your instinct. I would've stopped talking to him after the "how big is your hubby" comment. Sounds like he just wants wank fodder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive never ever asked that!! For one i dont give 10 shades of shit about boob size haha! And 2 i haven't studied boob sizes so i dont no what big or small is anyway ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shit read forum post wrong oops!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unless someone has size insecurities it shouldnt matter..

Doesnt to me.

"its not the size of the wand, but the wizard doing the magic""

ha love it

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London

Meh.... I get asked this all the time, 99% of the time by the male half of a couple...

Doesn't mean anything.

But bad vibes are bad vibes and if they surface you have to listen to your inner voice...

Doesn't mean there's anything wrong with him...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Meh.... I get asked this all the time, 99% of the time by the male half of a couple...

Doesn't mean anything.

But bad vibes are bad vibes and if they surface you have to listen to your inner voice...

Doesn't mean there's anything wrong with him..."

Yet again...the men more interested in cock size rather than the women

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Perhaps he's spring cleaning and is fed up of going to charity shops. He might have 2 dozen Hawaiian shirts he wants to land on someone. Collar size VWN (very wide neck)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I actually asked him, he's said it's not always about size it's the way you use it, and although he's very big he knows how to use it so that it doesn't hurt the women.

He's also said he likes to pleasure a women in ways their hubby may not be able too

I'm actually started to feel iffy about the guy"

Sounds like this guy is interested in a cuckold relationship, I don't know the guy obviously but from what you have posted I think the idea of humiliating your husband whilst having his wicked way with you is a turn on.

I think that he is trying to infer that he has a bigger cock and is better in bed than your hubby, and that you might experience sex in a way that you haven't with the old fella.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ladies, ladies, ladies! As a guy, I think it MAY just be his ,insecure, mind is wondering if you're just looking for extra because your hubby doesn't satisfy you. Then he's thinking, if I go there, might it lead to me getting a kicking when he finds out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah the OP is a couples profile, it's not like she is going behind her hubby's back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chances are, a single guys not intending to meet hubby too though...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No he wants to meet te female half and wants her to say oh what a big cock you have your much better in bed than my husband.

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Merton


"Meh.... I get asked this all the time, 99% of the time by the male half of a couple...

"

Same


""its not the size of the wand, but the wizard doing the magic" "

what if the wizard wand is big and know how to use it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I actually asked him, he's said it's not always about size it's the way you use it, and although he's very big he knows how to use it so that it doesn't hurt the women.

He's also said he likes to pleasure a women in ways their hubby may not be able too

I'm actually started to feel iffy about the guy"

Maybe he's trying to suss out what you like, what you're into singularly & as a couple. His past experiences could have been all about him satisfying the woman

Why don't you ask your partner to talk to him, see what he thinks or just say to this guy what your expectations of the meet would be.

You never know you might not be what he is looking for either.

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London

Strangely women never ask....

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By *ewexperience83 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Ellesmere Port


"I actually asked him, he's said it's not always about size it's the way you use it, and although he's very big he knows how to use it so that it doesn't hurt the women.

He's also said he likes to pleasure a women in ways their hubby may not be able too

I'm actually started to feel iffy about the guy

Sounds like this guy is interested in a cuckold relationship, I don't know the guy obviously but from what you have posted I think the idea of humiliating your husband whilst having his wicked way with you is a turn on.

I think that he is trying to infer that he has a bigger cock and is better in bed than your hubby, and that you might experience sex in a way that you haven't with the old fella.

"

That's exactly right wow, yeah he's into the full on cuckold relationship he said a few times it's a turn on for him.

I have said we're both not into it, but hubby does enjoy watching and taking part.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It only matters because the guy is insecure

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By *ewexperience83 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Ellesmere Port

The meet is just a social at a club, and we've made it very clear that's all it is.

If we get on cool, play maybe on the cards.(WE haven't told him this)

I want to ask you guys another question but feel silly asking it lol

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London

Husband likes to join in?...

Yeah.... It's kinda ok the whole cuckold thing has taken over the scene... To the point where people are almost apologetic if it's not their thing.

Sometimes it's good, we all like to try different flavours...

But where are all the lions? The thunder and lightning, husband and wife predator teams who want to devour their prey?

I too like to see women I'm with fuck others... But am far from having a cuckold mindset, I want to see my lioness hunt...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Shit read forum post wrong oops! "

That did make me giggle.

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By *ewexperience83 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Ellesmere Port

I mean in a straight mmf kind of way.

We haven't fully appreciated what full on cuckolding is.

We're still learning

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London

I'm not seeing a question!

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By *ewexperience83 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Ellesmere Port

Does anyone else ask who they might be meeting how they like to be fucked!?

Is it like verbal foreplay getting yourself turn on for the meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I think there is often banter before a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone else ask who they might be meeting how they like to be fucked!?

Is it like verbal foreplay getting yourself turn on for the meet?

"

I've been asked recently what I like on a meet. I don't like being asked really

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By *ewexperience83 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Ellesmere Port

I don't really, i like the excitement of finding out for myself when things happen.

My ideal situation would be going to a club with no preconceived idea of what we want, an seeing where the night takes us.

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London

Everyone's different on this... Some love to build it up , some say nothing.... I'm a horrific dirty talker during sex though and this can spill over in my texts or phone conversations...

It's a meat or poison situation.

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London

Oh... & I've never had an ideal situation in my life...

Ideal is just not my style...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone else ask who they might be meeting how they like to be fucked!?

Is it like verbal foreplay getting yourself turn on for the meet?

"

I don't like dirty chat but I do discuss do's and dont's. I want everyone to be happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were chatting to a guy who seemed really nice, until he became very interested in hubby's cock ! He then went on to tell me all the things about him that (in his opinion) were better than hubby's !

Safe to say we stopped chatting after that

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